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How can I find my Interests that suits me?
Hello Im a Young man that graduated from High-school 2 years ago and during Those time out of High-school I've been trying to find my Spark/Career Choice. Ive been taking the time to explore, but I've been having a very difficult time finding my interests. Ive tried doing research online and get out there but im just quite lost, so far the only interests i found that i think im interested in are, woodshop, art, music, anything that deals with fixing things, And yard work. With these interests ive tried pushing forward into them and explore into them with the information i know now but yet i dont know where to go from there. And what i mean is when i explore one the interests i think im interested in i attempt to learn them but get stuck and i just feel lost because i cant find what im good at and I really would like some advice from anyone Thankyou. ^^
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Thankyou for everyone that had replied to my question. I greatly appreciate your time, advise, and knowledge you have given me to help achieve my life goals. I will use the information yall have given me and will use them to help me find the Job that best for me and most importantly Happy. Again I just want to thank everyone again for giving there time to help me in time in need Thankyou. ^^
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Jackson’s Answer
Hey Justin,
Everyone above me had great insights and here's my take on it:
When you are trying to figure out your interests, it helps to focus on hands-on experience instead of just research. Find ways to actually try each area, like taking a short class, volunteering, or doing a small project, because you learn the most by doing. Another big step is talking to people who already work in those fields to hear what the job is really like and how they got started. Most importantly, do not pressure yourself to pick one path right away, and keep experimenting with different options while paying attention to what excites you the most.
Everyone above me had great insights and here's my take on it:
When you are trying to figure out your interests, it helps to focus on hands-on experience instead of just research. Find ways to actually try each area, like taking a short class, volunteering, or doing a small project, because you learn the most by doing. Another big step is talking to people who already work in those fields to hear what the job is really like and how they got started. Most importantly, do not pressure yourself to pick one path right away, and keep experimenting with different options while paying attention to what excites you the most.
Thankyou so much Mr. Jackson for taking your time to help me out. And i agree on what your saying im a hands on person myself and its really the only way how i learned is by people showing be step by step so i really appreciate that and ill take on your advice thankyou again.^^
Justin
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Wong’s Answer
Hi Justin. Since you've found some interests like woodshop, art, music, fixing things, and yard work, that’s a great starting point. Try to take each of these interests and go a little deeper. For example, if you like fixing things, maybe try volunteering at a local repair shop or watching beginner tutorials online. If you enjoy yard work, you could ask neighbors if they need help and see if you like doing it regularly. The goal is to experience these things in real life, not just read about them. Also, don't stress too much about being "good" at something right away. Skills take time to build. Instead, pay attention to how you feel while doing these things. Do you feel excited, focused, or satisfied? That can tell you a lot. It might also help to talk to people who work in these fields. Ask them how they got started and what they enjoy about their work. You might discover a path you hadn't thought of.
Lastly, don't be afraid to try new things that aren’t on your list. Sometimes, interests grow from unexpected places. Keep exploring, be patient with yourself, and stay open-minded. Everyone finds their spark in their own time. You're doing just fine, and with time and effort, you'll find the path that fits you best. Wishing you all the best.
Lastly, don't be afraid to try new things that aren’t on your list. Sometimes, interests grow from unexpected places. Keep exploring, be patient with yourself, and stay open-minded. Everyone finds their spark in their own time. You're doing just fine, and with time and effort, you'll find the path that fits you best. Wishing you all the best.
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Kristen’s Answer
Hi Justin,
Everyone below has offered some excellent advice and different options that you can follow moving forward. Like Scott said, I don't think you're as lost as you think you are. You recognize your interests. That's a positive step. Now, it's taking it a bit further to see if the areas that interest you are more than just interests, but something you would like to do as a career. For example, you may love to draw, but feel it is more of a hobby than a career. But, if you worked in carpentry, you are building (and fixing), working with your hands, but you are also doing something artistic.
Let's take it a step back for a minute - ask yourself, what is stopping you from taking the next step and trying one of these areas? In a job, as a volunteer, taking one class, all to test the waters? If one of your reasons is that you're afraid that it may be the wrong step, it's not. It's trial and error. There is nothing wrong with moving beyond the research and trying it. The worst that happens is your realize a particular area is not for you. So, you cross it off the list. On the other side, you may see that it is for you or that by working in one area, you find your way to another that you haven't even thought of.
Mostly, try not to be so hard on yourself. You're asking the right questions. Believe that you can take it to the next step.
Take Care.
Everyone below has offered some excellent advice and different options that you can follow moving forward. Like Scott said, I don't think you're as lost as you think you are. You recognize your interests. That's a positive step. Now, it's taking it a bit further to see if the areas that interest you are more than just interests, but something you would like to do as a career. For example, you may love to draw, but feel it is more of a hobby than a career. But, if you worked in carpentry, you are building (and fixing), working with your hands, but you are also doing something artistic.
