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Marija
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What should I do? I always wanted to become a kpop trainee
What should I do, I want to apply for the yg online audition but my parents don't want to sign that if I pass I will go to Korea as a trainee. I am 13 years old(in July 14) and I live in Denmark but I was born in Serbia, I always wanted to become a kpop trainee and I will give everything for it but my parents don't want to support me and I can't give up.. but my parents are afraid to let me audition, they think I'm too young and they don't know anything about it and they don't want to listen to me about it at all.. What should I do?
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Johnson Tran
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Pursuing your dream of becoming a K-pop trainee is an exciting but challenging journey, especially when facing parental concerns. Since your parents are worried about your age and unfamiliar with the industry, the best approach is open communication. Research K-pop trainee life, audition requirements, and safety measures, then present the information to them in a way that addresses their fears. Show them success stories of trainees who started young and thrived. If they're still hesitant, consider compromises—such as waiting a year while focusing on vocal and dance training or applying to auditions that don't require immediate relocation. Demonstrating responsibility, dedication, and a well-thought-out plan can help reassure them that this isn't just a fleeting dream but a serious goal. Have you looked into ways to strengthen your skills while preparing for auditions?
Millan Jay
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Halo sorry for that,am millan please you should try to have an open and honest conversation with your parents about your aspirations and the reasons behind your desire to become a K-pop trainee. This conversations helps many parents to understand their child's perspective and alleviate some of their concerns.
If it fails you can gather well the information about the K-pop industry, the training process, and the potential challenges involved. Sharing this information with your parents can help them better understand the situation and make a more informed decision.
If still fails, you can seek guidance from a trusted adult, such as a teacher, counselor, or family friend, who can provide a neutral perspective and help facilitate a conversation with your parents.
Millan recommends the following next steps:
MaryAnn Ivan
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Hi Marija
Very good advice from Mr. Tran.
I myself am a Broadway professional musician. I knew I had to go to New York City to pursue my dreams when I was 15 but I waited until after college and went as a graduate student at 27 years old. This is different between what I did and what you hope to do.
I thought I was ready to go to New York when I was 19 and got accepted to NYU. Friends told me I was not mature enough to handle New York at my age (solo in the City) and I trusted and believed them. Then, years later, I applied and went to NYU in a graduate program. I still felt, even at 27 that NYC was a totally foreign land even though I had been there several times “checking the place out.”
Your parents are your protectors and want only what is best for you, even if they seem small minded and uninformed at the moment about your K-Pop aspirations. I would follow Mr. Tran’s advice and give your parents the “full picture” of what a K-Pop trainee entails.
My biggest question to you is : WHY do you want to do it ? 2) Will it get you on the path to where you want to go ? 3) Where does this training happen ? 4) What kind of Adults with be in the room with you during rehearsals and when you are not in rehearsal ? 4) Are there chaperones ?
I wouldn’t let you go to S. Korea alone. Not at your age. NO way. But you should find out even more information.
Just being honest with you. But, all that said; you should pursue your dreams. Get all the info !
Best of luck in your adventures.
Mary Ann
Very good advice from Mr. Tran.
I myself am a Broadway professional musician. I knew I had to go to New York City to pursue my dreams when I was 15 but I waited until after college and went as a graduate student at 27 years old. This is different between what I did and what you hope to do.
I thought I was ready to go to New York when I was 19 and got accepted to NYU. Friends told me I was not mature enough to handle New York at my age (solo in the City) and I trusted and believed them. Then, years later, I applied and went to NYU in a graduate program. I still felt, even at 27 that NYC was a totally foreign land even though I had been there several times “checking the place out.”
Your parents are your protectors and want only what is best for you, even if they seem small minded and uninformed at the moment about your K-Pop aspirations. I would follow Mr. Tran’s advice and give your parents the “full picture” of what a K-Pop trainee entails.
My biggest question to you is : WHY do you want to do it ? 2) Will it get you on the path to where you want to go ? 3) Where does this training happen ? 4) What kind of Adults with be in the room with you during rehearsals and when you are not in rehearsal ? 4) Are there chaperones ?
I wouldn’t let you go to S. Korea alone. Not at your age. NO way. But you should find out even more information.
Just being honest with you. But, all that said; you should pursue your dreams. Get all the info !
Best of luck in your adventures.
Mary Ann