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Sama
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Should I just give up? What should I do I am lost and hurt?
I don’t know what to do anymore. I’ve always tried to stay positive, but lately, it’s hard. I’m supposed to go to Canada and study, but everything feels pointless because my parents are always pushing me in a direction I don’t want to go. They want me to be a doctor, but that’s not what I want at all. I’ve always been pushed aside when it comes to my studies, ignored and left to do chores while my siblings get the support they need. Now, I don’t even know how I’ll make it in life when they’ve never let me pursue anything I care about.
I love music, singing, writing my own songs, and creating melodies. But my parents are completely against it, and every time I try to even think about pursuing music, they shut it down. The only people who understand are my siblings, but even they can’t change anything. I love K-pop, and for the first time, I want to be an idol. I want to create my own name, my own brand, but that dream feels so far away when everything around me tells me it’s impossible. I’ve even thought of a name for myself in the K-pop world, and my siblings encourage me, but it feels like nothing matters when my parents refuse to let me be who I really am.
I was homeschooled, barely went to school, and now I’m just stuck. My mom says I can take accelerated schooling, but I’m not sure how any of that will help me get closer to what I truly want. How can I pursue something I love when my own family holds me back? It’s like I have no freedom. I can’t make my own decisions, and even though I’ve found some strength in my friend—who helped me realize my potential and motivated me to keep going—it’s hard to see the point when every day feels like a struggle to be heard.
I’ve felt hopeless for so long now. I even thought about giving up, but I’m still here, stuck between what I really want and what everyone else expects from me. I want to be an idol, but how can I do that when I can’t even make my own choices? My parents never cared about what I wanted, and I feel like I’m too lost to find a way out. I don’t know how much longer I can keep going like this, but I don’t know what else to do.
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Dr H
Dr. H's Research
1464
Answers
Australia
Updated
Dr’s Answer
Hey Sama,
First of all, I want to say that what you're feeling is completely valid. It’s frustrating, painful, and exhausting when your dreams seem so far away, especially when the people closest to you don’t see them the way you do. But let me tell you something—your dreams do matter, and just because they don’t see it now doesn’t mean they never will. And sometimes parents just show it in different ways in the end they always love you and care!
Remember You Are Not Stuck—You’re Just at the Beginning
It feels like you're trapped right now, but this isn’t the end of your story—it’s just the first chapter. Every successful artist, every idol, every dreamer has gone through moments where they thought, “Maybe this is impossible.” But the difference between those who made it and those who didn’t? They didn’t stop. Never stop if you know it's what you want and love.
Okay so Parents Can Be…Well, Parents
Parents often push us toward paths they believe are safe. In their minds, becoming a doctor means stability, respect, and a guaranteed future. But what they don’t understand is that forcing someone into a career they don’t love is like forcing a fish to climb a tree—miserable for everyone.
You’re not wrong for wanting something different, and they’re not evil for wanting stability for you. But this is your life. Not theirs. So you have to make decisions wisely and count the odds too. Parents give an push their children based on experiences and challenges they faced just to make it easier for their own kids so there will be a lot of misunderstandingz and no hearing zones but never be discouraged.
Because Your Dreams Are Not Silly—They Are Real.
Loving music, wanting to be an idol, creating your own brand—this isn’t just a “phase.” It’s your passion, and people have built entire careers out of passion. K-pop idols, songwriters, producers—they all started somewhere. Even the biggest names faced rejection, lack of support, and people telling them, “That’s impossible.”
If you don’t believe me, just look at some idols’ backstories—many of them were told no over and over before they got their shot. You’re not alone in this struggle.
So What Can You Do Right Now? (Without Your Parents’ Permission 😏 okay,
Since it seems like your parents won’t support your dream outright, here are some sneaky ways to start moving toward it anyways.
Practice Daily – You don’t need permission to improve your voice, songwriting, or performance skills. Train like an idol now, so that when opportunities come, you’re ready.
