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tristyn
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Winter Garden, Florida
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How am I supposed to know what I want to do with the rest of my life?
How am I supposed to know what I want to do with the rest of my life? Will I ever get sick of my job? What if I want to change careers? I am lost and confused.
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Samuel Jones
Customer experience
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Sherwood Park, Alberta, Canada
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Samuel’s Answer
It's completely normal to feel uncertain about your career path. Reflect on your interests, strengths, and values to help guide your decision. Remember, it's okay to change careers if you're not fulfilled.
Take time to explore your options. Your previous job experiences can provide valuable insights as you navigate this journey.
However, it's worth mentioning that I stumbled upon my current career by chance. It was offered to me by a manager who saw potential in me to grow and excel in the role, and I'm quite satisfied with where I am. Despite this, there's a lingering part of me that occasionally ponders my childhood dream job and wonders "what if."
Take time to explore your options. Your previous job experiences can provide valuable insights as you navigate this journey.
However, it's worth mentioning that I stumbled upon my current career by chance. It was offered to me by a manager who saw potential in me to grow and excel in the role, and I'm quite satisfied with where I am. Despite this, there's a lingering part of me that occasionally ponders my childhood dream job and wonders "what if."
Jerome Dees Jr.
Sales Professional and Networking Expert
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San Francisco, California
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Jerome’s Answer
Life is very complex and there are few guarantees. Work will have ups and downs, but if you can find something you are passionate about, you can increase your likelihood of being content.
I didn’t know what I wanted to do until after I graduated from college. It’s ok to not have it figured out. Explore electives, talk to teachers and professionals in your life and ask what they enjoy about their work. Use this time to ask lots of questions.
I didn’t know what I wanted to do until after I graduated from college. It’s ok to not have it figured out. Explore electives, talk to teachers and professionals in your life and ask what they enjoy about their work. Use this time to ask lots of questions.
Karen Kitchel
Community Volunteer
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Saint Paul, Minnesota
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Karen’s Answer
Good you are thinking about your future. Great to have dreams of what you want to become and then eventually you can come up with a plan of how to get there. Enjoy this time when you can explore all sorts of careers which might interest you. Talk to others who have interesting jobs and research others online. You don't need to know right now what you will do with the rest of your life.
If you are in a position which you don't like, you can explore others within the same organization or in another one. Before accepting a job, know what's important to you -- flexible hours, salary, co-workers, etc. And it's ok to change careers -- you have a lifetime, so you may end up with several careers. Like life, jobs will have ups and downs but if you enjoy and feel good about what you're doing, you will be fine.
For now, enjoy life and think positive about your future. You can make your dream come true.
With every good wish.
If you are in a position which you don't like, you can explore others within the same organization or in another one. Before accepting a job, know what's important to you -- flexible hours, salary, co-workers, etc. And it's ok to change careers -- you have a lifetime, so you may end up with several careers. Like life, jobs will have ups and downs but if you enjoy and feel good about what you're doing, you will be fine.
For now, enjoy life and think positive about your future. You can make your dream come true.
With every good wish.
Jody Muniz, P.E.
Project Manager / Forensic Engineer
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Houston, Texas
Updated
Jody’s Answer
Hello Tristyn,
Hello Tristyn,
You have asked a very broad question that many people struggle with, including myself. I sincerely believe that you will be able to figure out what you want to do during your journey of life. I recommend you look for jobs that you will enjoy doing. When I worked at NASA, I worked 6 and 7 days a week but I loved my job so it was not work to me and I learned how to do so many different things. I went door-knocking at NASA and asked - what jobs are available here that I can do? And I found a great job in their operations department that I was really NOT suited for but since there was a serious shortage of workers and the operations manager wanted somebody immediately, they hired me because I filled out an application and told them - I am ready to go to work today. I spent 10 years there and 9 of them were enjoyable, the last year was horrible, and they let me go which was a huge favor to me. They treated me really bad, and it forced me to get out of my comfort zone “AGAIN” and find another job that could utilize my skills. I have had multiple jobs in my career that gave me a lot of different skills because they forced me to get out of my comfort zone and learn how to do a lot of different things. Getting out of your comfort zone is not a lot of fun but necessary for continued personal growth.
When I was 16, I asked my dad to help me get a job and he told me that nobody gave him any jobs and that he had to go out and find his own jobs. And he told me – nobody is coming to your house to hire you; you have to go out and find your job. I was very disappointed, I was forced to go out looking for a job and was not sure where, so I went to a lot of places, and I got a lot of NO’s when I asked if there were any jobs I could do. I taught myself how to look for a job. And because I went out looking, I found the best job on the entire planet for me at the Six Bar Ranch. They taught me how to drive tractors, work cattle, and be a farmer. I loved that job, and I gladly worked every day they let me work. Later I left that job because working in construction paid me triple what the farmer was paying me and I was used to working hard. So, I made more money working fewer hours and most of all I learned how to look for a better job when I needed to, which is something I have done all my life. I had to get out of my comfort zone to find something better.
Being “LOST” is temporary and I have been lost multiple times in my life until I figured out which way I wanted to go. I recommend you learn the Serenity Prayer; this prayer has carried me during some really, really, really hard times in my life. I lost my home after Hurricane Ike and it was really hard on me and my family and I learned that all material things can be replaced.
Being CONFUSED is a temporary description of your choice because you don't have a final answer that you agree with yet. This is very common, and I learned how to not fear the unknown. Every day I choose to be happy and be positive no matter what happens. This is a daily quest for me and some days it is not easy at all to stay positive, but I do it. I have been a lifelong student and I learned how to teach myself how to do a lot of different things and I learned how to network and work with groups that taught me a lot of different things. I recommend you get out of your comfort zone and try new things. You will find out what you enjoy doing.
