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What is advice you would give a stressed high school student who is confused about what career they would like to pursue?

I have very many skills and a constant desire for learning and self-improvement. However, because I love so many subjects, I find it difficult to just stick with one major and am constantly changing my mind about what I actually want to do. Please help!

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Andrea’s Answer

Hi Sandra! It's naturally to be confused and uncertain about what career path to pursue. The fact that you have many interests and are seemingly intellectually curious is a good thing! There are aptitude tests you can take online to help you try and narrow some ideas/options. Another consideration is to read books / take online tests that help you find your strengths. This way you can identify majors / career paths that are in subject matters that interest you AND align with your strengths! A career in management consulting may be a great option for you - consulting firms hire from a variety of undergraduate backgrounds and provide great opportunities to get a breadth of work experience. Stay intellectually curious and don't put too much pressure on yourself to figure it all out now! Best of luck to you!
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Alexis’s Answer

Hey Sandra!

Just like you, I once faced the challenge of choosing a major and deciding on a career path. It can feel overwhelming when you have a wide range of interests! Always remember, though, that you're never truly stuck in one field, and it's never too late to change careers. I personally chose to major in Government & Politics and worked in the legal sector during and after college. However, I was always intrigued by the world of computer science, thanks to my friends and family who were involved in it.

This curiosity stayed with me even after college, and eventually, I decided to switch careers and enter the tech industry. I took a coding bootcamp, which helped me secure my first tech job five years ago. Looking back, I'm grateful for my unique career journey, even though it took some time to find the perfect fit. Each path and job you take will teach you valuable lessons that will aid you in your future endeavors. So, don't worry – you have countless exciting opportunities and experiences ahead of you!
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Katherine’s Answer

Don't worry too much; you'll be just fine and eventually discover what truly makes you happy. It's alright not to have all the answers right now. Many people are unsure about their path, and some even change their minds after starting on one – and that's totally okay!

Embrace the journey of exploring various subjects and choose something that piques your interest. Remind yourself that it's fine to change directions if you're not content.

Take my three kids, for example: none of them knew their calling. One became a nurse, another studied computer science but found success in consulting, and my eldest took a five-year break before graduating with honors in chemistry and starting a PhD program. Who could've predicted that? Things have a way of working out, and sometimes the journey itself is the best part. So, sit back and enjoy the ride! : 0 )
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Andrew’s Answer

Hey, Sandra. I would consider loving so many subjects a good problem. Being interested in many things and constantly learning means you can teach yourself to see things from different vantage points, which is a valuable skill. It's also good that you are thinking about this in high school. Now is a great time to explore.

I would recommend speaking with your teachers, thinking about what interests you most, volunteering, taking career assessments, making pros and cons lists, keeping a journal, going to the library for ideas, etc. Hopefully, things will get more clear. And it's cool if you change your mind.

Good luck!
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Paul E.’s Answer

Hi Sandra! I can relate to your problem. I had similar questions while I was a high school student. It sounds like you are well rounded, which is a good thing. This will also help you to be adaptable in the workplace. I know it can be tough to narrow things down, but I will give you some advice from my personal experience.

Try taking on summer internships for high school students related to fields that you are interested in. There may even be part time jobs available. That will help you to narrow down your search while offering a glimpse into a career path that you may/may not find satisfying. Ask a ton of questions and do your research. Your goal is to find something that is sustainable, and will not become obsolete in the coming years, while balancing earnings potential and, most importantly, passion. You want to figure out a career path that you can see yourself doing for the rest of your life, day in and day out. If you can find one in a field that you are passionate about, it will not feel like work. Instead, you will be satiating your hunger, and it will feel even more rewarding.

The best part about this whole thing though: You are still young. You can take time to figure things out. You will make mistakes, but the important thing is that you learn from them and move on. Don't dwell and get overly stressed. Take chances. It's totally fine to change your mind. You may choose a major that you thought you loved but you may figure out later that something else interests you. You have that option. Your story is being written in real time and you are the author. There are plenty of roads to take. Enjoy the journey.
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Rachel’s Answer

Hi, in High School I took a career aptitude test. It narrowed down the fields that I would best fit in based on my answer choices. Using a site like the one listed below maybe helpful for you. Those are amazing personality qualities you have, the thirst for knowledge and open mindedness. I would also recommend shadowing/volunteering at facilities in career options you are interested in to really make sure you may like that field.
https://www.truity.com/view/tests/personality-career
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Ryan’s Answer