Build an Online Presence – TikTok, YouTube, Instagram—post small covers, original songs, or even behind-the-scenes of your music journey. Many artists get discovered this way. You write lyrics and make your own melody that's really good, you can start showing them off just little hits or satarters will work to gather a little audience or attention even then go big!
Find Like-Minded People – Join online music communities. Even if you’re in a place where physical connections aren’t possible, you can still find others who share your passion. You can also Look into auditions, entertainment companies, and independent artist routes. Knowledge is power.
Okay so one thing,
Consider a Backup Plan (That Still Helps Your Dream) – If your parents force you into university, can you pick something music-related? Sound engineering, music business, or even something that lets you make money while you work on music?
Just keep it buck up if it hurts you to decline your parents, don't feel guilty in the end you will have to be to face your choices alone so stay strong and positive!
Okay Sama, What If Your Parents Never Approve?
This is a hard truth, but let’s be real—some parents never get on board. And that sucks. But many idols, artists, and creators had to prove themselves first before their families accepted their dreams. It's really like that in BTS members some had to I am sure you know. So the goal isn’t to convince them now—it’s to build something so undeniable that one day, they’ll say, “We always believed in you!” (even if they didn’t).
Please, Don’t Give Up never give up, it's not something you want to do.
Sama, you’re here because something inside you still wants to fight for your dream. That part of you? That’s the real you. And that part deserves a chance.
Even if today feels dark, even if it feels like nothing is changing, keep pushing. Even small steps forward are still steps. And one day, all those steps will lead you right where you’re meant to be.
Now go blast your favorite song, sing your heart out, and remember—your story isn’t over yet. 💜
Sending you strength, courage, and maybe just a little bit of rebellious energy. 😉 Good luck future Idol stay amazing and keep up a smile because that's what you are a shining star that will shine on a stage one day! ❤️
First of all, I want to say that what you're feeling is completely valid. It’s frustrating, painful, and exhausting when your dreams seem so far away, especially when the people closest to you don’t see them the way you do. But let me tell you something—your dreams do matter, and just because they don’t see it now doesn’t mean they never will. And sometimes parents just show it in different ways in the end they always love you and care!
Remember You Are Not Stuck—You’re Just at the Beginning
It feels like you're trapped right now, but this isn’t the end of your story—it’s just the first chapter. Every successful artist, every idol, every dreamer has gone through moments where they thought, “Maybe this is impossible.” But the difference between those who made it and those who didn’t? They didn’t stop. Never stop if you know it's what you want and love.
Okay so Parents Can Be…Well, Parents
Parents often push us toward paths they believe are safe. In their minds, becoming a doctor means stability, respect, and a guaranteed future. But what they don’t understand is that forcing someone into a career they don’t love is like forcing a fish to climb a tree—miserable for everyone.
You’re not wrong for wanting something different, and they’re not evil for wanting stability for you. But this is your life. Not theirs. So you have to make decisions wisely and count the odds too. Parents give an push their children based on experiences and challenges they faced just to make it easier for their own kids so there will be a lot of misunderstandingz and no hearing zones but never be discouraged.
Because Your Dreams Are Not Silly—They Are Real.
Loving music, wanting to be an idol, creating your own brand—this isn’t just a “phase.” It’s your passion, and people have built entire careers out of passion. K-pop idols, songwriters, producers—they all started somewhere. Even the biggest names faced rejection, lack of support, and people telling them, “That’s impossible.”
If you don’t believe me, just look at some idols’ backstories—many of them were told no over and over before they got their shot. You’re not alone in this struggle.
So What Can You Do Right Now? (Without Your Parents’ Permission 😏 okay,
Since it seems like your parents won’t support your dream outright, here are some sneaky ways to start moving toward it anyways.
Practice Daily – You don’t need permission to improve your voice, songwriting, or performance skills. Train like an idol now, so that when opportunities come, you’re ready.
