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my boyfriend asks me how to be engineering ?

he is sophomore in high school he do know anything

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Dr’s Answer

Hey there!

First off, Redit props to your boyfriend for even thinking about engineering in high school, I mean that's how future world-changers are born! And the best part? He doesn't need to have it all figured out right now because curiosity is the secret ingredient to becoming an engineer.

So here is ma little game plan for him to get him started:

1. A lot of people think engineering is just building bridges or fixing machines — but it's so much more than that! Engineers design video games, build rockets, make life-saving medical devices, and even help fight climate change. There are tons of different types of engineering, like:

Mechanical (machines & robots)

Electrical (tech & circuits)

Civil (buildings & cities)

Computer (software & apps)

Biomedical (medicine & health)

Environmental (saving the planet 🌍)

He doesn't have to pick one now, just knowing the options makes everything feel way more exciting.

2. Build the Engineer Mindset (Without Even Realizing It)

Engineering is really about solving problems, so the best way to practice is to tinker, break stuff, and figure out how to put it back together. Well now here is some super low-key ways to start for him!

Try coding games like Scratch or Tynker

Build random things with LEGOs or old electronics

Watch YouTube channels like Mark Rober or Veritasium

Join a robotics or STEM club at school (or start one if there isn't one!)

3. Okay, I know... math and science are the least exciting part to hear about but they're the secret weapons of every engineer. He doesn't need to be a math genius, just someone who's willing to figure things out.
If school classes feel boring, try:

Playing puzzle games like Sudoku or Brain It On

Watching physics YouTubers like Physics Girl

Using apps like Brilliant or Khan Academy to learn at his own pace

4. Find His Engineering Superpower
Is he into video games? He might love coding.
Obsessed with how things work? Maybe mechanical or electrical engineering.
Always sketching buildings or gadgets? Future architect or product designer.
Whatever he's into, there's an engineering path that matches.

5. Just Start Creating
He doesn't need anyone's permission to be an engineer — he can start right now. Build a little app, design something in Canva, or try coding a simple website. The internet is packed with free tutorials — the only rule is never be afraid to mess up.

Tell your boyfriend this: Engineers aren't born, they're built one project, one mistake, and one "aha!" moment at a time. He already has everything he needs to get started, a curious brain and someone like you cheering him on.
He's got this. And if he ever needs a little extra encouragement, this whole community is here to back him up.
Go build the future! All the best of the bests! 😏🤗

Dr recommends the following next steps:

Watch "How to Become an Engineer" on YouTube
Try out free coding games like Scratch or Code.org
Ask his science teacher if there are any STEM clubs at school
Start keeping a little notebook of every weird question that pops into his head — that's how every great invention starts!
Thank you comment icon Thank you so much for the advice. redit
Thank you comment icon You are super duper welcome Redit, stay blessed and amazing! Dr H
Thank you comment icon Dr H's advice is truly commendable—both engaging and practical. His enthusiasm makes engineering feel approachable, and his emphasis on curiosity, hands-on learning, and resilience is exactly what aspiring engineers need to hear. The structured yet informal approach ensures that even those unfamiliar with the field can find a clear starting point. A fantastic balance of encouragement, practical steps, and an empowering message! Uran James
Thank you comment icon Thank you so much for the kind words, Uran! I'm truly honored by your feedback. It’s all about making complex ideas feel accessible and giving aspiring engineers the tools to start their journey with confidence. Curiosity and hands-on learning are the heart of the process, and I’m so glad that message recieved your Great insight! Stay blessed. Dr H
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William’s Answer

It's with great pleasure that I take this chance to answer your question. Your boyfriend's interest in becoming an engineer is a good place to start. Just remember that engineering focuses on resolving some of the many challenges society faces. Once a need is identified that requires an engineering solution, the next step is to design a product that meets the identified need. The product is then constructed to design specifications. This often requires manufacturing processes. Examples include such things as houses, roads, computers, vehicles, aeroplanes, ships, electrical appliances, furniture etc.
The profession requires proficiency in such subjects as maths, physics, chemistry, technical drawing etc.
A wide range of specializations are available to prospective candidates. They include, amongst others, civil, electrical, structural, mechanical & software engineering. Engineers are also involved in the design, construction, operation & maintenance of manufacturing equipment.
It's advisable that one persues what interests one the most. This way, you can persue your trade of choice with passion. Which ever route you choose, you will be guaranteed a fulfilling career. It's also important that you work smart as you persue a career.
Thank you comment icon Thank you, this is amazing! I really needed it. redit
Thank you comment icon Thank you for giving me advice. Mina
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Bright’s Answer

To encourage your boyfriend to explore engineering, start by building a strong foundation in math and science. Emphasize excelling in algebra, trigonometry, and pre-calculus, taking calculus when available, and focusing on physics and chemistry. Develop computer skills like Python, Java, or C++, and familiarize yourself with CAD software.

Experiment with different engineering disciplines, such as civil, mechanical, electrical, chemical, computer, aerospace, and biomedical engineering. Participate in science and engineering clubs or competitions, look for local STEM events or workshops, and use online resources like TryEngineering.org and EngineerGirl.org. Talk to engineers in different fields to learn about their work and career paths.

Prepare for college by maintaining a high GPA, preparing for the SAT or ACT, participating in extracurricular activities, and researching colleges with strong engineering programs. Consider factors like program reputation, research opportunities, and internship programs.

Stay curious, be persistent, develop communication skills, and find a mentor to provide guidance and support throughout his journey. Engineering can be challenging, but perseverance is key.

In conclusion, it is not too early to start exploring engineering, but building a strong foundation in math and science is crucial. Encourage your boyfriend to ask questions, explore their interests, and be persistent in their pursuit of engineering. Building a strong foundation in math and science will help them succeed in their future endeavors.
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Angel’s Answer

Start by earning a Bachelor's degree in engineering. Choose a specialty that interests you, like Electrical, Mechanical, Industrial, Civil, or Computer Engineering. To decide, talk to professionals in these fields to understand their daily work.

Keep your GPA high. Research the acceptance criteria for your preferred engineering schools, focusing on the quality of their engineering programs. Prepare thoroughly for the ACT or similar tests to secure scholarships or financial aid.

Seek internships early. Real-world experience is crucial for learning how to be an engineer.
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Sreedhar’s Answer

Hi Redit,
At sophomore level, he does not need to do anything specific to get into engineering other that keeping his grades up in general and specifically, math and science. Good grades will give him a better choice of engineering colleges and higher scholarship money to pay for college.

If it is possible, he should take engineering-related optional classes (electives) that his school offers. Some examples of these electives are construction, 3D computer-aided design (CAD), computer programming (any computer language), etc.

Good luck!

Sreedhar
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