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Kensington
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Georgetown, Kentucky
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What is one thing you wish you knew or did before you went into the performing business?
I'm a senior in high school, and I'm about to go to college for an applied music major in vocal and saxophone and a theatre minor.
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Cliff Beach
Music and marketing
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Los Angeles, California
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I wish someone had told me early on that as a performer, you are essentially a business — YOU INC. I spent so much time just focusing on the craft, thinking talent alone would be enough. But in reality, you have to think like an entrepreneur from day one: building your brand, managing your finances, creating opportunities, and understanding that success isn't just about art — it’s about business strategy too. I would’ve approached everything much differently if I had realized that sooner.
Mark Marshall
Music composer, musician, music producer, music professor
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New York, New York
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I wish I had known just how many different areas of the music business exist. There are so many paths you can take, but when I was in high school, I only knew about two of them. I had no idea there were careers like foley artists, music therapists, music library composers, and so many other specialized tracks. It’s important to expose yourself to as many different ways people make a living from music as possible. In modern times, it’s likely you’ll need to pursue more than one path to make a sustainable living.
Another important lesson is that there are many versions of success. Success isn’t just about being famous—that’s only one version, and it’s a bit like winning the lottery. Just because you don’t chase fame doesn’t mean you aren’t successful. I grew up believing there was only one definition of success, and that belief weighed on me for a long time. Eventually, I had to reassess my values around success for several reasons. For one, I worked with famous artists and musicians, and I saw firsthand that they weren’t always happy. Fame brings its own limitations, restrictions, and pressures.
Fame, at this point, only applies to a small percentage of artists, and it’s limited to a narrow range of styles. Avant-garde musicians, for example, aren’t “famous,” but that doesn’t mean they aren’t successful. Define what success means to you and set your personal goals, rather than relying on the general public’s perception.
Be careful not to get caught up in pop culture’s skewed view of success. It’s fine if you enjoy the pop culture world, just don’t be fooled by its promises of happiness and fulfillment. It can bring those things for some, but not for everyone.
Another lesson: talk less and listen more. I grew up in a household with a narcissistic parental figure who was a frustrated musician. Narcissists never think they’re wrong, and being in that environment was challenging for many reasons. I eventually got out, but there was definitely damage done. Still, I walked away with some important lessons.
1. If a situation is toxic or abusive in any way—physically or verbally—get out. Some situations don’t change, and abusers are often among them. Research and learn about personality disorders so you know what to look for. The ability to identify people who might do you harm is one of the most important tools you need in business.
2. Listen more than you speak. Progress comes from research and observation. Every time you’re around someone else in the business, they have a piece of the puzzle you don’t. Ask questions and learn from others’ experiences—it will help you. Don’t assume you know everything. This took time for me to adapt to after coming from a narcissistic environment. When I moved to NYC, not knowing anyone, it completely changed my perspective. It forced me to reevaluate what I thought I knew versus what there was to learn in the world.
Lastly, learn how to run a business. Take a business class, learn how to do a budget, accounting, investing, etc.. This was a huge hurdle for me. Start saving money immediately and don't touch it. Even if you don't have much to put away each month, put something away.
Another important lesson is that there are many versions of success. Success isn’t just about being famous—that’s only one version, and it’s a bit like winning the lottery. Just because you don’t chase fame doesn’t mean you aren’t successful. I grew up believing there was only one definition of success, and that belief weighed on me for a long time. Eventually, I had to reassess my values around success for several reasons. For one, I worked with famous artists and musicians, and I saw firsthand that they weren’t always happy. Fame brings its own limitations, restrictions, and pressures.
Fame, at this point, only applies to a small percentage of artists, and it’s limited to a narrow range of styles. Avant-garde musicians, for example, aren’t “famous,” but that doesn’t mean they aren’t successful. Define what success means to you and set your personal goals, rather than relying on the general public’s perception.
Be careful not to get caught up in pop culture’s skewed view of success. It’s fine if you enjoy the pop culture world, just don’t be fooled by its promises of happiness and fulfillment. It can bring those things for some, but not for everyone.