Let's take it a step back for a minute - ask yourself, what is stopping you from taking the next step and trying one of these areas? In a job, as a volunteer, taking one class, all to test the waters? If one of your reasons is that you're afraid that it may be the wrong step, it's not. It's trial and error. There is nothing wrong with moving beyond the research and trying it. The worst that happens is your realize a particular area is not for you. So, you cross it off the list. On the other side, you may see that it is for you or that by working in one area, you find your way to another that you haven't even thought of.
Mostly, try not to be so hard on yourself. You're asking the right questions. Believe that you can take it to the next step.
Take Care.
Honestly... Thankyou for making me realize how much stress I'm putting myself trying to have it all figured out Thankyou for the encouragement. ^^
Justin
You are very welcome. It's okay to take a step back, breathe, and trust yourself to try one path. It is scary and intimidating, but you can do it.
Kristen Jaccodine
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Jerome’s Answer
I think it’s normal to feel lost. There are seemingly infinite amount of opportunities, But that can make things harder. If it is an option, I would recommend attending a community college and taking a few electives. You might just find something you really enjoy. You should also go networking and maybe volunteer for some nonprofits in your community. This can help build your resume and make valuable connections.
Thankyou very much Mr.Jerome ill put that into consideration. ^^
Justin
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Rebecca’s Answer
Thank you for your question. I am glad to know that you have a wide variety of interest.
Below are my suggestions:
1. Think about the careers related to your interest.
Eg if you like in music, would you like to a singer, musician, musical artist, music composer, music producer, etc.
If you have interest in arts, would you like to be a painter, graphic designer, comic artist, fashion designer, sculpture artist, etc.
You can find out more related careers online
2. Find out more on these careers and determine what you have interest
3. Speak to someone who are working in these careers. Seek guidance from your mentor, school career counselor, your parents, etc
4. Shortlist 1-2 careers you would like to pursue
5. Explore the entry criteria of relevant subjects in colleges / academy
Hope this helps! Good luck!
May Almighty God bless you!
Below are my suggestions:
1. Think about the careers related to your interest.
Eg if you like in music, would you like to a singer, musician, musical artist, music composer, music producer, etc.
If you have interest in arts, would you like to be a painter, graphic designer, comic artist, fashion designer, sculpture artist, etc.
You can find out more related careers online
2. Find out more on these careers and determine what you have interest
3. Speak to someone who are working in these careers. Seek guidance from your mentor, school career counselor, your parents, etc
4. Shortlist 1-2 careers you would like to pursue
5. Explore the entry criteria of relevant subjects in colleges / academy
Hope this helps! Good luck!
May Almighty God bless you!
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Wyatt’s Answer
Hello Justin,
I am big on education and/or trade school beyond high school for today’s career seekers. Pursuing a college degree, even starting with an Associate of Arts in General Studies from a community college, can be a highly valuable step in shaping your future. Community college provides an affordable and flexible way to explore a wide range of subjects while giving you the time and space to discover your interests and strengths. It not only builds a strong academic foundation but also fosters essential skills such as critical thinking, problem solving, and effective communication abilities that are highly valued in any career field. During your first two years, you have the opportunity to test different disciplines, interact with diverse peers, and learn from instructors who bring a variety of perspectives, all of which can broaden your worldview and help you clarify your goals. By the time you complete your associate degree, you may have a much clearer vision for your career path, whether that means transferring to a four year university to earn a bachelor’s degree, pursuing specialized training in a trade or technical field, or even entering the workforce with a stronger résumé and a competitive edge. In essence, beginning your educational journey at a community college can serve as both a stepping stone and a safety net it allows you to progress academically while keeping your options open, ensuring you’re better prepared to make informed decisions about your future.
I was in the same boat, so I started by earning an Associate of Arts in General Studies before eventually choosing to pursue business school. If you’re unsure where to start, do yourself a favor and take a career assessment like the Myers Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) or the Holland Code (RIASEC). I regularly recommend these tools in my career coaching sessions for people just entering the job market or those considering a career change, they’re a great way to gain clarity and direction.
I checked and your state of Florida does have a union that represents woodworkers, primarily through the United Brotherhood of Carpenters & Joiners of America under the Florida Carpenters Regional Council. This organization covers a range of skilled trades, including carpenters, millworkers, and cabinetmakers, meaning woodworkers are directly included in its membership. The union operates through multiple local unions across the state such as Local 702 in Jacksonville, Local 1820 in Winter Garden, which represents many Walt Disney World carpenters offering training, job placement assistance, and workplace representation. These unions advocate for fair wages, benefits, safe working conditions, and skill development, making them a primary resource for professional woodworkers in Florida who want both career support and collective bargaining power.
Keep in mind physical work can be very demanding on your body over time, so this is something to be mindful of when pursuing career choices through retirement.
Perhaps you may be interested in a career in construction management. A degree in construction management is a formal academic program, usually at the bachelor’s or master’s level that trains students to plan, coordinate, budget, and oversee construction projects from start to finish.
It blends engineering principles, business management, and project coordination so graduates can bridge the gap between the design team (architects and engineers) and the hands-on construction crew.