Build an Online Presence – TikTok, YouTube, Instagram—post small covers, original songs, or even behind-the-scenes of your music journey. Many artists get discovered this way. You write lyrics and make your own melody that's really good, you can start showing them off just little hits or satarters will work to gather a little audience or attention even then go big!
Find Like-Minded People – Join online music communities. Even if you’re in a place where physical connections aren’t possible, you can still find others who share your passion. You can also Look into auditions, entertainment companies, and independent artist routes. Knowledge is power.
Okay so one thing,
Consider a Backup Plan (That Still Helps Your Dream) – If your parents force you into university, can you pick something music-related? Sound engineering, music business, or even something that lets you make money while you work on music?
Just keep it buck up if it hurts you to decline your parents, don't feel guilty in the end you will have to be to face your choices alone so stay strong and positive!
Okay Sama, What If Your Parents Never Approve?
This is a hard truth, but let’s be real—some parents never get on board. And that sucks. But many idols, artists, and creators had to prove themselves first before their families accepted their dreams. It's really like that in BTS members some had to I am sure you know. So the goal isn’t to convince them now—it’s to build something so undeniable that one day, they’ll say, “We always believed in you!” (even if they didn’t).
Please, Don’t Give Up never give up, it's not something you want to do.
Sama, you’re here because something inside you still wants to fight for your dream. That part of you? That’s the real you. And that part deserves a chance.
Even if today feels dark, even if it feels like nothing is changing, keep pushing. Even small steps forward are still steps. And one day, all those steps will lead you right where you’re meant to be.
Now go blast your favorite song, sing your heart out, and remember—your story isn’t over yet. 💜
Sending you strength, courage, and maybe just a little bit of rebellious energy. 😉 Good luck future Idol stay amazing and keep up a smile because that's what you are a shining star that will shine on a stage one day! ❤️
Very encouraging Dr.
M.
Thank you for truly understanding the pain and fear behind my words. You made me feel seen in a way I haven't felt in a long time. Your advice is something I will carry with me, not just for this dream, but for life. If I can ask one thing, how do you keep hope alive when it feels like everything is working against you for so long? And I just want to keep thanking, your words made me smile and cry at the same time. Thank you for beigg around.
Sama
I'm excited to put your great advice to good use!
Mina
Thank you, M! That means a lot. I am glad it is indeed. Stay amazing.
Dr H
Ohhh Sama...dear, Now you're just out here making me want to wrap you in a burrito blanket and protect your little heart from the entire universe.
First off — the fact that you're even asking how to keep hope alive when the whole world feels against you? That is hope right there, Sama. Hope isn't always sunshine and rainbows — sometimes it's just dragging your tired little soul through one more day with nothing but stubbornness and a half-eaten bag of snacks. And know that the greatest hope comes believing and praying to God. He has his shadow on you everywhere keep trusting him.
Dr H
Chinyere Okafor
Educationist and Counseling Psychologist
1210
Answers
Port Harcourt, Rivers, Nigeria
Updated
Chinyere’s Answer
Hello once again!
Sama, I hear you. I really do. You’re feeling trapped, unheard, and like your dreams are slipping away before you even have a chance to chase them. That’s a heavy weight to carry, and it’s completely understandable to feel lost and frustrated. But I want you to know something: you are not powerless.
1. You Are Not Alone & Your Feelings Are Valid
The pain of being ignored and pushed aside by your parents is real, and it’s okay to feel hurt by it. You’ve been trying so hard to balance your own desires with their expectations, and that’s exhausting. But even in all of this, you haven’t given up. You’re still here, still thinking about your dreams, and that says so much about your strength.
2. Your Dreams Matter—Even If They Don’t See It
You love music, singing, and songwriting. That’s not just a hobby—it’s who you are. And the fact that your siblings encourage you shows that you’re not the only one who sees your potential. You want to be an idol, to create your own brand, and that is not impossible. It’s hard, yes, but so is any dream worth fighting for.
