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How do you balance your ambition with others’ expectations?
It feels a bit like I don’t know whether I actually want to study business or if my parents just want me to. How do I make sure I’m fulfilled without disappointing my parents?
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Jerome’s Answer
This is a balance that many of us tried to find. I think, at the end of the day, we really just want what’s best for our kids. Ultimately, if you are happy and can support yourself, I think your parents will be proud.
Good news is that a Business degree can be a solid foundation for virtually any job. Maybe you can start by getting an AA in Business while taking electives and see if there is something else that interests you.
Great thing about college is that you can get a BA in a different field of study. Maybe you can make your parents happy while still working towards something that fulfills you.
Good news is that a Business degree can be a solid foundation for virtually any job. Maybe you can start by getting an AA in Business while taking electives and see if there is something else that interests you.
Great thing about college is that you can get a BA in a different field of study. Maybe you can make your parents happy while still working towards something that fulfills you.
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Amalya’s Answer
Hi Lucy,
You should follow your academic passions. It is necessary not only to fulfill the others' expectations, but also yours. Your occupation should be based on your personal interests, talents and skills. Try to balance these all as much as possible.
All the best.
You should follow your academic passions. It is necessary not only to fulfill the others' expectations, but also yours. Your occupation should be based on your personal interests, talents and skills. Try to balance these all as much as possible.
All the best.
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Dino’s Answer
Hello Lucy, thanks for reaching out to us. You've posed a great question. Your query brings to mind a student of mine who found herself torn between her aspirations and her parents' expectations.
Firstly, I'd suggest having an open conversation with your parents about your ambitions, your passions, and your vision for your future career. Parents today are generally more understanding and supportive of their children's career choices. So, express your thoughts and emotions regarding your chosen career path to them.
Curious about my former student's journey? Well, she initially pursued a degree that her parents wanted, making sacrifices and going the extra mile for four years to fulfill their wishes. However, once she started earning her own money, she returned to school to pursue her true passion. She's now content, having achieved her dream career on her own terms.
In the end, the choices you make are yours. While some parents may insist on their preferences, it's essential to remember that it's your happiness that matters most. The lesson here is to stand up for your dreams. After all, you're the one who will live with the consequences of your decisions. Parents should be supportive and aid their children in realizing their dreams.
Firstly, I'd suggest having an open conversation with your parents about your ambitions, your passions, and your vision for your future career. Parents today are generally more understanding and supportive of their children's career choices. So, express your thoughts and emotions regarding your chosen career path to them.
Curious about my former student's journey? Well, she initially pursued a degree that her parents wanted, making sacrifices and going the extra mile for four years to fulfill their wishes. However, once she started earning her own money, she returned to school to pursue her true passion. She's now content, having achieved her dream career on her own terms.
In the end, the choices you make are yours. While some parents may insist on their preferences, it's essential to remember that it's your happiness that matters most. The lesson here is to stand up for your dreams. After all, you're the one who will live with the consequences of your decisions. Parents should be supportive and aid their children in realizing their dreams.
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Tracy’s Answer
Hello Lucy!
I appreciate you reaching out. I completely empathize with your current feelings, Lucy. I realize that you're experiencing a sense of immense pressure, akin to carrying a heavy burden on your shoulders. I've been in your shoes before, trying not to let my parents down. However, an important life lesson I've come to understand is that the only person you might end up disappointing in the long run is yourself. And you know what? That's perfectly fine. You don't need to chase anyone's approval. Just strive to do your utmost, and be the best version of yourself. The decisions you make now will shape your future. Remember, you hold the reins of your life.
Believe in yourself, Lucy. I genuinely wish you nothing but success and happiness.
I appreciate you reaching out. I completely empathize with your current feelings, Lucy. I realize that you're experiencing a sense of immense pressure, akin to carrying a heavy burden on your shoulders. I've been in your shoes before, trying not to let my parents down. However, an important life lesson I've come to understand is that the only person you might end up disappointing in the long run is yourself. And you know what? That's perfectly fine. You don't need to chase anyone's approval. Just strive to do your utmost, and be the best version of yourself. The decisions you make now will shape your future. Remember, you hold the reins of your life.
Believe in yourself, Lucy. I genuinely wish you nothing but success and happiness.
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Kelly’s Answer
Hello Lucy!
Your question is fantastic! I completely relate to your uncertainty as I was in the same boat at your age. It's absolutely natural to have queries. Remember, it's your journey and you're the one who has to walk it, so it's crucial that you find joy in what you do. There's nothing more draining than a daily job that doesn't ignite your passion, so focus on something that truly excites you.
That said, business studies can be a versatile foundation for many career paths, which is probably why your parents are suggesting it. But rest assured, as long as you put in your best effort and find happiness in your work, your parents will be proud of you, irrespective of your field.
On a personal note, when I joined my current company, I didn't have any degree. However, thanks to their Tuition Assistance Program, I managed to earn both my Bachelors and Masters degrees, fully funded by the company. Although I had to study business for them to sponsor my education, it was an excellent opportunity for me to further my education while working.
I started my college journey at 29 while working full time, which was challenging, and I wouldn't necessarily recommend it. But remember, whatever path you choose, there will always be opportunities to build on your existing skills and experiences. Life is unpredictable, and you never know where you'll land. But every bit of your experience and education, whatever it might be, will aid you in your journey.
Wishing you the best of luck!
Your question is fantastic! I completely relate to your uncertainty as I was in the same boat at your age. It's absolutely natural to have queries. Remember, it's your journey and you're the one who has to walk it, so it's crucial that you find joy in what you do. There's nothing more draining than a daily job that doesn't ignite your passion, so focus on something that truly excites you.
That said, business studies can be a versatile foundation for many career paths, which is probably why your parents are suggesting it. But rest assured, as long as you put in your best effort and find happiness in your work, your parents will be proud of you, irrespective of your field.
On a personal note, when I joined my current company, I didn't have any degree. However, thanks to their Tuition Assistance Program, I managed to earn both my Bachelors and Masters degrees, fully funded by the company. Although I had to study business for them to sponsor my education, it was an excellent opportunity for me to further my education while working.
I started my college journey at 29 while working full time, which was challenging, and I wouldn't necessarily recommend it. But remember, whatever path you choose, there will always be opportunities to build on your existing skills and experiences. Life is unpredictable, and you never know where you'll land. But every bit of your experience and education, whatever it might be, will aid you in your journey.
Wishing you the best of luck!