Please feel free to reach out with any questions, as I am always happy to assist.
Best Wishes,
Wyatt
I am big on education and/or trade school beyond high school for today’s career seekers. Pursuing a college degree, even starting with an Associate of Arts in General Studies from a community college, can be a highly valuable step in shaping your future. Community college provides an affordable and flexible way to explore a wide range of subjects while giving you the time and space to discover your interests and strengths. It not only builds a strong academic foundation but also fosters essential skills such as critical thinking, problem solving, and effective communication abilities that are highly valued in any career field. During your first two years, you have the opportunity to test different disciplines, interact with diverse peers, and learn from instructors who bring a variety of perspectives, all of which can broaden your worldview and help you clarify your goals. By the time you complete your associate degree, you may have a much clearer vision for your career path, whether that means transferring to a four year university to earn a bachelor’s degree, pursuing specialized training in a trade or technical field, or even entering the workforce with a stronger résumé and a competitive edge. In essence, beginning your educational journey at a community college can serve as both a stepping stone and a safety net it allows you to progress academically while keeping your options open, ensuring you’re better prepared to make informed decisions about your future.
I was in the same boat, so I started by earning an Associate of Arts in General Studies before eventually choosing to pursue business school. If you’re unsure where to start, do yourself a favor and take a career assessment like the Myers Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) or the Holland Code (RIASEC). I regularly recommend these tools in my career coaching sessions for people just entering the job market or those considering a career change, they’re a great way to gain clarity and direction.
I checked and your state of Florida does have a union that represents woodworkers, primarily through the United Brotherhood of Carpenters & Joiners of America under the Florida Carpenters Regional Council. This organization covers a range of skilled trades, including carpenters, millworkers, and cabinetmakers, meaning woodworkers are directly included in its membership. The union operates through multiple local unions across the state such as Local 702 in Jacksonville, Local 1820 in Winter Garden, which represents many Walt Disney World carpenters offering training, job placement assistance, and workplace representation. These unions advocate for fair wages, benefits, safe working conditions, and skill development, making them a primary resource for professional woodworkers in Florida who want both career support and collective bargaining power.
Keep in mind physical work can be very demanding on your body over time, so this is something to be mindful of when pursuing career choices through retirement.
Perhaps you may be interested in a career in construction management. A degree in construction management is a formal academic program, usually at the bachelor’s or master’s level that trains students to plan, coordinate, budget, and oversee construction projects from start to finish.
It blends engineering principles, business management, and project coordination so graduates can bridge the gap between the design team (architects and engineers) and the hands-on construction crew.
Please feel free to reach out with any questions, as I am always happy to assist.
Best Wishes,
Wyatt
Dear Mr.Wyatt Thankyou deeply for taking your time in writing an answer and I appreciate it. I may have more questions for you once i figure out this website and Im gonna look into the information you provided me Thankyou so much for being a big help.^^
Justin
Justin, I did some research in your local market with regard to the Carpenters Union and updated the information in my first response. Take care.
Wyatt .
Mr.Wyatt do you have any recommendations of a website for the (MBTI) and (RIASEC) That are considered trustworthy and accurate with its information?
Justin
Justin, You can go directly to MBTIonline.com: This is the only place to take the official Myers-Briggs Type Indicator assessment online and have your MBTI type verified without going through a certified practitioner. The assessment is based on over 70 years of research and evidence of reliability and validity. It also offers access to a digital library of personality and development content, and personalized learning paths. A fee applies to take the test.
Wyatt .
Hollandcodes.com: Offers the RIASEC. With regard to both assessments, steer clear of the others offering these unless they are certified by each governing body, as to your point there are many impersonators including free assessments that are not the same certified assessments.
Wyatt .
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Sophie’s Answer
Hi Justin,
Finding your career path can be an exciting journey! While I discovered mine through university courses, you don't have to follow the same route to find what's right for you. Try taking personality and career tests to see what fits you best. Enrolling in classes at a local community college, even in subjects like woodworking or art, can offer valuable insights. Remember to focus on what you enjoy and what comes naturally to you. I hope this advice helps, and I wish you all the best in your professional adventure!
Finding your career path can be an exciting journey! While I discovered mine through university courses, you don't have to follow the same route to find what's right for you. Try taking personality and career tests to see what fits you best. Enrolling in classes at a local community college, even in subjects like woodworking or art, can offer valuable insights. Remember to focus on what you enjoy and what comes naturally to you. I hope this advice helps, and I wish you all the best in your professional adventure!
