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I’m a 19-year-old international student in the U.S., currently in my first semester. My major is Business with a concentration in Finance. While I like certain aspects of it, I’m not entirely sure if I want to pursue it long-term. I often feel confused about whether it’s truly the right path for me. My parents, like many traditional and conservative ones, would prefer I pursue a field like medicine. They don’t force me, but I know they hope I’ll follow a path that leads to a stable and respected career. I do like biology, and sometimes I consider nursing, but I’m not sure that it’s the right fit for me either. Right now, I feel passionate about earning a business degree and doing pilot training alongside it. Still, I often question whether that’s the best choice for me or not. I really want to make a clear decision soon so I can plan my next steps without wasting more time. I already feel like I’ve lost some time being unsure, and I don’t want that to continue. ?
I’m a 19-year-old international student in the U.S., currently in my first semester. My major is Business with a concentration in Finance. While I like certain aspects of it, I’m not entirely sure if I want to pursue it long-term. I often feel confused about whether it’s truly the right path for me.
My parents, like many traditional and conservative ones, would prefer I pursue a field like medicine. They don’t force me, but I know they hope I’ll follow a path that leads to a stable and respected career. I do like biology, and sometimes I consider nursing, but I’m not sure that it’s the right fit for me either.
Right now, I feel passionate about earning a business degree and doing pilot training alongside it. Still, I often question whether that’s the best choice for me or not.
I really want to make a clear decision soon so I can plan my next steps without wasting more time. I already feel like I’ve lost some time being unsure, and I don’t want that to continue.
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Erin Douglas
Corporate Recruiter
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Saylorsburg, Pennsylvania
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Erin’s Answer
Hi Vish! It is completely fine to be unsure of what you want to do long term at your age! I've been in the work force for almost 10 years and I still change my mind of what I want to do long term! I am a recruiter for a retailer and specifically focus on finance hiring, and I will say, there are tons of different avenues to go within finance - accounting, financial analysis, financial planning, accounts payable/receivable, procurement (just to name a few). Something to note as well - finance roles bring a lot of useful skill sets for other types of positions too like strategy analysts, data analysts, etc. I think at the end of the day, you need to go with your gut of what you truly ENJOY doing! The medical field is a great field to get into as well, but finance is just as well respected...finance is the backbone of most companies (because without revenue, companies cannot move forward and grow). Maybe you can look into a finance role for a hospital or something to get the best of both worlds! Best of luck to you :)
Eddy H
Consultant
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Seattle, Washington
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Eddy’s Answer
From my personal experience, it's a lot more important to choose a path that you actually enjoy, especially if it’s going to be your career for the next 30+ years. You’re not just picking a major — you’re laying the foundation for your future, and if you’re not genuinely interested in what you’re studying or doing, it becomes much harder to stay motivated or succeed long-term.
It’s completely normal to feel confused in your first semester — a lot of people go through this, especially when there’s pressure from family to pursue something more “secure” or “traditional” like medicine. I understand that your parents want what’s best for you, but it’s also important to communicate openly with them and help them see that your passion lies elsewhere. In many cases, parents do come to understand and support you when they see that you’re serious, thoughtful, and working hard toward something you genuinely care about.
If you’re currently passionate about business and aviation, that’s worth paying attention to. That combination is actually more aligned than it might seem — careers in aviation management, airline operations, or even launching an aviation-related business are all possible paths that could blend both interests. Also, you don’t have to figure everything out immediately. This is your time to explore. If you’re still unsure, consider taking a few electives in biology or nursing alongside your business courses. That way, you’re not making a blind switch — you’re exploring with intention.
Ultimately, the goal is not just to choose a “safe” major, but to build a life you won’t want to escape from. You’re already on the right track by asking these questions and reflecting deeply — now just give yourself permission to pursue what truly excites you. Time is only wasted when you stop moving forward. Keep exploring, stay honest with yourself, and trust that clarity will come.
It’s completely normal to feel confused in your first semester — a lot of people go through this, especially when there’s pressure from family to pursue something more “secure” or “traditional” like medicine. I understand that your parents want what’s best for you, but it’s also important to communicate openly with them and help them see that your passion lies elsewhere. In many cases, parents do come to understand and support you when they see that you’re serious, thoughtful, and working hard toward something you genuinely care about.
If you’re currently passionate about business and aviation, that’s worth paying attention to. That combination is actually more aligned than it might seem — careers in aviation management, airline operations, or even launching an aviation-related business are all possible paths that could blend both interests. Also, you don’t have to figure everything out immediately. This is your time to explore. If you’re still unsure, consider taking a few electives in biology or nursing alongside your business courses. That way, you’re not making a blind switch — you’re exploring with intention.
