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Sama
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How can someone become an idol completely on their own if they don't have an instrument or any gear — just a notebook, pencil, and their voice? What daily habits could actually make them grow without feeling stuck?
Any tips or insights would be grateful.
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Haylee Hemphill
Screenwriter
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Clearfield, Pennsylvania
Updated
Haylee’s Answer
Hello!
Thank you for granting me the opportunity to reply to your question.
The biggest thing I can say, is to tone into who you really are. Do you have trauma? Most of us do. Embrace it! It sounds strange, but using this to utilize your strengths in finding your voice creatively is huge in becoming an idol with little.
Thank you for granting me the opportunity to reply to your question.
The biggest thing I can say, is to tone into who you really are. Do you have trauma? Most of us do. Embrace it! It sounds strange, but using this to utilize your strengths in finding your voice creatively is huge in becoming an idol with little.
Thank you, this is really helpful.
Mina
Paul Guidry
Creative Director, Writer
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Darien, New York
Updated
Paul’s Answer
A few suggestions for you:
First, you need to be more specific and define what you mean by "idol". Singer? Songwriter? Once you've gotten specific about "what" you want to be, you can focus on "how" to become exactly that.
If you want to be a songwriter, then write, every single day. You don't have to write an entire song. Just a few lyrics. You say you don't have any gear, but consider your notebook and pencil your gear. Practice with it as often as possible.
If you want to be a singer, the same applies. Practice singing, especially in front of other people who can provide real feedback.
Everything, everything, everything is progress toward your goal.
Finally, social media has leveled the playing field for almost all creative industries. Consider it another tool in your toolbox. Start performing and posting your original material to as many platforms as possible. If you're sincere, passionate, and talented, you will get discovered.
The world is constantly looking for the next "idol". Give them a way to find you.
First, you need to be more specific and define what you mean by "idol". Singer? Songwriter? Once you've gotten specific about "what" you want to be, you can focus on "how" to become exactly that.
If you want to be a songwriter, then write, every single day. You don't have to write an entire song. Just a few lyrics. You say you don't have any gear, but consider your notebook and pencil your gear. Practice with it as often as possible.
If you want to be a singer, the same applies. Practice singing, especially in front of other people who can provide real feedback.
Everything, everything, everything is progress toward your goal.
Finally, social media has leveled the playing field for almost all creative industries. Consider it another tool in your toolbox. Start performing and posting your original material to as many platforms as possible. If you're sincere, passionate, and talented, you will get discovered.
The world is constantly looking for the next "idol". Give them a way to find you.
I appreciate your support, Paul
Mina
Courtney Pope
2
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Katy, Texas
Updated
Courtney’s Answer
Hi Sama! It's amazing that you're willing to further your abilities and grow.
When striving for your passion there are a mix of emotions, purpose, excitement, motivation, determination, and so on, but you also feel overwhelmed, and this too is okay! You have to be willing to be okay even on the day's you are not, because that's true determination. Never let anyone tell you, who you are or who your meant to be, because you really can do anything if you put your mind to it!
First, work with what you have now, because eventually you'll get what you want later. You have a notebook, pencil and your voice--Great! Enhance your vocals with training videos, learn pitch, notes, the different keys. Record yourself and improve from there. When learning an instrument without an instrument, practice music theory and ear training (there are tons of videos online)
Most importantly, you have to stay consistent, even if you only practice for 5 minutes, not only are you building that daily habit, but you're using a part of your brain that produces creativity--this will only help you in your growth. You don't have to implement all of these things all at once, section out what you want to do on each day. Maybe start with a 5-minute vocal warm up, then learn a bit of music theory and then start something different the next day!
You got this! Believe in yourself!
When striving for your passion there are a mix of emotions, purpose, excitement, motivation, determination, and so on, but you also feel overwhelmed, and this too is okay! You have to be willing to be okay even on the day's you are not, because that's true determination. Never let anyone tell you, who you are or who your meant to be, because you really can do anything if you put your mind to it!
First, work with what you have now, because eventually you'll get what you want later. You have a notebook, pencil and your voice--Great! Enhance your vocals with training videos, learn pitch, notes, the different keys. Record yourself and improve from there. When learning an instrument without an instrument, practice music theory and ear training (there are tons of videos online)
Most importantly, you have to stay consistent, even if you only practice for 5 minutes, not only are you building that daily habit, but you're using a part of your brain that produces creativity--this will only help you in your growth. You don't have to implement all of these things all at once, section out what you want to do on each day. Maybe start with a 5-minute vocal warm up, then learn a bit of music theory and then start something different the next day!
You got this! Believe in yourself!
Thank you for the advice, Courtney.
