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Kara
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Kentwood, Michigan
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What is the best way to make friends in college and become active in the community #Spring25?
I'm a big introvert and know it's super important to get to know people in college. I'm trying to find the best, stress-free way to do that.
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April Miller
Loss Monitoring Professional - Consumer banking
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Uhrichsville, Ohio
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April’s Answer
Find a club or group that is based around something you are interested in or curious about. Talk to friendly classmates about the last lecture or ask a question about it to start small conversations. Try to be open and remember others are in the same boat and also looking for friends. You will naturally form friendships the more you get out and try new things. Don't try too hard though. These things need to form over time. By next semester, you will have people you recognize in the halls. Say Hi! Keep those little connections active. You may end up in 3 more classes together in the future! That person may end up your best friend or a co-worker, so you always want to remain positive and kind.
Afrad Mahamed
Operations & Project Management
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Lakeland, Florida
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Afrad’s Answer
Hi Kara -
This is a tough one for many, but sometimes easier than we think. The hardest part, most of the time,e is to make that first move, but once you do, you're going to realize there's not much to it. You'll also see that you're surely not alone.
Here are a few ways that will hopefully help you.
Start with shared interests: Join clubs, organizations, or study groups related to your hobbies and academic pursuits. This provides a natural starting point for conversations and connections with like-minded individuals.
Introduce yourself: Don’t be afraid to strike up conversations with classmates, roommates, and people you encounter in campus common areas. A simple “Hi, I’m [your name], nice to meet you” can go a long way.
Attend orientation and welcome events: These events are designed to help students connect, so take advantage of the opportunity to meet new people in a relaxed setting.
Participate in social activities: Even if you’re not the life of the party, attending social gatherings, game nights, or movie screenings can expose you to new people and potential friendships.
Be open and approachable: Smile, make eye contact, and be open to engaging in conversations.
Utilize social media and online platforms: Many colleges have online communities or social media groups where students can connect.
Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there: It takes effort to build friendships, so be proactive in initiating conversations and inviting people to hang out.
Be yourself: Authenticity is key to forming genuine connections. Don’t try to be someone you’re not, as it will be difficult to maintain those relationships in the long run.
Best of luck!
This is a tough one for many, but sometimes easier than we think. The hardest part, most of the time,e is to make that first move, but once you do, you're going to realize there's not much to it. You'll also see that you're surely not alone.
Here are a few ways that will hopefully help you.
Start with shared interests: Join clubs, organizations, or study groups related to your hobbies and academic pursuits. This provides a natural starting point for conversations and connections with like-minded individuals.
Introduce yourself: Don’t be afraid to strike up conversations with classmates, roommates, and people you encounter in campus common areas. A simple “Hi, I’m [your name], nice to meet you” can go a long way.
Attend orientation and welcome events: These events are designed to help students connect, so take advantage of the opportunity to meet new people in a relaxed setting.
Participate in social activities: Even if you’re not the life of the party, attending social gatherings, game nights, or movie screenings can expose you to new people and potential friendships.
Be open and approachable: Smile, make eye contact, and be open to engaging in conversations.
Utilize social media and online platforms: Many colleges have online communities or social media groups where students can connect.
Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there: It takes effort to build friendships, so be proactive in initiating conversations and inviting people to hang out.
Be yourself: Authenticity is key to forming genuine connections. Don’t try to be someone you’re not, as it will be difficult to maintain those relationships in the long run.
Best of luck!