Ultimately, the goal is not just to choose a “safe” major, but to build a life you won’t want to escape from. You’re already on the right track by asking these questions and reflecting deeply — now just give yourself permission to pursue what truly excites you. Time is only wasted when you stop moving forward. Keep exploring, stay honest with yourself, and trust that clarity will come.
Aparna Manoj
Technical Product Manager
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Sunnyvale, California
Updated
Aparna’s Answer
Hi Vish! It's perfectly normal to feel unsure about your career choices at 19. A business degree is valuable on its own, so you haven't wasted any time. It can open doors in many areas, no matter what career path you choose.
Take some time to think about what you enjoy. Look into pilot training to see if it's worth your time and money alongside your business degree. You might also want to try some basic biology or science courses to see if they interest you. This can help you decide if what your parents suggest is right for you. Remember, medicine is tough and should only be pursued if you're truly passionate about it.
Focus on what excites you. Ask yourself if you'd be happy working in a particular field. While not every day will be thrilling, if a career energizes you and you look forward to it, it’s worth considering. Your family may have different opinions, but it's important to do what feels right for you. They will likely understand in time.
Get real-world experience. Many professionals work in fields unrelated to their degrees because internships and job experiences often shape careers more than education alone. So, don't worry if your degree doesn't match your eventual job. Look for internships or shadowing opportunities to explore different career fields.
Don't forget your mental health. Being an international student can be challenging, so make sure you take care of yourself while focusing on academics and career goals.
Reach out to professionals in fields that interest you. Ask them about their job satisfaction and career paths. This can give you valuable insights into what might be the best fit for you.
Take some time to think about what you enjoy. Look into pilot training to see if it's worth your time and money alongside your business degree. You might also want to try some basic biology or science courses to see if they interest you. This can help you decide if what your parents suggest is right for you. Remember, medicine is tough and should only be pursued if you're truly passionate about it.
Focus on what excites you. Ask yourself if you'd be happy working in a particular field. While not every day will be thrilling, if a career energizes you and you look forward to it, it’s worth considering. Your family may have different opinions, but it's important to do what feels right for you. They will likely understand in time.
Get real-world experience. Many professionals work in fields unrelated to their degrees because internships and job experiences often shape careers more than education alone. So, don't worry if your degree doesn't match your eventual job. Look for internships or shadowing opportunities to explore different career fields.
Don't forget your mental health. Being an international student can be challenging, so make sure you take care of yourself while focusing on academics and career goals.
Reach out to professionals in fields that interest you. Ask them about their job satisfaction and career paths. This can give you valuable insights into what might be the best fit for you.
Nik Hyla, PMP
Cybersecurity
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Los Angeles, California
Updated
Nik’s Answer
Hi Vish,
It's completely understandable to feel unsure about your path. Many students face similar questions about their major and future career. It's clear you're thoughtfully considering your options, from business and finance to nursing, and even pilot training, while also navigating your parents' hopes.
Given your desire to make a clear decision soon, here are a few suggestions to help you explore your interests and clarify your direction:
Exploring Your Options
1. Shadowing/Informational Interviews: Reach out to professionals in fields you're considering (finance, nursing, aviation, etc.). A brief conversation or even a shadowing opportunity can give you a realistic glimpse into their daily work and help you determine if a particular career aligns with your expectations.
2. University Resources: Connect with your university's career services and academic advisors. They can offer guidance on exploring majors, discuss career paths, and potentially connect you with alumni in various fields.
3 Try a Class: Since you enjoy biology and are considering nursing, if your schedule allows, perhaps audit or take an introductory course in nursing or a related health science. This could give you a taste without committing to a full major change.
4. Pilot Training Research: Look into the time commitment and financial investment required for pilot training alongside a business degree. Understanding the logistics can help you see if this dual path is truly feasible and what sacrifices it might entail.
Remember, it's okay to take the time to figure things out. Your feelings of uncertainty are valid, and exploring now can prevent more significant changes down the line.
It's completely understandable to feel unsure about your path. Many students face similar questions about their major and future career. It's clear you're thoughtfully considering your options, from business and finance to nursing, and even pilot training, while also navigating your parents' hopes.
Given your desire to make a clear decision soon, here are a few suggestions to help you explore your interests and clarify your direction:
Exploring Your Options
1. Shadowing/Informational Interviews: Reach out to professionals in fields you're considering (finance, nursing, aviation, etc.). A brief conversation or even a shadowing opportunity can give you a realistic glimpse into their daily work and help you determine if a particular career aligns with your expectations.