Another lesson: talk less and listen more. I grew up in a household with a narcissistic parental figure who was a frustrated musician. Narcissists never think they’re wrong, and being in that environment was challenging for many reasons. I eventually got out, but there was definitely damage done. Still, I walked away with some important lessons.
1. If a situation is toxic or abusive in any way—physically or verbally—get out. Some situations don’t change, and abusers are often among them. Research and learn about personality disorders so you know what to look for. The ability to identify people who might do you harm is one of the most important tools you need in business.
2. Listen more than you speak. Progress comes from research and observation. Every time you’re around someone else in the business, they have a piece of the puzzle you don’t. Ask questions and learn from others’ experiences—it will help you. Don’t assume you know everything. This took time for me to adapt to after coming from a narcissistic environment. When I moved to NYC, not knowing anyone, it completely changed my perspective. It forced me to reevaluate what I thought I knew versus what there was to learn in the world.
Lastly, learn how to run a business. Take a business class, learn how to do a budget, accounting, investing, etc.. This was a huge hurdle for me. Start saving money immediately and don't touch it. Even if you don't have much to put away each month, put something away.
Christopher B
Opera singer
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Germany
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Christopher’s Answer
That's a great question—and your combination of vocal, saxophone, and theatre shows you have wide-ranging artistic interests.
One thing I wish someone had told me early on is how important it is to pace yourself. When you're passionate and talented in multiple areas, it's easy to want to do it all. But the performing arts aren't just about skill—they demand physical, mental, and emotional stamina over the long haul.
From your plan (applied music in voice and sax, plus a theatre minor), I can tell your plate will already be very full. Applied majors often require heavy practice loads, ensemble participation, lessons, and performances—all on top of general studies and theatre coursework. This can easily lead to burnout if you don't set boundaries early.
What I learned (sometimes the hard way) is that it's okay to say no to every opportunity. Choose the ones that align with your goals and where you want to grow most. And always carve out time to rest and stay connected to the joy that brought you into this field.
In short: be ambitious, but protect your energy. You have time to grow into all your interests—you don't have to conquer them all at once.
I hope that helps, and best of luck as you start this exciting chapter!
One thing I wish someone had told me early on is how important it is to pace yourself. When you're passionate and talented in multiple areas, it's easy to want to do it all. But the performing arts aren't just about skill—they demand physical, mental, and emotional stamina over the long haul.
From your plan (applied music in voice and sax, plus a theatre minor), I can tell your plate will already be very full. Applied majors often require heavy practice loads, ensemble participation, lessons, and performances—all on top of general studies and theatre coursework. This can easily lead to burnout if you don't set boundaries early.
What I learned (sometimes the hard way) is that it's okay to say no to every opportunity. Choose the ones that align with your goals and where you want to grow most. And always carve out time to rest and stay connected to the joy that brought you into this field.
In short: be ambitious, but protect your energy. You have time to grow into all your interests—you don't have to conquer them all at once.
I hope that helps, and best of luck as you start this exciting chapter!
Saint P
SongWriter and Creative writer
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Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
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Saint’s Answer
Hey Kensington!
That’s awesome! You’re stepping into a field that requires so much passion and dedication, and it’s exciting that you're pursuing both music and theater. One thing I wish I had known earlier is how important it is to develop a solid network and to be open to every opportunity, even the ones that seem a little off the beaten path. The performing arts world is full of auditions, workshops, and networking events that might not always seem directly connected to your specific interests, but they can help you make invaluable connections and learn new skills. Whether it's meeting people who could offer you a gig down the road or finding out about lesser-known but amazing programs, every experience is a potential stepping stone.
I would also say that while honing your craft is essential, it's equally important to develop resilience and adaptability. The industry can be unpredictable and sometimes discouraging, but the ability to bounce back from rejection and keep moving forward is key. Be kind to yourself, focus on growth rather than perfection, and remember that your unique path is part of what makes you stand out.
Remember don't forget to enjoy the journey! It’s easy to get caught up in the hustle, but sometimes stepping back and appreciating the process of learning and creating is where the real magic happens.
You’ve got a bright future ahead of you!
Good luck!