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Phill’s Answer
Hey Justin,
It is great to see that you are putting in the effort and energy to find something that truly suits you. It is very important to do something that interests you and will make you happy throughout your day, regardless of pay. This process can take along time for anybody, and some people never truly try. So firstly, do not give up and always keep trying. Stay hopeful that you will find what is for you and give yourself a pat on the back and surrendering right after you graduated to something you would not like. Just like it might be hard to find something you like, it is also just as hard, if not hard to become good at what that is. There is only one way get good, great, and expert on something, and that is time and experience. It sounds like you have compiled a list of things you like. I can tell you are a creative and that it would be best to lean into a creative field. However, just because you profession in one particular thing, does not mean you can't be skilled at something else. Many creatives, me included, have many different skills and specialties. We eventually find out particular interest that takes up most time, but even that can change throughout our life time. Many creatives have other skills or hobbies, aside from their profession, that ultimately feeds into their daily life and creative processes. It is actually recommended to try something completely different in times of creative blocks to stay sharp and to expand horizons. So, which ever you can see being the most realistic for your future, give it all you got full force while making sure to make time for your other interests. Trust the journey, it is okay to not know the full future.
Best of luck on your journey!
It is great to see that you are putting in the effort and energy to find something that truly suits you. It is very important to do something that interests you and will make you happy throughout your day, regardless of pay. This process can take along time for anybody, and some people never truly try. So firstly, do not give up and always keep trying. Stay hopeful that you will find what is for you and give yourself a pat on the back and surrendering right after you graduated to something you would not like. Just like it might be hard to find something you like, it is also just as hard, if not hard to become good at what that is. There is only one way get good, great, and expert on something, and that is time and experience. It sounds like you have compiled a list of things you like. I can tell you are a creative and that it would be best to lean into a creative field. However, just because you profession in one particular thing, does not mean you can't be skilled at something else. Many creatives, me included, have many different skills and specialties. We eventually find out particular interest that takes up most time, but even that can change throughout our life time. Many creatives have other skills or hobbies, aside from their profession, that ultimately feeds into their daily life and creative processes. It is actually recommended to try something completely different in times of creative blocks to stay sharp and to expand horizons. So, which ever you can see being the most realistic for your future, give it all you got full force while making sure to make time for your other interests. Trust the journey, it is okay to not know the full future.
Best of luck on your journey!
James Constantine Frangos
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James Constantine’s Answer
Good Day Justin! We have a lot of genetic information from our ancestors! This carries talents which are often not obviously manifest early in life.
These aptitudes and skills are nonetheless waiting to be accessed. When you look at your family history, what were your forebears good at? Sometimes your strengths can be brought out, made obvious, with a good assistant, mentor, or trainer. Do not give up on the things which you have found like art, music, repairing things, and yardwork. These are the sort of works you have been exposed to in your environment. You should be able to procure an internship similar to your experiences, even if it is in a related area, such as mower repair! You will know when you find your calling, your profession, because you will be so happy!
GOD BLESS!
These aptitudes and skills are nonetheless waiting to be accessed. When you look at your family history, what were your forebears good at? Sometimes your strengths can be brought out, made obvious, with a good assistant, mentor, or trainer. Do not give up on the things which you have found like art, music, repairing things, and yardwork. These are the sort of works you have been exposed to in your environment. You should be able to procure an internship similar to your experiences, even if it is in a related area, such as mower repair! You will know when you find your calling, your profession, because you will be so happy!
GOD BLESS!
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Scott’s Answer
Justin, you are not as lost as you think. You already have a starting point with woodshop, art, music, fixing things, and yard work. The real issue is that you have not given yourself enough time in one area to see if it truly sticks. A lot of people your age bounce between ideas because they think they need to find their passion first. In reality, passion usually comes from getting good at something over time.
The best way forward is to pick one interest, commit to it for a set period like three to six months, and go deep before moving on. Take a woodworking class, volunteer at a local shop, join a community art group, work with a landscaper, or intern with a repair shop. You will quickly see if you like the day-to-day work. Keep a simple journal while you try things. Write down what you enjoyed, what drained you, and what you learned. After a few cycles you will start to see patterns, and that is when you will notice which skills and environments fit you best.
Choose one interest to focus on for the next three to six months
Find a local class, volunteer spot, or part-time job in that area to get real-world experience
Keep a short weekly journal about what you liked, disliked, and learned
After three to six months, review your notes and pick the next interest to test
Repeat until you find something you enjoy enough to keep building on and then commit to it
The best way forward is to pick one interest, commit to it for a set period like three to six months, and go deep before moving on. Take a woodworking class, volunteer at a local shop, join a community art group, work with a landscaper, or intern with a repair shop. You will quickly see if you like the day-to-day work. Keep a simple journal while you try things. Write down what you enjoyed, what drained you, and what you learned. After a few cycles you will start to see patterns, and that is when you will notice which skills and environments fit you best.
