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David
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How do I figure out what I truly want to do ?
I have been struggling for a while unsure what career path I want to follow. Some times would tell myself would like to be nurse but then over think I don’t why I keep on doing that .
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Alan Weber
writer and retired teacher, teacher educator and academic advisor
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David, the process you're going through is perfectly normal. You have an idea of what might make your future rewarding, which is a great start that many of your peers don't have, but of course you're not sure at this point. Many students already in their first year of college are still unsure. If nursing seems to be a good possibility, then maybe you could visit a hospital, clinic or nursing home and talk to someone there. You could read about the responsibilities and experiences of different kinds of nurses. And you can and should certainly take biology and health classes in preparation, and see how they feel to you. Don't worry. With more experience, knowledge and self-awareness the answers will come.
Yaz M
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Yaz’s Answer
Hello there!
I can totally relate to your situation, and let me assure you, it's absolutely okay. When I was a child, I dreamt of becoming a governor. In college, my aspirations shifted to nursing, game designing, and even mathematics. However, today, as a working professional, I am none of these. The key to finding the right career path is exploration.
For example, you could try out different college courses or engage in conversations with professionals from various fields. I once enrolled in a game design course using Unity and soon realized it wasn't my cup of tea. I also took an advanced math class, but found it difficult to grasp and not something I was passionate about. As for nursing, I spoke to people already in the field and got a glimpse of the reality and responsibilities it entails. It didn't align with my ideal lifestyle.
And guess what? It's perfectly fine to decide against certain career paths. It's crucial to question your choices because every exploration and learning experience brings you one step closer to understanding what you truly want to do.
Try googling potential careers, watch YouTube videos that provide a sneak peek into a day in the life of different professions, explore internships, or have conversations with people both offline and online. Don't worry, you'll find your path eventually. You're going to be just fine!
I can totally relate to your situation, and let me assure you, it's absolutely okay. When I was a child, I dreamt of becoming a governor. In college, my aspirations shifted to nursing, game designing, and even mathematics. However, today, as a working professional, I am none of these. The key to finding the right career path is exploration.
For example, you could try out different college courses or engage in conversations with professionals from various fields. I once enrolled in a game design course using Unity and soon realized it wasn't my cup of tea. I also took an advanced math class, but found it difficult to grasp and not something I was passionate about. As for nursing, I spoke to people already in the field and got a glimpse of the reality and responsibilities it entails. It didn't align with my ideal lifestyle.
And guess what? It's perfectly fine to decide against certain career paths. It's crucial to question your choices because every exploration and learning experience brings you one step closer to understanding what you truly want to do.
Try googling potential careers, watch YouTube videos that provide a sneak peek into a day in the life of different professions, explore internships, or have conversations with people both offline and online. Don't worry, you'll find your path eventually. You're going to be just fine!
Jerome Dees Jr.
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Jerome’s Answer
When I coach others, I ask them what they want out of life. Is it the big house and the fancy car? Is it helping others and doing non-profit work?
Imagine you are on a stage getting a lifetime achievement award. What would you want the presenter to say about the life you have lived. By doing this thought experiment, you might end up learning a little more about yourself and narrowing down your overall options a little.
The other thing you can do is talk to people you admire or you feel are "successful" about what they do and how they decided on their career path. I think you'll find that many people are unsure and that can be ok.
Imagine you are on a stage getting a lifetime achievement award. What would you want the presenter to say about the life you have lived. By doing this thought experiment, you might end up learning a little more about yourself and narrowing down your overall options a little.
The other thing you can do is talk to people you admire or you feel are "successful" about what they do and how they decided on their career path. I think you'll find that many people are unsure and that can be ok.
Michelle Browning
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Michelle’s Answer
David, remember that what you're experiencing is a common journey that many people go through, so there's no need to feel alone. If nursing is on your mind, consider volunteering at a hospital, doctor's office, or nursing home. This will provide you with valuable experience and help you understand if this is truly your passion.
I can share a personal story about my cousin who initially thought he wanted to be a surgeon. After volunteering in the field for a few years, he realized it wasn't his true calling. He's now pursuing law instead.
What I'm trying to say is, it's perfectly fine to change your mind. Many people do so several times during their college years.
The most important thing is to explore.
