Luke
How to adapt to a new environment in college?
I currently live in South Florida but plan to go to college at Washington & Jefferson College in Pennsylvania for Water Polo and also to study Psychology. Obviously, it's going to be a massive change for me for many reasons. First of all, it's extremely cold over there and for someone who has lived in South Florida for all their life and is used to the extremely hot weather year-round, I would not know how to adapt to the cold. Second, the people in Pennsylvania act completely different than Floridians. In Florida people mostly keep to their selves unless they are close to someone. In Pennsylvania they are very friendly out going to everyone and will treat a stranger like a friend. And in Florida if a stranger treats you like a friend that's a sign to run to the mountains cause nothing good will come from them. I don't want to come out being misunderstood just for acting differently. I'm just looking for any tips on how to make my transition as smooth as possible. Also, any tips on how not to freeze to death would be appreciated.
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Michelle M.
Michelle’s Answer
Welcome to life experience and self discovery ! You are making an exciting move from Florida to Pennsylvania which I think you will end up enjoying despite the concerns you have at the moment. Being a Psychology Major that plays water polo is super awesome and something in itself to look forward to !
Did you know that PA is 6% former Floridians ? It's nothing to be worried about, especially if it is temporary for the four years to obtain your Bachelors Degree. But if you are going for Psychology, keep in mind that you're going to have to attend a graduate school in the state that you want to practice in to get your Masters Degree and Certification in the state you want to practice in for most careers in the mental health field.
Yes, in general, North Eastern people are friendly but not every single person is. Once people get to know you they'll be aware of your boundaries if you have any. This may be an opportunity to expand your social experience, though, so keep an open mind. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do, however. It should not be a problem.
Just keep in mind that at college, students can be very friendly. Students need support and making friendships can provide companionship, a study partner and someone to go to events with. Someone to come to your polo matches and cheer you on. You will maybe start to learn how to read people in college. Most people are sincere and genuine and you'd be able to tell otherwise by the things they do or say.
As for the weather, yes there will be snow and ice. You will need a Winter parka, snow boots, hoodies, warm long sleeved shirts, warm pants, scarves, gloves and a wool hat and/or earmuffs. The snow can be exhilarating to experience and very pretty (if you don't have to drive in it), but mostly watch out for ice. Avoid hazards at all costs. You can have a bit of fun on a snowy day, however.
I did move from a very cold and snowy climate to California for college and stayed in that state for 10 years. Just imagine me experiencing 3 earthquakes during the time I lived there. It was shocking to me. But, you know, you go with the flow, use caution, and it ends up being a good story to tell over the years.
I hope this helps and I wish you all the best moving forward with your fabulous plans for college !