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How can I make friends in college ?

Hi, I’m a rising senior in high school. I am getting ready to apply to colleges, etc. I am interested in some skills I could pick up on for college…..

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Mohit’s Answer

Making friends in college can be as simple and enjoyable as it was in high school.

There are two main aspects to this process. First, you need to develop strong social skills, and second, you should look for the right person to be friends with.

Here are some tips to help you improve your social skills:
- Greet people with a smile
- Offer genuine compliments
- Try to understand others' perspectives
- Show interest in other people
- Remember names
- Discuss shared interests
- Steer clear of arguments
- Listen attentively
- Support and uplift others

A great book to read on this topic is "How to Win Friends and Influence People."

As for finding the right person to be friends with, trust your instincts. You can often find like-minded individuals in:
- Study groups
- Your classes
- College events and activities
- Social clubs
Thank you comment icon Thanks, can't wait to put this advice into action! Alex
Thank you comment icon Wish you the best!!! Mohit Goyal
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Madisyn’s Answer

Hi Alex,

One approach to forming friendships in college is to actively participate! During my first year, I made many friendships by joining cultural and professional groups. Thus, I highly recommend exploring organizations or clubs that pique your curiosity and joining them! This enables you to meet on a regular basis and cultivate meaningful relationships. Additionally, consider striking up conversations with those you frequently encounter, such as dorm-mates and classmates.

All in all, maintain an open attitude and embrace the opportunity to create connections! Wishing you the best of luck.
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T.J.’s Answer

Hello Alex!

A helpful way to make friends is to talk to people in your classes and go to on-campus events!

In your classes, you can bond with people by just sitting to a person next to you. Talk to them about the syllabus, assignments, etc before , after, or in-between classes.

On-campus events are varied. It can include:
- Social clubs, where there's low stakes + anyone can join.
- Major/minor clubs, based on your degree.
- Professional clubs/organizations, where there's a more serious environment, based around job seeking.
- Interest-based clubs, like hobbies.
- Fraternities.
- Bands/Concerts
- Volunteering.
- Sports

You can select any club that works for you + your personality.

Basically - Find things that matches your comfort level - and at the same time - branch out of your comfort zone.
Do something that's fun and something that's new! Don't be afraid to take the first step and talk to people about anything relevant + interesting!

Sending you encouragement with talking to people in college :)
Thank you comment icon Thank you, this is amazing! I really needed it. Alex
Thank you comment icon You're welcome! T.J. Worthy
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Rebecca’s Answer

How did you make friends in high school? I don’t think college is any different! Just take your time; you’re starting over. Making friends in college is only tough because this is usually the first time you are essentially around strangers. Most of your time in grade school you spent with the same or mostly the same people. Now you have to start fresh. I found it very easy to make friends because I lived in the dorms, which I would highly recommend. You’ll have best friends in no time and it’s just a blast. The other stuff should be pretty organic; you can join clubs, go to school events, etc.
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Ricky’s Answer

Living on campus can be a fantastic way to make your initial circle of friends. I found my closest friend at school right in the dormitory. Participating in college clubs can also be beneficial as they provide a shared base such as mutual interests, aligned career aspirations, or religious beliefs. I'm aware that some of my friends have made connections through local churches. So, if you're part of a religious group, starting at your place of worship could be a good idea.
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A. Michelle’s Answer

There are a lot of ways to meet new people and form friendships in college. From your classes, get to know people through study groups or team projects. Grab coffee/tea after class or suggest a meal together. Outside of class join clubs or other groups where you will meet people with similar interests. Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there and share your true self.
Thank you comment icon Thanks, can't wait to put this advice into action! Alex
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Shalini’s Answer

Embracing an open-minded and friendly attitude can be a game-changer. Don't forget to wear your best smile every day!
Kindness is a powerful tool. Lend a hand when you can, and you'll see your network grow. Volunteering for a cause you truly care about can connect you with people who share your passions.
Remember, college is just another step in your educational journey, not a completely alien world. So, flash that winning smile of yours and seize the day. You're going to do great!
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Alexis’s Answer

I strongly recommend attending events, as it's a great way to meet new people. Remember, it's challenging to make connections if you're not in social environments. Try setting a simple goal like initiating a chat with one person. Before you realize it, your circle of friends will expand. Always remember to be true to yourself and let your genuine personality shine through.
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