First word of advice, try not to stress yourself too much about this topic. It's completely normal to be in this position of not knowing what exactly you want to do. If possible, I would look into seeing if the college you plan to attend (or are currently attending) has a major/department for students like you who are unsure of what major they want to select. Some colleges have programs where they allow you to form your own curriculum for the first 2 years to allow you to try different subjects and figure out what you want to major in.
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Brianna’s Answer

Hi, Sandra,

It's definitely better to have too many interests than none when it comes to career planning. The first thing you need to remember is that there is no rule about how you need to "commit" to one field or one career path. Very many people go to college, major in a subject, and then go into a career that is barely related at all. Many people change careers after working for a while. Many people change college majors, or choose to double-major or have a minor. My point is, there is no reason to belive that the choice you make about what to study now is going to lock you into that one field and that one career path forever. Choosing to pursue one interest over the others doesn't make them disappear as options.

That being said, if you would like to start thinking of a few potential college majors and/or potential career paths, I'd advise to look beyond the content of the jobs and do more research into what a typical workday is like. For example, you may know that you are interested in visual art. But the day to day work lives of a graphic designer vs an illustrator vs an interior designer vs an animator vs a marketing consultant are all very different, even if they all involve visual art.

Start asking yourself what kind of setting you enjoy and see yourself succeeding in. What kind of work hours and schedule? What kind of work/life balance? What kind of pay? Do you like flexibility or structure? Fast paced environments or slow paced? A lot of guidance or a lot of independence? Working alone or on a team? These are the elements that determine how content you are in your job, not just being interested in the work. If you start brainstorming these questions, you can start looking into more specific careers that fit your criteria.
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PwC’s Answer

Make sure to continue building and maintaining your friendships with those you've created during high school. Once people split for college or other reasons, it's very common to neglect your relationships w/ them. Give your buddy a text or call here and then to check-in, they'll appreciate it!
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You don't have to know what you want your career to focus to be at age 17-18. Arguably, you shouldn’t. You can always change your major. Talk with admissions department or academic advisor. They should become your best friend and advocate.
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Very Few students know what career they really want in high school, and even fewer end up staying there their whole careers. Find something that interests you and run with it, and a job will come from it.
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Gain experience (jobs, internships, volunteering) in what you’re interested in.
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Time always feels like it’s running out. But the older you get, you’ll realize how little the deadlines in your head mean. Go at your own pace and don’t beat yourself up.
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Talk to as many people as you could using connections. Maintain friendships you currently have. You never know who you will end up needing help from.
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Don’t be afraid to take the first step.
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I'm 27 and still don't know what to do! Volunteering was super helpful for me because I was able to explore different fields a see what I liked.
I learned that I LOVED helping people and that I was passionate about education. This helped guide me in finding a major and career. Also, you can always change your mind! You don’t have to make up your mind today!
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Even if you don't know what to do, go to school. Learn something, and take classes that will allow you to expand your world view and develop a mind set different from everyone else who hasn't been afforded the opportunity to do so. The world is full of endless possibilities, and with a higher mental capacity, you'll be able to explore and comprehend stories more meaningfully. I promise you'll figure it out.
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First, you aren't alone! There are so many students around the world Who are feeling the same way. Second, you don't need to have all of the answers right now focus on working hard in your classes and exploring what excites you in and outside of school. Career interests may change or evolve over time, so keep an open mind. The world is your oyster!
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When I was in high school I had no idea what I wanted to do for my career. As a starting point, I thought about the classes I took that brought me the most joy. I had so much fun in my economics class and found I got a lot of satisfaction from solving economics problems. Then I decided to pursue an economics degree in college, and from there was able to explore different Career options. Basically, I would take it one step at a time. Ask yourself, "what brings you the most joy?" and I go from there!
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Focus more on learning about yourself and what motivates you than your grades/career/college applications- those are all important but will naturally align once you find your values and intrinsic motivation.
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It is okay to not be sure! I had the same experience and during my first year of college I tried different courses and found what I enjoyed the most. It is okay to take time to figure out what you want to do.
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It's okay to be unsure; find what you love and look for options around that; also don't be afraid to ask questions, use this time to listen to others and get a sense of your future :)
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Just enjoy high school for what it is and don't worry so much about your future career. Work hard in school and try and see if there are classes or extracurriculars you like in particular and go with that! Do what makes you happy and put yourself out there. It will all work out.
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Step out of your comfort zone. Many of my best experiences were ones that I was more inclined to say "no" to because of simple uncertainty. But once I pushed past discomfort, I was glad that I said "yes" to that choice.
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Just relax, it will figure itself out. Just remain focused.
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You will figure it out at the right time. Just be patient and try to experience / seek out information about as many different career options as possible.
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James Constantine’s Answer

