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Hello! I've applied and been accepted into 8 colleges, but I'm set on attending the University of North Texas and majoring in biochemistry! My best friend is leaning toward enrolling at UNT as well, and we plan to dorm together if she goes with me. We've been looking at dormitories and room layouts and I think we've settled on where we want to apply for housing at. However, what I'm still pondering is what should and shouldn't I do as an incoming college freshman? This will be my first time away from home for such a long time and I want to be well-prepared for the adventure . Any advice or words of wisdom is very appreciated, thank you !!
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Paula’s Answer
That's wonderful news about the University of North Texas and your biochemistry major! Preparing for college is exciting, and having your best friend possibly dorm with you is a great start.
Here is some advice on what you should and shouldn't do as an incoming college freshman.
The Do's for a Successful First Year
Go to Class and Be Prepared. Even if attendance isn't mandatory, it's essential to go to every class, especially since you are paying for the course. Professors often give out crucial information about tests or assignments that you won't get elsewhere.
Get Organized and Manage Your Time. Unlike high school, professors often provide all assignments for the entire semester on the syllabus. Use a planner, calendar, or app to keep track of due dates for long-term projects and exams.
Connect with Your Professors. Make use of faculty office hours, even if you don't think you need help. Building a relationship can be beneficial if you ever need an extension, help, or a letter of recommendation later on.
Use Campus Resources. Colleges offer many services to help you succeed. Take advantage of resources like tutoring centers, writing labs, and the Career Services office. Don't wait until senior year to visit Career Services for help with your resume or internships.
Get Involved. Join clubs and organizations that interest you to meet people outside of your major and dorm. Attending orientation events is also important to learn your way around campus and all the processes.
Communicate with Your Roommate. To avoid conflict, discuss expectations early in the semester about things like cleaning, study habits, and having friends over.
Prioritize Your Health. Make sure to take care of your physical and mental health. This includes getting enough sleep, eating a balanced diet, and setting aside time for activities that help you relax and de-stress.
The Don'ts to Avoid
Don't Isolate Yourself. Make an effort to be social, even if you're shy. Loneliness can set in easily, and it becomes harder to make friends the longer you wait. Talk to people on your floor, in the cafeteria, and in your classes to expand your social network.
Don't Procrastinate Endlessly. While it's normal to procrastinate sometimes, avoid letting it become a habit. You'll need to stay on top of your readings and assignments to keep your grades up.
Don't Feel Pressured to Rush Your Major. Even though you are set on Biochemistry, it's very common for students to change their major. Take your time to explore different interests through electives and discover what you're truly passionate about.
Don't Make All-Nighters a Habit. Relying on all-nighters to study or finish work is not a sustainable way to maintain your health or grades.
Don't Forget to Take Responsibility. College is a time for personal growth. Take responsibility for yourself and your actions, and avoid blaming others for mistakes.
Remember that this is a huge new adventure, and it is okay to feel a period of adjustment. Ask for help when you need it, and be kind to yourself through the process! You've got this!
Here is some advice on what you should and shouldn't do as an incoming college freshman.
The Do's for a Successful First Year
Go to Class and Be Prepared. Even if attendance isn't mandatory, it's essential to go to every class, especially since you are paying for the course. Professors often give out crucial information about tests or assignments that you won't get elsewhere.
Get Organized and Manage Your Time. Unlike high school, professors often provide all assignments for the entire semester on the syllabus. Use a planner, calendar, or app to keep track of due dates for long-term projects and exams.
Connect with Your Professors. Make use of faculty office hours, even if you don't think you need help. Building a relationship can be beneficial if you ever need an extension, help, or a letter of recommendation later on.
Use Campus Resources. Colleges offer many services to help you succeed. Take advantage of resources like tutoring centers, writing labs, and the Career Services office. Don't wait until senior year to visit Career Services for help with your resume or internships.
Get Involved. Join clubs and organizations that interest you to meet people outside of your major and dorm. Attending orientation events is also important to learn your way around campus and all the processes.
Communicate with Your Roommate. To avoid conflict, discuss expectations early in the semester about things like cleaning, study habits, and having friends over.
Prioritize Your Health. Make sure to take care of your physical and mental health. This includes getting enough sleep, eating a balanced diet, and setting aside time for activities that help you relax and de-stress.
