{"id":109,"date":"2022-01-26T15:55:00","date_gmt":"2022-01-26T23:55:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.careervillage.org\/articles\/?p=109"},"modified":"2023-12-12T08:04:22","modified_gmt":"2023-12-12T16:04:22","slug":"the-student-perspective-meet-tyler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.careervillage.org\/articles\/the-student-perspective\/the-student-perspective-meet-tyler\/","title":{"rendered":"The Student Perspective: Meet Tyler"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-medium-font-size\" id=\"5a52\"><strong>Written by: Corina Chen and the <a href=\"http:\/\/careervillage.org\">CareerVillage.org<\/a> Team<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote has-contrast-color has-text-color has-small-font-size is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-contrast-color has-text-color has-large-font-size wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"71b1\">\u201cI\u2019m different. My head is in the game. I\u2019m going to start my freshman year of college and want to prepare for medical school now. I want to go to the best medical school possible.\u201d<\/p>\n<cite>-Tyler<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"e533\"><em>\u201cEver since I was little, my life has been about two things \u2014 medicine and movies. They are my passions. They are all that I know.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"625a\">Tyler says, reflecting on his childhood. As a kid, he dreamed of becoming a doctor \u2014 or a movie director. He loved anything that allowed him to think critically and creatively, a passion that allowed him to enjoy learning. As he got older, however, Tyler\u2019s dreams to study medicine and movies grew complicated when he realized he couldn\u2019t realistically pursue both.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"7292\">Owning that reality, however, was difficult. He reflects on his childhood further, saying,&nbsp;<em>\u201cI would always talk about Stanley Kubrick, or Spielberg\u2026 My dream [was] to direct and write movies [but I also] found another dream in being a forensic pathologist.\u201d<\/em>&nbsp;Tyler describes his fear and knowledge in an early question on&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.careervillage.org\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">CareerVillage.org<\/a>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/miro.medium.com\/v2\/resize:fit:788\/0*GToJnAw0Rd1z61d4\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"3da5\">Not only did Tyler feel torn between pursuing film and medicine, his home life was also far from smooth. Growing up, he had 7 siblings, which resulted in a constantly busy family life. His mom was a nurse, his dad a janitor, and his mom\u2019s boyfriend traveled a lot for work. Because of this,&nbsp;<em>\u201cI stepped up a lot to care for my siblings,\u201d&nbsp;<\/em>Tyler reflects.<em>&nbsp;\u201cI had a [lot of] responsibility, [yet] I wouldn\u2019t trade the things I learned or the memories for anything. I didn\u2019t have a social life because I was helping care for my brothers and sisters.\u201d&nbsp;<\/em>When his mom got sick and his responsibilities grew even more, he wondered,&nbsp;<em>\u201cWould \u2018Special Circumstances\u2019 increase my chances of getting into a good college?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"32d7\">In response,&nbsp;CareerVillage\u2019s executive director replied, encouraging him to own his persistence through adversity and see his challenges as opportunities to take over his narrative:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/miro.medium.com\/v2\/resize:fit:788\/0*PeDJ40t6g-XVdZtx\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"cf17\">Tyler\u2019s motivation to achieve big career goals progressed despite his home life worsening.When Tyler reached his junior year of high school, he had to move in with his dad because there wasn\u2019t enough room at his mom\u2019s house. He confided in&nbsp;CareerVillage, writing:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"905c\"><em>\u201cThe school where my dad lives is terrible. It\u2019s in the bottom 20 schools based on academics in my state. I\u2019m not a rich person who was sent to a prep school. I told my dad that my dream school is Dartmouth and my dream is to become a neurosurgeon. After telling my dad this he laughed in my face. It hurt. He recommended the local community college.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"acc1\">As Professionals read and reacted to Tyler\u2019s questions, Tyler received an overwhelming tide of specific, compassionate, yet honest advice. A former college admissions worker encouraged Tyler to dream big \u2014 but also realize that while&nbsp;<em>\u201csome kids [use] traditional clubs and groups [to] get a holistic view of the world,\u201d<\/em>&nbsp;he\u2019s getting his holistic view&nbsp;<em>\u201cin a much different, but no less valid way.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"c52b\">A surgeon sympathized with Tyler saying:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/miro.medium.com\/v2\/resize:fit:788\/0*bgnoI9h9q7ku82CQ\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"d8da\">He went on to encourage Tyler that it didn\u2019t matter what school he goes to initially, because&nbsp;<em>\u201cif being a doctor is your dream, then the real goal is medical school and it doesn\u2019t matter whether you went to an ivy league or other fancy college.\u201d<\/em>&nbsp;He also continued to push Tyler to strive for strong grades and diligence in school.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"1180\">Other professionals on&nbsp;CareerVillage&nbsp;encouraged him to develop helpful habits such as volunteering, taking standardized test prep courses, and researching colleges thoroughly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"e5a3\">With the support of&nbsp;CareerVillage&nbsp;professionals, Tyler resolved what to do next.&nbsp;<em>\u201cThis just gives me more motivation to prove everyone wrong. \u201d<\/em>&nbsp;He planned to go to a future physicians school in Princeton for a few weeks, but grappled with what else he could do, adding,&nbsp;<em>\u201cI have been studying for the ACTs. But it\u2019s not enough. I just need a little guidance.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"bfb3\">Tyler continued to ask questions on&nbsp;CareerVillage&nbsp;concerning majors, schools, and careers. The more concerns and questions Tyler expressed, the more&nbsp;CareerVillage&nbsp;professionals wrapped around him, sharing both personal and professional insights in their advice to him. The common thread: encouragement and confidence in his abilities to achieve his career dreams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/miro.medium.com\/v2\/resize:fit:788\/0*J6XnpfqkNhccn4l1\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"ea2a\">With dozens of answers holding encouraging support from&nbsp;CareerVillage&nbsp;professionals, Tyler grew more fully into his initial childhood passions for science and expressed confidence in himself and belief in his successful future:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"a9ef\"><em>\u201cI\u2019m different. My head is in the game. I\u2019m going to start my freshman year of college and want to prepare for medical school now. I want to go to the best medical school possible.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"83ce\">Tyler\u2019s journey is one of millions of other students who are seeking career guidance on\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.careervillage.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">CareerVillage.org<\/a>.\u00a0<strong>If you\u2019d like to join this movement or learn how your company can contribute to the massive impact CareerVillage is making, please email\u00a0<\/strong><a href=\"mailto:hello@careervillage.org?subject=I%20read%20your%20article%20on%20Medium%20about%20Augusta\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>hello@careervillage.org<\/strong><\/a><strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Written by: Corina Chen and the CareerVillage.org Team \u201cI\u2019m different. My head is in the game. I\u2019m going to start my freshman year of college and want to prepare for medical school now. 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