Mina
Betzy Scaria
2
Answers
Broadview Heights, Ohio
Updated
Betzy’s Answer
I hope my words inspire you to explore new paths to achieve your DREAM.
Journaling is a wonderful way to connect with our experiences and express our creativity. We're lucky to live in a time with so many resources at our fingertips. But let's not forget the journey we've taken—from storytelling and word of mouth to writing on papyrus—which has shaped us. The traditions, knowledge, and advancements we carry forward are deeply rooted in human history and continue to guide us.
I want to encourage you to embrace your creativity and resourcefulness. Even when we feel limited, we can find ways to overcome challenges and create something meaningful. It's about using what we have and thinking outside the box to break through barriers.
Aim for the stars! No matter your circumstances, let your work be a spark of inspiration that makes YOU shine as a STAR. If I were in your shoes, I’d hold my ideas close and keep exploring my creativity while chasing my dreams. I hope this message inspires others too.
Journaling is a wonderful way to connect with our experiences and express our creativity. We're lucky to live in a time with so many resources at our fingertips. But let's not forget the journey we've taken—from storytelling and word of mouth to writing on papyrus—which has shaped us. The traditions, knowledge, and advancements we carry forward are deeply rooted in human history and continue to guide us.
I want to encourage you to embrace your creativity and resourcefulness. Even when we feel limited, we can find ways to overcome challenges and create something meaningful. It's about using what we have and thinking outside the box to break through barriers.
Aim for the stars! No matter your circumstances, let your work be a spark of inspiration that makes YOU shine as a STAR. If I were in your shoes, I’d hold my ideas close and keep exploring my creativity while chasing my dreams. I hope this message inspires others too.
I appreciate this, thank you for the advice.
Mina
Metilda Jeyaprakash
Finance
2
Answers
Chennai, Tamil Nadu, India
Updated
Metilda’s Answer
You have to follow your passion, and you should always embrace discomfort. This will always make you a trend setter. You become highly competent when you take up the journey of discomfort. You should not spend your energy on things that you cannot control.
Metilda, thank you!
Mina
Joanne Wiess
teacher
10
Answers
East Norriton, PA
Updated
Joanne’s Answer
One daily habit that would expand reach is focusing on everyday life's individual situations. Instead of seeing yourself as one among many, shift your sense to the stance of an anthropologist who observes constantly. When the moment opens to participate in what you observe, take it and speak to the persons in it, soliciting their reasoning and insights into the experience. This will lower your threshold by shifting the focus to learning instead of drawing attention to your agenda. You can then enhance your insight by raising up the insights of others. Keeping a diary of daily encounters could build into a book of profound thoughts.
I am really grateful you took the time to answer this question.
Mina
Dr H
Dr. H's Research
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Updated
Dr’s Answer
Hey there again Sama, it’s amazing to see you still pushing forward! You’re proving that passion isn’t just about talent—it’s about showing up for your dream even when the odds aren’t in your favor. You’re not alone in this journey; mentors like Martin, Courtney, Metilda, Betzy, Joanne, and Paul have already shared great insights. Now, let’s build on that and make sure you have even more clarity on how to grow as an artist with what you have.
First, Let’s Connect This to Your Previous Question so! Earlier, you asked about becoming an idol completely on your own, without instruments or gear—just your notebook, pencil, and voice. You’re already writing songs with melodies in your head, but the challenge is turning those ideas into something real without feeling stuck. You also mentioned concerns about time—Am I too late?
Now, you’re looking for daily habits to grow while keeping momentum. Good news? You’re already ahead! Many aspiring artists don’t even have original songs yet, but you do. The next step is turning your ideas into something that feels more tangible, more real—even without fancy tools.
1. Singing & Vocal Growth – The One Thing You Can Control, so get encouraged girl! 🙌
Courtney and Martin both talked about training your voice, and they’re 100% right. Since your voice is your only instrument right now, let’s focus on making it the best it can be.
Sing every single day, no matter what. Even if it’s just for 5 minutes, consistency will improve your range and control.
Practice different styles. K-pop idols don’t just sing one way—they adapt. Try ballads, R&B, pop, and even rap (if that interests you).
Breath control matters. Long, sustained notes come from diaphragm breathing, not just your throat. Practice taking deep breaths before singing and controlling your exhale.
Vocal warm-ups are your best friend. Even if you don’t have videos or apps, you can hum scales, do lip trills, or sing simple vowel exercises (“ah, ee, oh”).
🤔Basically, The stronger your voice gets, the easier it will be to make your songs come alive—and the better you’ll sound when you finally get the chance to record or perform.