The Don'ts to Avoid
Don't Isolate Yourself. Make an effort to be social, even if you're shy. Loneliness can set in easily, and it becomes harder to make friends the longer you wait. Talk to people on your floor, in the cafeteria, and in your classes to expand your social network.
Don't Procrastinate Endlessly. While it's normal to procrastinate sometimes, avoid letting it become a habit. You'll need to stay on top of your readings and assignments to keep your grades up.
Don't Feel Pressured to Rush Your Major. Even though you are set on Biochemistry, it's very common for students to change their major. Take your time to explore different interests through electives and discover what you're truly passionate about.
Don't Make All-Nighters a Habit. Relying on all-nighters to study or finish work is not a sustainable way to maintain your health or grades.
Don't Forget to Take Responsibility. College is a time for personal growth. Take responsibility for yourself and your actions, and avoid blaming others for mistakes.
Remember that this is a huge new adventure, and it is okay to feel a period of adjustment. Ask for help when you need it, and be kind to yourself through the process! You've got this!
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BreAnne’s Answer
First of all, congrats, that’s such an exciting place to be. UNT and biochemistry are a great combo, and it’s awesome you already have a friend you might be rooming with. That makes the transition a lot less intimidating.
Some college do’s and don’ts, from my real-life perspective:
Do go to class, even when attendance isn’t mandatory. It’s way easier to stay on top of things when you’re actually there, and professors notice more than you think. Ask me how I know...:-)
Do give yourself time to adjust. The first few weeks can feel overwhelming or awkward, and that’s completely normal. Get some fresh air - take a walk around campus and take it all in.
Do try new things, clubs, study spots, people. College is one of the easiest times to explore interests and meet others who like the same weirdly specific things you do.
Do communicate with your roommate early. Even if you’re best friends, talk about expectations, sleep schedules, guests, and shared space. It saves a lot of unnecessary tension later. Also ask me how I know...:-)
Now for the don’ts:
Don’t feel pressure to do everything or be everywhere. You don’t have to join ten organizations or a fraternity/sorority. The greek life isn't for everyone, and can be a HUGE undertaking if you aren't familiar with it. Join groups thoughtfully.
Don’t ignore your health. Sleep, food, and downtime actually matter more than pulling all-nighters and running on caffeine alone.
Don’t be afraid to ask for help. Tutoring, advising, counseling, and professors’ office hours exist for a reason.
Overall, be kind to yourself, stay curious, and remember that college is about learning who you are just as much as what you’re studying. You’re allowed to change (majors, roommates, dorms, plans...) and make a few mistakes along the way. That’s part of the adventure.
You’re going to do great.
Some college do’s and don’ts, from my real-life perspective:
Do go to class, even when attendance isn’t mandatory. It’s way easier to stay on top of things when you’re actually there, and professors notice more than you think. Ask me how I know...:-)
Do give yourself time to adjust. The first few weeks can feel overwhelming or awkward, and that’s completely normal. Get some fresh air - take a walk around campus and take it all in.
Do try new things, clubs, study spots, people. College is one of the easiest times to explore interests and meet others who like the same weirdly specific things you do.
Do communicate with your roommate early. Even if you’re best friends, talk about expectations, sleep schedules, guests, and shared space. It saves a lot of unnecessary tension later. Also ask me how I know...:-)
Now for the don’ts:
Don’t feel pressure to do everything or be everywhere. You don’t have to join ten organizations or a fraternity/sorority. The greek life isn't for everyone, and can be a HUGE undertaking if you aren't familiar with it. Join groups thoughtfully.
Don’t ignore your health. Sleep, food, and downtime actually matter more than pulling all-nighters and running on caffeine alone.
Don’t be afraid to ask for help. Tutoring, advising, counseling, and professors’ office hours exist for a reason.
Overall, be kind to yourself, stay curious, and remember that college is about learning who you are just as much as what you’re studying. You’re allowed to change (majors, roommates, dorms, plans...) and make a few mistakes along the way. That’s part of the adventure.
You’re going to do great.
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Brandon’s Answer
Paula and Aisha have shared some wonderful insights, and I'd like to add a few more based on my own experiences.
Do: Use college as a chance to dive into what interests you. I once thought I had my path all figured out, but looking back, I wish I had tried a coding class or explored more entrepreneurial opportunities. It's never too late to discover new passions.
Don't: Limit yourself to just the friends you already know. While it's comforting to have familiar faces around, I've seen people miss out on meeting amazing new friends by sticking to the same circle. The first few months of college are perfect for making lifelong friends. Some of my college friends stood by me at my wedding and are still among my closest friends today.
