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Angy
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Milan, Lombardy, Italy
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What to do now that I got fired?
At September I should’ve started working on a LLC as a collaborator for a EU company remotely. It was all great, until today when they said that I got weird and I was not decided enough to work with them. They basically fired me even before starting to work. Now they wanted me to pay upfront the costs of opening the LLC(partita iva is called in Italy) and the flight/hotel for the onboarding. They didn’t say that in the beginning and I don’t have that liquidity upfront(and I honestly don’t trust them to refund me, even tho they said that they would) I stayed almost a month without sending resumes and even cancelling interviews because I was set on already having a job and income. Now my dream is to move to the US to be a actor and with a remote job I could’ve done that perfectly, but unfortunately those guys now fired me. I honestly don’t know what the hell I should even do with my life. They made me waste a month of job search because they changed their mind about me. The CEO said that it was better for the both of us to part ways and after asking he said that he will send me some contacts from other places in order to get me started again.
I am in pieces right now and I feel like my dream is about to get crushed after being so close to getting it.
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Sean Oxley
Operational Specialist
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Hi Angy,
First off, I'm so sorry to hear that this happened to you! I've definitely been in a situation with a company that wasn't forthcoming and had corrupt practices. I want you to know that I am rooting for you during this time. Here are some things that you can do:
1. First: Protect Your Energy from a Sinking Ship
You dodged a bullet. That company’s behavior — vague communication, late demands for personal upfront investment (which is highly unprofessional), and dismissing you based on subjective "weirdness" — is a huge red flag. They were not the stable platform for your dreams. You didn't lose a job; you lost a liability.
You now know that they:
-Were willing to risk your financial security with vague promises.
-Didn't clearly outline terms from the start (LLC costs, travel, etc.).
-Waited until the very last minute to pull the plug.
-Damaged your momentum and time with no accountability.
-This is not a loss — it’s a clear sign that you were about to tie yourself to people who don’t operate with integrity.
2. Mindset: Don’t Let a Temporary Detour Define Your Worth
Right now you feel like you’re in pieces. That’s understandable — your roadmap just blew up. But here’s the truth: your dream didn’t end. It just got delayed. That’s all.
You have:
A clear vision (acting in the US).
The talent to land remote roles (you were already offered one).
A better sense of what red flags to avoid next time.
The resilience to bounce back (even if you don’t feel it right now — the fact that you’re reflecting, reaching out, and looking for clarity proves it).
This isn’t your breaking point — it’s your turning point.
3. Take Control: Rebuild Quickly and Strategically
Now that you’re free from that mess, here’s your immediate to-do list to stabilize your path:
a. Update and Polish Your Resume + LinkedIn
Adjust your narrative to reflect that you were set to start a new role, but the company pivoted direction last minute, not due to your skills or performance.
Keep it neutral: “Contractor offer withdrawn before start due to internal shift in business priorities.”
Ask the CEO to follow through on sending those contacts — you’ve got nothing to lose.
b. Relaunch Your Job Search — With Lessons Learned
Start sending resumes today. You’re not starting from scratch, just reactivating.
Focus on remote-friendly, ethical companies. Use sites like We Work Remotely, Remote OK, and FlexJobs.
Reach back out to the interviews you canceled. Be honest but professional: “Circumstances have changed, and I’m re-exploring opportunities.”
c. Start Building Towards Your Acting Dream — Right Now
You don’t need to be in the US yet to move toward acting.
Start working on your portfolio (self-tapes, monologues, voice reels).
Join online acting communities, take remote classes, attend virtual casting calls.
Many actors build their careers globally now and then transition to the US with a solid foundation — that's realistic and possible.
Use this “pause” to become undeniably good. If the acting dream is really your priority, then your job is to design a life around it, not the other way around.
Also, remember to lean on your village. Network vigorously and keep perfecting your craft. You will make it through.
First off, I'm so sorry to hear that this happened to you! I've definitely been in a situation with a company that wasn't forthcoming and had corrupt practices. I want you to know that I am rooting for you during this time. Here are some things that you can do:
1. First: Protect Your Energy from a Sinking Ship
You dodged a bullet. That company’s behavior — vague communication, late demands for personal upfront investment (which is highly unprofessional), and dismissing you based on subjective "weirdness" — is a huge red flag. They were not the stable platform for your dreams. You didn't lose a job; you lost a liability.
You now know that they:
-Were willing to risk your financial security with vague promises.
-Didn't clearly outline terms from the start (LLC costs, travel, etc.).
-Waited until the very last minute to pull the plug.
-Damaged your momentum and time with no accountability.