I recommend you join groups and clubs that will help learn how to do different things. You will meet like-minded people that will help you find things you enjoy doing. I learned a lot by working with people who were very good at doing things and they helped teach me or I modeled my actions after watching them and I developed my own methods using what I watched and learned from others. I joined Engineers without Borders and I was invited to go build a school house in Nicaragua. It was really hard and we slept on a concrete floor. The school teacher came to thank us and she cried because she was so happy to have a real school house for her kids. I was very glad I changed my work schedule and used my vacation time to go.
I recommend you make a gratitude list and be grateful for what you have today, i.e., good health, a home, the ability to go to school, and most of all, the ability to build your future. Then make a wish list, where you want to go and what you do you want to do. Life is a journey and a marathon, and the good days will outnumber the hard days. The hard days will make you grow and teach you valuable lessons. The harder you work when you are younger will help make the future easier. I learn from my mistakes, and I have many so many I stopped counting. The mistakes I made led to my job at NASA after I got fired from a job, I took that was way over my head and the owner had no patience for me to learn.
Also, I recommend you find ways to boost your confidence. This is not an easy task, and everybody has different ways to do this. I joined Toastmasters International and for $10/month I attended weekly meetings, and I lost my fear of public speaking. I loved the camaraderie of the group, and they helped me grow and my growth helped me become a lot more confident. I am able to work as an Independent consultant now and it is very hard but I am not scared of working hard anymore and most of all I have learned how to deal with clients, co-workers, and the general public. Not everybody likes me and I learned how to be OK with that and just move on and be a good person no matter what happens. Being at Peace with yourself is very, very important for happiness. I learned how to meditate, and it helped me tremendously to keep my inner peace. I recommend you watch Mindvalley you tube videos for ideas about meditation. The founder named Vishen Lahkiani has an incredible story of his journey of living with his parents and then creating Mindvalley to help others.
Tristyn, you will be successful no matter what happens, I promise you that. How successful you want to be, will be based on the decisions you make for your path and your journey. God Speed and stay positive no matter what. Cheers !
Hello Tristyn,
You have asked a very broad question that many people struggle with, including myself. I sincerely believe that you will be able to figure out what you want to do during your journey of life. I recommend you look for jobs that you will enjoy doing. When I worked at NASA, I worked 6 and 7 days a week but I loved my job so it was not work to me and I learned how to do so many different things. I went door-knocking at NASA and asked - what jobs are available here that I can do? And I found a great job in their operations department that I was really NOT suited for but since there was a serious shortage of workers and the operations manager wanted somebody immediately, they hired me because I filled out an application and told them - I am ready to go to work today. I spent 10 years there and 9 of them were enjoyable, the last year was horrible, and they let me go which was a huge favor to me. They treated me really bad, and it forced me to get out of my comfort zone “AGAIN” and find another job that could utilize my skills. I have had multiple jobs in my career that gave me a lot of different skills because they forced me to get out of my comfort zone and learn how to do a lot of different things. Getting out of your comfort zone is not a lot of fun but necessary for continued personal growth.
When I was 16, I asked my dad to help me get a job and he told me that nobody gave him any jobs and that he had to go out and find his own jobs. And he told me – nobody is coming to your house to hire you; you have to go out and find your job. I was very disappointed, I was forced to go out looking for a job and was not sure where, so I went to a lot of places, and I got a lot of NO’s when I asked if there were any jobs I could do. I taught myself how to look for a job. And because I went out looking, I found the best job on the entire planet for me at the Six Bar Ranch. They taught me how to drive tractors, work cattle, and be a farmer. I loved that job, and I gladly worked every day they let me work. Later I left that job because working in construction paid me triple what the farmer was paying me and I was used to working hard. So, I made more money working fewer hours and most of all I learned how to look for a better job when I needed to, which is something I have done all my life. I had to get out of my comfort zone to find something better.
Being “LOST” is temporary and I have been lost multiple times in my life until I figured out which way I wanted to go. I recommend you learn the Serenity Prayer; this prayer has carried me during some really, really, really hard times in my life. I lost my home after Hurricane Ike and it was really hard on me and my family and I learned that all material things can be replaced.
Being CONFUSED is a temporary description of your choice because you don't have a final answer that you agree with yet. This is very common, and I learned how to not fear the unknown. Every day I choose to be happy and be positive no matter what happens. This is a daily quest for me and some days it is not easy at all to stay positive, but I do it. I have been a lifelong student and I learned how to teach myself how to do a lot of different things and I learned how to network and work with groups that taught me a lot of different things. I recommend you get out of your comfort zone and try new things. You will find out what you enjoy doing.
I recommend you join groups and clubs that will help learn how to do different things. You will meet like-minded people that will help you find things you enjoy doing. I learned a lot by working with people who were very good at doing things and they helped teach me or I modeled my actions after watching them and I developed my own methods using what I watched and learned from others. I joined Engineers without Borders and I was invited to go build a school house in Nicaragua. It was really hard and we slept on a concrete floor. The school teacher came to thank us and she cried because she was so happy to have a real school house for her kids. I was very glad I changed my work schedule and used my vacation time to go.
I recommend you make a gratitude list and be grateful for what you have today, i.e., good health, a home, the ability to go to school, and most of all, the ability to build your future. Then make a wish list, where you want to go and what you do you want to do. Life is a journey and a marathon, and the good days will outnumber the hard days. The hard days will make you grow and teach you valuable lessons. The harder you work when you are younger will help make the future easier. I learn from my mistakes, and I have many so many I stopped counting. The mistakes I made led to my job at NASA after I got fired from a job, I took that was way over my head and the owner had no patience for me to learn.