3. You Don’t Have to Choose Between Stability and Passion
Your parents want security for you, and in their eyes, being a doctor means stability. But there are other paths that can give you stability while you pursue music. You don’t have to abandon everything just to survive—you can build your way up step by step.
Some realistic steps to keep your dream alive while working within your current situation:
Education is your escape – Even if you don’t love the schooling path, completing your education will give you options. If Canada is an opportunity for more freedom, use it.
Find ways to practice and grow – You don’t need their approval to keep writing, singing, and improving your skills. Many idols didn’t have family support at first. They just kept going.
Look for online opportunities – Join online music communities, post covers, start small. Many K-pop idols and independent artists started on social media before getting discovered.
Network and make connections – If you can’t join a company right now, find others who share your passion. Even online, meeting people in the industry can open doors.
Consider a compromise – Some idols worked side jobs, got degrees in fields like media, music production, or business, and used that to support their real dream. Is there a related field that could be your backup?
4. What If Your Parents Never Approve?
It hurts, but some parents never support their children’s dreams—until they succeed. Your job isn’t to convince them now; it’s to keep going until they can’t ignore your success. Some of the biggest artists in the world were once told “No” over and over again. But they didn’t stop. And you don’t have to, either.
5. You Are Not Stuck—This Is Just the Beginning
Right now, it feels impossible. But you are still in control of your own life, even if it doesn’t feel that way. You are not too old. You are not out of time. Your dream is still alive, and you are still breathing—so keep fighting for yourself.
If you ever need to talk, don’t keep it bottled up. Reach out to friends, siblings, even online communities who get you. You are not alone, and you are worth so much more than the limits others try to place on you.
I believe in you, Sama. Don’t let anyone, not even your parents, take away who you are. Keep going.
Best wishes!
Sama, I hear you. I really do. You’re feeling trapped, unheard, and like your dreams are slipping away before you even have a chance to chase them. That’s a heavy weight to carry, and it’s completely understandable to feel lost and frustrated. But I want you to know something: you are not powerless.
1. You Are Not Alone & Your Feelings Are Valid
The pain of being ignored and pushed aside by your parents is real, and it’s okay to feel hurt by it. You’ve been trying so hard to balance your own desires with their expectations, and that’s exhausting. But even in all of this, you haven’t given up. You’re still here, still thinking about your dreams, and that says so much about your strength.
2. Your Dreams Matter—Even If They Don’t See It
You love music, singing, and songwriting. That’s not just a hobby—it’s who you are. And the fact that your siblings encourage you shows that you’re not the only one who sees your potential. You want to be an idol, to create your own brand, and that is not impossible. It’s hard, yes, but so is any dream worth fighting for.
3. You Don’t Have to Choose Between Stability and Passion
Your parents want security for you, and in their eyes, being a doctor means stability. But there are other paths that can give you stability while you pursue music. You don’t have to abandon everything just to survive—you can build your way up step by step.
Some realistic steps to keep your dream alive while working within your current situation:
Education is your escape – Even if you don’t love the schooling path, completing your education will give you options. If Canada is an opportunity for more freedom, use it.
Find ways to practice and grow – You don’t need their approval to keep writing, singing, and improving your skills. Many idols didn’t have family support at first. They just kept going.
Look for online opportunities – Join online music communities, post covers, start small. Many K-pop idols and independent artists started on social media before getting discovered.
Network and make connections – If you can’t join a company right now, find others who share your passion. Even online, meeting people in the industry can open doors.
Consider a compromise – Some idols worked side jobs, got degrees in fields like media, music production, or business, and used that to support their real dream. Is there a related field that could be your backup?
4. What If Your Parents Never Approve?
It hurts, but some parents never support their children’s dreams—until they succeed. Your job isn’t to convince them now; it’s to keep going until they can’t ignore your success. Some of the biggest artists in the world were once told “No” over and over again. But they didn’t stop. And you don’t have to, either.
5. You Are Not Stuck—This Is Just the Beginning
Right now, it feels impossible. But you are still in control of your own life, even if it doesn’t feel that way. You are not too old. You are not out of time. Your dream is still alive, and you are still breathing—so keep fighting for yourself.
