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Nashelle
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Humble, Texas
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How will my future be, and where will I end up?
I am a little scared of what my future can hold and the way my path will go
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Ryoko Hayakawa
Finance analysis, collections, and Accounting
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Singapore
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Ryoko’s Answer
Hi Nashelle,
Feeling this way is normal, and you're not alone. Please take a deep breath.
Your future depends on the choices you make every day. Focus on what you can control right now. Think about what matters to you, like your values, interests, and goals. Break your plans into small, manageable steps. Each decision you make helps you gain clarity and confidence. It's okay not to have all the answers yet; just keep moving forward with purpose.
You have many years ahead, so don't be afraid to make mistakes. Explore what interests you. Every experience helps you learn and grow.
It's also important to have a support network. Reach out to friends, family, or mentors when you need to talk. Having someone to turn to can really help you handle stress and stay mentally healthy.
Feeling this way is normal, and you're not alone. Please take a deep breath.
Your future depends on the choices you make every day. Focus on what you can control right now. Think about what matters to you, like your values, interests, and goals. Break your plans into small, manageable steps. Each decision you make helps you gain clarity and confidence. It's okay not to have all the answers yet; just keep moving forward with purpose.
You have many years ahead, so don't be afraid to make mistakes. Explore what interests you. Every experience helps you learn and grow.
It's also important to have a support network. Reach out to friends, family, or mentors when you need to talk. Having someone to turn to can really help you handle stress and stay mentally healthy.
Gishan Ali
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Clifton, New Jersey
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Gishan’s Answer
Hello Nashelle,
This is a very common question from young people today. I would say this question is very unpredicting, because, we all have different life situations. Don't feel like you don't have your life figured out, your not the only one. You are not supposed to have your life figured out that quick, it takes time and patience. If you have uncertainty about this, reach out to people for assistance and just keep a positive mindset. Hope this helps.
Best,
Gishan
This is a very common question from young people today. I would say this question is very unpredicting, because, we all have different life situations. Don't feel like you don't have your life figured out, your not the only one. You are not supposed to have your life figured out that quick, it takes time and patience. If you have uncertainty about this, reach out to people for assistance and just keep a positive mindset. Hope this helps.
Best,
Gishan
Rebecca Tang
Banking
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Hong Kong
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Rebecca’s Answer
Thank you for your question. Many students have similar question. Firstly, you need to find out what careers you have interest.
Below are my suggestions:
1. Think about what you have interest, eg your hobbies, favourite subjects, etc and identify the related careers
Eg if you have interest in maths, would you like to be an accountant, engineer, banker, financial analyst, maths teacher, etc
If you like music, would you like to be a musician, singer, musical artist, music composer, music producer, etc
2. Find out more on these careers and determine what you have interest
3. Speak to someone who are working in these careers. Seek guidance from your mentor, school career counselor, your parents, etc
4. Shortlist 1-2 careers you would like to pursue
5. Explore the entry criteria of relevant subjects in colleges
Hope this helps! Good luck!
May Almighty God bless you!
Below are my suggestions:
1. Think about what you have interest, eg your hobbies, favourite subjects, etc and identify the related careers
Eg if you have interest in maths, would you like to be an accountant, engineer, banker, financial analyst, maths teacher, etc
If you like music, would you like to be a musician, singer, musical artist, music composer, music producer, etc
2. Find out more on these careers and determine what you have interest
3. Speak to someone who are working in these careers. Seek guidance from your mentor, school career counselor, your parents, etc
4. Shortlist 1-2 careers you would like to pursue
5. Explore the entry criteria of relevant subjects in colleges
Hope this helps! Good luck!
May Almighty God bless you!
Ce Ji
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Orlando, Florida
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Ce’s Answer
Hi Nashelle, I get why you're feeling confused and worried about what's next. Everyone goes through this kind of uncertainty. Your future isn't a set path; it's like a dark world ready for you to explore. Fear comes from not knowing, but that's also where courage starts. Your goal isn't just a place but becoming a stronger version of yourself as you seek justice and truth. Stay open-minded and value the learning chances you have now. The future will reveal itself in its own special way. You're more ready for what's ahead than you realize.