Also, I recommend you find ways to boost your confidence. This is not an easy task, and everybody has different ways to do this. I joined Toastmasters International and for $10/month I attended weekly meetings, and I lost my fear of public speaking. I loved the camaraderie of the group, and they helped me grow and my growth helped me become a lot more confident. I am able to work as an Independent consultant now and it is very hard but I am not scared of working hard anymore and most of all I have learned how to deal with clients, co-workers, and the general public. Not everybody likes me and I learned how to be OK with that and just move on and be a good person no matter what happens. Being at Peace with yourself is very, very important for happiness. I learned how to meditate, and it helped me tremendously to keep my inner peace. I recommend you watch Mindvalley you tube videos for ideas about meditation. The founder named Vishen Lahkiani has an incredible story of his journey of living with his parents and then creating Mindvalley to help others.
Tristyn, you will be successful no matter what happens, I promise you that. How successful you want to be, will be based on the decisions you make for your path and your journey. God Speed and stay positive no matter what. Cheers !
Michelle Bharmal
Staffing
4
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Ellicott City, Maryland
Updated
Michelle’s Answer
Understanding what you want to become when you mature can often be a challenging task. It's crucial to devote time to explore a wide range of opportunities, as each one presents a chance for learning and personal growth. The skills you acquire are usually adaptable to various situations. For instance, my previous experience as a staffing specialist in a public school system has proven useful in my current role in human resources, where I assign staff to projects.
My passion for reading has opened doors for me to connect and network with individuals in ways I hadn't previously considered when I viewed reading merely as a pastime. Being part of a large organization can also be beneficial, as it provides exposure to diverse operational areas. By continually enhancing your skills and networking, you can always shift your career path or focus based on your evolving interests.
My passion for reading has opened doors for me to connect and network with individuals in ways I hadn't previously considered when I viewed reading merely as a pastime. Being part of a large organization can also be beneficial, as it provides exposure to diverse operational areas. By continually enhancing your skills and networking, you can always shift your career path or focus based on your evolving interests.
Peter Casey
1
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Hackensack, New Jersey
Updated
Peter’s Answer
Dear Tristyn,
I understand that pondering your life's path can feel daunting, as it did for me. However, I encourage you to explore as many avenues as possible until you discover a passion that not only brings you joy but also financially supports you. Remember, it's perfectly fine if your interests evolve over time - change is a part of life, influenced by personal growth and varying circumstances. I've had the privilege of being with the same company for 28 years, but my role has transformed multiple times throughout this journey. Embrace the adventure and best of luck!
I understand that pondering your life's path can feel daunting, as it did for me. However, I encourage you to explore as many avenues as possible until you discover a passion that not only brings you joy but also financially supports you. Remember, it's perfectly fine if your interests evolve over time - change is a part of life, influenced by personal growth and varying circumstances. I've had the privilege of being with the same company for 28 years, but my role has transformed multiple times throughout this journey. Embrace the adventure and best of luck!
Marc Borggreven
Human Capital
4
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Vianen, Netherlands
Updated
Marc’s Answer
Life/career is a journey with many unexpected turns. Try to focus on the things that give you energy and that has your interest. Then give it your best shot and be open to learn and make mistakes (not the same by the way ;-). Actually at times you feel most out of your comfort zone these might be the moments you grow/develop the most. Once every while reflect in a honest way and determine what is next. Dream big, read, learn and get other perspectives. And above all - enjoy and have fun!
Lorin Bruns
Marketing and Communications
3
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Salt Lake City, Utah
Updated
Lorin’s Answer
I would say to remain flexible. My dream job in my 20s is much different than my 30s.
Whenever you have interests – explore!! Volunteer and meet people! Your career is a contact sport and requires exposure to many ways of thinking.
Whenever you have interests – explore!! Volunteer and meet people! Your career is a contact sport and requires exposure to many ways of thinking.
Mma Afoaku
Management Consultant
2
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New York, New York
Updated
Mma’s Answer
Hey Tristyn,
Remember, you're not alone in this journey of self-discovery and career exploration. It's perfectly normal to have these questions at various stages of life. As you experiment with different paths and understand yourself better, your career aspirations can evolve. Here are a few questions to help guide your thought process:
1. What activities bring me joy?
2. What tasks do I dislike?
3. What are my strengths? - Feel free to seek input from friends and family, as we often overlook or underestimate our own abilities.
4. Who is already doing what I'm curious about? What was their journey like? - You can reach out to individuals in your field of interest to gain insights into their experiences (for example, you can use your school's career services to connect with alumni, or LinkedIn to send a brief message to professionals you'd like to learn from and request a short, 15-minute chat)
As you compile these insights, they can serve as a foundation for your personal career plan. Remember, it's completely normal to change your mind as you grow and learn. Trust in your journey and continue to explore what feels right for you. Even the most ideal job will have its highs and lows, but finding work you truly love can make the challenging days more bearable and the good days even more rewarding.
You're already doing great, you've got this!
Remember, you're not alone in this journey of self-discovery and career exploration. It's perfectly normal to have these questions at various stages of life. As you experiment with different paths and understand yourself better, your career aspirations can evolve. Here are a few questions to help guide your thought process:
1. What activities bring me joy?
2. What tasks do I dislike?
3. What are my strengths? - Feel free to seek input from friends and family, as we often overlook or underestimate our own abilities.
4. Who is already doing what I'm curious about? What was their journey like? - You can reach out to individuals in your field of interest to gain insights into their experiences (for example, you can use your school's career services to connect with alumni, or LinkedIn to send a brief message to professionals you'd like to learn from and request a short, 15-minute chat)
As you compile these insights, they can serve as a foundation for your personal career plan. Remember, it's completely normal to change your mind as you grow and learn. Trust in your journey and continue to explore what feels right for you. Even the most ideal job will have its highs and lows, but finding work you truly love can make the challenging days more bearable and the good days even more rewarding.