If you ever need to talk, don’t keep it bottled up. Reach out to friends, siblings, even online communities who get you. You are not alone, and you are worth so much more than the limits others try to place on you.
I believe in you, Sama. Don’t let anyone, not even your parents, take away who you are. Keep going.
Best wishes!
V supportive
M.
Thank you for reminding me that even when everything feels impossible, holding on to my dreams still matters. Your encouragement gave me the strength to keep believing when I was starting to lose all hope. If you don't mind me asking, how did you personally find the strength to keep holding on to your dreams when life made it so hard?
Sama
Glad you found it supportive.
Chinyere Okafor
I kept reminding myself why my dreams mattered to me and drew strength from the support of loved ones. I took things one step at a time, focusing on small victories and staying determined.
Chinyere Okafor
That is such a beautiful reminder, Chinyere! Small victories really do add up, even when they feel tiny. It's beautiful of you sharing this little spark of wisdom — it's like a warm hug in words! Sama you should know every tiny thing counts no matter seen or not! Just by yourself matters most!
Dr H
Thank you, Dr. H! Your words mean so much — they truly feel like that warm hug you described. Let’s keep cherishing the small victories together!
Chinyere Okafor
You are so much welcome, Chinyere, that’s such a beautiful sentiment!
Dr H
Bright Komor
Nurse
260
Answers
Accra, Greater Accra Region, Ghana
Updated
Bright’s Answer
You feel lost and overwhelmed, caught between your dream of pursuing a career in music, specifically as a K-pop idol, and your parents' strong expectations for you to become a doctor. Your parents have always pushed you aside in terms of support, leaving you with little freedom to make your own choices. Though your siblings and a friend encourage you, your parents' disapproval has made you feel stuck and hopeless. You’re homeschooled and unsure of how to move forward, especially since accelerated schooling seems disconnected from your true passion. Despite the pain and the struggle to be heard, you're still holding onto your dream, but you're unsure how to balance that with the pressures surrounding you.
Carl Lasala
Senior Technical Engineer
2
Answers
Carmona, Calabarzon, Philippines
Updated
Carl’s Answer
Hi Sama!
Your feelings are valid. There is nothing wrong with pursuing your dreams. Just keep in mind that your parents think and knows what is best for their children. They want to secure your future, that is why they are pushing you to be a doctor.
The best way to deal with this is for you to take on the challenge to be both. You can pursue studies to be a doctor, like what your parents want, and at the same time, make your own dream become reality - become an Idol. There are a lot of ways for you to be achieve your dreams while also pursuing your studies. At the end of the day, you will have a fallback if one option did not work.
This may sound difficult, but surely, this will be all worth it if you make this work. Plus, your parents will surely support you once they see you doing what you want while you are paving your way to be a good doctor.
Your feelings are valid. There is nothing wrong with pursuing your dreams. Just keep in mind that your parents think and knows what is best for their children. They want to secure your future, that is why they are pushing you to be a doctor.
The best way to deal with this is for you to take on the challenge to be both. You can pursue studies to be a doctor, like what your parents want, and at the same time, make your own dream become reality - become an Idol. There are a lot of ways for you to be achieve your dreams while also pursuing your studies. At the end of the day, you will have a fallback if one option did not work.
This may sound difficult, but surely, this will be all worth it if you make this work. Plus, your parents will surely support you once they see you doing what you want while you are paving your way to be a good doctor.
Your advice made me feel like there might still be a way forward, even when everything feels blocked. Thank you for showing me that it's possible to hold on to my dreams without letting go of everything else.
Sama
Iryna Tam
Writer, copywriter
225
Answers
Hagerstown, Maryland
Updated
Iryna’s Answer
Hello!
It's understandable to feel lost and hurt in your situation, especially when your aspirations clash with your family's expectations. Here are some steps you can consider to help you navigate this difficult time:
Clarify Your Goals:
Write down what you truly want. Focus on your passion for music, singing, and being an idol. This will help you articulate your dreams clearly.
