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Joy
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How stressful is it to manage your social life in college? #Spring25
For example, hanging out with friends and going to parties while also attending classes and taking exams
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Carlos Tiburcio
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Hi Joy,
From experience when I went to college, I can say that it depends on your style of studying. In my case, back then I almost all weekends went to clubs and hanged with friends, but during the week (Monday to Friday) I made sure to take the time to study in the afternoons & evening and make the respective assigned work so I could have Friday and Saturday nights free for social life.
Definitely there will be some times with large school assignments where you have to spend some time even on weekends to finish them, but is a matter to prioritize your activities.
So, definitely is achievable to find a balance, that mainly depends on your style of studying (for example, do you concentrate more in the afternoons, evenings or nights?, etc) so at the end is a matter of personal choice and prioritizing activities.
Hope that helps!
From experience when I went to college, I can say that it depends on your style of studying. In my case, back then I almost all weekends went to clubs and hanged with friends, but during the week (Monday to Friday) I made sure to take the time to study in the afternoons & evening and make the respective assigned work so I could have Friday and Saturday nights free for social life.
Definitely there will be some times with large school assignments where you have to spend some time even on weekends to finish them, but is a matter to prioritize your activities.
So, definitely is achievable to find a balance, that mainly depends on your style of studying (for example, do you concentrate more in the afternoons, evenings or nights?, etc) so at the end is a matter of personal choice and prioritizing activities.
Hope that helps!
Aparna Manoj
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Hey Joy! Finding balance is super important! You've probably heard this a lot, but your college years are really important, and you get to decide how to set up your routine. If you want your evenings free for fun stuff, try picking classes that are in the morning. I really suggest joining clubs that match your interests; it's a great way to make friends outside of class and talk about things you love that might also relate to your major. When school got busy for me, I would study with friends in the library or at a cafe to mix in some social time. I also kept part of my weekend open, usually Friday and Saturday nights, for hanging out with friends and then used the rest of the weekend to focus on studying. Remember, it's all about what works best for you. Good luck!
Connor Nicholson
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The key is finding a balance that works for you.
College often offers more freedom and flexibility than high school, which means you have more control over your schedule. You also will probably have even more time than you did in high school given fewer classes that meet far less often. This can make it easier to carve out time for both studying and socializing. However, it also requires you to be responsible for managing your time and setting priorities. There will be busy periods, especially around midterms and finals, when academics need to come first, but there will also be plenty of opportunities to relax and have fun, especially in your earlier years of college.
It’s normal to feel some stress as you adjust to this new balance, but most students find their rhythm after the first semester. Building good habits—like using a planner, setting aside regular study times, and being honest with yourself about your limits—can help you enjoy a rewarding social life without sacrificing your academic goals. Remember, it’s about quality, not quantity: meaningful connections and memorable experiences matter more than trying to do everything.
I guarantee you will be able to find time to make time for social life while still thriving and being successful in your schooling, however it will require discipline and staying on top of everything. I recommend making a routine and carving out designated time for school and for fun.
College often offers more freedom and flexibility than high school, which means you have more control over your schedule. You also will probably have even more time than you did in high school given fewer classes that meet far less often. This can make it easier to carve out time for both studying and socializing. However, it also requires you to be responsible for managing your time and setting priorities. There will be busy periods, especially around midterms and finals, when academics need to come first, but there will also be plenty of opportunities to relax and have fun, especially in your earlier years of college.
It’s normal to feel some stress as you adjust to this new balance, but most students find their rhythm after the first semester. Building good habits—like using a planner, setting aside regular study times, and being honest with yourself about your limits—can help you enjoy a rewarding social life without sacrificing your academic goals. Remember, it’s about quality, not quantity: meaningful connections and memorable experiences matter more than trying to do everything.
I guarantee you will be able to find time to make time for social life while still thriving and being successful in your schooling, however it will require discipline and staying on top of everything. I recommend making a routine and carving out designated time for school and for fun.