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Trinay
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How did you deal with your fears of uncertainty when choosing where you want to go, both in college and in your career, and did you end up changing from your original plan, and by how much?
I'm scared I'l make the wrong choice and that I won't follow the path I want to see myself going down so any help would be greatly appreciated.
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Jason White
Lead Product Manager- Network Security
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Hey Trinay,
I landed on business partially because of how flexible the degree was. Business majors can work in practically any industry and even niches which combine industries. So part of curing the uncertainty was knowing that I could always change industries within business should I ever feel the desire to. I wasn't locked into any 1 industry like if I would have chosen say healthcare. This allowed me to follow things I was interested in which I learned in college was tech. So after college I went into tech sales. This is where I got exposure into not just the business but the technology which really peaked my curiosity for how things worked. I moved into marketing and then product management which were technically pivots but my skillsets built on each other.
I landed on business partially because of how flexible the degree was. Business majors can work in practically any industry and even niches which combine industries. So part of curing the uncertainty was knowing that I could always change industries within business should I ever feel the desire to. I wasn't locked into any 1 industry like if I would have chosen say healthcare. This allowed me to follow things I was interested in which I learned in college was tech. So after college I went into tech sales. This is where I got exposure into not just the business but the technology which really peaked my curiosity for how things worked. I moved into marketing and then product management which were technically pivots but my skillsets built on each other.
Emmanuel M'bra
Screenwriter and Film Analyst
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Abidjan, Lagunes Region, Côte d'Ivoire
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Emmanuel’s Answer
Hello Trinay,
Making a great and adequate choice about your graduation is about prioritization and passion.
Try to make a list of subjects (for college) and job (for career) where you will prioritize those you love.
That technique could help you avoid uncertainty and doubt in your choices. Seeing that, you will choose and do what to you love.
Trinay, indeed, if you are passionate about something you chose (job, career or college), that thing will always be the right and appropriate choice for you, because there is your passion and determination in it.
Whatever the choice in college or future career, the great thing you could do is to prioritize what you love, because it is about long term decisions. Choose always what you love first and you won’t surely regret it.
Trinay, spend a wonderful career, and God guard you
Making a great and adequate choice about your graduation is about prioritization and passion.
Try to make a list of subjects (for college) and job (for career) where you will prioritize those you love.
That technique could help you avoid uncertainty and doubt in your choices. Seeing that, you will choose and do what to you love.
Trinay, indeed, if you are passionate about something you chose (job, career or college), that thing will always be the right and appropriate choice for you, because there is your passion and determination in it.
Whatever the choice in college or future career, the great thing you could do is to prioritize what you love, because it is about long term decisions. Choose always what you love first and you won’t surely regret it.
Trinay, spend a wonderful career, and God guard you
Jazhel Honrado
Academic Svcs Administrator
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Hi Trinay,
First of all, it's completely normal to feel scared when making decisions that could shape your future. Fear often comes with stepping into the unknown—but that doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong. We all make choices based on what we know in the moment, and it’s okay if those decisions don’t end up being perfect in the long run. Life is full of change, and sometimes what works for us now might not later—and the opposite can be true, too.
Every path has its uncertainties, and it’s natural to feel intimidated. But the key is to take that first step, explore, and see if the path feels right for you. If you’re unsure about what field or direction you want to pursue, give yourself permission to try different things. You’ll learn more about what you like (and don’t like) along the way.
In my experience, I was fortunate that my undergraduate journey led me to a career in higher education. Overall, it’s been a rewarding path. I started from the ground up and gradually worked my way into a professional role. Even now, I’m continually learning and striving to grow as a better practitioner. My greatest hope is to keep expanding my ability to serve and support more individuals along the way.
Remember, the only constant in life is change, and learning to adapt is what helps us grow and thrive. Be curious, be open, and most importantly—be kind to yourself in the process.
Wishing you all the best!
First of all, it's completely normal to feel scared when making decisions that could shape your future. Fear often comes with stepping into the unknown—but that doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong. We all make choices based on what we know in the moment, and it’s okay if those decisions don’t end up being perfect in the long run. Life is full of change, and sometimes what works for us now might not later—and the opposite can be true, too.