Best of luck with your decisions,
Your Friend
I can share a personal story about my cousin who initially thought he wanted to be a surgeon. After volunteering in the field for a few years, he realized it wasn't his true calling. He's now pursuing law instead.
What I'm trying to say is, it's perfectly fine to change your mind. Many people do so several times during their college years.
The most important thing is to explore.
Best of luck with your decisions,
Your Friend
Richard J (Rich) Tedesco
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Richard J (Rich)’s Answer
Since you have so much fine advice above - I will try to make this simple. What is it you want to wake up every morning and due where you feel purposeful, fulfilled, and, of course, have sufficient financial reward. What do you think your passion is - and if you have the means pursue it.
Like the millions before you - when you get on the trail - you may find it is not the right one - then you can adjust if able. Or after getting there you may find another passion - and that is common.
But, if you think you know what your passion is go down the path and see where it leads you. If unsure - then dig deep into what you would feel may be your path and go until you know whether or not it is the right one.
It is not easy - but until you start the journey - you won't know if it is the right one. We have all been through this. Best of luck
Like the millions before you - when you get on the trail - you may find it is not the right one - then you can adjust if able. Or after getting there you may find another passion - and that is common.
But, if you think you know what your passion is go down the path and see where it leads you. If unsure - then dig deep into what you would feel may be your path and go until you know whether or not it is the right one.
It is not easy - but until you start the journey - you won't know if it is the right one. We have all been through this. Best of luck
Ken Boyle, DC, MBA, FIAMA, HEOR-C
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Ken’s Answer
Hi - I completely appreciate your struggle. Like you, I knew that I wanted to do something in healthcare when I was younger, but couldn't dial in with specificity.
My approach was to begin college as Biology student and seek opportunities to shadow a wide range of healthcare professionals. I spent anywhere from a few days to a few months with them. I worked with a vet, dentist, orthodontist, PCP, researcher, nurse, PT, cardiologist, etc. I also worked with my university career center to research each option, trying to understand future trends for each including: salary, workplace options, demand, etc. This allowed me to make a choice my junior year of college.
Since then I have gained additional degrees and certifications, allowing me multiple options for employment. In my opinion, a nursing degree can allow you the same flexibility and I can tell you from experience there will be great demand. Make sure you shadow several nursing specialties and pay close attention to the daily tasks that you think you would least enjoy. Finally, seek out RNs that have moved into different roles outside of care delivery and do the same. I think you will find that you have so many options with that degree that you won't see it as a limited choice.
My approach was to begin college as Biology student and seek opportunities to shadow a wide range of healthcare professionals. I spent anywhere from a few days to a few months with them. I worked with a vet, dentist, orthodontist, PCP, researcher, nurse, PT, cardiologist, etc. I also worked with my university career center to research each option, trying to understand future trends for each including: salary, workplace options, demand, etc. This allowed me to make a choice my junior year of college.
Since then I have gained additional degrees and certifications, allowing me multiple options for employment. In my opinion, a nursing degree can allow you the same flexibility and I can tell you from experience there will be great demand. Make sure you shadow several nursing specialties and pay close attention to the daily tasks that you think you would least enjoy. Finally, seek out RNs that have moved into different roles outside of care delivery and do the same. I think you will find that you have so many options with that degree that you won't see it as a limited choice.
Cristina Fore
Registered Nurse, Nurse Leader
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Cristina’s Answer
Hi, David, thank you for being brave enough to say that you’re not sure what career path you’d like to follow. Many students ask themselves this question very often.
Try to think about interests you have or what topics you find interesting. You mentioned that you’ve thought about becoming a nurse. Ask yourself some questions like, what is it about nursing that interests me? What about nursing is making me overthink? Then, Google some questions about nursing to help you get a better understanding about a career in nursing. Enter questions like, “What is it like to be a nurse?” “What does a nurse do at the hospital?” “Where can a nurse work?”
Another idea that can help with exploring other careers is making a list of 3 things you enjoy doing and 3 things you think are interesting and want to learn about. During your free time, start to research your interests that you wrote down on the list. For example, you could start your research by using Google and type in the questions you have about each career.
Or, do you know a nurse that you trust and can talk to? What about asking your school nurse to schedule some time with her so you can ask her about her experience as a nurse.
Good luck in your future! I applaud you for taking the time in finding the best career for you. Only you will know which career is meant for you.
