Then the next thing is to decide whether you're longing for dreams or defining your goals. Aspiration VS. determination are on opposite ends of the spectrum
I was just talking with a family member who wants to have real estate investment properties, and he was disappointed he did not yet have his first property yet. However, looking at the money he has available for a down payment has increased by 40% since the last time we spoke.
We decided to set savings goals in the short term and that has helped his confidence.