Career questions tagged life
How can we build a stable life, when work forces us to constantly move?
I honestly wonder: how do many people build lasting relationships, make long-term plans, move in together, start a family, have children, and maintain a strong social network when the job market and career opportunities often require moving from one city to another every few years? I have the impression that the only people who manage to build a stable life are those who start from a more solid position: a family fortune, an inheritance, a stable financial situation, or a well-paid job. Those who don't have these conditions find themselves chasing precarious job opportunities, constantly moving from one city to another in search of stability (of a life) that always seems postponed. Every move requires rebuilding part of one's life from scratch: new friendships, new social circles, new points of reference. It's a process that, in the long run, can become exhausting. (And for those who have been there, they know that sometimes, or rather, most of the time, they also have to rebuild their relationship with their partner.) On the one hand, there's professional ambition, the desire to grow and improve one's position at work. On the other, there's the need to stay in a place where bonds, friendships, and a sense of belonging have been built. These two needs often seem to conflict. Perhaps I'm missing something, but I struggle to understand how the two can be reconciled without completely sacrificing one of the two, unless we start from particularly favorable conditions.
After earning a college degree, what is the next step for sports journalism?
Is it ideal to seek out internships, or should I let opportunities find me? Is it best to try to get a deal with a news source and pump out work? Or do I shadow experienced sportswriters and hone my skills? The world after college feels so broad, so I would appreciate advice on how to find guidance.
I am not sure what do, I don't feel like how i wanted to feel like,?
I am from India. Hello, I was a JEE Dropper. In class 11th and 12th I didn't really study anything at all basically Nil. I had 40percentile before in drop year i got 93percentile, I know it not good at all considering the drop and I being general it's indeed not a good score I got a rank of 95000. I wanted go in programming/computer field, Now I wont be getting any college with CSE or related tech Branch except few like some college (good college) which from seniors I have heard its not good, Placement wise, Campus and they say crowd is not good too, The hardworking students study and take off campus placement. Many suggest take lower branch like biotech or mechanical in good college and study cs along with it, I don't want to be like my old self who in 11th 12th thought will study jee at home online, will prepare for foreign colleges this that everything, So i am not sure if i will be able to handle both but even saying this makes me feel bad if i dont work now then when. To be honest after jee i dont feel much ambitious, motivated, i just feel that I have to do it, something. I sometimes doubt if my interest in programming and computer is real because i never learnt anything properly, or I say consistently. Only in drop year that i realised that i am capable of doing something, it was offline coaching I never thought i would be able to solve the types of question that i solved. But all that too is now feels nothing. Like you know when you fail you feel sad and down for some time but after that you feel a bit motivated to do something "I will do better this time", "I would not make same mistakes". I dont know why but i dont feel like this even after months of result. I don't feel like giving any other exams at all too. Back to topic some students like me who are yet to join college are joining some college cse at 96percentile, because they think they wont be able to handle 2 studies with 75% attendence maintaining high cgpa and college wont let them sit in tech placement but i also saw a comment stating that few companies do let sit all the branches and that few in good college is more than total companies in some college etc. Also some say the students, crowd and environment exposure etc will be good in good college to be honest i am not at all sure if I will be gettjng good college at all only chances are in spot round. I dont know what to do. I dont feel ambitious motivated or anything at all. My family's situation in last 4 months have deteorated RAPIDLY still i dont know what to do what not to, what if i regret later. obviously 1 in lakhs thousands succeed what if i am not that. I know its a wrong thought but i dont at all feel like confident or anything. Even if i take a different course and study things myself, I am not sure if I will be able to do it properly at the end colleges are what that provides structure and mentors. I dont even have a mentor or guide and not sure what to do. I have already done it in 11th and 12th and failed. But hey will have to do what needs to be done else life will chew me up. I know college is not end many things are ahead, I think this is just a phase of life and feeling that many gets, this will pass but its just that the future bothers its a significant start, I am not like other, i am not extrovert or good and talking to people, I dont know how will i do in future. I might not even take steps to change myself. In the drop year I worked hard i thought i have changed but i dont feel like that anymore. I dont feel like doing anything, i wanted to study coding all year in the drop when i had to study maths, physics, chemistry. but now i dont feel like. was that all fake? what i want to do in life i dont know. but when i think of leaving programming i feel very bad in the inside.