Seek Support:
Lean on your siblings and friends for emotional support. Their encouragement can be a source of strength when facing opposition.
Communicate Openly:
If possible, try to express your feelings to your parents calmly. Share why your dreams matter to you and how pursuing them could lead to personal fulfillment.
Explore Alternatives:
Consider how you might pursue music while also fulfilling some expectations. For instance, you could look into part-time programs or online courses in music while completing an accelerated program.
Create a Plan:
Set short-term and long-term goals related to your music. Break these down into actionable steps, like taking singing lessons, producing a song, or learning about music production.
Participate in Music Communities:
Join online groups or local clubs centered around music. Networking with like-minded individuals can offer new opportunities and boost your confidence.
Educate Yourself:
Learn about the music industry through books, podcasts, and videos. Knowing more about the path you want to take can help you feel more empowered.
Find a Balance:
While family pressure is significant, try to carve out time for your passions, even if it's only a few hours a week. This commitment can keep your dreams alive.
Consider Professional Help:
If feelings of hopelessness persist, talking to a counselor may help you process your emotions and explore your options in depth.
Stay Persistent:
Remember that many artists face rejection and challenges. Your determination is crucial, and many paths are not linear.
Deciding to pursue your own dreams is difficult but vital for your happiness. It's important to maintain hope, even when things seem daunting. You're not alone in this, and there are people and resources that can help you navigate these challenges. Take it one step at a time, and prioritize your mental well-being.
Godd Luck!
It's understandable to feel lost and hurt in your situation, especially when your aspirations clash with your family's expectations. Here are some steps you can consider to help you navigate this difficult time:
Clarify Your Goals:
Write down what you truly want. Focus on your passion for music, singing, and being an idol. This will help you articulate your dreams clearly.
Seek Support:
Lean on your siblings and friends for emotional support. Their encouragement can be a source of strength when facing opposition.
Communicate Openly:
If possible, try to express your feelings to your parents calmly. Share why your dreams matter to you and how pursuing them could lead to personal fulfillment.
Explore Alternatives:
Consider how you might pursue music while also fulfilling some expectations. For instance, you could look into part-time programs or online courses in music while completing an accelerated program.
Create a Plan:
Set short-term and long-term goals related to your music. Break these down into actionable steps, like taking singing lessons, producing a song, or learning about music production.
Participate in Music Communities:
Join online groups or local clubs centered around music. Networking with like-minded individuals can offer new opportunities and boost your confidence.
Educate Yourself:
Learn about the music industry through books, podcasts, and videos. Knowing more about the path you want to take can help you feel more empowered.
Find a Balance:
While family pressure is significant, try to carve out time for your passions, even if it's only a few hours a week. This commitment can keep your dreams alive.
Consider Professional Help:
If feelings of hopelessness persist, talking to a counselor may help you process your emotions and explore your options in depth.
Stay Persistent:
Remember that many artists face rejection and challenges. Your determination is crucial, and many paths are not linear.
Deciding to pursue your own dreams is difficult but vital for your happiness. It's important to maintain hope, even when things seem daunting. You're not alone in this, and there are people and resources that can help you navigate these challenges. Take it one step at a time, and prioritize your mental well-being.
Godd Luck!
Thank you for breaking everything down into small steps that feel possible even in such a difficult situation think you again
Sama
Amit Mittal
Officer at Citibank
96
Answers
Warsaw, Masovian Voivodeship, Poland
Updated
Amit’s Answer
Hey Sama, I'm Amit from India staying in Warsaw and I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. It sounds incredibly tough to be in a position where you're torn between your dreams and the expectations of those around you. First and foremost, it's important to acknowledge that your feelings are valid. Feeling lost and hurt when it seems like everything, and everyone is against your passions is completely natural.