Try to think about interests you have or what topics you find interesting. You mentioned that you’ve thought about becoming a nurse. Ask yourself some questions like, what is it about nursing that interests me? What about nursing is making me overthink? Then, Google some questions about nursing to help you get a better understanding about a career in nursing. Enter questions like, “What is it like to be a nurse?” “What does a nurse do at the hospital?” “Where can a nurse work?”
Another idea that can help with exploring other careers is making a list of 3 things you enjoy doing and 3 things you think are interesting and want to learn about. During your free time, start to research your interests that you wrote down on the list. For example, you could start your research by using Google and type in the questions you have about each career.
Or, do you know a nurse that you trust and can talk to? What about asking your school nurse to schedule some time with her so you can ask her about her experience as a nurse.
Good luck in your future! I applaud you for taking the time in finding the best career for you. Only you will know which career is meant for you.
Picard Larisse Dona Agon
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Hi 👋. You're not alone in this case and it's a great concern. Our world is in mutation and you must follow a career path that suits you and also suits the incoming world. According to your hobbies and what makes you really happy. Take your time, buddy, it's a life choice you're making. Be patient
Mahi Patel
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Mahi’s Answer
First, evaluate your strengths and capabilities. Then decide how much would you need to maintain the lifestyle you need. Then decide if college or trade is the right path for you. Ask to shadow different people in different careers and see what you like.
Rebecca Tang
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Rebecca’s Answer
Thank you for your question. Many students have similar question. I am glad to hear that you have started to think about your future career path. The most important is to find out what career you have interest.
Below are my suggestions :
1. Think about what you have interest, e.g. your hobbies, favourite subjects, etc. and identify the related careers
E.g. If you like music, would you like to be a musician, singer, musical artist, music composer, music producer, etc.?
If you have interest in maths, would you like to be an accountant, engineer, banker, financial analyst, maths teacher, etc.
2. Find out more on these careers and determine what you have interest
3. Speak to someone who are working in these careers. Seek guidance from your mentor, school career counsellor, your parents, etc.
4. Shortlist 1-2 careers you would like to pursue
5. Explore the entry criteria of relevant subjects in the college
Hope this helps! Good Luck!
Below are my suggestions :
1. Think about what you have interest, e.g. your hobbies, favourite subjects, etc. and identify the related careers
E.g. If you like music, would you like to be a musician, singer, musical artist, music composer, music producer, etc.?
If you have interest in maths, would you like to be an accountant, engineer, banker, financial analyst, maths teacher, etc.
2. Find out more on these careers and determine what you have interest
3. Speak to someone who are working in these careers. Seek guidance from your mentor, school career counsellor, your parents, etc.
4. Shortlist 1-2 careers you would like to pursue
5. Explore the entry criteria of relevant subjects in the college
Hope this helps! Good Luck!
Shelia Bereszniewicz
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Shelia’s Answer
Hi David,
You've already gathered some fantastic insights!
Choosing a career is a significant decision, and it's crucial to find something you're truly passionate about. Understand your motivations and ensure your choice aligns with them. Never opt for a career solely based on others' expectations unless it genuinely excites you. Remember, you're the one who will be investing time and effort into acquiring the necessary skills or degree. Moreover, a career can span several decades. So, ask yourself, is this something you'd love to wake up to every day? If the answer is yes, then put your heart into it. Show up with a positive attitude, volunteer for projects, and actively engage with your team.
Nursing is a fantastic profession with many different paths to explore. As a nurse, you could become a certified nursing assistant (CNA), a licensed practical nurse (LPN), a licensed vocational nurse (LVN), or even a registered nurse (RN). Ever thought about volunteering at a hospital? It's a great way to get a feel for the nursing field and can help you figure out which nursing role suits you best.
Remember, it's okay if the path you initially chose needs to be altered. Life can often surprise us, and you might find that a new direction suits you even better.
You've already gathered some fantastic insights!
Choosing a career is a significant decision, and it's crucial to find something you're truly passionate about. Understand your motivations and ensure your choice aligns with them. Never opt for a career solely based on others' expectations unless it genuinely excites you. Remember, you're the one who will be investing time and effort into acquiring the necessary skills or degree. Moreover, a career can span several decades. So, ask yourself, is this something you'd love to wake up to every day? If the answer is yes, then put your heart into it. Show up with a positive attitude, volunteer for projects, and actively engage with your team.
