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Ken
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As an infj, what can I do?
As an infj, what can I do?
As an infj, what can I do?
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Michelle M.
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Hello, Ken !
It sounds like this may be a great time for you to begin exploring various career interests and coming up with something you'll really love doing ! Start exploring and you will be able to decide what career is best for you.
Since you've described yourself as INFJ, it's apparent that you think your personality should guide a career choice. That is not the case most times, for most people. You have to concentrate on what activity and work you enjoy doing. There are so many various personalities in every career, so do not lean on that as a factor. Once you start doing volunteer work or go to college, you will see this for yourself. The INFJ traits can be fine for almost any career. So once you can come to terms with that, you'll know that you can pursue any career that you set your mind to. Advice: try not to label yourself because we all have, at some time or another, a bit of INFJ in all of us. Nothing is wrong with that. It shouldn't be a barrier.
Instead of thinking about careers right now, get lived experiences to test your interests and abilities. While in High School, join extracurriculars and groups connected with Art, Writing, Reading Groups, Computer Science and any others that you think you'd like. Be "active" at your own pace. It's the only way to discover where your interests are and what you easily connect to.
It sometimes takes people a while to be inspired or discover their future career, so try not to feel obligated, pressured or in a rush to have a career interest. Volunteer work outside of school is another way to test the waters, too. Volunteering at a community or social service, working around animals in a shelter, becoming active with local art galleries or theatres in a voluntary capacity. There are so many places to volunteer at and learn a broad spectrum of what's out there to give you a choice.
The more you interact with others, the less self conscious you will become and not put yourself in a category. The human experience is complex and I believe that we should be happy about who we are and stay away from social labels that seem trendy. We're all just people, each and every one of us different. There's nothing odd about that.
So my advice is that you may need to increase your socialization, but nothing too extravagant, lean on the things you love to do and things and people that you like being around. Self discovery is a process and we all do it at a different pace, so think positive and start discovering all the wonderful things that you can do.
I hope this helps and I wish you all the best !
It sounds like this may be a great time for you to begin exploring various career interests and coming up with something you'll really love doing ! Start exploring and you will be able to decide what career is best for you.
Since you've described yourself as INFJ, it's apparent that you think your personality should guide a career choice. That is not the case most times, for most people. You have to concentrate on what activity and work you enjoy doing. There are so many various personalities in every career, so do not lean on that as a factor. Once you start doing volunteer work or go to college, you will see this for yourself. The INFJ traits can be fine for almost any career. So once you can come to terms with that, you'll know that you can pursue any career that you set your mind to. Advice: try not to label yourself because we all have, at some time or another, a bit of INFJ in all of us. Nothing is wrong with that. It shouldn't be a barrier.
Instead of thinking about careers right now, get lived experiences to test your interests and abilities. While in High School, join extracurriculars and groups connected with Art, Writing, Reading Groups, Computer Science and any others that you think you'd like. Be "active" at your own pace. It's the only way to discover where your interests are and what you easily connect to.
It sometimes takes people a while to be inspired or discover their future career, so try not to feel obligated, pressured or in a rush to have a career interest. Volunteer work outside of school is another way to test the waters, too. Volunteering at a community or social service, working around animals in a shelter, becoming active with local art galleries or theatres in a voluntary capacity. There are so many places to volunteer at and learn a broad spectrum of what's out there to give you a choice.
The more you interact with others, the less self conscious you will become and not put yourself in a category. The human experience is complex and I believe that we should be happy about who we are and stay away from social labels that seem trendy. We're all just people, each and every one of us different. There's nothing odd about that.
So my advice is that you may need to increase your socialization, but nothing too extravagant, lean on the things you love to do and things and people that you like being around. Self discovery is a process and we all do it at a different pace, so think positive and start discovering all the wonderful things that you can do.
I hope this helps and I wish you all the best !
James Constantine Frangos
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James Constantine’s Answer
Hello Ken,
The INFJ personality, known as the Advocate, is rare and marked by deep empathy, idealism, and a strong urge to help others. INFJs are introverted, gaining energy from solitude and preferring meaningful conversations over small talk. They are introspective, valuing their inner thoughts.
INFJs are intuitive, focusing on future possibilities and abstract ideas rather than just facts, which helps them see the big picture and think creatively. They make decisions based on personal values and emotions, showing high empathy and sensitivity to others' feelings, often seeking harmony in relationships. They prefer structure, planning ahead, and making decisions early to feel in control.
Strengths include their compassion, insight, and ability to inspire others. They are dedicated to their values and aim to make a positive impact. However, they can be perfectionistic and may struggle with stress due to high ideals, often feeling misunderstood or overwhelmed by others' emotions.
Famous INFJs include Mahatma Gandhi, Oprah Winfrey, Martin Luther King Jr., and Taylor Swift, who exemplify the INFJ's commitment to their ideals and desire to create change.
In summary, INFJs are unique and complex, driven by a desire to help others and improve the world, guided by strong values and deep empathy. Understanding them offers valuable insights into their motivations and behaviors in both personal and professional areas.
I know a bit about these psychological characteristics because I share a lot of these attributes. What you've got to do is just conserve your energies and back off and not think too much about the situation. You can literally drown yourself with emotions.
THE BEST CAREER PATH FOR YOU WOULD BE INVOLVED IN HELPING PEOPLE LIKE THE HOMELESS THE POOR THE SICK A MEDICAL DOCTOR DOES THIS SO DOES A VOLUNTEER WORKER FOR DISADVANTAGED PEOPLE.