You're already doing great, you've got this!
Joseph Gale
Management Consultancy
3
Answers
New York, New York
Updated
Joseph’s Answer
Don’t worry about working out what career path you want in 10/20 years time as the whole landscape of jobs will change and so will you!
For now just do something that you think is interesting, that enables you to learn skills that are transferable and that enable you to do something you believe is meaningful. From there things will work out and your career path will carve itself out
For now just do something that you think is interesting, that enables you to learn skills that are transferable and that enable you to do something you believe is meaningful. From there things will work out and your career path will carve itself out
Claire Hartman
Consulting
2
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New York, New York
Updated
Claire’s Answer
Hello Tristyn!
Figuring out what you want to do in life can be challenging, but that's what makes it thrilling! We all have the potential to explore various paths in life. I've seen individuals make significant career transitions, like moving from finance to therapy, and minor ones, like changing roles within the same organization. It's crucial to take that first step and decide where you want to kick-start your career, bearing in mind that it's perfectly fine if this changes over time. If you achieved all your career aspirations in your initial job, then your career journey wouldn't be as exhilarating. Rather than worrying about the future, I prefer to shift my perspective and embrace the excitement of the multitude of opportunities and paths available globally.
Have fun designing your unique career journey!
Figuring out what you want to do in life can be challenging, but that's what makes it thrilling! We all have the potential to explore various paths in life. I've seen individuals make significant career transitions, like moving from finance to therapy, and minor ones, like changing roles within the same organization. It's crucial to take that first step and decide where you want to kick-start your career, bearing in mind that it's perfectly fine if this changes over time. If you achieved all your career aspirations in your initial job, then your career journey wouldn't be as exhilarating. Rather than worrying about the future, I prefer to shift my perspective and embrace the excitement of the multitude of opportunities and paths available globally.
Have fun designing your unique career journey!
Keyston Rice
Supervisor
180
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Lawrence, IN
Updated
Keyston’s Answer
I get it, feeling lost is tough. Even without college, I found my way by staying open to new opportunities. You might not have all the answers now, but be willing to explore different paths. If you ever want a change, don't be afraid to take a chance – life's full of surprises.
Samuel Vojtech
Medical Assistant
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Albuquerque, New Mexico
Updated
Samuel’s Answer
It is ok to not know what to do with the rest of your life. It is also ok to be confused. Happiness is far from guaranteed but know that we are each responsible for happiness; our own especially. Be attentive of your self; if you don't like your job or career. I have never seen it written in stone that one must pick one career & do that till you die. True, some would say this... it has been said to me. However, I chose a couple careers which were related & at 38 I left that all & went back to school for an entirely different field. Even now I am still lost & confused. However, I'm going to close my eyes, smile, open my eyes & keep going.
Try new things. How will you know what you like if you keep doing the same thing?
Be mindful of how you feel about what you just did.
Get comfortable being uncomfortable - this makes the comfort, when it eventually comes, all the more sweeter.
Breathe And Move On. Moving on is hard but if you breathe, the first step is done.
Samuel recommends the following next steps:
Mohit Goyal
Software Engineer
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Gurugram, Haryana, India
Updated
Mohit’s Answer
You can confidently make plans based on your current interests.
The future is an unknown territory, and it's uncertain if your current passions will continue to intrigue you in the years to come. As you journey through life, you'll unearth new fascinations. If a particular profession doesn't align with your desires, always remember, you hold the power to redirect your career trajectory.
But, it's crucial to keep in mind that change isn't always a breeze. As time passes, you may encounter various hurdles that could pose a challenge to your plans of change. However, don't let this discourage you - perseverance is your strongest companion in these circumstances.
And who can tell? You may just encounter some incredible opportunities that make the transition even more rewarding.
The future is an unknown territory, and it's uncertain if your current passions will continue to intrigue you in the years to come. As you journey through life, you'll unearth new fascinations. If a particular profession doesn't align with your desires, always remember, you hold the power to redirect your career trajectory.
But, it's crucial to keep in mind that change isn't always a breeze. As time passes, you may encounter various hurdles that could pose a challenge to your plans of change. However, don't let this discourage you - perseverance is your strongest companion in these circumstances.
And who can tell? You may just encounter some incredible opportunities that make the transition even more rewarding.
Susan Shinn
Interior Designer
1
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Lakewood, Colorado
Updated
Susan’s Answer
Most people don’t end up doing what they go to school for. If I could go back in time, I’d wait until I knew what I wanted to do before getting a whole degree for something I wasn’t sure about. I got a bachelors and then went back to school a couple years later to get a degree in something completely else. It doesn’t make sense for a 17 year old to know what they want to do for the rest of their life, so what you’re feeling is normal. My husband changed careers three times. You will figure it out. My advice would be to get a job out of high school you can make good money. You can get a serving job at Disney and make really good money while you take some classes slowly until you figure out what you want to do. Just don’t go into student loan debt for something that isn’t certain. You can retire early… you have to start investing your money into index funds immediately at 18 and you can retire by 35. Look up the FIRE movement and join the Facebook groups.
Sarah Reyes
Advanced Student Support Specialist
6
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Phoenix, Arizona
Updated
Sarah’s Answer
It's perfectly okay if you're uncertain about your future career path. Remember, you're not alone in feeling this way! Many of us, even as adults, grapple with the same uncertainties. My personal journey took me from aspiring to be a pastry chef in college, to spending 8 years as a children's librarian, and finally landing in the field of education technology in finance. At each stage, I had no inkling that I would end up in these diverse fields, and that's perfectly fine. Career shifts are a normal part of life. The beauty of the working world is that it offers a plethora of opportunities in every imaginable field!