Nursing is a fantastic profession with many different paths to explore. As a nurse, you could become a certified nursing assistant (CNA), a licensed practical nurse (LPN), a licensed vocational nurse (LVN), or even a registered nurse (RN). Ever thought about volunteering at a hospital? It's a great way to get a feel for the nursing field and can help you figure out which nursing role suits you best.
Remember, it's okay if the path you initially chose needs to be altered. Life can often surprise us, and you might find that a new direction suits you even better.
Patrick Meyer
Executive - Data Analytics and AI
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Patrick’s Answer
David, I appreciate your question and want you to know it is ok to be unsure. Embarking on the journey to discover your career path can be daunting, but it's also a praiseworthy endeavor. To identify what truly speaks to your heart, it's beneficial to engage in introspection and pinpoint activities that bring you genuine satisfaction. Assess your abilities and strong suits to shed light on potential career trajectories that are in harmony with your gifts. Dive into a broad spectrum of professions by researching their duties, prerequisites, and prospects for advancement. If nursing piques your interest, delve into the educational prerequisites. Seek advice from seasoned mentors or professionals, and don't shy away from a bit of trial and error through internships or volunteer work. Tackle any apprehensions by breaking down your thoughts into manageable chunks, concentrating on elements that resonate with your personal values. Embrace this journey, remain receptive to all possibilities, and trust that careful contemplation will guide you to a career that aligns with your passions.
Diana Fung
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Diana’s Answer
Hi David,
Its important that you follow what you like, and explore different things to get closer to what you're passionate about and remember that is totally fine if you have to make changes along the way.
also, you can take some time to imagine yourself in 5 years from now.. and ask yourself "would I enjoy to be working on that? is what I would comfortable doing in my day-to-day life?"
Don't stress to much about it, take your time and enjoy the process!
Its important that you follow what you like, and explore different things to get closer to what you're passionate about and remember that is totally fine if you have to make changes along the way.
also, you can take some time to imagine yourself in 5 years from now.. and ask yourself "would I enjoy to be working on that? is what I would comfortable doing in my day-to-day life?"
Don't stress to much about it, take your time and enjoy the process!
James Constantine Frangos
Consultant Dietitian & Software Developer since 1972 => Nutrition Education => Health & Longevity.
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James Constantine’s Answer
Hello David,
Finding Your Passion: A Comprehensive Guide to Discovering Your Ideal Career Path
Discovering what you truly want to do in life can be a challenging and daunting process, especially when you’re unsure about the career path you want to follow. However, by following a few key steps and seeking guidance from authoritative sources, you can gain clarity and make informed decisions about your future.
Self-reflection: Begin by taking some time to reflect on your interests, values, and skills. Consider what activities you enjoy, what you’re naturally good at, and what causes you feel passionate about. This self-awareness will help you identify potential career paths that align with your unique qualities.
Research: Once you have a better understanding of your strengths and passions, research various career options that align with these qualities. This can include exploring job titles, industries, and educational requirements. Websites like O*NET OnLine and the Occupational Outlook Handbook provide valuable information on different careers, including job descriptions, employment projections, and salary information.
shadowing: Gain exposure to different career fields by shadowing professionals in various industries. This hands-on experience can provide you with a better understanding of the day-to-day responsibilities, work environment, and challenges associated with each profession.
Informational interviews: Schedule informational interviews with professionals in your desired career field. These interviews can help you gain insight into the specific job role, industry, and potential challenges you may face. Websites like LinkedIn can be a great resource for finding professionals to interview.
Networking: Attend networking events, conferences, and workshops related to your career interests. Building relationships with professionals in your desired field can provide valuable guidance and support as you navigate your career path.
Considering education and training: Determine the educational and training requirements for the careers you’re interested in. This may include obtaining a degree, attending specialized training programs, or earning certifications. Websites like College Navigator and the National Center for Education Statistics can help you research educational institutions and programs.
Evaluate your options: After gathering information about various career paths, take some time to evaluate your options based on factors such as personal fulfillment, financial stability, and work-life balance. This will help you make a more informed decision about the career path that best suits your needs and aspirations.