Do: Use college as a chance to dive into what interests you. I once thought I had my path all figured out, but looking back, I wish I had tried a coding class or explored more entrepreneurial opportunities. It's never too late to discover new passions.
Don't: Limit yourself to just the friends you already know. While it's comforting to have familiar faces around, I've seen people miss out on meeting amazing new friends by sticking to the same circle. The first few months of college are perfect for making lifelong friends. Some of my college friends stood by me at my wedding and are still among my closest friends today.
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Aisha’s Answer
Hi Ren,
Congratulations on getting into UNT! It's great that you and your best friend might be roommates. Having someone you know can really help you settle in. Here are some tips for your freshman year:
DO's
- Get involved early by joining clubs or activities you like. It's a great way to meet new people.
- Go to class regularly, especially in your first semester. It helps you get used to college life and meet professors and classmates.
- Build relationships with professors by visiting during office hours and participating in class. They can be helpful mentors.
- Manage your time with a planner or digital calendar. Balancing school, social life, and self-care is key.
- Take care of your health by sleeping well, eating right, and exercising. Use campus counseling if you need support.
- Communicate with your roommate about sleep, guests, and shared items to avoid misunderstandings.
- Explore your campus and city to find resources, dining spots, and fun places.
- Ask for help when you need it, whether it's with academics or personal support.
DON'Ts
- Don't procrastinate on assignments. Start early, especially in a tough major like biochemistry.
- Don't isolate yourself. Get out and meet people for your well-being.
- Don't let social life overshadow your studies. Keep a good balance for your GPA.
- Don't ignore your finances. Budget wisely and keep track of spending and loans.
- Don't try to figure everything out alone. Reach out to your RA, advisors, and mentors.
- Don't overcommit. Focus on a few activities to avoid burnout.
- Don't forget to stay in touch with family. Regular chats can help with homesickness.
- Don't compromise your values or safety. Make smart choices and look out for yourself and friends.
Biochemistry-Specific Tips
- Connect with other biochemistry majors for study groups.
- Use tutoring services and lab support from the start.
- Build relationships with STEM professors and advisors.
You've got this! Enjoy your new adventure!
Congratulations on getting into UNT! It's great that you and your best friend might be roommates. Having someone you know can really help you settle in. Here are some tips for your freshman year:
DO's
- Get involved early by joining clubs or activities you like. It's a great way to meet new people.
- Go to class regularly, especially in your first semester. It helps you get used to college life and meet professors and classmates.
- Build relationships with professors by visiting during office hours and participating in class. They can be helpful mentors.
- Manage your time with a planner or digital calendar. Balancing school, social life, and self-care is key.
- Take care of your health by sleeping well, eating right, and exercising. Use campus counseling if you need support.
- Communicate with your roommate about sleep, guests, and shared items to avoid misunderstandings.
- Explore your campus and city to find resources, dining spots, and fun places.
- Ask for help when you need it, whether it's with academics or personal support.
DON'Ts
- Don't procrastinate on assignments. Start early, especially in a tough major like biochemistry.
- Don't isolate yourself. Get out and meet people for your well-being.
- Don't let social life overshadow your studies. Keep a good balance for your GPA.
- Don't ignore your finances. Budget wisely and keep track of spending and loans.
- Don't try to figure everything out alone. Reach out to your RA, advisors, and mentors.
- Don't overcommit. Focus on a few activities to avoid burnout.
- Don't forget to stay in touch with family. Regular chats can help with homesickness.
- Don't compromise your values or safety. Make smart choices and look out for yourself and friends.
Biochemistry-Specific Tips
- Connect with other biochemistry majors for study groups.
- Use tutoring services and lab support from the start.
- Build relationships with STEM professors and advisors.
You've got this! Enjoy your new adventure!
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Laura’s Answer
Hello! I echo a lot of the other answers here in making sure you're exploring your new environment, joining clubs and groups and getting involved! As much as it's great that you'll have a friendly face when you get to your new school, definitely branch out and meet new people. Having had some good and bad roommate experiences, even if you know your roommate, make sure you set some really basic guidelines based on respect for each other. Characteristics such as preferring to study at night in your room, or needing music to study may seem silly now but may impact you both later. Discuss openly topics such as communication, cleanliness, personal space, guests, and quiet hours. Beyond that, have fun, go to class, study hard and get your degree!