Here's a piece of advice: pursue what you love. Your college major doesn't have to determine your lifelong career. In fact, many people end up working in fields unrelated to their initial college majors.
Embrace life as it unfolds, and let your passions guide your journey. If there are degrees that complement your interests, fantastic! If you're still unsure, consider taking courses that develop universal skills. Courses that enhance public speaking and leadership abilities can be a great starting point. These skills will serve you well, no matter where your journey takes you in life!
Here's a piece of advice: pursue what you love. Your college major doesn't have to determine your lifelong career. In fact, many people end up working in fields unrelated to their initial college majors.
Embrace life as it unfolds, and let your passions guide your journey. If there are degrees that complement your interests, fantastic! If you're still unsure, consider taking courses that develop universal skills. Courses that enhance public speaking and leadership abilities can be a great starting point. These skills will serve you well, no matter where your journey takes you in life!
James Kang
Management Consultant
4
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New York, New York
Updated
James’s Answer
Hello Trystin,
Firstly, I want you to pause, inhale deeply, and find solace in the realization that you're not required to have all the answers immediately. Remember, this is your unique journey, and whether it takes a few job experiences or even hundreds to discover your true calling, there's absolutely no need to worry. I wholeheartedly encourage you to continue your exploration with an open mind and heart.
In the early stages of my career, one strategy I found particularly beneficial was engaging in conversations with professionals already active in the field or subject area I was curious about. Understanding their day-to-day activities and responsibilities provided me with invaluable insights. I strongly recommend you try this approach as well.
Firstly, I want you to pause, inhale deeply, and find solace in the realization that you're not required to have all the answers immediately. Remember, this is your unique journey, and whether it takes a few job experiences or even hundreds to discover your true calling, there's absolutely no need to worry. I wholeheartedly encourage you to continue your exploration with an open mind and heart.
In the early stages of my career, one strategy I found particularly beneficial was engaging in conversations with professionals already active in the field or subject area I was curious about. Understanding their day-to-day activities and responsibilities provided me with invaluable insights. I strongly recommend you try this approach as well.
John D
Software Engineer
4
Answers
Hellertown, Pennsylvania
Updated
John’s Answer
Hi Tristyn,
Your questions are excellent, and I'm more than happy to share my honest thoughts based on my personal journey.
You're wondering how you can possibly know what you want to do for the rest of your life. Well, here's the simple truth - it's perfectly fine if you don't know.
Life is an unpredictable journey. My own path has been far from traditional, and yet, I've landed in a pretty good spot. If I could time travel back 15 or even 10 years, I would never have guessed I'd be where I am today. It wasn't until later in life that I began to form an idea of what I thought I wanted my future to look like. Today, I'm doing exactly what I love, but years ago, I was convinced that my previous job was my forever career. The truth is, we all evolve, our interests shift, and that might lead to a change in career. And guess what? That's perfectly fine. Nobody expects you to have your entire life figured out. It's a long journey. It's great to have long-term goals, but it's also okay if you don't hit them all. Start with something you enjoy and see where it leads you.
Will you ever get tired of your job? Honestly, there might be days when you do, but that's not a problem.
The key is to find a job that brings you joy more often than not. Everyone has off days at work, and that's completely normal. Look for a job where you believe the good days will outnumber the bad ones. This is where your personal interests come in handy. Find something you love, and you'll find that the old saying is true: "If you love what you do, you'll never work a day in your life."
Wondering if you might want to change careers someday? That's a possibility, and it's okay. However, I recommend giving it serious thought and looking for a career that addresses the reasons you want to leave your current one.
I've had a variety of jobs in my life, from being a roller rink referee and ice cream shop employee to working in a restaurant and now being a software developer. Career changes are normal, and what helps is acquiring skills that can be applied in different roles. I changed jobs due to my life circumstances and location, but people switch careers for all sorts of personal and professional reasons. It's a common occurrence. Learn as much as you can in your current job and carry those skills over to your next role to continue growing. Every job I've had, no matter how different, has contributed to my current career as a software developer. For instance, working at the roller rink taught me that there are many ways to communicate the same message to different people. This skill has been invaluable in my role as a developer, where I often have to explain how a feature should be designed.
Feeling lost and confused? That's perfectly normal. Take things one step at a time, and you'll find your way. You might encounter some hurdles or discover things that aren't quite right for you, but it's essential to give it your best shot regardless. You'll eventually find something you love and want to do for the rest of your life. And if that changes, you might discover something else you love just as much.
Your questions are excellent, and I'm more than happy to share my honest thoughts based on my personal journey.
You're wondering how you can possibly know what you want to do for the rest of your life. Well, here's the simple truth - it's perfectly fine if you don't know.
Life is an unpredictable journey. My own path has been far from traditional, and yet, I've landed in a pretty good spot. If I could time travel back 15 or even 10 years, I would never have guessed I'd be where I am today. It wasn't until later in life that I began to form an idea of what I thought I wanted my future to look like. Today, I'm doing exactly what I love, but years ago, I was convinced that my previous job was my forever career. The truth is, we all evolve, our interests shift, and that might lead to a change in career. And guess what? That's perfectly fine. Nobody expects you to have your entire life figured out. It's a long journey. It's great to have long-term goals, but it's also okay if you don't hit them all. Start with something you enjoy and see where it leads you.
Will you ever get tired of your job? Honestly, there might be days when you do, but that's not a problem.
The key is to find a job that brings you joy more often than not. Everyone has off days at work, and that's completely normal. Look for a job where you believe the good days will outnumber the bad ones. This is where your personal interests come in handy. Find something you love, and you'll find that the old saying is true: "If you love what you do, you'll never work a day in your life."
