A goal is always achieved through communication. Communicating with the right people that can guide you in the right direction is essential. Communication also allows for you to reach other's and let them know that you want to help. There are many professionals that can assist you; you just have to meet them and see who you are comfortable reaching out to for assistance.
Having previous working with children that were foster children, I 've learned to be a good listener and look at each case on and individual bases, don't judge and use example to help when giving advice to the children. I have learned even if they don't follow your instructions, their always listening to you.