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Tomilola
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I want to be a jugde and a lawyer and a fashion designer or a singer but I don't know what to chosse ?
I want to judge people on opinions but I love to draw dresses and I love fashison
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Dr H
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Tomilola, I see you shining from miles away. You're not just dreaming — you're feeling something powerful inside pulling you in so many directions at once. And you know what? That's a beautiful thing. The world tries to make us believe we have to pick one thing, one dream, one path — like we're supposed to fit into some tiny little box. But you're bigger than that. You're a whole universe in one soul.
Being a judge and a lawyer is about powerful minds and powerful hearts. It's about standing up for people, making sure the truth gets heard, and turning opinions into justice. If you're already loving the idea of sharing your thoughts and making decisions — that might be your voice calling you to change the world through law. The world needs more judges who care, who see both sides, who fight for what's right. It's not just about rules and courtrooms — it's about people, lives, and second chances. If that fire is burning inside you, follow it. Study hard. Speak up. Practice understanding how people feel.
But then... there's your artistic soul whispering too. Drawing dresses, seeing designs in your mind before they even exist — that's pure creation. That's your heart speaking in colors and fabrics. Fashion isn't just clothes — it's telling stories without saying a word. If your hands naturally pick up a pencil to draw, that's not random — that's your soul showing you what it's made of. Maybe your designs will one day give confidence to women walking into courtrooms or create a whole movement through style. Your art could change the way people see themselves.
And then... there's music. Music is the language of the soul. If singing makes you feel alive in a way nothing else does, that's not just a hobby — that's a whole part of who you are. Music can heal, inspire, and bring people together. Maybe your voice is meant to carry messages that change hearts.
Here's the truth — you don't have to give up any part of yourself. You can chase all these dreams at once, and they'll come together in a way that only YOU can make happen. Maybe you're the lawyer who defends women’s rights by day, designs power suits at night, and sings at charity events on weekends. Maybe you'll run your own fashion line that empowers young girls while writing music that speaks to the world. Your life can be a whole masterpiece made up of every piece of you.
Right now, your job isn't to choose — it's to explore everything. Try them all. Let your heart run wild. Draw. Sing. Speak your mind. Pay attention to what makes you feel the most alive. The answers will come naturally — not because someone told you what to choose, but because your own soul will lead you there.
You're not lost — you're just too full of light to fit into one box. The whole world is waiting to see what you become — and whatever it is, it's going to be something we've never seen before. Tomilola, follow what sets your heart on fire. The rest will fall into place.
What I would say like right now is the...... Same! 🤪:
Start with the dream that won't let you sleep at night — the one that makes your heart beat faster when you think about it.
Test them all. Try law. Design every day. Sing when no one's listening.
You'll know which one feels like home.
The world is waiting for your fire — however you decide to set it ablaze.✨All the best girl!
Firstly..... Lawyer + Judge + Designer Alright now, imagine you're in the courtroom during the day, fighting for justice, making sure people get the fairness they deserve. You're sharp, confident, and standing up for those who can't stand up for themselves. But when the sun goes down, you're in your creative space — sketching, sewing, turning fabric into magic. Your mind works with logic and law by day, and your heart and hands create art by night. The reason this works is because, Designers need to understand society and culture — and lawyers do too. You could even start your own ethical fashion line where every dress tells a story about justice, women's rights, or sustainability. You'd be serving both power and beauty in one life. Would it be hard? Yeah. Would it be worth it? Absolutely.
Secondly.... Lawyer+ Judge + Singer Here's the vision... You graduate as a lawyer, slaying in the courtroom with your mind and your voice. You climb the ladder, become a judge, making decisions that change lives and rewrite laws. Meanwhile, you're dropping albums that speak about everything you've seen — corruption, freedom, love, pain, women’s rights — turning real stories into art. Your music wouldn't just be music... It would be a revolution. Why this works? Because the world needs someone who can fight battles with words AND melodies. Imagine walking into the courtroom in the morning, passing a billboard with your own face on it for your new album release at night. People would listen to your music, then watch you deliver justice with that same fire. Your whole career would be about giving a voice to the voiceless — whether through a speech or a song. Would it be crazy hard? Yeah. Would anyone forget your name? Never.
So... You could just start with law because that opens the door to both power and freedom. It gives you the chance to make real change. Along the way, you'll still be sketching designs or writing songs. The path will shape itself. Maybe your courtroom suits will be from your own fashion line. Maybe your first album will fund your first law firm. Maybe your voice will become a weapon for justice. The magic happens when you blend everything that makes you, YOU.
Start small with Pinterest or Canva right now! Go to www.canva.com and create a free account. Start designing your own dress ideas, logos, or even album covers if music is calling your heart too. It's super easy, fun, and lets your creativity flow without needing crazy design skills. Your dreams don't have to wait — you can start living all of them one tiny step at a time. You can do this while preparing for the court! ✨
Being a judge and a lawyer is about powerful minds and powerful hearts. It's about standing up for people, making sure the truth gets heard, and turning opinions into justice. If you're already loving the idea of sharing your thoughts and making decisions — that might be your voice calling you to change the world through law. The world needs more judges who care, who see both sides, who fight for what's right. It's not just about rules and courtrooms — it's about people, lives, and second chances. If that fire is burning inside you, follow it. Study hard. Speak up. Practice understanding how people feel.