Wondering if you might want to change careers someday? That's a possibility, and it's okay. However, I recommend giving it serious thought and looking for a career that addresses the reasons you want to leave your current one.
I've had a variety of jobs in my life, from being a roller rink referee and ice cream shop employee to working in a restaurant and now being a software developer. Career changes are normal, and what helps is acquiring skills that can be applied in different roles. I changed jobs due to my life circumstances and location, but people switch careers for all sorts of personal and professional reasons. It's a common occurrence. Learn as much as you can in your current job and carry those skills over to your next role to continue growing. Every job I've had, no matter how different, has contributed to my current career as a software developer. For instance, working at the roller rink taught me that there are many ways to communicate the same message to different people. This skill has been invaluable in my role as a developer, where I often have to explain how a feature should be designed.
Feeling lost and confused? That's perfectly normal. Take things one step at a time, and you'll find your way. You might encounter some hurdles or discover things that aren't quite right for you, but it's essential to give it your best shot regardless. You'll eventually find something you love and want to do for the rest of your life. And if that changes, you might discover something else you love just as much.
Stephanie Taylor
Consulting
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Columbia, South Carolina
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Stephanie’s Answer
You absolutely do not have to know what you want to do with the rest of your life, especially while you are still in school. Some days, I still don't know what I want to do with the rest of my life and I've been out of college for over a decade. My recommendation while you are in school is to try different things and see what you like. While you are in school, if you are unsure direction, I recommend studying something that is versatile across a lot of industries, like business management, money management, or something in technology--something that would help you whether you go to work for a company or decide to start your own. I did not know what I wanted to do, even when I graduated college, but I'm thankful that my family steered me towards a business degree that gave me a lot of options when I graduated.
Also, if you have the opportunity, speak with people you know that are in the work world to find out more about what they do for a living, and their likes and dislikes of the work. Work on building your network--I've found that having a network can be just as important as experience in some cases.
If you do end up in a career that you don't like, you can always try change careers and find something new--it may not be easy, but people do it all the time. Don't feel like you are bound into one thing for the rest of your life. We are constantly learning and growing and our careers reflect that.
I wish you all the best in the future and please don't stress too much about your future career! Work hard in school, but also enjoy being young and spending time with your family and friends while you are still young!
Also, if you have the opportunity, speak with people you know that are in the work world to find out more about what they do for a living, and their likes and dislikes of the work. Work on building your network--I've found that having a network can be just as important as experience in some cases.
If you do end up in a career that you don't like, you can always try change careers and find something new--it may not be easy, but people do it all the time. Don't feel like you are bound into one thing for the rest of your life. We are constantly learning and growing and our careers reflect that.
I wish you all the best in the future and please don't stress too much about your future career! Work hard in school, but also enjoy being young and spending time with your family and friends while you are still young!
Joseph Udofia
Cloud Engineer
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Greensboro, North Carolina
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Joseph’s Answer
Choosing a career path can be challenging. There may be times when you find yourself torn between pursuing what you love, chasing a lucrative career, or aligning with your long-term vision.
To navigate this, consider segmenting your life into short, medium, and long-term objectives. Identify what suits you best, what you aspire to accomplish, and then shift towards a career that matches your vision. Remember, it's perfectly fine to stumble and make errors, as they are vital stepping stones in our learning journey.
To navigate this, consider segmenting your life into short, medium, and long-term objectives. Identify what suits you best, what you aspire to accomplish, and then shift towards a career that matches your vision. Remember, it's perfectly fine to stumble and make errors, as they are vital stepping stones in our learning journey.
Janet Robbins
Administrative Support Concierge Manager at PricewaterhouseCoopers
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Janet’s Answer
If you don't know what to do with the rest of your life that is fine. You are not alone! This happens a lot. If you are not going to school for a specific career my suggestion would be to just try things out. Often times you will change careers over time. You might start off in an entry level role and will find another area of that company you might want to do. So if a position becomes available go for it! I started in an entry level job doing data entry. I moved up and changed careers with that position. I went into another data entry job that led me into a career in Real Estate as an appraiser. From there I went into sales and then into management. Sometimes life just moves your career along. It's okay. Maybe there will be a point that you have to get a license or go to school for something you find an interest in - such as my appraiser license. But that's okay because that's how you grow. Find jobs that you can gain skills, office skills, digital skills, customer skills, etc. Everything you learn helps you grow for your next role. Honestly, I love learning. I'm 57 and would change my career again if I had an interest in a new role. Don't be afraid to just go for it!
Florencia Maceratini
Executive Support Team Supervisor
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Buenos Aires, Argentina
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Florencia’s Answer
You do not need to know. Let me go one step forward. You can change what you want to do for the rest of your life, and that is OK too. What we like evolves with our growth, our experiences, our circumstances and opportunities. Our careers are not a straight line that goes from A to B. We might want or need to shift to a completely different path. You might find your passion early on, or it might take a while. Chasing our dreams is scary and it is a life-long task. Remember to breath, to picture yourself doing what you are about to chose. Sometimes it helps to picture yourself in different scenarios (nice and not so nice ones) and check if you feel OK in them.
Annette Ramirez
Executive Assistant
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Tampa, Florida
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Annette’s Answer
Hi! Great news, you don’t have to know! My best advice is to list your “natural strengths.” What were you gifted with? What would you enjoy doing just for fun and how can you align a job with those strengths? Once you have an idea, study that in college or get the certification/knowledge you need to pursue that. One step at a time. Also, realize as life changes, your career may too and that is absolutely okay (and can even be refreshing)! You don’t have to do the same thing forever. You will change & your life demands will as well. Naturally, your career can change too. For now, identify your strengths so you can do what you love & love what you do for now.