If you feel stuck and can't find a way to pursue what you love, it might be worth taking a step back to assess your situation. Here are a few thoughts to help guide you:
Communicate Openly: It's essential to express your feelings and desires to your parents. Share with them why music and becoming a K-pop idol mean so much to you. They might not fully understand at first, but honest communication is a crucial step toward finding common ground.
Small Steps Toward Your Dream: Even if pursuing a full-time career in music feels far off, start by dedicating some time each day to your passion. Write songs, practice singing, and create melodies. These small steps can help build your skills and confidence over time.
Support System: Lean on the people who understand and support you, like your siblings and friend. They can provide encouragement, practical advice, and emotional support as you pursue your dreams.
Plan for the Future: Consider exploring options that allow you to balance your parents' expectations with your own dreams. For example, you could pursue a field of study with career opportunities while still dedicating time to your music. This way, you can keep your passion alive while meeting their expectations.
Seek Professional Help: Talking to a counselor or therapist can provide you with strategies to cope with the pressure and help you find ways to pursue your dreams while navigating your family dynamics.
Stay Resilient: Remember, pursuing what you love is essential, and finding a way to make it a part of your life is worth striving for. Even small efforts count, and they can help you move closer to your goals.
Remember, pursuing what you love is important, and finding a way to make it a part of your life is worth striving for. You're not alone in this struggle, and it's possible to find a balance that allows you to honor your passions while navigating the expectations around you. Keep moving forward, even if the steps feel small—every effort counts. 💖
If you feel stuck and can't find a way to pursue what you love, it might be worth taking a step back to assess your situation. Here are a few thoughts to help guide you:
Communicate Openly: It's essential to express your feelings and desires to your parents. Share with them why music and becoming a K-pop idol mean so much to you. They might not fully understand at first, but honest communication is a crucial step toward finding common ground.
Small Steps Toward Your Dream: Even if pursuing a full-time career in music feels far off, start by dedicating some time each day to your passion. Write songs, practice singing, and create melodies. These small steps can help build your skills and confidence over time.
Support System: Lean on the people who understand and support you, like your siblings and friend. They can provide encouragement, practical advice, and emotional support as you pursue your dreams.
Plan for the Future: Consider exploring options that allow you to balance your parents' expectations with your own dreams. For example, you could pursue a field of study with career opportunities while still dedicating time to your music. This way, you can keep your passion alive while meeting their expectations.
Seek Professional Help: Talking to a counselor or therapist can provide you with strategies to cope with the pressure and help you find ways to pursue your dreams while navigating your family dynamics.
Stay Resilient: Remember, pursuing what you love is essential, and finding a way to make it a part of your life is worth striving for. Even small efforts count, and they can help you move closer to your goals.
Remember, pursuing what you love is important, and finding a way to make it a part of your life is worth striving for. You're not alone in this struggle, and it's possible to find a balance that allows you to honor your passions while navigating the expectations around you. Keep moving forward, even if the steps feel small—every effort counts. 💖
Your kind words gave me comfort and hope when I truly needed it the most. Thank you for reminding me that small steps still matter, even when everything feels like it's falling apart.
Sama
Steward "Tony" Pacheco
Minister, USMC Vet, John C. Maxwell Cert. Coach, Trainer, Speaker, Teacher, Straight Shooter
193
Answers
Kyle, Texas
Updated
Steward "Tony"’s Answer
With everything the medical & pharma communities are going through today, you may have to stand your ground and rethink what it is that makes you happy. Parents want prestige and want to show others what great parents they are. It's natural, but many kids have passions like never before. The thought of living life, doing what you truly love doing is the contribution they bring to this Earthly realm.
Be yourself and find that relationship with your god given talents.
Parents will always love you but only you know your mission, your passion, your love.
The last words, never spoken from any passing person is "I Should Have Spent More Time At The Office"
Be yourself and find that relationship with your god given talents.
Parents will always love you but only you know your mission, your passion, your love.
The last words, never spoken from any passing person is "I Should Have Spent More Time At The Office"
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