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How do I know if there the one i wanna be with in the future?

I'm just stuck on how to love them properly.

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Anahi’s Answer

There are multiple ways to found out if they are the one and here they are:
1. Compatibility: how well you get along with them, what you share in common with them. if they are going to support you with their dreams or you support them with their dreams.
2. Communication: you guys can communicate with eachother. Evaluate each others problems and talk to each other about your feelings.
3. Shared future: Discuss your aspirations, life goals, and visions for the future. Determine if you have compatible long-term plans and if you can build a life together.
4. Emotional connection: Examine the depth of your emotional bond and whether you feel understood, supported, and loved by your partner.

Remember, these are just guiding principles, and ultimately, trusting your intuition and feelings is important.
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Steward "Tony"’s Answer

You will know by the chuckle they have when you tell a joke, the concern they feel when your heart is troubled, when you need defence and they defend you as you defend them. These are signs people ignore for more worldly trickery like coolness, style, money, who has the most toys, etc. Recognize this person as a friend first and then a steady candidate for dating. Keep in mind that they will have flaws just like you do. Spend your time together on today, this moment together and leave tomorrow to Gods choosing. If release your perceived future to someone who is not ready, for lack of time, they may get cornered within walls of their own creation. Let your relationship grow naturally or even fall apart temperarelly in order to grow to the next level. There are guarantees but it’s better to have love and lost than to never have loved at all.
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Moses’s Answer

To put it simply , you'll know if they're the one you want to be with if your morals align for the future. One good practice to give you more clarity with how they may align is asking the hard questions and seeing if they are still the one for you.

For example:
- How they would deal with being in a hard financial situation with you?
- Are they in this relationship for the long term or simply out of attraction/lust?
- How do you want to raise your children together?
- If you were to fall very ill, are they capable of dropping/ pausing their current aspirations to be with you and support you?

These are only a few questions you can ask to get more insight into whether or not your morals and goals align.

To answer on how to love someone properly, love them how you would want to be loved.
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