2. University Resources: Connect with your university's career services and academic advisors. They can offer guidance on exploring majors, discuss career paths, and potentially connect you with alumni in various fields.
3 Try a Class: Since you enjoy biology and are considering nursing, if your schedule allows, perhaps audit or take an introductory course in nursing or a related health science. This could give you a taste without committing to a full major change.
4. Pilot Training Research: Look into the time commitment and financial investment required for pilot training alongside a business degree. Understanding the logistics can help you see if this dual path is truly feasible and what sacrifices it might entail.
Remember, it's okay to take the time to figure things out. Your feelings of uncertainty are valid, and exploring now can prevent more significant changes down the line.
Poorvi Mehta
Business Account Manager
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Bengaluru, Karnataka, India
Updated
Poorvi’s Answer
It’s Normal to Be Unsure at 19
You're in your first semester, which is a time meant for exploring. Feeling uncertain doesn’t mean you’re failing—it means you’re being thoughtful.
Business vs. Medicine/Nursing
Business (Finance): Offers broad career options, flexibility, and is great for entrepreneurial or analytical minds. If you're drawn to independence, strategy, and problem-solving, it's worth sticking with a bit longer.
Medicine/Nursing: Fulfilling in a very different way—more structured, stable, but also demanding and deeply personal. You need to feel a calling for the work, not just respect the stability it provides.
What You Can Do Next
Use This Semester Wisely - Take introductory courses in both finance and biology/nursing, if possible.
Use electives and general education courses to test the waters without fully committing.
Speak with Advisors & Professionals
Talk to academic advisors, professors, or students in both fields.
If possible, shadow a nurse or speak to a pilot or finance professional. Real exposure will clarify your fit more than theory ever can.
Don't Rush a Lifetime Decision
Feeling like you’re "wasting time" is understandable, but making the wrong decision in haste costs more in the long run.
One or two semesters of reflection is not wasted time—it’s an investment in long-term direction.
Wishing you the best!
You're in your first semester, which is a time meant for exploring. Feeling uncertain doesn’t mean you’re failing—it means you’re being thoughtful.
Business vs. Medicine/Nursing
Business (Finance): Offers broad career options, flexibility, and is great for entrepreneurial or analytical minds. If you're drawn to independence, strategy, and problem-solving, it's worth sticking with a bit longer.
Medicine/Nursing: Fulfilling in a very different way—more structured, stable, but also demanding and deeply personal. You need to feel a calling for the work, not just respect the stability it provides.
What You Can Do Next
Use This Semester Wisely - Take introductory courses in both finance and biology/nursing, if possible.
Use electives and general education courses to test the waters without fully committing.
Speak with Advisors & Professionals
Talk to academic advisors, professors, or students in both fields.
If possible, shadow a nurse or speak to a pilot or finance professional. Real exposure will clarify your fit more than theory ever can.
Don't Rush a Lifetime Decision
Feeling like you’re "wasting time" is understandable, but making the wrong decision in haste costs more in the long run.
One or two semesters of reflection is not wasted time—it’s an investment in long-term direction.
Wishing you the best!
Abby Braithwaite
Tax Accountant
4
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Costa Mesa, California
Updated
Abby’s Answer
Hi Vish! I was also torn between choosing a business degree and going into medicine. In the end, I chose business. I made this choice after spending a day shadowing a doctor in the field I was interested in. To decide on a career, it's helpful to talk to people who work in that area and try to shadow them to understand what the job is really like. Also, remember that you'll be in your job for a long time. While it's important to respect your parents' advice, you need to enjoy the work you do.
Leela Adhvaryu
14
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Updated
Leela’s Answer
Firstly, I must praise your openness! Recognizing and understanding where you stand is the first step in moving forward positively.
a. Having a business degree is beneficial no matter the path you choose. It provides a broad understanding and can be useful in any field.
b. Consider your options carefully, keeping in mind that college can be expensive. Balancing costs is important.
c. I encourage you to seek internships, volunteer work, or shadowing opportunities in nursing and finance. This will give you a taste of different careers and help you see if they suit you.
d. Remember, you don't have to stick to one career forever. After gaining experience, you can explore new paths, especially if you feel ready for a change. Skills you learn in one job can often be used in another, although it might take some effort.
e. Think about what interests you: Do you enjoy helping people? Solving problems? Seeking adventure? Working with numbers? Starting something on your own? Make a list and see what excites you the most.
f. Stay flexible, be eager to learn, and focus on the tasks at hand to achieve success.