Seek professional guidance: If you’re still unsure about your career path, consider seeking guidance from a career counselor or professional coach. These individuals can help you identify your strengths, assess your career options, and develop a plan to achieve your goals.
Set realistic goals: Once you’ve identified a potential career path, set realistic short-term and long-term goals to help you stay on track and measure your progress.
Be open to change: Remember that your interests, passions, and goals may change over time. Be open to exploring new career paths and adjusting your plans as needed.
By following these steps and seeking guidance from authoritative sources, you can gain a clearer understanding of what you truly want to do and make informed decisions about your future career path.
Authoritative Reference Titles:
O*NET OnLine: https://www.onetonline.org/
Occupational Outlook Handbook: https://www.bls.gov/ooh/
College Navigator: https://nces.ed.gov/collegenavigator/
GOD BLESS YOU,
James Constantine Frangos.
Finding Your Passion: A Comprehensive Guide to Discovering Your Ideal Career Path
Discovering what you truly want to do in life can be a challenging and daunting process, especially when you’re unsure about the career path you want to follow. However, by following a few key steps and seeking guidance from authoritative sources, you can gain clarity and make informed decisions about your future.
Self-reflection: Begin by taking some time to reflect on your interests, values, and skills. Consider what activities you enjoy, what you’re naturally good at, and what causes you feel passionate about. This self-awareness will help you identify potential career paths that align with your unique qualities.
Research: Once you have a better understanding of your strengths and passions, research various career options that align with these qualities. This can include exploring job titles, industries, and educational requirements. Websites like O*NET OnLine and the Occupational Outlook Handbook provide valuable information on different careers, including job descriptions, employment projections, and salary information.
shadowing: Gain exposure to different career fields by shadowing professionals in various industries. This hands-on experience can provide you with a better understanding of the day-to-day responsibilities, work environment, and challenges associated with each profession.
Informational interviews: Schedule informational interviews with professionals in your desired career field. These interviews can help you gain insight into the specific job role, industry, and potential challenges you may face. Websites like LinkedIn can be a great resource for finding professionals to interview.
Networking: Attend networking events, conferences, and workshops related to your career interests. Building relationships with professionals in your desired field can provide valuable guidance and support as you navigate your career path.
Considering education and training: Determine the educational and training requirements for the careers you’re interested in. This may include obtaining a degree, attending specialized training programs, or earning certifications. Websites like College Navigator and the National Center for Education Statistics can help you research educational institutions and programs.
Evaluate your options: After gathering information about various career paths, take some time to evaluate your options based on factors such as personal fulfillment, financial stability, and work-life balance. This will help you make a more informed decision about the career path that best suits your needs and aspirations.
Seek professional guidance: If you’re still unsure about your career path, consider seeking guidance from a career counselor or professional coach. These individuals can help you identify your strengths, assess your career options, and develop a plan to achieve your goals.
Set realistic goals: Once you’ve identified a potential career path, set realistic short-term and long-term goals to help you stay on track and measure your progress.
Be open to change: Remember that your interests, passions, and goals may change over time. Be open to exploring new career paths and adjusting your plans as needed.
By following these steps and seeking guidance from authoritative sources, you can gain a clearer understanding of what you truly want to do and make informed decisions about your future career path.
Authoritative Reference Titles:
O*NET OnLine: https://www.onetonline.org/
Occupational Outlook Handbook: https://www.bls.gov/ooh/
College Navigator: https://nces.ed.gov/collegenavigator/
GOD BLESS YOU,
James Constantine Frangos.
Kathryn West
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Kathryn’s Answer
Hi David! Your hesitation about your future career is totally normal and expected. There's so much pressure out there to be successful. As cliché as it sounds, be true to yourself. Try not to let fear drive your decisions in life, especially as it relates to your career. Try new things, volunteer, and job shadow. All of these things can help narrow down your interests. I had the opportunity to job shadow at a hospital when I was in high school. It was a great experience seeing the different roles and responsibilities involved in the medical field. You should research your area to see if they offer job shadowing in nursing. It might help if you think about what aspects of nursing you are drawn to. From there, you can research other jobs that involve those aspects. Whatever you do, don't give up on your dreams. Life is hard. You will inevitably hit roadblocks along the way. The best thing you can do is never give up and grow from your mistakes. Best of luck to you!