Every path has its uncertainties, and it’s natural to feel intimidated. But the key is to take that first step, explore, and see if the path feels right for you. If you’re unsure about what field or direction you want to pursue, give yourself permission to try different things. You’ll learn more about what you like (and don’t like) along the way.
In my experience, I was fortunate that my undergraduate journey led me to a career in higher education. Overall, it’s been a rewarding path. I started from the ground up and gradually worked my way into a professional role. Even now, I’m continually learning and striving to grow as a better practitioner. My greatest hope is to keep expanding my ability to serve and support more individuals along the way.
Remember, the only constant in life is change, and learning to adapt is what helps us grow and thrive. Be curious, be open, and most importantly—be kind to yourself in the process.
Wishing you all the best!
Xin Xie
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Xin’s Answer
Hi Trinay,
Good Day!
I prioritized growth over certainty, constantly asking myself: ‘What skills and experiences will make me adaptable, no matter where I end up?’ Rather than clinging to a fixed path, I reminded myself that most people don’t follow their original plan, and that’s not just okay, but often beneficial.
I set broad intentions (like working in tech, creative fields, or helping professions) but stayed open to change. After all, many students begin as pre-med or pre-law only to discover a completely different passion.
Plans should evolve. It’s proof of growth. The goal isn’t to erase uncertainty but to build the resilience and flexibility to thrive.
I hope my experience can offer you a spark of inspiration, a reminder that uncertainty isn’t a barrier, but part of the journey. Wherever you land, trust that you’ll grow through the process.
Wish you all the best!!!
Good Day!
I prioritized growth over certainty, constantly asking myself: ‘What skills and experiences will make me adaptable, no matter where I end up?’ Rather than clinging to a fixed path, I reminded myself that most people don’t follow their original plan, and that’s not just okay, but often beneficial.
I set broad intentions (like working in tech, creative fields, or helping professions) but stayed open to change. After all, many students begin as pre-med or pre-law only to discover a completely different passion.
Plans should evolve. It’s proof of growth. The goal isn’t to erase uncertainty but to build the resilience and flexibility to thrive.
I hope my experience can offer you a spark of inspiration, a reminder that uncertainty isn’t a barrier, but part of the journey. Wherever you land, trust that you’ll grow through the process.
Wish you all the best!!!
Rebecca Tang
Banking
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Hong Kong
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Rebecca’s Answer
Thank you for your question. The fear is mainly comes from.uncertainty. If you can find out what career you have interest and more details, you will have less fear.
Below are my suggestions:
1. Think about what you have interest, eg your hobbies, favourite subjects, etc and identify the related careers
Eg if you like music, would you like to be a musician, singer, musical artist, music composer, music producer, etc
If you have interest in maths, would you like to be an accountant, engineer, banker, financial analyst, maths teacher, etc
2. Find out more on these careers and determine what you have interest
3. Speak to someone who are working in these careers. Seek guidance from your mentor, school career counselor, your parents, etc
4. Shortlist 1-2 careers you would like to pursue. The relevant subjects are the subjects you can focus
5. Different colleges have strength in different subjects. You can explore the college reviews on these subjects and find out the entry criteria
Hope this helps! Good luck!
May Almighty God bless you!
Below are my suggestions:
1. Think about what you have interest, eg your hobbies, favourite subjects, etc and identify the related careers
Eg if you like music, would you like to be a musician, singer, musical artist, music composer, music producer, etc
If you have interest in maths, would you like to be an accountant, engineer, banker, financial analyst, maths teacher, etc
2. Find out more on these careers and determine what you have interest
3. Speak to someone who are working in these careers. Seek guidance from your mentor, school career counselor, your parents, etc
4. Shortlist 1-2 careers you would like to pursue. The relevant subjects are the subjects you can focus
5. Different colleges have strength in different subjects. You can explore the college reviews on these subjects and find out the entry criteria
Hope this helps! Good luck!
May Almighty God bless you!