Principal at Gravell Insights, LLC
I agree with Kim's advice. In addition I think it's important to remember that our lives are filled with choices. And the decisions that you make lead you down a certain path which is part of your personal journey. It may not be clear now, but at some point you will reflect back and see how those choices lead you to where you are today. Try to focus more on your empowerment to make the right choice as you continue on your journey.
Best of luck.