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How long does it usually take to find your people if you are going to a school where you don't know any other students yet?

Any tips for speeding the process up?

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Starting at a new school where you don't know anyone can be tough, but remember, it's something everyone gets through. In just a few weeks, you'll likely find a group to hang out with, and by the end of the semester, you might have some close friends. The "new kid" feeling won't last forever, and many of your classmates are also looking to make friends.

To make this easier, try being proactive in the first few days. Say hello to the people sitting next to you in class before it starts. It might seem a bit bold, but it’s much easier to chat on the first day than later on. Joining small clubs or hobby groups can also help you meet people who share your interests, making it easier to start conversations.

Being the one to reach out can help you find friends faster. Many people are just waiting for someone to take the lead, so suggesting lunch or a study session can make you more approachable. Keep your headphones off and your phone away in common areas to show that you're open to talking. Be patient and keep engaging with others; soon, the school will start to feel like home.
Thank you comment icon Thank you so much for the advice. Sarah
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