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Hugo
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Has anyone ever felt really down because you are doing really bad in school? What did you do to turn it around?
I'm on the borderline for two of my classes, but I have a chance to get into a more comfortable spot with my next assignments.
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Sharon Vien
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Hey Hugo! Remember, school can be tough, but you're not alone. We've all faced similar challenges, myself included. When I feel like I'm behind, I take a moment to figure out why. Is it because I'm distracted or is it because I'm finding the material hard to understand? If I'm distracted, I check if there's too much going on around me, which could be why I can't focus on my tasks. If I'm struggling with the material, I try to see if I need to change my study methods or spend more time on certain topics. But, like Diane suggested, it's always a good idea to talk to your teachers about your struggles. They might be able to offer extra help during school breaks or after school, and even suggest a plan to help you catch up. They might even let you redo or make up assignments. Also, consider getting a tutor at school. And don't forget about studying with your friends! If you're having trouble understanding something, a chat with a classmate might offer a fresh perspective. Remember, you've got a whole support network at school, all ready to help you out!
I appreciate you taking the time to answer this.
Hugo
Stephanie Frank
Accounting Consulting
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Stephanie’s Answer
I just graduated from higher education and have been struggling with the societal pressure of grades throughout my whole educational journey. I always internalized getting a bad grade in a class or failing a test. The biggest piece of advice is perspective. Will this one class effect your whole life? I bet in 20 years you will not be thinking about it.
With that being said, trying your best is especially important for situations like this; even reflect if this effort you are giving is your best. Ways to do this is by asking your teachers for feedback: “What can I do better?”, “How can I improve?”, and “What are ways I can grow from this assignment?”. Another tip is to ask someone (a tutor, learning services, a peer) what are helpful study techniques. For example, study for 30 minutes at a time and then taking a 2 to 5 minutes break helps your brain process information. Next tip, avoiding distractions also helps including finding a quiet space, silencing electronics, and eating a snack before/ drinking water throughout. It is important to remember though, everyone studies differently, so find out what works best for you as an individual. Continuing with that theme, stay ahead of your work! I strived to work on assignments due two days from the day I was working on it. This helps when I am confused on work and can ask my professor in person questions (day before it is due) instead of panicking 10 minutes before it is due.
Last message, it is important to be gentle with yourselves. A grade or number does not define your self-worth or your success. Not everything will “click” immediately for you and that is okay! And some things may never feel 100% comfortable. For a subject you are “not good” in, there will be something else you will be good in- that is how it is for everyone whether it appears that way or not. It is more crucial to build a hard work effort rather than being “naturally smart”.
Next steps, continue advocating for yourself and working to improve yourself -I know it will benefit you. When I was in challenging times at school, what I did to turn it around was just show up. Show up to the classes and pay attention. Show up for extra help sessions even though you might not get the lesson still. Show up to review classes and ask questions. All that effort you are putting into your schooling, and yourself, will teach you lessons that are arguably more important in life after school than what the answer to that one extremely specific math calculation was on last week’s midterm.
With that being said, trying your best is especially important for situations like this; even reflect if this effort you are giving is your best. Ways to do this is by asking your teachers for feedback: “What can I do better?”, “How can I improve?”, and “What are ways I can grow from this assignment?”. Another tip is to ask someone (a tutor, learning services, a peer) what are helpful study techniques. For example, study for 30 minutes at a time and then taking a 2 to 5 minutes break helps your brain process information. Next tip, avoiding distractions also helps including finding a quiet space, silencing electronics, and eating a snack before/ drinking water throughout. It is important to remember though, everyone studies differently, so find out what works best for you as an individual. Continuing with that theme, stay ahead of your work! I strived to work on assignments due two days from the day I was working on it. This helps when I am confused on work and can ask my professor in person questions (day before it is due) instead of panicking 10 minutes before it is due.
Last message, it is important to be gentle with yourselves. A grade or number does not define your self-worth or your success. Not everything will “click” immediately for you and that is okay! And some things may never feel 100% comfortable. For a subject you are “not good” in, there will be something else you will be good in- that is how it is for everyone whether it appears that way or not. It is more crucial to build a hard work effort rather than being “naturally smart”.