Abhishek Jain
Consulting
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Ahmedabad, Gujarat, India
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Abhishek’s Answer
It's completely normal to feel lost and confused about your future career path, especially as a student. Many people go through periods of uncertainty and questioning. Here are some suggestions to help you navigate this process:
1. Self-Reflection: Take time to reflect on your interests, values, and strengths. Consider what activities or subjects you enjoy, what motivates you, and what you excel at. This self-awareness can provide insights into potential career paths that align with your passions and skills.
2. Explore Your Options: Research different careers and industries that spark your curiosity. Look into job descriptions, required qualifications, and potential growth opportunities. Consider talking to professionals in those fields or seeking out internships or job shadowing experiences to gain firsthand exposure.
3. Try New Things: Don't be afraid to try new activities, courses, or hobbies. Exploring different areas can help you discover new interests and passions. Take advantage of the resources and opportunities available to you, such as clubs, workshops, or volunteer work.
4. Seek Guidance: Reach out to career counselors, mentors, or professionals in fields you are interested in. They can provide valuable insights, advice, and guidance based on their own experiences. They may also help you explore different career options and provide clarity.
5. Embrace Change: It's important to remember that career paths are not set in stone. It's okay to change careers or pursue different paths throughout your life. People often evolve and grow, and their interests and priorities may shift over time. Embrace the idea that change is a natural part of life and be open to exploring new opportunities.
6. Continuous Learning: Keep learning and developing new skills. This can help you adapt to changing career landscapes and open up new possibilities. Take advantage of online courses, workshops, or certifications to enhance your knowledge and stay competitive.
7. Trust the Process: Remember that finding your career path is a journey, and it may take time to figure out what truly resonates with you. Be patient with yourself and trust that with exploration, self-reflection, and experience, you will gain clarity and find a fulfilling career.
It's important to note that it's normal to experience ups and downs in any job or career. It's possible to get tired or bored with a particular job, but that doesn't mean you have to stay stuck. If you find yourself wanting to change careers, it's never too late to make a switch. Many people successfully transition to new careers later in life.
Ultimately, the most important thing is to pursue a career that aligns with your passions, values, and interests. Keep exploring, stay open-minded, and trust yourself as you navigate your career journey.
1. Self-Reflection: Take time to reflect on your interests, values, and strengths. Consider what activities or subjects you enjoy, what motivates you, and what you excel at. This self-awareness can provide insights into potential career paths that align with your passions and skills.
2. Explore Your Options: Research different careers and industries that spark your curiosity. Look into job descriptions, required qualifications, and potential growth opportunities. Consider talking to professionals in those fields or seeking out internships or job shadowing experiences to gain firsthand exposure.
3. Try New Things: Don't be afraid to try new activities, courses, or hobbies. Exploring different areas can help you discover new interests and passions. Take advantage of the resources and opportunities available to you, such as clubs, workshops, or volunteer work.
4. Seek Guidance: Reach out to career counselors, mentors, or professionals in fields you are interested in. They can provide valuable insights, advice, and guidance based on their own experiences. They may also help you explore different career options and provide clarity.
5. Embrace Change: It's important to remember that career paths are not set in stone. It's okay to change careers or pursue different paths throughout your life. People often evolve and grow, and their interests and priorities may shift over time. Embrace the idea that change is a natural part of life and be open to exploring new opportunities.
6. Continuous Learning: Keep learning and developing new skills. This can help you adapt to changing career landscapes and open up new possibilities. Take advantage of online courses, workshops, or certifications to enhance your knowledge and stay competitive.
7. Trust the Process: Remember that finding your career path is a journey, and it may take time to figure out what truly resonates with you. Be patient with yourself and trust that with exploration, self-reflection, and experience, you will gain clarity and find a fulfilling career.
It's important to note that it's normal to experience ups and downs in any job or career. It's possible to get tired or bored with a particular job, but that doesn't mean you have to stay stuck. If you find yourself wanting to change careers, it's never too late to make a switch. Many people successfully transition to new careers later in life.
Ultimately, the most important thing is to pursue a career that aligns with your passions, values, and interests. Keep exploring, stay open-minded, and trust yourself as you navigate your career journey.
Dwayna Adams
Internal Audit
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Tampa, Florida
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Dwayna’s Answer
Hey Trystin, take a deep breath! Remember, you're not setting a course for your entire life, but planning for the next five years. As you evolve and mature, your passions will likely shift too. And that's okay! Your career can adapt and grow with you. Embrace the change and eagerly anticipate the next thrilling chapter. I've journeyed through two careers myself and found joy in both. You've got this!
May Christy
Digital Assurance and Transparancy
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Salt Lake City, Utah
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May’s Answer
Finding your life's purpose isn't always a clear-cut journey, and I truly wish there was a simple test to help guide us. But life doesn't always work that way. It's crucial to remember that your dreams and goals can evolve over time. For me, my primary focus was always to provide for my family and ensure they live a comfortable life, regardless of my career choice.
I've been fortunate to have a job that gave me a sense of purpose, even though it had its fair share of frustrating moments. It's a universal truth that every job has its highs and lows. My heartfelt advice to you is to find joy in your current stage of life. Pursue what brings you happiness and fulfillment in the present moment. If your desires change in the future, you'll at least have the comfort of knowing you were content in the past.
During my college years, I was constantly worried about failing my courses, which caused a lot of stress. I wish I had been kinder to myself and found more ways to enjoy the college experience. Now that I've graduated, I look back and see many missed opportunities for happiness. I studied in Oahu, Hawaii, and I regret not fully appreciating the sunshine, beaches, and the island's beauty.
So, choose happiness now and pay attention to what truly fulfills you.