-This is not a loss — it’s a clear sign that you were about to tie yourself to people who don’t operate with integrity.
2. Mindset: Don’t Let a Temporary Detour Define Your Worth
Right now you feel like you’re in pieces. That’s understandable — your roadmap just blew up. But here’s the truth: your dream didn’t end. It just got delayed. That’s all.
You have:
A clear vision (acting in the US).
The talent to land remote roles (you were already offered one).
A better sense of what red flags to avoid next time.
The resilience to bounce back (even if you don’t feel it right now — the fact that you’re reflecting, reaching out, and looking for clarity proves it).
This isn’t your breaking point — it’s your turning point.
3. Take Control: Rebuild Quickly and Strategically
Now that you’re free from that mess, here’s your immediate to-do list to stabilize your path:
a. Update and Polish Your Resume + LinkedIn
Adjust your narrative to reflect that you were set to start a new role, but the company pivoted direction last minute, not due to your skills or performance.
Keep it neutral: “Contractor offer withdrawn before start due to internal shift in business priorities.”
Ask the CEO to follow through on sending those contacts — you’ve got nothing to lose.
b. Relaunch Your Job Search — With Lessons Learned
Start sending resumes today. You’re not starting from scratch, just reactivating.
Focus on remote-friendly, ethical companies. Use sites like We Work Remotely, Remote OK, and FlexJobs.
Reach back out to the interviews you canceled. Be honest but professional: “Circumstances have changed, and I’m re-exploring opportunities.”
c. Start Building Towards Your Acting Dream — Right Now
You don’t need to be in the US yet to move toward acting.
Start working on your portfolio (self-tapes, monologues, voice reels).
Join online acting communities, take remote classes, attend virtual casting calls.
Many actors build their careers globally now and then transition to the US with a solid foundation — that's realistic and possible.
Use this “pause” to become undeniably good. If the acting dream is really your priority, then your job is to design a life around it, not the other way around.
Also, remember to lean on your village. Network vigorously and keep perfecting your craft. You will make it through.
TRAVIS UPCHURCH
Federal Contract Admin
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Austin, Texas
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TRAVIS’s Answer
Every door that closes another one opens. Look at a website called crowdgen. It offers remote projects. Apply to as many as possible.
Stephanie Zimmerman
Talent Acquisition
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St. Louis, MO
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Stephanie’s Answer
Keep your spirits up and remember that everything happens for a reason. Connect with people you've worked with before; they might help you find job openings at their companies. If you can, apply for unemployment benefits to support yourself. Stay up-to-date with your skills by taking courses on platforms like LinkedIn.
James Constantine Frangos
SOFTWARE ENGINEER SINCE 1972; NUTRITIONIST SINCE 1976.
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James Constantine’s Answer
Oh, Dear, Dear Angy I am sorry to hear this. I could sense that someone had issues - and it was not you. What do we do in situations like these? Some good reasons to sack people include CEO narcissism, or rank insecurities. Narcissists ask for unreasonable favors, 'or else', they feel abandoned.
What we do is pick up the pieces and look after ourselves. We need money to exist, so we chase any temporary job as soon as possible. Reset your goals accordingly with compensatory approaches. I have always asked university heads of academic departments to employ me as an intern or a tutor.
I did that in 1981 and Professor Ken Scott, Dean of the Biochemistry Department at The University of Queensland employed me as a Laboratory Supervisor and Tutor for Dentistry 1 and Medicine 2 students. With remote internships you can increase your geographic search area. Use the Internet to seek. Many academics need a search assistant. All you need to do is familiarize yourself with search engines.
IF YOU NEED ANY MORE INFORMATION, CONTACT US
TAKE CARE ANGY, GOD BLESS!
What we do is pick up the pieces and look after ourselves. We need money to exist, so we chase any temporary job as soon as possible. Reset your goals accordingly with compensatory approaches. I have always asked university heads of academic departments to employ me as an intern or a tutor.
I did that in 1981 and Professor Ken Scott, Dean of the Biochemistry Department at The University of Queensland employed me as a Laboratory Supervisor and Tutor for Dentistry 1 and Medicine 2 students. With remote internships you can increase your geographic search area. Use the Internet to seek. Many academics need a search assistant. All you need to do is familiarize yourself with search engines.
IF YOU NEED ANY MORE INFORMATION, CONTACT US
TAKE CARE ANGY, GOD BLESS!
Damon Jones
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Damon’s Answer
I'm sorry to hear about your job loss. It sounds like a tough situation that got worse over time. The main issue seems to be the verbal agreement, which they changed at the last moment. Written contracts are better because they give you proof if things change. Without a written agreement, it's hard to prove what was said or promised.