But then... there's your artistic soul whispering too. Drawing dresses, seeing designs in your mind before they even exist — that's pure creation. That's your heart speaking in colors and fabrics. Fashion isn't just clothes — it's telling stories without saying a word. If your hands naturally pick up a pencil to draw, that's not random — that's your soul showing you what it's made of. Maybe your designs will one day give confidence to women walking into courtrooms or create a whole movement through style. Your art could change the way people see themselves.
And then... there's music. Music is the language of the soul. If singing makes you feel alive in a way nothing else does, that's not just a hobby — that's a whole part of who you are. Music can heal, inspire, and bring people together. Maybe your voice is meant to carry messages that change hearts.
Here's the truth — you don't have to give up any part of yourself. You can chase all these dreams at once, and they'll come together in a way that only YOU can make happen. Maybe you're the lawyer who defends women’s rights by day, designs power suits at night, and sings at charity events on weekends. Maybe you'll run your own fashion line that empowers young girls while writing music that speaks to the world. Your life can be a whole masterpiece made up of every piece of you.
Right now, your job isn't to choose — it's to explore everything. Try them all. Let your heart run wild. Draw. Sing. Speak your mind. Pay attention to what makes you feel the most alive. The answers will come naturally — not because someone told you what to choose, but because your own soul will lead you there.
You're not lost — you're just too full of light to fit into one box. The whole world is waiting to see what you become — and whatever it is, it's going to be something we've never seen before. Tomilola, follow what sets your heart on fire. The rest will fall into place.
What I would say like right now is the...... Same! 🤪:
Start with the dream that won't let you sleep at night — the one that makes your heart beat faster when you think about it.
Test them all. Try law. Design every day. Sing when no one's listening.
You'll know which one feels like home.
The world is waiting for your fire — however you decide to set it ablaze.✨All the best girl!
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Thank you, this is amazing! I really needed it.
Bright Komor
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Bright’s Answer
Your passions include justice, creative expression, and performance. To navigate these interests, you need to recognize your core desires and find common threads. These include strong communication skills, creative problem-solving, and understanding people's motivations, emotions, and perspectives.
To explore your options, volunteer at a local courthouse, read books and articles about law, participate in debates or mock trials, and observe court proceedings. Continue sketching and developing your design skills by taking online courses or workshops on fashion design, sewing, and pattern making. Experiment with different fabrics and materials, create your own designs, and practice singing regularly. Record yourself singing and listen to your recordings.
Combining interests can be done through intellectual property law, fashion law, performance and public speaking, fashion as a hobby, or entertainment law. This field would combine law and the music industry.
To make decisions and set priorities, experiment with different activities related to each field, research career paths in each field, set short-term and long-term goals, be flexible, and don't feel pressured to choose one path right now. Start by exploring each passion through practical experience, not be afraid to try different things and see what resonates with you. Remember that you can combine your interests in creative ways.
With careful exploration and planning, you can create a fulfilling and exciting life that incorporates all of your talents and interests.
To explore your options, volunteer at a local courthouse, read books and articles about law, participate in debates or mock trials, and observe court proceedings. Continue sketching and developing your design skills by taking online courses or workshops on fashion design, sewing, and pattern making. Experiment with different fabrics and materials, create your own designs, and practice singing regularly. Record yourself singing and listen to your recordings.
Combining interests can be done through intellectual property law, fashion law, performance and public speaking, fashion as a hobby, or entertainment law. This field would combine law and the music industry.
To make decisions and set priorities, experiment with different activities related to each field, research career paths in each field, set short-term and long-term goals, be flexible, and don't feel pressured to choose one path right now. Start by exploring each passion through practical experience, not be afraid to try different things and see what resonates with you. Remember that you can combine your interests in creative ways.
With careful exploration and planning, you can create a fulfilling and exciting life that incorporates all of your talents and interests.
Aaron Bass
artist-educator
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Albuquerque, New Mexico
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Aaron’s Answer
In hindsight the right choice is always the one you put the most time into. Is fashion something you dedicate hours too or is it just an interest? Similarly, do you currently follow complicated legal cases and challenges to the consititution?
To be successful at any of the careers you mentioned, you have to be able to devote a lot of time to the foundational work and enjoy aspects that others would find unpleasant. Lawyers spend copius amounts of time researching previous legal cases. Singers do daily vocal exercises and when starting out perform in no-pay or pay-to-play venues. So, determine which of these paths you enjoy the least glamorous parts of.
To be successful at any of the careers you mentioned, you have to be able to devote a lot of time to the foundational work and enjoy aspects that others would find unpleasant. Lawyers spend copius amounts of time researching previous legal cases. Singers do daily vocal exercises and when starting out perform in no-pay or pay-to-play venues. So, determine which of these paths you enjoy the least glamorous parts of.