Next steps, continue advocating for yourself and working to improve yourself -I know it will benefit you. When I was in challenging times at school, what I did to turn it around was just show up. Show up to the classes and pay attention. Show up for extra help sessions even though you might not get the lesson still. Show up to review classes and ask questions. All that effort you are putting into your schooling, and yourself, will teach you lessons that are arguably more important in life after school than what the answer to that one extremely specific math calculation was on last week’s midterm.
Rosaline Lynch
Personal productivity coach
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Rosaline’s Answer
I was in such a state in college and then a time blocking method helped me. As it combines task prioritization and planning. I experiment with it a lot and still use this technique!
Patrick Meyer
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Patrick’s Answer
Feeling a bit low due to academic hurdles is something most students go through at some point in their educational journey. It can be quite disheartening to find yourself teetering on the edge in a couple of classes, but it's crucial to remember that stumbling blocks are a normal part of learning and personal growth. The secret is to tackle the situation with grit and a forward-thinking attitude to bring about a positive change.
Firstly, take a moment to evaluate the reasons behind your academic difficulties. Are there certain topics or ideas that you're finding hard to understand? Are outside factors like personal issues or time management problems impacting your performance? Identifying the root causes can guide you in creating an effective plan to tackle them.
Next, direct your efforts towards the areas where you need the most progress. Divide the material into bite-sized pieces and set aside specific time for studying and practice. Think about utilizing additional support resources, like tutoring services, study groups, or online forums, to gain a better understanding of tough concepts and strengthen your knowledge.
Along with academic support, it's crucial to look after your overall well-being. Ensure you're getting sufficient rest, keeping physically fit, and managing stress effectively. Taking time out and practicing self-care can help rejuvenate your energy and keep a positive outlook, which is vital for academic achievement.
When tackling your upcoming assignments, set achievable goals and devise a comprehensive plan to systematically address them. Break the tasks into smaller steps, set timelines for each stage, and keep track of your progress. Don't be shy to ask your teachers or professors for clarification or guidance if required. They are there to assist you and can offer valuable advice to help you excel.
Lastly, keep your spirits high and foster a growth mindset. Understand that setbacks are temporary, and with persistence and hard work, you can overcome them. Celebrate minor triumphs along the way, and remember that every small step forward brings you nearer to your goals.
By taking active measures to address your academic difficulties, seeking help when necessary, and keeping a positive mindset, you can turn the tide and set yourself up for success in your classes. Remember, you have the potential to overcome challenges and reach your academic goals with determination and resilience.
Firstly, take a moment to evaluate the reasons behind your academic difficulties. Are there certain topics or ideas that you're finding hard to understand? Are outside factors like personal issues or time management problems impacting your performance? Identifying the root causes can guide you in creating an effective plan to tackle them.
Next, direct your efforts towards the areas where you need the most progress. Divide the material into bite-sized pieces and set aside specific time for studying and practice. Think about utilizing additional support resources, like tutoring services, study groups, or online forums, to gain a better understanding of tough concepts and strengthen your knowledge.
Along with academic support, it's crucial to look after your overall well-being. Ensure you're getting sufficient rest, keeping physically fit, and managing stress effectively. Taking time out and practicing self-care can help rejuvenate your energy and keep a positive outlook, which is vital for academic achievement.
When tackling your upcoming assignments, set achievable goals and devise a comprehensive plan to systematically address them. Break the tasks into smaller steps, set timelines for each stage, and keep track of your progress. Don't be shy to ask your teachers or professors for clarification or guidance if required. They are there to assist you and can offer valuable advice to help you excel.
Lastly, keep your spirits high and foster a growth mindset. Understand that setbacks are temporary, and with persistence and hard work, you can overcome them. Celebrate minor triumphs along the way, and remember that every small step forward brings you nearer to your goals.
By taking active measures to address your academic difficulties, seeking help when necessary, and keeping a positive mindset, you can turn the tide and set yourself up for success in your classes. Remember, you have the potential to overcome challenges and reach your academic goals with determination and resilience.
Anah Ayala
Sound Designer
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Lake Worth, Florida
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Anah’s Answer
Hi, Hugo. In order to turn things around you could try to focus more on your school work instead of other activities. Maybe you are really distracted by things going on in your life. Try to set aside a time and place to work on your assignments and see if you can manage all your work at this pace. Try not to turn anything in late, but on time or ahead of time. Once you found that you can make this happen you will feel more at ease and confident in your abilities. Impress yourself with these good attributes and attitude.