2. Songwriting – Your Secret Weapon
Paul said it best: If you want to be a songwriter, then write every day. Since you already have a notebook full of songs, let’s refine your craft:
Write new lyrics OR improve old ones daily. Even if you don’t finish a full song, tweak a verse, experiment with new themes, or improve your rhyme schemes.
Sing your songs aloud. Since you don’t have an instrument, your voice will guide your melodies. Try different speeds, tones, and moods to find the best fit.
Memorize your best songs. If you don’t have a phone to record, make sure your strongest lyrics and melodies stay in your head.
Now 😏 Many idols start by writing their own music. The more songs you finish, the more you’ll have ready when you finally step into the industry.
3. Training Your Musical Ear – No Devices Needed!
One challenge of not having a phone or laptop is that you can’t use apps for tuning or music production. But you can still train your ear without technology:
Listen deeply to songs. Instead of just enjoying them, focus on details—how singers hit high notes, how they pronounce words, when they breathe.
Tap rhythms with your hands or feet. If you can feel the beat and rhythm naturally, you’ll have an easier time staying in sync when performing.
Sing a note and try to find higher/lower variations. This helps with pitch accuracy and developing melodies.
✨ Great musicians don’t just sing well—they understand music. Even without an instrument, you can build your sense of tone, rhythm, and melody.
4. Stage Presence – Practicing Without an Audience
Metilda talked about embracing discomfort, and she’s right. Being an idol isn’t just about singing—it’s about owning the stage. Even if you can’t perform in front of people yet, here’s how to start:
Use a mirror. Watch how you move while singing. Do you express emotion through your face? Do your gestures match the mood of the song?
Sing with small movements. If full dancing isn’t an option, start by nodding your head, swaying, or using your hands while performing.
Record yourself (even if just on paper). If you don’t have a phone, write down notes about what felt good or what needs improvement.
😇The more comfortable you get expressing yourself, the more natural you’ll look when the time comes to perform in front of people.
5. Handling Family Restrictions & Secretly Improving
You mentioned that your parents don’t support your dream, so you’re learning in secret. This makes things tricky, but not impossible. Here’s how to grow quietly while staying safe:
Practice at times when you won’t be interrupted. Early mornings, while doing chores, or before bed might be the best moments.
Keep your notebook safe. If your songs are personal, hide them somewhere private or mix them into regular school notes.
Find indirect ways to gain support. Instead of telling your family you want to be an idol, you can say you’re improving your English, confidence, or writing skills (which are all true).
🤔Some idols faced family resistance before success. By quietly improving, you’ll have skills ready for when you get a real opportunity.
6. The “Too Late” Fear – Let’s Get Real
You asked before: What if I’m already too late?
You are NOT too late. Many K-pop idols debut in their early 20s. Even if you don’t start as a trainee at 18, there are other paths—solo artists, independent creators, even songwriting for others.
Your experience now will make you stronger. Because you’re training without help, you’re building skills others take for granted—creativity, adaptability, and resilience.
Timing is different for everyone. Some idols trained for years, others started late and still made it. What matters is staying ready for your moment.
🙌 Instead of focusing on the timeline, focus on progress. The more you build now, the better your chances when opportunities open up.
Sama remember girl– Your Dream is Still Alive! Betzy said it well—your creativity and resourcefulness will help you find a way. Paul reminded you that progress is progress, no matter how small. Joanne talked about learning from daily life, and Metilda emphasized embracing discomfort. Everything they said connects to your journey.
You’re not behind. You’re not stuck. You’re building something amazing in the shadows, piece by piece. And one day, when the time is right, you’ll have the skills, confidence, and experience to step into the light. Keep going, Sama—you’re already becoming the artist you dream of being. Trust me, you are have been showing great dedication and all you need now is the energy of pushing and training, just never give up. 😎🤗
1. Sing every day (even if just for a few minutes). . . 2. Write or improve one lyric per day.
3. Memorize at least one full song.
Observe music deeply—analyze vocals, beats, and emotions.
5. Practice stage presence in small ways (mirror, gestures, facial expressions).
Work within your family’s limits while still improving secretly.
First, Let’s Connect This to Your Previous Question so! Earlier, you asked about becoming an idol completely on your own, without instruments or gear—just your notebook, pencil, and voice. You’re already writing songs with melodies in your head, but the challenge is turning those ideas into something real without feeling stuck. You also mentioned concerns about time—Am I too late?
Now, you’re looking for daily habits to grow while keeping momentum. Good news? You’re already ahead! Many aspiring artists don’t even have original songs yet, but you do. The next step is turning your ideas into something that feels more tangible, more real—even without fancy tools.
