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Savanna
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How do ask your strict parents you want to be babysitter?
I have strict parents and want to become a babysitter and don't know how to tell them but I have watched my cousin for 3 1/2 years almost 4.
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Dr H
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Hey Savanna,
Trully love your so uplifting spirit.
First, strategy is key. So, You can’t just walk up and say, “Hey, I wanna babysit random kids for money.” That’s an instant NOPE from strict parents. Instead, make it sound responsible and beneficial for you and them.
Start with, “Mom, Dad, I’ve been thinking about gaining more responsibility and work experience.” Sounds mature, right? Now, add some psychology: “Since I’ve already been taking care of my cousin for years, I’d love to make use of that skill and help other families too.” Boom—you're not just babysitting; you’re building life skills.
Now, address their fears before they bring them up. Strict parents worry about safety, so say, “I’ll only babysit for trusted families, I’ll update you every hour, and I’ll make sure my schedule doesn’t affect school.” Suddenly, you sound like the CEO of Babysitting, and they have no solid reason to say no.
If they still hesitate, hit them with science: Babysitting improves problem-solving, patience, communication, and leadership skills. Basically, it’s a parent-approved way of leveling up in life.
And if all else fails, remind them that babysitting is basically unpaid parenting practice—which means when you have kids, they’ll get grandkids raised by an expert. See? You're actually doing them a favor.
Hope this helped! 😋
Oh and,
If it still fails, have the backup, the time for the ultimate parent hack—make them think it was their idea. How? Well!
Casually bring up how responsible you’ve become, how babysitting teaches life skills, and how Sarah’s parents let her babysit (even if you don’t know a Sarah, they don’t either-just make her up i mean).
Now If all else fails… volunteer to “babysit” at family gatherings for free—once they see you in action, they might just change their minds.
Okay seriously If that still doesn’t work… well, guess you’re stuck being the cool cousin for now. 😅 Nag kidding just go try them if it didn't work just come back and shoot me a IT DIDNT WORK!! And i will be here! 😉
Trully love your so uplifting spirit.
First, strategy is key. So, You can’t just walk up and say, “Hey, I wanna babysit random kids for money.” That’s an instant NOPE from strict parents. Instead, make it sound responsible and beneficial for you and them.
Start with, “Mom, Dad, I’ve been thinking about gaining more responsibility and work experience.” Sounds mature, right? Now, add some psychology: “Since I’ve already been taking care of my cousin for years, I’d love to make use of that skill and help other families too.” Boom—you're not just babysitting; you’re building life skills.
Now, address their fears before they bring them up. Strict parents worry about safety, so say, “I’ll only babysit for trusted families, I’ll update you every hour, and I’ll make sure my schedule doesn’t affect school.” Suddenly, you sound like the CEO of Babysitting, and they have no solid reason to say no.
If they still hesitate, hit them with science: Babysitting improves problem-solving, patience, communication, and leadership skills. Basically, it’s a parent-approved way of leveling up in life.
And if all else fails, remind them that babysitting is basically unpaid parenting practice—which means when you have kids, they’ll get grandkids raised by an expert. See? You're actually doing them a favor.
Hope this helped! 😋
Oh and,
If it still fails, have the backup, the time for the ultimate parent hack—make them think it was their idea. How? Well!
Casually bring up how responsible you’ve become, how babysitting teaches life skills, and how Sarah’s parents let her babysit (even if you don’t know a Sarah, they don’t either-just make her up i mean).
Now If all else fails… volunteer to “babysit” at family gatherings for free—once they see you in action, they might just change their minds.
Okay seriously If that still doesn’t work… well, guess you’re stuck being the cool cousin for now. 😅 Nag kidding just go try them if it didn't work just come back and shoot me a IT DIDNT WORK!! And i will be here! 😉
Jason Lee
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Jason’s Answer
Hi Savanna,
My two cents as follows:
Prepare Your Points – Highlight your experience (e.g., watching your cousin for almost 4 years).
Choose the Right Time – Find a calm moment when your parents are in a good mood.
Show Responsibility – Explain how babysitting will teach you responsibility and time management.
Address Their Concerns – Assure them of safety, provide details about the families you’ll work for, and set boundaries.
Start Small – Suggest babysitting for family or close friends first to ease their worries.
Mention the Benefits – Emphasize earning your own money and gaining experience.
Offer a Trial Period – Ask them to let you try it out for a short time to prove you can handle it.
Be Respectful & Patient – If they say no, ask what you can do to gain their trust and try again later.
Hope this helps!
My two cents as follows:
Prepare Your Points – Highlight your experience (e.g., watching your cousin for almost 4 years).
Choose the Right Time – Find a calm moment when your parents are in a good mood.
Show Responsibility – Explain how babysitting will teach you responsibility and time management.
Address Their Concerns – Assure them of safety, provide details about the families you’ll work for, and set boundaries.
Start Small – Suggest babysitting for family or close friends first to ease their worries.
Mention the Benefits – Emphasize earning your own money and gaining experience.
Offer a Trial Period – Ask them to let you try it out for a short time to prove you can handle it.
Be Respectful & Patient – If they say no, ask what you can do to gain their trust and try again later.
Hope this helps!
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