I'm a sound designer and almost done with my degree, but i also felt the pressure of being stuck or in a rut. I fell behind before when i got sick. And it really all is about willpower, hard work, and dedication. This is how i pulled through with the mindset that i could do better and get ahead.
I'm a sound designer and almost done with my degree, but i also felt the pressure of being stuck or in a rut. I fell behind before when i got sick. And it really all is about willpower, hard work, and dedication. This is how i pulled through with the mindset that i could do better and get ahead.
Thank you so much, Anah!
Hugo
Martha Kramer
Corporate Training, Communications
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Stamford, Connecticut
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Martha’s Answer
I am with Diane, Hugo - it is understandable to feel down now, but you can get to a better place. Diane mentioned many resources, including for for mental health. There may be some right in your school, such as a social worker or psychologist, or they could recommend some in the community. Even a coach or trusted previous teacher could provide needed support. Also, your guidance counselor has experience helping students in a rough patch and may have ideas to help.
While talking with your teachers/professors, ask for advice not only about the next assignment, but also what they could advise based on your past performance. They may point out aspects that you are doing well, and suggest a small change that could make a big difference. Negotiate a revised schedule if you think you need more time. Or see if they would look at drafts to make sure you are on the right track. Once you get on a better track, see if you could do some extra credit work to pull up your grades.
It may be difficult, but try to eat healthfully, get fresh air, and get rest, too. This would help your energy and focus while getting sick would hurt. We are rooting for you - good luck!
While talking with your teachers/professors, ask for advice not only about the next assignment, but also what they could advise based on your past performance. They may point out aspects that you are doing well, and suggest a small change that could make a big difference. Negotiate a revised schedule if you think you need more time. Or see if they would look at drafts to make sure you are on the right track. Once you get on a better track, see if you could do some extra credit work to pull up your grades.
It may be difficult, but try to eat healthfully, get fresh air, and get rest, too. This would help your energy and focus while getting sick would hurt. We are rooting for you - good luck!
Thank you, I will try my best.
Hugo
You're welcome. Let us know if we could help further.
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David Beaumont
Technical Support
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Westerville, Ohio
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David’s Answer
Hi Hugo,
Thank you for your question and for being transparent about what you are experiencing. Not sure if you are high school or college. My suggestions would apply in either case. First, please don't be discouraged. You have great potential and will be successful. Here are a few things you can do.
* Have a conversation with your instructor/teacher and explain to them what you are having a challenge with.
* Ask what are the specific items that you should focus on to bring your grade to a level that is acceptable.
* Ask if your teacher/instructor will spend some time with you to help you get back on track. If that is not an option ask if there is a tutor they could recommend.
* If there is such a thing as extra credit (there was back when I was in school). Ask for it. This will show your instructor/ teacher that you are working hard to get back on track.
* If you are not clear on the assignments. Always ask questions. Keep asking questions until it is clear to you.
I wish you continued success. I know your grades will improve and you will be successful at whatever you set your mind to.
All the best.
Thank you for your question and for being transparent about what you are experiencing. Not sure if you are high school or college. My suggestions would apply in either case. First, please don't be discouraged. You have great potential and will be successful. Here are a few things you can do.
* Have a conversation with your instructor/teacher and explain to them what you are having a challenge with.
* Ask what are the specific items that you should focus on to bring your grade to a level that is acceptable.
* Ask if your teacher/instructor will spend some time with you to help you get back on track. If that is not an option ask if there is a tutor they could recommend.
* If there is such a thing as extra credit (there was back when I was in school). Ask for it. This will show your instructor/ teacher that you are working hard to get back on track.
* If you are not clear on the assignments. Always ask questions. Keep asking questions until it is clear to you.
I wish you continued success. I know your grades will improve and you will be successful at whatever you set your mind to.
All the best.
Diane Gibson
Underwriter
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Frankenmuth, Michigan
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Diane’s Answer
Hi Hugo, high school/college has so many challenges. The fact you have identified your difficulties demonstrates how much you care about doing well. If you have not done so already reach out to the teachers/professors in the classes which you are struggling to obtain after school/hours help. Look at tutoring services offered at your high school/college to help get you back on track. Also, do not be afraid to contact a mental health provider to help you navigate these waters if you feel you can't pull yourself up on your own. Reach out to trusted family and friends to talk about your feelings and struggles. There are so many people in/around your life that can help you through this and most likely have gone through something similar. Best of luck to you!! You've got this!
Thank you for the advice, Diane.
Hugo