Hello Sandra,

Advice for a Stressed High School Student Confused About Career Pursuits

It’s completely normal to feel stressed and confused about choosing a career path, especially when you have a wide range of skills and interests. Here are some pieces of advice that might help you navigate through this challenging phase:

1. Self-Reflection and Assessment Take the time to reflect on your strengths, weaknesses, interests, and values. Consider what activities make you lose track of time, what subjects you excel in, and what kind of impact you want to make in the world. Self-assessment tools such as personality tests, interest inventories, and skills assessments can also provide valuable insights into potential career paths that align with your attributes.

2. Explore Various Options Don’t feel pressured to have everything figured out immediately. It’s okay to explore different fields and career options. Consider shadowing professionals in various industries, participating in internships or volunteer work, or taking on part-time jobs to gain exposure to different environments. This hands-on experience can help you understand what resonates with you and what doesn’t.

3. Seek Guidance Reach out to your school counselor, teachers, or mentors for guidance. They can provide valuable advice and resources to help you explore your interests and narrow down your options. Additionally, consider speaking with professionals in fields that interest you. Their insights can offer a realistic perspective on the day-to-day responsibilities and challenges of specific careers.

4. Research Potential Careers Take the time to research different careers thoroughly. Look into the job outlook, required education or training, potential salary, work environment, and growth opportunities for each field you’re considering. Understanding the practical aspects of various careers can help you make informed decisions.

5. Embrace Flexibility It’s important to remember that it’s okay for your interests and goals to evolve over time. Many people change careers multiple times throughout their lives, so don’t feel like you’re locked into one choice forever. Embrace flexibility and remain open to new opportunities as they arise.

6. Pursue a Well-Rounded Education If you have diverse interests, consider pursuing a well-rounded education that allows you to explore multiple subjects before specializing in a particular field. Liberal arts programs or universities with flexible curriculum options can provide the breadth of knowledge you seek while keeping doors open for future specialization.

7. Manage Stress Managing stress is crucial during this decision-making process. Practice self-care techniques such as exercise, mindfulness meditation, or engaging in hobbies that bring you joy. Additionally, consider seeking support from friends and family members who can provide encouragement and understanding during this challenging time.

Remember that it’s okay to feel uncertain about your future career path at this stage in your life. Many successful individuals have faced similar challenges before finding their true calling. By taking the time for self-reflection, exploration, seeking guidance, conducting thorough research, embracing flexibility, pursuing a well-rounded education, and managing stress effectively, you can navigate through this period of confusion and ultimately find a career path that aligns with your passions and strengths.

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The American Psychological Association (APA) - The APA provides valuable resources on career development and guidance for students facing career-related stress and confusion.
The National Association of Colleges and Employers (NACE) - NACE offers insights into career exploration strategies for high school students and provides data on emerging trends in various industries.
Harvard Business Review (HBR) - HBR publishes articles on career decision-making processes and offers expert advice on navigating career choices for individuals with diverse interests.

These sources were instrumental in providing evidence-based guidance for high school students grappling with career uncertainty.

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PwC’s Answer

Don't stress, you have time to figure this out! Most schools don't make you declare a major until after sophomore year, so in the meantime, take a diverse array of classes to start understanding what interests you. But again, it is not worth stressing over in high school!
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Samantha M’s Answer

I suggest you take a breath and relax. For the rest of your life, you have plenty of time to work out the kinks, and truthfully, what you decide today might not be what you decide tomorrow! It's wonderful if you have a variety of interests; keep learning more about each one. One of these topics will eventually click with you and feel like it was made for you. The fact that time is of the essence does not necessarily mean that you must make a decision right away; rather, it may simply indicate that time is on your side. Allow things to develop naturally, and when the time is right, you will know! The best part is that even if you decide against your major and find a job in a different industry, you will still have a degree. Life is about choices so remember to make good ones but that you can always choose to change your mind!
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