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Paul’s Answer
Attending college away from home can sometimes be a very daunting experience, especially for people who are going to be away from home for an extended period of time. Attending college away definitely requires balancing your newfound independence with common sense values, to assist you in surviving the experience.
I always recommend prioritizing exploring your campus environment, creating a familiar living space, and campus activities like joining clubs to meet people, while also setting healthy communication boundaries with family to manage your homesickness. Transition do take time so attempt to be patient with the transition, manage your resources and money, and keep an open mindset to new experiences.
Here are some of the things that I recommend:
Explore Early: Not only go on a campus tour (which can be arranged online), but also walk around campus and your new college town to find study spots, coffee shops, and regional parks.
Get Involved: Join student life organizations like campus clubs and organizations to find friends with shared interests.
Don't Go Home Too Soon: Avoid returning home every weekend; it can hinder your ability to build lasting connections.
Be Open-Minded: Embrace new perspectives, other countries and cultures, and people, and consider taking classes outside your major (utilize your electives part of your college degree).
Create a safe and comfortable space: Decorate your dorm with pictures, posters, and familiar items to make it a comforting refuge.
Master Life Skills: Practice doing your own laundry, cleaning, cooking, and doing minor repairs.
Respect Your Roommates: Set clear expectations early regarding cleaning, visitors, and noise.
Manage Homesickness: It is normal to miss being at home, but avoid over-communicating with relatives and others at home. Schedule regular, but not daily, check-ins.
Be Patient: Transitioning into new environments takes time, so be patient with your adjustment.
Stay Healthy (take care of yourself): Find the campus health services, physical education, intramural and activity centers, and find a local doctor if necessary (in case of an emergency).
Budget Your Resources and Money Wisely: Create a budget and understand how to manage your own bank account and financial resources.
Get Organized: Keep important documents (identification, like drivers license, insurance cards, social security number) secure and accessible.
Use Resources: Don't hesitate to use campus support groups, tutoring centers, libraries, or counseling for academic anxiety or stress.
I always recommend prioritizing exploring your campus environment, creating a familiar living space, and campus activities like joining clubs to meet people, while also setting healthy communication boundaries with family to manage your homesickness. Transition do take time so attempt to be patient with the transition, manage your resources and money, and keep an open mindset to new experiences.
Here are some of the things that I recommend:
Explore Early: Not only go on a campus tour (which can be arranged online), but also walk around campus and your new college town to find study spots, coffee shops, and regional parks.
Get Involved: Join student life organizations like campus clubs and organizations to find friends with shared interests.
Don't Go Home Too Soon: Avoid returning home every weekend; it can hinder your ability to build lasting connections.
Be Open-Minded: Embrace new perspectives, other countries and cultures, and people, and consider taking classes outside your major (utilize your electives part of your college degree).
Create a safe and comfortable space: Decorate your dorm with pictures, posters, and familiar items to make it a comforting refuge.
Master Life Skills: Practice doing your own laundry, cleaning, cooking, and doing minor repairs.
Respect Your Roommates: Set clear expectations early regarding cleaning, visitors, and noise.
Manage Homesickness: It is normal to miss being at home, but avoid over-communicating with relatives and others at home. Schedule regular, but not daily, check-ins.
Be Patient: Transitioning into new environments takes time, so be patient with your adjustment.
Stay Healthy (take care of yourself): Find the campus health services, physical education, intramural and activity centers, and find a local doctor if necessary (in case of an emergency).
Budget Your Resources and Money Wisely: Create a budget and understand how to manage your own bank account and financial resources.
Get Organized: Keep important documents (identification, like drivers license, insurance cards, social security number) secure and accessible.
Use Resources: Don't hesitate to use campus support groups, tutoring centers, libraries, or counseling for academic anxiety or stress.
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Stephanie’s Answer
CONGRATULATIONS! I echo all of the above and would emphasize that 50%+ of going away to college is about learning life skills and how to engage in the big bad world! You will have so many new experiences coming your way: mtg new people, taking classes, managing your own schedule, managing your own life, coursework that they have responsibility for completing, clubs/activities, university events, communal living, loads of distractions, kindness, adversity, etc. Know that you have that skills and resources to help you with all of it. Keep life in perspective. Leverage your "community" in family, friends, professionals, academic leadership, etc. and never fear asking for help!