Scott recommends the following next steps:
I really appreciate that thankyou so much Mr. Scott I will try that I have a liking on fixing and building so ill try that first thankyou ^^
Justin
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Jamia’s Answer
Martha Beck, who is a well known life coach, says that whatever you liked doing as a child, to some extent, you should be doing this as an adult. She gave the example in a book of hers about being on safari with a group of adults, but recollecting that as a child, she was quite the adventurer. Think back to what you were often doing as a kid, what was it? Were you playing video games, trying to organize games in the neighborhood with the other kids, going on walks in nature...are there seeds of things in those things, that you could pull out, for example, could you design games, work for the Parks and Recreation Department in your hometown, become a park ranger? How can thinking back to your youth, help you now as a grownup, to figure out your path? All the dots will eventually connect. What are your interests? What makes you feel most alive? Brings you the most joy? Follow those things...I always say "Follow Your Art" as an artist and art teacher, but essentially...follow your heart...it will lead you places and do not worry if the path isn't completely clear. It will become clearer and clearer if you are following your highest excitement.
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Imaobong’s Answer
Okay I have gone through your write up,sometimes ,you may not find your path now but with time..let me use myself as a case study..when I was about to get into the university I didn't know what to study however my father said I can study education and I did because at that point I didn't find my path and funny enough I never wanted to teach ..but i had to go study education. today i hold a BEd in education social studies .with time i was beginning to like what i was doing however,i still said to my self i have to do something i really have passion for and i discovered I have passion for healthcare and I went in for it and today Iam a certified healthcare assistant and nursing assistant.,so sometimes you find out that you will not have interest for a particular thing until you try it.i would suggest look around and you will find something that interest you more..I hope this helps..goodluck
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Arush’s Answer
Hi Justin,
First off—thank you for sharing this so openly 🙌. What you’re feeling is very normal. A lot of people go through this phase after high school, especially when they don’t have a clear “calling” yet. The good news is: your curiosity and self-awareness already put you ahead, because you’re not just blindly jumping into something—you want to find what feels right.
Let me break this down into a few practical steps for you:
1. Reframe "Finding Your Spark"
Instead of pressuring yourself to find one perfect career or interest, think of it as a process of experiments. You don’t have to get it right immediately. Many people explore several paths in their early 20s before finding something that truly sticks.
2. Look at Your Current Interests
You mentioned:
Woodshop / fixing things → hands-on, problem-solving, craftsmanship
Art / music → creativity, self-expression
Yard work → working outdoors, physical activity, possibly landscaping or horticulture
👉 These suggest you enjoy tactile, creative, and practical work rather than purely theoretical desk jobs. That’s a great starting point.
3. Explore Low-Commitment Ways
Try structured experiments instead of only doing research:
Woodshop / fixing things → Look for local makerspaces or community workshops. Many places offer free or cheap beginner woodworking, welding, or repair classes.
Art / music → Try online challenges (like Inktober for art, or small music production tutorials on YouTube). Create small projects instead of thinking “I need to master this.”
Yard work → Offer part-time lawn care, landscaping, or gardening in your community. Even small jobs can help you test if you like it as a career path.
4. Learn by Doing → Reflect
After each experiment, ask yourself:
Did I enjoy the process or just the idea of it?
Do I want to get better at this, even when it’s tough?
Could I see myself doing this most days without hating it?
This reflection helps separate genuine interests from temporary curiosity.
5. Career Directions You Might Explore
Given your leanings, here are some possible career paths worth testing:
Trades & Skilled Work: Carpenter, electrician, mechanic, HVAC technician, welder, landscaper. (Hands-on + pays well)
Creative Fields: Graphic design, music production, set design, or even woodworking as functional art.
Hybrid Paths: Landscape architecture, industrial design, or repair/restoration businesses (where creativity meets fixing).
6. Small Wins Build Confidence
Right now, you’re stuck because you’re trying to “figure it all out.” Instead, focus on tiny wins:
Build one small wooden project.
Record a short music track.
Do a landscaping job for a neighbor.
These small completions give you momentum and clarity.
7. Long-Term Mindset
It’s okay not to know yet. Many people don’t “find” their career until their mid-20s or even later.
Try short courses, part-time gigs, or apprenticeships instead of committing to big college programs right away.
Notice patterns: If you keep returning to “fixing” or “creating,” that’s a strong clue.
👉 My advice for you right now: Pick one of your interests (say woodshop or yard work), commit to a small project or job in the next 2 weeks, and reflect on how it feels. Don’t worry if it’s “the one”—just treat it as data for your journey.
Regards,
Arush
First off—thank you for sharing this so openly 🙌. What you’re feeling is very normal. A lot of people go through this phase after high school, especially when they don’t have a clear “calling” yet. The good news is: your curiosity and self-awareness already put you ahead, because you’re not just blindly jumping into something—you want to find what feels right.
Let me break this down into a few practical steps for you:
1. Reframe "Finding Your Spark"
Instead of pressuring yourself to find one perfect career or interest, think of it as a process of experiments. You don’t have to get it right immediately. Many people explore several paths in their early 20s before finding something that truly sticks.
2. Look at Your Current Interests
You mentioned:
Woodshop / fixing things → hands-on, problem-solving, craftsmanship
Art / music → creativity, self-expression
Yard work → working outdoors, physical activity, possibly landscaping or horticulture
👉 These suggest you enjoy tactile, creative, and practical work rather than purely theoretical desk jobs. That’s a great starting point.