The INFJ personality, known as the Advocate, is rare and marked by deep empathy, idealism, and a strong urge to help others. INFJs are introverted, gaining energy from solitude and preferring meaningful conversations over small talk. They are introspective, valuing their inner thoughts.
INFJs are intuitive, focusing on future possibilities and abstract ideas rather than just facts, which helps them see the big picture and think creatively. They make decisions based on personal values and emotions, showing high empathy and sensitivity to others' feelings, often seeking harmony in relationships. They prefer structure, planning ahead, and making decisions early to feel in control.
Strengths include their compassion, insight, and ability to inspire others. They are dedicated to their values and aim to make a positive impact. However, they can be perfectionistic and may struggle with stress due to high ideals, often feeling misunderstood or overwhelmed by others' emotions.
Famous INFJs include Mahatma Gandhi, Oprah Winfrey, Martin Luther King Jr., and Taylor Swift, who exemplify the INFJ's commitment to their ideals and desire to create change.
In summary, INFJs are unique and complex, driven by a desire to help others and improve the world, guided by strong values and deep empathy. Understanding them offers valuable insights into their motivations and behaviors in both personal and professional areas.
I know a bit about these psychological characteristics because I share a lot of these attributes. What you've got to do is just conserve your energies and back off and not think too much about the situation. You can literally drown yourself with emotions.
THE BEST CAREER PATH FOR YOU WOULD BE INVOLVED IN HELPING PEOPLE LIKE THE HOMELESS THE POOR THE SICK A MEDICAL DOCTOR DOES THIS SO DOES A VOLUNTEER WORKER FOR DISADVANTAGED PEOPLE.
Loved reading this, thanks!
Ken
ANGELA ENGLEMAN
Global Product Manager
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ANGELA’s Answer
Hi Ken,
As a fellow INFJ, I wanted to provide you with some high level guidance I hope you will find useful.
While I think the Myers-Briggs personality test is a great indicator of how you may think and approach the world, it is not an indicator of your personal preferences and desired experiences. INFJ is the rarest personality type, but so much goes into making us who we are as individuals. I feel that the personality test is just an interesting highlight along the way, provoking thought about what our strengths may be and should not limit our ability to try new experiences.
For example, as an INFJ, you may be a big picture thinker, and may not enjoy getting into details. The only way to truly know what you enjoy is to try different activities and see what you prefer. If you are an introverted person who enjoys time alone to recharge, then being in a sales job interacting with people regularly might feel exhausting. Or, on the flip side, you may find that you love interacting and collaborating with people but need to find that time to decompress to protect your mental health. The only way to know what works for you is to try a few different things and see what you enjoy and are inspired by and determine what drains you. Internships, volunteering, and part time jobs are various ways to find out what truly interests and inspires you.
I wish you all of the best as you navigate this. The world is a fascinating place, and you have so many exciting options.
As a fellow INFJ, I wanted to provide you with some high level guidance I hope you will find useful.
While I think the Myers-Briggs personality test is a great indicator of how you may think and approach the world, it is not an indicator of your personal preferences and desired experiences. INFJ is the rarest personality type, but so much goes into making us who we are as individuals. I feel that the personality test is just an interesting highlight along the way, provoking thought about what our strengths may be and should not limit our ability to try new experiences.
For example, as an INFJ, you may be a big picture thinker, and may not enjoy getting into details. The only way to truly know what you enjoy is to try different activities and see what you prefer. If you are an introverted person who enjoys time alone to recharge, then being in a sales job interacting with people regularly might feel exhausting. Or, on the flip side, you may find that you love interacting and collaborating with people but need to find that time to decompress to protect your mental health. The only way to know what works for you is to try a few different things and see what you enjoy and are inspired by and determine what drains you. Internships, volunteering, and part time jobs are various ways to find out what truly interests and inspires you.
I wish you all of the best as you navigate this. The world is a fascinating place, and you have so many exciting options.
Emily Anne
Manager, Technical Support
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Emily’s Answer
Though as an ISFJ, I totally get wanting to be helpful and supportive. Here’s what I’d suggest for you as an INFJ:
-Trust Your Intuition, But Ground It:
Your insights are amazing, but sometimes it helps to check in with reality and see how your ideas can be practically applied. Maybe try writing your thoughts down or talking them out with someone you trust.
-Take Care of Yourself:
I know you care deeply about others, but don’t forget to look after your own needs too. Make time for rest and things that recharge you, even if it’s just a quiet walk or reading a favorite book.
-Connect with Like-Minded People:
Seek out people who share your values and vision. It can be really fulfilling to work together on causes you care about, and it helps to have a support system.
-Set Gentle Boundaries:
It’s okay to say no sometimes. Protect your energy so you can keep being your best self for others.
-Celebrate Small Wins:
You might have big dreams, but don’t forget to appreciate the little steps you take along the way. Every bit of progress matters!
Good luck!
-Trust Your Intuition, But Ground It:
Your insights are amazing, but sometimes it helps to check in with reality and see how your ideas can be practically applied. Maybe try writing your thoughts down or talking them out with someone you trust.
-Take Care of Yourself:
I know you care deeply about others, but don’t forget to look after your own needs too. Make time for rest and things that recharge you, even if it’s just a quiet walk or reading a favorite book.
-Connect with Like-Minded People:
Seek out people who share your values and vision. It can be really fulfilling to work together on causes you care about, and it helps to have a support system.
-Set Gentle Boundaries:
It’s okay to say no sometimes. Protect your energy so you can keep being your best self for others.
-Celebrate Small Wins:
You might have big dreams, but don’t forget to appreciate the little steps you take along the way. Every bit of progress matters!
Good luck!
Thanks for the advice.
Ken