Good luck!
a. Having a business degree is beneficial no matter the path you choose. It provides a broad understanding and can be useful in any field.
b. Consider your options carefully, keeping in mind that college can be expensive. Balancing costs is important.
c. I encourage you to seek internships, volunteer work, or shadowing opportunities in nursing and finance. This will give you a taste of different careers and help you see if they suit you.
d. Remember, you don't have to stick to one career forever. After gaining experience, you can explore new paths, especially if you feel ready for a change. Skills you learn in one job can often be used in another, although it might take some effort.
e. Think about what interests you: Do you enjoy helping people? Solving problems? Seeking adventure? Working with numbers? Starting something on your own? Make a list and see what excites you the most.
f. Stay flexible, be eager to learn, and focus on the tasks at hand to achieve success.
Good luck!
Chiquria Willis
Loan Processor - Rocket Mortgage
94
Answers
Dearborn Heights, Michigan
Updated
Chiquria’s Answer
Your concerns are completely understandable, and you're definitely not alone—many students feel unsure at the start of their college journey. Remember, you haven't wasted any time; exploring your interests is a crucial step in finding the right path. Here are some encouraging steps to consider:
1. Reflect on Your Interests and Values:
Think about what you like in business/finance, biology, or pilot training. Write down what you enjoy doing daily and where you feel most comfortable (office, labs, in the air, helping people face-to-face, etc.). Identify what matters most to you: stability, excitement, prestige, creativity, helping others, etc.
2. Explore Before Committing:
You're just in your first semester—this is the perfect time to try different classes! Consider taking an introductory course in biology, nursing, or aviation, or shadow someone in those fields. Joining a campus club or finding a mentor can also give you valuable insights.
3. Balance Your and Your Family’s Hopes:
While it's natural to want to meet your parents' expectations, your happiness is key to long-term success. Many people find a way to blend their passions with family wishes—like earning a business degree while exploring another certification or license (nursing, pilot’s license, etc.).
4. Consider Flexibility and Opportunity:
Pairing a business degree with pilot training or business plus biology electives keeps many options open. You could work in management roles in healthcare, aviation, or finance while staying qualified for other industries if your interests change later.
5. Remember, It’s OK to Change Paths:
Many people, especially international students, need time to find the right fit. Employers and graduate schools value self-awareness and a broad range of knowledge.
6. Action Steps:
Meet with your academic advisor to discuss options like double majors, minors, or electives.
Talk to professors or professionals in business, nursing, aviation, and biology.
Try volunteer or shadowing opportunities during breaks or weekends.
Don’t rush your decision—a semester or two of exploration is normal and healthy.
7. Give Yourself Permission:
There's no single "right" path—many careers aren't linear. Allow yourself time to make a decision, and know that the skills you're building now (critical thinking, adaptability, learning new things) will prepare you for future success, no matter where you end up.
You're doing great by thoughtfully exploring your options—just keep moving forward, and you'll find what fits you best.
1. Reflect on Your Interests and Values:
Think about what you like in business/finance, biology, or pilot training. Write down what you enjoy doing daily and where you feel most comfortable (office, labs, in the air, helping people face-to-face, etc.). Identify what matters most to you: stability, excitement, prestige, creativity, helping others, etc.
2. Explore Before Committing:
You're just in your first semester—this is the perfect time to try different classes! Consider taking an introductory course in biology, nursing, or aviation, or shadow someone in those fields. Joining a campus club or finding a mentor can also give you valuable insights.
3. Balance Your and Your Family’s Hopes:
While it's natural to want to meet your parents' expectations, your happiness is key to long-term success. Many people find a way to blend their passions with family wishes—like earning a business degree while exploring another certification or license (nursing, pilot’s license, etc.).
4. Consider Flexibility and Opportunity:
Pairing a business degree with pilot training or business plus biology electives keeps many options open. You could work in management roles in healthcare, aviation, or finance while staying qualified for other industries if your interests change later.
5. Remember, It’s OK to Change Paths:
Many people, especially international students, need time to find the right fit. Employers and graduate schools value self-awareness and a broad range of knowledge.
6. Action Steps:
Meet with your academic advisor to discuss options like double majors, minors, or electives.
Talk to professors or professionals in business, nursing, aviation, and biology.
Try volunteer or shadowing opportunities during breaks or weekends.
Don’t rush your decision—a semester or two of exploration is normal and healthy.
7. Give Yourself Permission:
There's no single "right" path—many careers aren't linear. Allow yourself time to make a decision, and know that the skills you're building now (critical thinking, adaptability, learning new things) will prepare you for future success, no matter where you end up.
You're doing great by thoughtfully exploring your options—just keep moving forward, and you'll find what fits you best.