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I’m unsure on what I wanna do, currently a junior in hs, and I wanna do something get’s me active,losing weight,get’s me stronger, so I thought trades but my parents want me to get the college experience even though my cumulative gpa is low (2.8) and I thought about college mainly North Texas(even it’s out of state) but I’m not sure and one of high paying degree’s like stem majors, I’m not too interested in, so I don’t know what to do?

I’m not sure but would like some help, I wanna be ready for when I step out into the world

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Joseph’s Answer

Well, first make sure you do what interest you and not have others make that decision for you. Your parents like other parents want College because they feel it will give you the best opportunity for a career. Theres nothing wrong with that. You are very young and it is ok to make choices in life that are trying because you think it is interesting. Sometimes the only way you really find what you what in life is to make mistakes on the way to a successful career Trade or College. If there is a Trade that has your interest and you feel your good at, example electric, go for it. Especially if there is already a mentor. I worked in a Record Shop, because I enjoyed music. Eventually ended up at three Universities, partied at one before I found my strength was in Computers. Graduated from the 2 other schools. So, it's never to late as long as you're always moving forward and have a good relationship with the parents.
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John’s Answer

Hey Michael!
Have you thought about doing a hitch in the Service? You just need a HS diploma or GED. They will help you get in shape and keep you there.
Here's a link to what the Navy requires: https://www.navy.com/joining/requirements
In addition here are some of the physical requirements - I would advise trying to get as close to them as possible before visiting a recruiter.
Navy Physical Requirements for Joining: To enlist in the U.S. Navy, candidates must meet specific physical fitness standards. These include passing a swim test, a body composition assessment, and the Navy Physical Readiness Test (PRT).
Here's a link about what to expect in Basic Training: https://www.bootcamp.navy.mil/Recruits/
Here are the guides on Physical Readiness to help you prepare:
https://www.mynavyhr.navy.mil/Support-Services/Culture-Resilience/Physical-Readiness/Guides/
Here's a list of all the jobs for enlisted personnel in the Navy:
The great things about letting the Navy train you for a career are: They pay you while you're doing it, and you get on the job experience that you can use after you get out if you want to (e.g., Medical and Dental, Information Technology and Systems, Logistics, Aircraft Maintenance, Construction, Security, Air Traffic Control, Culinary (food/chef), Electrical systems/power distribution, Heavy Equipment Operation, Utilities and Environment, Music, Administration, Personnel, etc.).
If you make the service a career, the benefits are amazing: (Health, Education, Retirement, plus Housing and Travel while you're in. Here's a link about those: https://www.navy.com/careers-benefits/pay
I know it's not for everyone - but it's definitely an option. And if you do decide to do college first, you can join as an officer and the pay and retirement benefits are even higher.
I enlisted in the Navy and then later applied for officer status with a degree, then later on they sent me to postgraduate school for a Master's degree - free to me. When I retired, I got a full pension and my wife and I receive free medical for the rest of our lives - which can be rather significant as you get older. I was also able to complete a second career after the service in a related field. I visited 26 countries during my Service time, and lived up and down both coasts and overseas (twice). It's something to think about.
Whatever you do - you're going to do great! Best of luck and exciting times ahead on your journey...
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Joseph’s Answer

It sounds like your goals might be different from what your parents expect, especially if they're thinking about a college degree. But there are other exciting paths you can take! You could look into certificate programs that don't take as long as college but still give you valuable skills. For instance, I know someone who chose a two-year program to become a Physical Therapy Assistant. This allows them to help patients recover from injuries or surgeries while working with a licensed Physical Therapist. It's a rewarding career without needing a four-year degree.
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SHAKENDRA’s Answer

It's difficult to go in a direction that differs from. The expectations of parents and family. It is important to remember the final decision is yours. I would suggest having an honest conversation with your parents regarding your life goals. There is a good chance once you share your concerns your parents, it could change the context of your conversation. Some things to consider: trade jobs have excellent earning potential often at a lower cost of a 4 year degree. You can often complete dual enrollment classes as a junior or senior in high school. This may allow you the opportunity to consider some trades while gaining certificates or college credit.
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Rebecca’s Answer

Thank you for your question.
Below are my suggestions :
1. Think 3 top things you would like to achieve in short term, e.g. within 2026
2. Define quantifiable goals and breakdown down into small milestones every month, e.g.
- lose weight 1lb each month,
- improve your academic assessment by one grade
3. Put down the plan how to achieve these goals. Start with something easy.
E.g. Do 15- 30 min exercise, eat less chocolate every day
Assign some time to do revision every day
4. If you can achieve the goal, have some little celebration and share the achievement with your family and friends
Hope this helps! Good Luck!
May Almighty God bless you!
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