How much does starting at a community college impact my opportunities in accounting, particularly in terms of networking, internships, and recruiting by major firms? Would attending a university from the beginning provide a significant advantage, or can I achieve similar outcomes through the community college transfer pathway?
I will be graduating high school this May and plan to major in accounting. My dad already told me that he can't help me pay for college, so I am deciding between attending a community college, which I can afford, or enrolling directly in a university, which would require me to take out student loans.
What does your daily life look like beyond high school?
For those who are in college or in a work force I am wondering what life looks like beyond high school. What did you do to get to that point in your life?
What should I be doing in college to be preparing for my future?
I want to go to law school but I also want to travel and work for some non-profits and hopefully end up in some sort of environmental or international law.
How do I become successful going to school and getting a career?
I'm currently a High School senior in the Middle College program, and I'm wondering how I can succeed in university (majoring in Psychology) and become a licensed marriage and Family therapist or a psychologist? I was wondering how I can manage my time at school, studying, working, while majoring in this field and aiming to become an LMFT or a Psychologist.
How should I manage my time in order to balance out academics and my personal life?
How should I manage my time in order to balance out academics and my personal life?
What does a day of a psychologist look like?
to see what a day would look like.
To All Surgeons: How did you become one, and what is your daily life like?
Hiya! I want to become a general Surgeon; therefore, I want to know what each type of surgeon experiences, both similarities and differences. I also want to know how you became a surgeon. What path did you take (starting from high school)? I've heard some became surgeons through the Navy. Would that be an option I should consider? Thank you!
What’s one thing you're glad you didn’t change in your life?
Some choices stay with us for a reason. Even when everything else shifted, they held their ground. What’s that one thing you’re still thankful you kept?
If you could redo life, what would you do differently?
I've been thinking a lot about decisions, how one small choice can change the entire direction of your life or career. Sometimes it's a job we didn't take, a subject we didn't study, a passion we pushed aside, or even a person we stopped having a relationship with. Not asking for regrets, just real moments of reflection.
How do I really know what I want to do with my life?
How do I really know what I want to do with my life? It's just so hard to narrow it down right now. I'm considering majoring in journalism or communications, but I can't see myself writing life-changing stories right now. I'm a incoming high school senior, just for reference.
How to find things that make you happy and passionate?
I dont know why, but its hard for me to be happy after I start working, everyday its just working, earning money, admiring everyone's wonderful life and glamor on social media, whats the meaning of life?
How do you create a routine where you can balance being a full time student and working a part time job? Please advise :)
Hi, I am perusing my sonography certification at ACC. I am currently a part time student working a full time job and so far I've been able to manage that well. My routine has helped me stay on track of my work and school. I'm just trying to plan for the future and understand what my future routine could look like and how I can find what works best for me.
How can I balance the demands of nursing school with real-life responsibilities like work and family??
Pursuing a nursing degree is both exciting and demanding, especially when you are juggling real-life responsibilities outside of school. Like many students, I have personal obligations that require time and energy, and I know that learning how to manage both effectively is key to my success. I am interested in strategies that help nursing students stay organized, avoid burnout, and maintain their mental health while handling academic expectations and life outside of the classroom. I'd love advice from professionals or students who've found ways to create balance, manage their time, and stay motivated when things get overwhelming.
How do I balance my work and life through college while adjusting to the new life?
I am going to college in August and am wondering if there are any tips for balancing a new workload and a new way of living
How should students who are majoring in acting go about balancing their school life with work life, school life, personal life, etc., since this is one of the more busy programs to balance?
I am a first-year college student this fall, and the process of college is scary, especially with my intended career. I'm scared I'm going to lose out on downtime and want to know what life is like for acting students.
