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Luke
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How can I be more extroverted?
I am trying to bring together a group of classmates to make a student run TV show, but I am an introvert and find it hard to talk to people. What should I do to make myself feel comfortable but also impress my classmates so they will want to take part in the project. I want to be an actor/director/writer in Hollywood and Broadway in the future.
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Paul Silano Jr
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Hi Luke,
That's a great question. I think in this scenario, it's important to be as confident as possible in what you want to accomplish. Build a plan of how others can help, what the show might look like, it doesn't need to be all the details, but a simple plan that you can build upon will help give you the confidence to speak about the topic.
I'm an extrovert, but with any introverts I come across in my professional career, practice can be key. Try maybe practicing in front of someone you're comfortable with, that way you continue to build your confidence going into the conversation.
Best of luck!
That's a great question. I think in this scenario, it's important to be as confident as possible in what you want to accomplish. Build a plan of how others can help, what the show might look like, it doesn't need to be all the details, but a simple plan that you can build upon will help give you the confidence to speak about the topic.
I'm an extrovert, but with any introverts I come across in my professional career, practice can be key. Try maybe practicing in front of someone you're comfortable with, that way you continue to build your confidence going into the conversation.
Best of luck!
Thank you so much!
Luke
Kazi Rubayee
Oriental medicine health professional, Acupuncturist, Holistic health practitioner
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Kazi’s Answer
You are reaching for something big, imagining yourself as an actor, director, or writer in
Hollywood/ Broadway. Running a TV show, gathering people together, and creating
a project are leadership strategies.
Learning effective strategies can bring confidence, and you don’t need to change
your personality. Many introverts are successful in writing/directing/acting.
Helpful Tips:
Friendly posture, slow breath (calming effect), eye contact, start with a short ‘pitch.’
Which reflects:
Clear mission /message
Deep listening, clear communication, and creative vision that excites the team.
Clear direction (what are we doing now and learning in the future)
Initiate a question and let them answer( introvert characteristic)
1-on-1 conversation grows confidence and helps you step forward
Change your thought process: instead of thinking ‘I'm bad at this, think ‘I am improving.’
Confidence often shows in body language, and the brain follows the body.
Wish you move forward confidently,
Hollywood/ Broadway. Running a TV show, gathering people together, and creating
a project are leadership strategies.
Learning effective strategies can bring confidence, and you don’t need to change
your personality. Many introverts are successful in writing/directing/acting.
Helpful Tips:
Friendly posture, slow breath (calming effect), eye contact, start with a short ‘pitch.’
Which reflects:
Clear mission /message
Deep listening, clear communication, and creative vision that excites the team.
Clear direction (what are we doing now and learning in the future)
Initiate a question and let them answer( introvert characteristic)
1-on-1 conversation grows confidence and helps you step forward
Change your thought process: instead of thinking ‘I'm bad at this, think ‘I am improving.’
Confidence often shows in body language, and the brain follows the body.
Wish you move forward confidently,
Thank you so much for taking your time to answer!
Luke
Vianne Phan
Youth Development Teacher
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Vianne’s Answer
You don't have to become super extroverted to succeed. Many talented actors, writers, and directors are introverts who know how to get energized when needed. Instead of worrying about being social, focus on the project. People are more drawn to your passion and vision than to how outgoing you are. When you talk about the TV show, share your excitement about what you're creating, not about impressing others.
Start small by chatting with one or two classmates instead of gathering a big group right away. Ask for their thoughts and ideas rather than delivering a perfect pitch. Saying something like, "I'm working on a student TV show and would love your input" makes people feel included and helps you manage the conversation better. This team approach is usually more comfortable than trying to perform socially.
Remember, confidence in creative projects comes from being clear, not loud. If you can explain the concept, roles, and why it's fun, people will want to join. You don't need to take over the room to lead. Many successful creatives are introverts who listen well, organize ideas, and make others feel valued. That's the kind of leadership that works, and it's what a good director brings.
Start small by chatting with one or two classmates instead of gathering a big group right away. Ask for their thoughts and ideas rather than delivering a perfect pitch. Saying something like, "I'm working on a student TV show and would love your input" makes people feel included and helps you manage the conversation better. This team approach is usually more comfortable than trying to perform socially.
Remember, confidence in creative projects comes from being clear, not loud. If you can explain the concept, roles, and why it's fun, people will want to join. You don't need to take over the room to lead. Many successful creatives are introverts who listen well, organize ideas, and make others feel valued. That's the kind of leadership that works, and it's what a good director brings.
Thank you so much! Your advice gave me some great ideas, thanks!
Luke