Saint
That’s awesome! You’re stepping into a field that requires so much passion and dedication, and it’s exciting that you're pursuing both music and theater. One thing I wish I had known earlier is how important it is to develop a solid network and to be open to every opportunity, even the ones that seem a little off the beaten path. The performing arts world is full of auditions, workshops, and networking events that might not always seem directly connected to your specific interests, but they can help you make invaluable connections and learn new skills. Whether it's meeting people who could offer you a gig down the road or finding out about lesser-known but amazing programs, every experience is a potential stepping stone.
I would also say that while honing your craft is essential, it's equally important to develop resilience and adaptability. The industry can be unpredictable and sometimes discouraging, but the ability to bounce back from rejection and keep moving forward is key. Be kind to yourself, focus on growth rather than perfection, and remember that your unique path is part of what makes you stand out.
Remember don't forget to enjoy the journey! It’s easy to get caught up in the hustle, but sometimes stepping back and appreciating the process of learning and creating is where the real magic happens.
You’ve got a bright future ahead of you!
Good luck!
Saint
Ani Chacko Varghese
Software Architect
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Austin, Texas
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Ani Chacko’s Answer
1. Work with someone who can be your mentor. This will help to really understand the stage and to overcome your initial fear.
2. Know your audience.
2. Know your audience.
Charles Garcia
Musician
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New York, New York
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Charles’s Answer
When I started as a musician years ago, I didn't see myself as a product, but being a performer is just that. Some people dedicate their lives to the recording studio and understand the business side deeply. There's a lot to learn, and it's important to dive into it. If you're a composer or arranger, know your Creative Rights and make sure you have contracts to secure performance rights, agreed points, and payment details. Whatever area of the music industry you want to explore, immerse yourself in its business aspects. You'll be grateful you did!
Adriano Perez
Musician, Pianist, Private Music Teacher
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Somerville, Massachusetts
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Adriano’s Answer
Hi Kensington,
One thing I wish I knew before going into the performing arts world is this: a degree alone won’t get you gigs. Unless you're applying for a highly specific academic job, your diploma won’t be what lands you a spot on stage.
What will determine your success is your work ethic, the relationships you build, and—unfortunately—a bit of luck. A degree program can be a great place to meet people and grow, but it’s what you do outside the classroom that really matters.
I came from a humble background. I’ve seen peers from elite music schools get more opportunities just because of who they knew—but I’ve also ended up working with those same people because I kept showing up, practicing, and building my own network from the ground up.
If I could give you one piece of advice: treat college like a launchpad, not a finish line. Collaborate with others, take every performance opportunity seriously, and start forming connections early. You’re entering a field where showing up prepared, being kind, and sticking with it will get you further than talent alone.
Wishing you all the best—you’ve chosen a meaningful path!
One thing I wish I knew before going into the performing arts world is this: a degree alone won’t get you gigs. Unless you're applying for a highly specific academic job, your diploma won’t be what lands you a spot on stage.
What will determine your success is your work ethic, the relationships you build, and—unfortunately—a bit of luck. A degree program can be a great place to meet people and grow, but it’s what you do outside the classroom that really matters.
I came from a humble background. I’ve seen peers from elite music schools get more opportunities just because of who they knew—but I’ve also ended up working with those same people because I kept showing up, practicing, and building my own network from the ground up.
If I could give you one piece of advice: treat college like a launchpad, not a finish line. Collaborate with others, take every performance opportunity seriously, and start forming connections early. You’re entering a field where showing up prepared, being kind, and sticking with it will get you further than talent alone.
Wishing you all the best—you’ve chosen a meaningful path!
Amy Sarno
Philanthropy & Volunteerism Specialist
9
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Corning, New York
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Amy’s Answer
I want to amplify what Cliff mentioned. Everything from giving private lessons, to preparing for auditions is all about marketing yourself and understanding the finance piece. For example, knowing to set aside a percent of your income to cover taxes, tracking your milage. I'd also say that building meaningful relationships and leveraging your network is important. For example, meeting people at conferences and building those relationships. It's more than just connecting once on LinkedIn, it's building a reputation of being someone that others want to work with and will recommend you for opportunities.