3. Explore Low-Commitment Ways
Try structured experiments instead of only doing research:
Woodshop / fixing things → Look for local makerspaces or community workshops. Many places offer free or cheap beginner woodworking, welding, or repair classes.
Art / music → Try online challenges (like Inktober for art, or small music production tutorials on YouTube). Create small projects instead of thinking “I need to master this.”
Yard work → Offer part-time lawn care, landscaping, or gardening in your community. Even small jobs can help you test if you like it as a career path.
4. Learn by Doing → Reflect
After each experiment, ask yourself:
Did I enjoy the process or just the idea of it?
Do I want to get better at this, even when it’s tough?
Could I see myself doing this most days without hating it?
This reflection helps separate genuine interests from temporary curiosity.
5. Career Directions You Might Explore
Given your leanings, here are some possible career paths worth testing:
Trades & Skilled Work: Carpenter, electrician, mechanic, HVAC technician, welder, landscaper. (Hands-on + pays well)
Creative Fields: Graphic design, music production, set design, or even woodworking as functional art.
Hybrid Paths: Landscape architecture, industrial design, or repair/restoration businesses (where creativity meets fixing).
6. Small Wins Build Confidence
Right now, you’re stuck because you’re trying to “figure it all out.” Instead, focus on tiny wins:
Build one small wooden project.
Record a short music track.
Do a landscaping job for a neighbor.
These small completions give you momentum and clarity.
7. Long-Term Mindset
It’s okay not to know yet. Many people don’t “find” their career until their mid-20s or even later.
Try short courses, part-time gigs, or apprenticeships instead of committing to big college programs right away.
Notice patterns: If you keep returning to “fixing” or “creating,” that’s a strong clue.
👉 My advice for you right now: Pick one of your interests (say woodshop or yard work), commit to a small project or job in the next 2 weeks, and reflect on how it feels. Don’t worry if it’s “the one”—just treat it as data for your journey.
Regards,
Arush
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Jerry’s Answer
Justin,
First, there are many fine answers here for you to review and I hope to not offer repetitive advice.
Truly, you are experiencing what I, the other folks who answered you, and about 50 million others on planet Earth also have gone through at your age in their lives. And your "search" may last decades, if I offer my own path as an example.
I'm currently 75. When I was 43, an employer looked at my resume and said my career progression didn't make sense to him because it appeared I had worked across multiple, and seemingly unrelated, jobs. In truth, he was right. I'd moved from Ohio to Los Angeles to the SF Bay area, which meant new employers at each stop. My interests and skills/abilities changed; not only my geographic location. Truly, only I could link together why the shifts in employment had been made. Bottom line, while he kindly took a gamble when he hired me in 2003; I worked for him as an employee and then a contractor for 15 years. My point is that life and career decision-making is not cookie-cutter and uncertainty and life situations tend to be fluid.
That all said, factor this into your decision-making. We're living in rapidly changing times. Our weather, technology and our ability to work globally are in flux and evolving. E.g., who knows where artificial intelligence is headed and how will it affect your future work opportunities? One thing will remain consistent and valuable. Your ability to communicate effectively. And what can assist you in communicating more easily and therefore become even more employable? Language. Make an effort to learn to speak, write and read a second language. Or two. Your worth will increase dramatically. Get a college degree or higher in courses to which your interests gravitate. Determine how well you perform activities about which you are passionate. Because if you are not good to great at something, why should someone hire you to perform that function?
Conduct this Google search: what professions will be in demand in ten years
Then substitute another/related job title or profession to see if that provides a different or expanded list. The results, because of our changing world, may or may not be entirely on target but you'll get an idea. AND you may find out that a certain country may be where that opportunity is most likely to be...hence, my advice about learning multiple languages.
Be sure to go to LinkedIn and search by job title for individuals who now or previously held the job title in which you’re interested. Their profiles should contain valuable information about their duties, work history, career progression, associations/organizations of value to research and more.
Good fortune to you moving forward.
First, there are many fine answers here for you to review and I hope to not offer repetitive advice.
Truly, you are experiencing what I, the other folks who answered you, and about 50 million others on planet Earth also have gone through at your age in their lives. And your "search" may last decades, if I offer my own path as an example.
I'm currently 75. When I was 43, an employer looked at my resume and said my career progression didn't make sense to him because it appeared I had worked across multiple, and seemingly unrelated, jobs. In truth, he was right. I'd moved from Ohio to Los Angeles to the SF Bay area, which meant new employers at each stop. My interests and skills/abilities changed; not only my geographic location. Truly, only I could link together why the shifts in employment had been made. Bottom line, while he kindly took a gamble when he hired me in 2003; I worked for him as an employee and then a contractor for 15 years. My point is that life and career decision-making is not cookie-cutter and uncertainty and life situations tend to be fluid.