1. Singing & Vocal Growth – The One Thing You Can Control, so get encouraged girl! 🙌
Courtney and Martin both talked about training your voice, and they’re 100% right. Since your voice is your only instrument right now, let’s focus on making it the best it can be.
Sing every single day, no matter what. Even if it’s just for 5 minutes, consistency will improve your range and control.
Practice different styles. K-pop idols don’t just sing one way—they adapt. Try ballads, R&B, pop, and even rap (if that interests you).
Breath control matters. Long, sustained notes come from diaphragm breathing, not just your throat. Practice taking deep breaths before singing and controlling your exhale.
Vocal warm-ups are your best friend. Even if you don’t have videos or apps, you can hum scales, do lip trills, or sing simple vowel exercises (“ah, ee, oh”).
🤔Basically, The stronger your voice gets, the easier it will be to make your songs come alive—and the better you’ll sound when you finally get the chance to record or perform.
2. Songwriting – Your Secret Weapon
Paul said it best: If you want to be a songwriter, then write every day. Since you already have a notebook full of songs, let’s refine your craft:
Write new lyrics OR improve old ones daily. Even if you don’t finish a full song, tweak a verse, experiment with new themes, or improve your rhyme schemes.
Sing your songs aloud. Since you don’t have an instrument, your voice will guide your melodies. Try different speeds, tones, and moods to find the best fit.
Memorize your best songs. If you don’t have a phone to record, make sure your strongest lyrics and melodies stay in your head.
Now 😏 Many idols start by writing their own music. The more songs you finish, the more you’ll have ready when you finally step into the industry.
3. Training Your Musical Ear – No Devices Needed!
One challenge of not having a phone or laptop is that you can’t use apps for tuning or music production. But you can still train your ear without technology:
Listen deeply to songs. Instead of just enjoying them, focus on details—how singers hit high notes, how they pronounce words, when they breathe.
Tap rhythms with your hands or feet. If you can feel the beat and rhythm naturally, you’ll have an easier time staying in sync when performing.
Sing a note and try to find higher/lower variations. This helps with pitch accuracy and developing melodies.
✨ Great musicians don’t just sing well—they understand music. Even without an instrument, you can build your sense of tone, rhythm, and melody.
4. Stage Presence – Practicing Without an Audience
Metilda talked about embracing discomfort, and she’s right. Being an idol isn’t just about singing—it’s about owning the stage. Even if you can’t perform in front of people yet, here’s how to start:
Use a mirror. Watch how you move while singing. Do you express emotion through your face? Do your gestures match the mood of the song?
Sing with small movements. If full dancing isn’t an option, start by nodding your head, swaying, or using your hands while performing.
Record yourself (even if just on paper). If you don’t have a phone, write down notes about what felt good or what needs improvement.
😇The more comfortable you get expressing yourself, the more natural you’ll look when the time comes to perform in front of people.
5. Handling Family Restrictions & Secretly Improving
You mentioned that your parents don’t support your dream, so you’re learning in secret. This makes things tricky, but not impossible. Here’s how to grow quietly while staying safe:
Practice at times when you won’t be interrupted. Early mornings, while doing chores, or before bed might be the best moments.
Keep your notebook safe. If your songs are personal, hide them somewhere private or mix them into regular school notes.
Find indirect ways to gain support. Instead of telling your family you want to be an idol, you can say you’re improving your English, confidence, or writing skills (which are all true).
🤔Some idols faced family resistance before success. By quietly improving, you’ll have skills ready for when you get a real opportunity.
6. The “Too Late” Fear – Let’s Get Real
You asked before: What if I’m already too late?
You are NOT too late. Many K-pop idols debut in their early 20s. Even if you don’t start as a trainee at 18, there are other paths—solo artists, independent creators, even songwriting for others.
Your experience now will make you stronger. Because you’re training without help, you’re building skills others take for granted—creativity, adaptability, and resilience.
Timing is different for everyone. Some idols trained for years, others started late and still made it. What matters is staying ready for your moment.
🙌 Instead of focusing on the timeline, focus on progress. The more you build now, the better your chances when opportunities open up.
Sama remember girl– Your Dream is Still Alive! Betzy said it well—your creativity and resourcefulness will help you find a way. Paul reminded you that progress is progress, no matter how small. Joanne talked about learning from daily life, and Metilda emphasized embracing discomfort. Everything they said connects to your journey.
You’re not behind. You’re not stuck. You’re building something amazing in the shadows, piece by piece. And one day, when the time is right, you’ll have the skills, confidence, and experience to step into the light. Keep going, Sama—you’re already becoming the artist you dream of being. Trust me, you are have been showing great dedication and all you need now is the energy of pushing and training, just never give up. 😎🤗
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