I've been fortunate to have a job that gave me a sense of purpose, even though it had its fair share of frustrating moments. It's a universal truth that every job has its highs and lows. My heartfelt advice to you is to find joy in your current stage of life. Pursue what brings you happiness and fulfillment in the present moment. If your desires change in the future, you'll at least have the comfort of knowing you were content in the past.
During my college years, I was constantly worried about failing my courses, which caused a lot of stress. I wish I had been kinder to myself and found more ways to enjoy the college experience. Now that I've graduated, I look back and see many missed opportunities for happiness. I studied in Oahu, Hawaii, and I regret not fully appreciating the sunshine, beaches, and the island's beauty.
So, choose happiness now and pay attention to what truly fulfills you.
Kasey McMahon
Manager
12
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Saint Petersburg, Florida
Updated
Kasey’s Answer
Hi there,
Feeling uncertain about your future after school is absolutely okay. Indeed, it's quite common for the path you initially thought you'd follow to shift over time. That's why it's essential to stay flexible and open to new possibilities! My key suggestion for you is to avoid becoming too settled in a role that doesn't bring you fulfillment.
Feeling uncertain about your future after school is absolutely okay. Indeed, it's quite common for the path you initially thought you'd follow to shift over time. That's why it's essential to stay flexible and open to new possibilities! My key suggestion for you is to avoid becoming too settled in a role that doesn't bring you fulfillment.
Precious Klinogo
Consulting
3
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Glen Burnie, Maryland
Updated
Precious’s Answer
Hi Tristyn, this is a great question.
Knowing what you want to do with the rest of your life can be a challenging and complex question. It's important to remember that it's okay to not have all the answers right away. Here are some steps you can take to help you gain clarity and make informed decisions:
- Explore your interests and passions: Take the time to reflect on what truly excites and motivates you. Consider the activities or subjects that you enjoy and find fulfilling. Think about what brings you joy and a sense of purpose.
- Reflect on your values and goals: Identify your core values and what matters most to you. Think about the kind of impact you want to make in the world and the goals you want to achieve. Aligning your career choices with your values and goals can bring a sense of fulfillment and satisfaction.
- Seek guidance from mentors or career counselors: Reach out to people who have experience in fields that interest you. Seek their advice and insights on different career paths. Career counselors can also provide valuable guidance and resources to help you explore your options and make informed decisions.
- Try different experiences: Don't be afraid to try new things and step out of your comfort zone. Take up internships, part-time jobs, or volunteer opportunities in fields that interest you. This hands-on experience can give you a better understanding of what you enjoy and what you don't.
- Reflect on your strengths and skills: Consider your natural talents and skills. Think about the activities that come easily to you and the ones you excel at. Identifying your strengths can help you find a career path that aligns with your abilities and allows you to thrive.
- Trust your instincts and follow your heart: Sometimes, your intuition can guide you towards the right path. Pay attention to your gut feelings and listen to what your heart is telling you. Trust yourself and have confidence in your ability to make decisions that are right for you.
Remember, finding your passion and purpose is a journey that may involve trial and error. It's okay to explore different paths and make changes along the way. Be patient with yourself and embrace the process of self-discovery.
Knowing what you want to do with the rest of your life can be a challenging and complex question. It's important to remember that it's okay to not have all the answers right away. Here are some steps you can take to help you gain clarity and make informed decisions:
- Explore your interests and passions: Take the time to reflect on what truly excites and motivates you. Consider the activities or subjects that you enjoy and find fulfilling. Think about what brings you joy and a sense of purpose.
- Reflect on your values and goals: Identify your core values and what matters most to you. Think about the kind of impact you want to make in the world and the goals you want to achieve. Aligning your career choices with your values and goals can bring a sense of fulfillment and satisfaction.
- Seek guidance from mentors or career counselors: Reach out to people who have experience in fields that interest you. Seek their advice and insights on different career paths. Career counselors can also provide valuable guidance and resources to help you explore your options and make informed decisions.
- Try different experiences: Don't be afraid to try new things and step out of your comfort zone. Take up internships, part-time jobs, or volunteer opportunities in fields that interest you. This hands-on experience can give you a better understanding of what you enjoy and what you don't.
- Reflect on your strengths and skills: Consider your natural talents and skills. Think about the activities that come easily to you and the ones you excel at. Identifying your strengths can help you find a career path that aligns with your abilities and allows you to thrive.
- Trust your instincts and follow your heart: Sometimes, your intuition can guide you towards the right path. Pay attention to your gut feelings and listen to what your heart is telling you. Trust yourself and have confidence in your ability to make decisions that are right for you.
Remember, finding your passion and purpose is a journey that may involve trial and error. It's okay to explore different paths and make changes along the way. Be patient with yourself and embrace the process of self-discovery.
Ofemi Brown-Harris
Purpose and Inclusion
3
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New York, New York
Updated
Ofemi’s Answer
It's totally normal to feel a bit lost or unsure about your career path - lots of people feel the same way. Don't worry if you don't have all the answers straight away, no one expects you to. Finding the perfect career is a journey that takes a bit of time and exploration. Have faith in yourself and your skills, and always remember, it's never too late to chase your passions and dreams.
Explore on Access Your Potential’s site potential career opportunities like internships and paid consulting externships for nonprofits.
http://accessyourpotential.pwc.com/.
Self-Reflection: Understand your interests, values, and strengths.
Explore Options: Research different careers and try new experiences.
Set Goals: Establish short-term and long-term career objectives.
Seek Guidance: Talk to mentors or career counselors for advice.
Embrace Change: Be open to new opportunities and paths.
Explore on Access Your Potential’s site potential career opportunities like internships and paid consulting externships for nonprofits.
http://accessyourpotential.pwc.com/.
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