That all said, factor this into your decision-making. We're living in rapidly changing times. Our weather, technology and our ability to work globally are in flux and evolving. E.g., who knows where artificial intelligence is headed and how will it affect your future work opportunities? One thing will remain consistent and valuable. Your ability to communicate effectively. And what can assist you in communicating more easily and therefore become even more employable? Language. Make an effort to learn to speak, write and read a second language. Or two. Your worth will increase dramatically. Get a college degree or higher in courses to which your interests gravitate. Determine how well you perform activities about which you are passionate. Because if you are not good to great at something, why should someone hire you to perform that function?
Conduct this Google search: what professions will be in demand in ten years
Then substitute another/related job title or profession to see if that provides a different or expanded list. The results, because of our changing world, may or may not be entirely on target but you'll get an idea. AND you may find out that a certain country may be where that opportunity is most likely to be...hence, my advice about learning multiple languages.
Be sure to go to LinkedIn and search by job title for individuals who now or previously held the job title in which you’re interested. Their profiles should contain valuable information about their duties, work history, career progression, associations/organizations of value to research and more.
Good fortune to you moving forward.
This was super helpful, thank you!
Justin
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Doris’s Answer
It’s great that you’ve already started researching — but it’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed with so many resources out there. Don’t put pressure on yourself to find the one perfect thing right away. Your interests will naturally evolve, and that’s okay. Instead, focus on exploring widely: try volunteering, take on DIY projects, and pursue internships. Each experience will help you discover what excites you and guide you toward the right direction over time.
Thankyou I dont know much about internships but ill work toward that I really appreciate your opinion on this. ^^
Justin
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Kenrick’s Answer
Did you know that most adults change their careers 3-5 times? I think you are putting too much pressure on yourself and I know that isn't necessarily the answer you wanted as you are seeking direction. This is absolutely normal for someone your age. However, sometimes, direction may come to you, so be open to is. Here are a a couple of exercises to do:
Job See, Job Be - In your day to day living, as you come across people (you don't have to speak to them) who are working, imagine yourself doing what they do. Really think about it. If you wanted, you could talk to them and "interview" them about their job and a typical day. After you believe you have received all the information about the job you needed, ask yourself one very important question: "Could I be happy doing this?" Do this with as many jobs as you come across. This will help you eliminate jobs and or industries. For example, if I came across a bus driver, I can envision myself driving in 3-5 hour shifts. I would definitely be engaging with the public, in good and bad ways. Would this make me happy?
Day In the Life - Go to ChatGPT and submit the following prompt: create a 15 second video that highlights a typical day as a ......(write down the interested career). Chat GPT will ONLY come up with the script but then go to a video generator like Invideo AI and submit the script for it to create your video. This will show you a typical day of the position. Again, ask yourself if you'd be happy doing that job.
Favorite Thing to Do - What is your absolutely FAVORITE thing to do? Ask AI to come up with all of the jobs associated with it. This will give you some ideas!
IF you can afford it financially, disappear to Europe of Asia for a year and find yourself. You would be surprised what this experience will do for you!
Hope that helps!
Job See, Job Be - In your day to day living, as you come across people (you don't have to speak to them) who are working, imagine yourself doing what they do. Really think about it. If you wanted, you could talk to them and "interview" them about their job and a typical day. After you believe you have received all the information about the job you needed, ask yourself one very important question: "Could I be happy doing this?" Do this with as many jobs as you come across. This will help you eliminate jobs and or industries. For example, if I came across a bus driver, I can envision myself driving in 3-5 hour shifts. I would definitely be engaging with the public, in good and bad ways. Would this make me happy?
Day In the Life - Go to ChatGPT and submit the following prompt: create a 15 second video that highlights a typical day as a ......(write down the interested career). Chat GPT will ONLY come up with the script but then go to a video generator like Invideo AI and submit the script for it to create your video. This will show you a typical day of the position. Again, ask yourself if you'd be happy doing that job.
Favorite Thing to Do - What is your absolutely FAVORITE thing to do? Ask AI to come up with all of the jobs associated with it. This will give you some ideas!
IF you can afford it financially, disappear to Europe of Asia for a year and find yourself. You would be surprised what this experience will do for you!
Hope that helps!
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Ahtesham’s Answer
Discovering your hobbies can be easy. If there's something you can do for hours without getting bored, that's a good sign. You seem like someone who wants to do things perfectly. Try to enjoy the journey, not just the end result. Begin with small steps and slowly increase your efforts; this will really help you grow.
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Aulani’s Answer
Hello Justin,
Thank you for sharing your question and concern, I am happy to help you. As you are a recent graduate from high school you’ve been trying to find what sparks your interests and explore potential career choices. You still haven’t been able to find a career choice and have difficulty in finding your genuine interests. It’s wonderful that you’ve been open to new experiences and engaging in activities where you find enjoyment, such as, art, music, woodworking, yard work, and anything to do with fixing. You have been exploring and learning all on your own, now you’ve done well seeking further guidance from people here who are willing and ready to help you. I have prepared for you some ways in which you can identify what genuinely suits your interests and finally put it into practice in the real world.