Jerry Bires
career coach
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Carbondale, Illinois
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Jerry’s Answer
Nashelle,
First, there are some other fine answers here for you to review and I hope to not offer repetitive advice.
Truly, you are experiencing what I, the other folks who answered you, and about 50 million others on planet Earth also have gone through at your age in their lives. And your "search" may last decades, if I offer my own path as an example.
I'm currently 75. When I was 43, an employer looked at my resume and said my career progression didn't make sense to him because it appeared I had worked across multiple, and seemingly unrelated, jobs. In truth, he was right. I'd moved from Ohio to Los Angeles to the SF Bay area, which meant new employers at each stop. My interests and skills/abilities changed; not only my geographic location. Truly, only I could link together why the shifts in employment had been made. Bottom line, while he kindly took a gamble when he hired me in 2003; I worked for him as an employee and then a contractor for 15 years. My point is that life and career decision-making is not cookie-cutter and uncertainty and life situations tend to be fluid.
That all said, factor this into your decision-making. We're living in rapidly changing times. Our weather, technology and our ability to work globally are in flux and evolving. E.g., who knows where artificial intelligence is headed and how will it affect your future work opportunities? One thing will remain consistent and valuable. Your ability to communicate effectively. And what can assist you in communicating more easily and therefore become even more employable? Language. Make an effort to learn to speak, write and read a second language. Or two. Your worth will increase dramatically. Get a college degree or higher in courses to which your interests gravitate. Determine how well you perform activities about which you are passionate. Because if you are not good to great at something, why should someone hire you to perform that function?
Conduct this Google search: what professions will be in demand in ten years
Then substitute another/related job title or profession to see if that provides a different or expanded list. The results, because of our changing world, may or may not be entirely on target but you'll get an idea. AND you may find out that a certain country may be where that opportunity is most likely to be...hence, my advice about learning multiple languages.
Be sure to go to LinkedIn and search by job title for individuals who now or previously held the job title in which you’re interested. Their profiles should contain valuable information about their duties, work history, career progression, associations/organizations of value to research and more.
Good fortune to you moving forward.
First, there are some other fine answers here for you to review and I hope to not offer repetitive advice.
Truly, you are experiencing what I, the other folks who answered you, and about 50 million others on planet Earth also have gone through at your age in their lives. And your "search" may last decades, if I offer my own path as an example.
I'm currently 75. When I was 43, an employer looked at my resume and said my career progression didn't make sense to him because it appeared I had worked across multiple, and seemingly unrelated, jobs. In truth, he was right. I'd moved from Ohio to Los Angeles to the SF Bay area, which meant new employers at each stop. My interests and skills/abilities changed; not only my geographic location. Truly, only I could link together why the shifts in employment had been made. Bottom line, while he kindly took a gamble when he hired me in 2003; I worked for him as an employee and then a contractor for 15 years. My point is that life and career decision-making is not cookie-cutter and uncertainty and life situations tend to be fluid.
That all said, factor this into your decision-making. We're living in rapidly changing times. Our weather, technology and our ability to work globally are in flux and evolving. E.g., who knows where artificial intelligence is headed and how will it affect your future work opportunities? One thing will remain consistent and valuable. Your ability to communicate effectively. And what can assist you in communicating more easily and therefore become even more employable? Language. Make an effort to learn to speak, write and read a second language. Or two. Your worth will increase dramatically. Get a college degree or higher in courses to which your interests gravitate. Determine how well you perform activities about which you are passionate. Because if you are not good to great at something, why should someone hire you to perform that function?
Conduct this Google search: what professions will be in demand in ten years
Then substitute another/related job title or profession to see if that provides a different or expanded list. The results, because of our changing world, may or may not be entirely on target but you'll get an idea. AND you may find out that a certain country may be where that opportunity is most likely to be...hence, my advice about learning multiple languages.
Be sure to go to LinkedIn and search by job title for individuals who now or previously held the job title in which you’re interested. Their profiles should contain valuable information about their duties, work history, career progression, associations/organizations of value to research and more.
Good fortune to you moving forward.