Now, you might want to consider taking legal action to possibly reach a fair settlement. Also, think about starting your own business or getting an internship to keep your work experience fresh. This could help you when looking for a new job and show others your value.
Wishing you all the best in the future!
Now, you might want to consider taking legal action to possibly reach a fair settlement. Also, think about starting your own business or getting an internship to keep your work experience fresh. This could help you when looking for a new job and show others your value.
Wishing you all the best in the future!
Aravind C
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Bengaluru, Karnataka, India
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Aravind’s Answer
Hi Angy,
I'm sorry to hear about losing your job. I've been there too after finishing my studies. It can be tough, but it also opens up new possibilities and chances for something better. Remember, starting over means you have experience on your side now. Take some time to relax and enjoy being with family and friends. Once you're recharged, you'll find a new job that might be even more exciting. Stay strong and good luck!
I'm sorry to hear about losing your job. I've been there too after finishing my studies. It can be tough, but it also opens up new possibilities and chances for something better. Remember, starting over means you have experience on your side now. Take some time to relax and enjoy being with family and friends. Once you're recharged, you'll find a new job that might be even more exciting. Stay strong and good luck!
April Yalenezian
Wireless Engineer
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Raleigh, North Carolina
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April’s Answer
I'm sorry this happened to you, but remember, everything happens for a reason! You've learned something important—trust your instincts! Now, stand up, shake off the dust, and live your best life! Success isn't a straight road; it has ups, downs, and different paths to choose from. Life is what happens while you're busy planning.
D'Mauri Rich
Client Communication Specialist
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Detroit, Michigan
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D'Mauri’s Answer
I'm sorry this happened to you. It hurts when a job is part of your dream, but remember, there are always better opportunities ahead. Stay positive and believe in yourself. You can still reach your goals. Keep your spirits up; things will work out!
Margarita Mendy
orthoptist
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New York, New York
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Margarita’s Answer
I am sorry this happened, but I believe in everything happens for the best.
Something is protecting you from getting lost in the wasteful opportunities. A respectful company would not require for you to pay for anything to work with them.
As a potential actor, you can recognize that agency that is really interested in you will not make you pay for photos or portfolio. They will create one for themselves to book you jobs. Same with any other company. If they offer a job, they should pay you, not ask you for money.
Try to take this time to send our resumes everywhere, update the necessary skills by taking training or self-learning. If you want to be an actor, invest your time and efforts into contacting professionals in the industry and creating personal connections.
Do not get discouraged and do keep going. Unfortunately acting also comes with a lot of rejections. Prepare yourself to brush it off and move forward. Good luck!
Something is protecting you from getting lost in the wasteful opportunities. A respectful company would not require for you to pay for anything to work with them.
As a potential actor, you can recognize that agency that is really interested in you will not make you pay for photos or portfolio. They will create one for themselves to book you jobs. Same with any other company. If they offer a job, they should pay you, not ask you for money.
Try to take this time to send our resumes everywhere, update the necessary skills by taking training or self-learning. If you want to be an actor, invest your time and efforts into contacting professionals in the industry and creating personal connections.
Do not get discouraged and do keep going. Unfortunately acting also comes with a lot of rejections. Prepare yourself to brush it off and move forward. Good luck!
Jane Wang123
Pre-Sales Project Manager
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Dalian, Liaoning, China
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Jane’s Answer
I'm really sorry this happened to you — and honestly, your frustration is completely valid.
You committed to something, trusted their words, and they changed the rules midway. That’s not your failure — that’s a reflection of poor leadership on their end. And asking you to pay upfront without clear agreement? That’s a red flag, not a missed opportunity.
It hurts, especially because you saw this job as a step toward your dream. But please remember: this setback doesn’t define your path — it just redirects it. The dream is still valid, and your potential is still intact.
Give yourself a day or two to process. Then pick yourself up, refresh your job search, and look for companies that respect your time and value your contributions. Remote opportunities are still out there — and your goals are still worth pursuing.
You've got this. One bad experience doesn't get to rewrite your future.
You committed to something, trusted their words, and they changed the rules midway. That’s not your failure — that’s a reflection of poor leadership on their end. And asking you to pay upfront without clear agreement? That’s a red flag, not a missed opportunity.
It hurts, especially because you saw this job as a step toward your dream. But please remember: this setback doesn’t define your path — it just redirects it. The dream is still valid, and your potential is still intact.
Give yourself a day or two to process. Then pick yourself up, refresh your job search, and look for companies that respect your time and value your contributions. Remote opportunities are still out there — and your goals are still worth pursuing.
You've got this. One bad experience doesn't get to rewrite your future.
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