Engage in Self-Reflection of Your Interests
You are already one step closer to finding what suits your interests as you already have a few things in mind. Take time to deeply reflect on your experiences, activities, and hobbies that you enjoy the most. While you are reflecting I strongly recommend that you write down everything for your memory and motivation. Consider your strengths and interests, all that brings you fulfillment, unfulfillment, anything challenging, unfamiliar, everything in between. This will help bring understanding and clarity to the mind.
Ask Yourself Questions
It is important that while you are reflecting and processing that you ask yourself questions. For instance, what activities or hobbies do I enjoy even when it is challenging? What activities do I find the most engaging, and why? What activities or hobbies do I naturally look forward to during my leisure or free time? Pay close attention to how you feel and respond to each question as you are reflecting on each of your interests. In doing this, you can better identify your genuine interests where there is true enjoyment and fulfillment.
Explore Through Research for Potential Career Paths
After reflection, attempt at researching potential career paths to the interests you are most drawn to. Even if you are still not able to find which you are most drawn to, you can explore through research with the few interests that you have. Utilize online resources and pay attention to the job descriptions. A few online well known resources are: Indeed, and LinkedIn. Job descriptions include the required skills, structure of work, tasks, and so forth. In result, helping you visualize your interests, skills, and how they can be put to work.
Apply Yourself in Real World Situations
You’ll really be able to find and grasp what you’re genuinely interested in by applying yourself in the real world. This can be done through applying for volunteer work, internships, and other educational experiences and programs. In this process, you may find it uncomfortable as you are still uncertain, finding clarity of your interests and future career path. Remember that uncertainty is a natural part of the process and you will overcome it in due time. There are plenty of learning opportunities that await you, it’s your turn to seek out those opportunities. You can do it!
I hope that you are able to use these steps as your encouragement and guide. I wish you success!
Thank you for sharing your question and concern, I am happy to help you. As you are a recent graduate from high school you’ve been trying to find what sparks your interests and explore potential career choices. You still haven’t been able to find a career choice and have difficulty in finding your genuine interests. It’s wonderful that you’ve been open to new experiences and engaging in activities where you find enjoyment, such as, art, music, woodworking, yard work, and anything to do with fixing. You have been exploring and learning all on your own, now you’ve done well seeking further guidance from people here who are willing and ready to help you. I have prepared for you some ways in which you can identify what genuinely suits your interests and finally put it into practice in the real world.
Engage in Self-Reflection of Your Interests
You are already one step closer to finding what suits your interests as you already have a few things in mind. Take time to deeply reflect on your experiences, activities, and hobbies that you enjoy the most. While you are reflecting I strongly recommend that you write down everything for your memory and motivation. Consider your strengths and interests, all that brings you fulfillment, unfulfillment, anything challenging, unfamiliar, everything in between. This will help bring understanding and clarity to the mind.
Ask Yourself Questions
It is important that while you are reflecting and processing that you ask yourself questions. For instance, what activities or hobbies do I enjoy even when it is challenging? What activities do I find the most engaging, and why? What activities or hobbies do I naturally look forward to during my leisure or free time? Pay close attention to how you feel and respond to each question as you are reflecting on each of your interests. In doing this, you can better identify your genuine interests where there is true enjoyment and fulfillment.
Explore Through Research for Potential Career Paths
After reflection, attempt at researching potential career paths to the interests you are most drawn to. Even if you are still not able to find which you are most drawn to, you can explore through research with the few interests that you have. Utilize online resources and pay attention to the job descriptions. A few online well known resources are: Indeed, and LinkedIn. Job descriptions include the required skills, structure of work, tasks, and so forth. In result, helping you visualize your interests, skills, and how they can be put to work.
Apply Yourself in Real World Situations
You’ll really be able to find and grasp what you’re genuinely interested in by applying yourself in the real world. This can be done through applying for volunteer work, internships, and other educational experiences and programs. In this process, you may find it uncomfortable as you are still uncertain, finding clarity of your interests and future career path. Remember that uncertainty is a natural part of the process and you will overcome it in due time. There are plenty of learning opportunities that await you, it’s your turn to seek out those opportunities. You can do it!
I hope that you are able to use these steps as your encouragement and guide. I wish you success!
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Carlos’s Answer
Hi Justin
It's great to see that you have a wide range of interests. It's also important to consider what you genuinely enjoy doing. Think about how the things you love can help others. Then find some mentors or get to know people who are already doing what you want to do, and get as much information from them as possible.
It's great to see that you have a wide range of interests. It's also important to consider what you genuinely enjoy doing. Think about how the things you love can help others. Then find some mentors or get to know people who are already doing what you want to do, and get as much information from them as possible.
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Sam’s Answer
Take this career questionnaire to see what it suggests and use it as a starting point: https://efaq.com/career/quiz. Meanwhile, embrace every chance to work with your hands and connect with people. Listen to their stories, as they can be inspiring. Also, consider earning a few AI certifications while you explore your options: https://grow.google/ai/.