Starting the Strategic Design and Management program at Parsons this fall—does anyone have any tips or advice for making the most of my time there I'd love to hear both academic and life advice? #Spring25
Hi everyone! 😊 I’m starting the Strategic Design and Management program at Parsons this upcoming fall, and I’m super excited (and a little nervous, not gonna lie). I’d love to hear from anyone who’s either in the program now or has gone through it before—what are some things you wish you knew when you started? Any advice on making the most out of the classes, professors, or projects? And on the flip side, any challenges I should be aware of or tips for staying on top of things? Also, I’d really appreciate any life advice—like ways to get involved, make friends, or just feel more at home at Parsons or in NYC in general. Whether it’s about navigating the creative culture, balancing school and life, or even favorite study spots or cafes, I’m all ears! Thanks so much in advance! 🙏
What things did you wish you knew when you first started college?
Even in my last high school year, among the comfort and familiarity of my home and school, the challenges college poses for me ahead are daunting. Are there any tips or codes to making my college life easier?
How do I navigate the next chapter of my life in college? #Spring25!!
#Spring25!! Hi CareerVillage Community, I’m a student preparing for college, and I’m trying to figure out a lot on my own as I plan on escaping an abusive home situation. I will be fully responsible for my own college expenses and living costs, so I have a few questions I’d really love advice on: -What are some good ways to find affordable housing options for college students, especially if you’re paying everything on your own? -I was recently waitlisted at Harvard, Duke, Carnegie Mellon, and UPenn. The college admissions process this year has been difficult and it has been hard not to feel like I've received the short end of the stick even though I worked tirelessly to try to get into these dream colleges. I'm now committing to UF where I won't be receiving scholarships other than Bright Futures which covers books and tuition in Florida. It has been such a disheartening year and my question is, how should I handle that mentally and practically while moving forward with my college plans? -Now that I will be attending UF I want to make the most of my undergraduate years, but also be in and out of college and graduate as quick as possible while still doing my best to prepare for a Ph.D. later on. I have accumulated around 60 high school credits which include AP, AICE, and dual-enrollment credits throughout highschool. What advice do you have for excelling in undergrad, managing heavy workloads, and building strong Ph.D. applications, especially if I plan to take a few gap years for research and saving money first? -I have a strong passion for becoming a neuro-oncology scientist — I’m not planning to go to medical school due to the expense and years of schooling, but I want to work in the lab, contribute to research, and still have a good work-life balance. How should I focus my major and activities in college toward this goal? How can I stay open to new opportunities and possible changes in my plans while staying grounded in my passion? -What are your best frugal living and financial tips for college students who are completely independent? -What are some jobs I should look into that will allow me to pay for college while still being convenient with a heavier courseload (ex. remote jobs) -Lastly, any general life advice for someone who is starting over, trying to build a better future, and navigating college and adulthood at the same time? I will say that of my questions do make it seem as if I'm rushing the college experience or not allowing myself balance or a social life outside of studies and working, but I've had an extremely heavy workload throughout high school (resulting in my 60 earned credits) and am still able to manage a social life and have truly worked on getting myself out of my introverted bubble to build relationships with people. Thank you so much for taking the time to read my questions. I’m grateful for any advice, encouragement, or tips you can share!
What makes you feel motivated to keep moving forward even when you are in your lowest in your life?
I live a life where everything is a bit harder due to me having guarantee undiagnosed ADHD. I push myself everyday because I know I am worth something and I don't want to stop myself when I have everything in my hands. I have been doubted by so many people where it started to get to me, then I remind myself of where I am today and push myself to the limit where I thought wasn't possible. I want to live a happy life where I consider it happy and fulfilled. I am happy of where I am today, and want to thank everyone who has supported me through my journey.
What did you do to get to where you are right now in your life/career?
What life lessons have you learned? What factors have heavily impacted your life? Would you change anything about your journey if you could? Do you have any regrets? Are you satisfied with where you are in life? Any advice for the younger people?