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Na'Laysia-Jewel
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Where can I find a mentor in business and life ?
Advice in finances, business, personal relationships. Mistakes I can avoid with your personal wisdom and experince that has came before me. ...........
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Cristian-Matei Stamate
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Cristian-Matei’s Answer
Hey there,
First off, kudos to you. Simply recognizing that you want to grow and asking where to find a mentor is an amazing first step.
Mentors can truly appear anywhere, often when you least expect it. In fact, some of the best mentors I’ve ever had came from completely outside the box. For example, my vocal coach actually ended up mentoring me more on handling emotional baggage than on how to sing!
If you're looking for a structured way to approach this, here is a somewhat step-by-step roadmap you can follow:
1. Look at your current circles
Keep your eyes open at school, work, or during your hobbies. You might already be surrounded by potential mentors. You just haven't looked at them through that lens yet. Look for people who excel at what you want to learn.
2. Build a genuine connection
Start interacting with them. Be curious, authentic, and show a sincere interest in their expertise and experiences.
3. Make it a two-way street
Share your questions, but also offer value. Don't be afraid to share your own perspective on a situation they are facing as a fresh pair of eyes can often bring a viewpoint they hadn’t considered.
4. Make it official (but casual)
Once a rapport is established, suggest regular catch-ups, whether that's a monthly coffee or a quick bi-weekly check-in.
5. Diversify your mentors
Try to have different mentors for different goals. It is rare to find one single person who can be your life coach and a brilliant guide for your business ventures.
6. Stay curious
Never stop looking for things to learn from others. If you approach life with an open, curious mind, you’ll constantly absorb knowledge from the people around you, growing every single day.
If you are looking for an organic, life-experience type of mentorship, the steps above are your best bet. However, if you are looking for a targeted, professional mentorship program, you might want to look into structured platforms like Preply or industry-specific networking sites to match with someone instantly.
No matter which path you choose, you’ve already done the hardest part: admitting you don't know everything and actively seeking the people who can help you grow. Best of luck!
First off, kudos to you. Simply recognizing that you want to grow and asking where to find a mentor is an amazing first step.
Mentors can truly appear anywhere, often when you least expect it. In fact, some of the best mentors I’ve ever had came from completely outside the box. For example, my vocal coach actually ended up mentoring me more on handling emotional baggage than on how to sing!
If you're looking for a structured way to approach this, here is a somewhat step-by-step roadmap you can follow:
1. Look at your current circles
Keep your eyes open at school, work, or during your hobbies. You might already be surrounded by potential mentors. You just haven't looked at them through that lens yet. Look for people who excel at what you want to learn.
2. Build a genuine connection
Start interacting with them. Be curious, authentic, and show a sincere interest in their expertise and experiences.
3. Make it a two-way street
Share your questions, but also offer value. Don't be afraid to share your own perspective on a situation they are facing as a fresh pair of eyes can often bring a viewpoint they hadn’t considered.
4. Make it official (but casual)
Once a rapport is established, suggest regular catch-ups, whether that's a monthly coffee or a quick bi-weekly check-in.
5. Diversify your mentors
Try to have different mentors for different goals. It is rare to find one single person who can be your life coach and a brilliant guide for your business ventures.
6. Stay curious
Never stop looking for things to learn from others. If you approach life with an open, curious mind, you’ll constantly absorb knowledge from the people around you, growing every single day.
If you are looking for an organic, life-experience type of mentorship, the steps above are your best bet. However, if you are looking for a targeted, professional mentorship program, you might want to look into structured platforms like Preply or industry-specific networking sites to match with someone instantly.
No matter which path you choose, you’ve already done the hardest part: admitting you don't know everything and actively seeking the people who can help you grow. Best of luck!
Thank you so much
Na'Laysia-Jewel
Wong Loke Yuen
Dean; Head of Programme cum Senior Lecturer
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Wong’s Answer
You can look for mentors in places where professionals gather. You may connect with experienced people on LinkedIn, attend networking events, join business organizations, or participate in local entrepreneur and industry meetups.
You can also find mentors through your workplace, university, or alumni network. Managers, professors, and experienced colleagues are often willing to share advice if you show genuine interest in learning.
When reaching out, do not ask someone to "be your mentor" right away. Instead, you may ask thoughtful questions, request advice on a specific topic, and build a relationship over time. Mentorship often develops naturally through regular conversations.
You can also find mentors through your workplace, university, or alumni network. Managers, professors, and experienced colleagues are often willing to share advice if you show genuine interest in learning.
When reaching out, do not ask someone to "be your mentor" right away. Instead, you may ask thoughtful questions, request advice on a specific topic, and build a relationship over time. Mentorship often develops naturally through regular conversations.
You rock! This advice is very helpful.
Jean-Baptiste
You're most welcome
Wong Loke Yuen
Sebastian Ciszewski
PBM
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Piaseczno, Masovian Voivodeship, Poland
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Sebastian’s Answer
You have to keep trying. It's very difficult to find someone like that. Sometimes you need a bit of luck to meet the right person. It may be impossible to find them at work—especially in a large organization.
Rebecca Tang
Banking
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Hong Kong
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Rebecca’s Answer
Thank you for your question. There are plenty of ways to find a mentor. Firstly, you may need to find the objective / goal what do you want to achieve. Then, you can look for a mentor that meet your need
Below are my suggestions :
1. Leverage the existing network.
2. Check if any mentorship program offered by the alumni association
3. There some online platform that offers mentorship program. This may involve some costs
4. Some professional bodies offer mentorship program for young people as well.
Hope this helps! Good Luck!
May Almighty God bless you!
Below are my suggestions :
1. Leverage the existing network.
2. Check if any mentorship program offered by the alumni association
3. There some online platform that offers mentorship program. This may involve some costs
4. Some professional bodies offer mentorship program for young people as well.
Hope this helps! Good Luck!
May Almighty God bless you!
Thank you so much, Rebecca!
Na'Laysia-Jewel
Bianca Zavala
Humans Resource Manager
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Dallas, Texas
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Bianca’s Answer
The best mentors usually come through relationships, not formal programs.
- Reach out to people you admire on LinkedIn.
- Join professional associations, alumni groups, or local business networks.
- Look for mentors in different areas: career, finances, and personal growth.
- Ask for a quick coffee chat or virtual meeting instead of a long-term mentorship right away.
One piece of advice: focus less on finding the "perfect" mentor and more on building genuine connections with people who are a few steps ahead of where you want to be. That's often where the best advice comes from.
- Reach out to people you admire on LinkedIn.
- Join professional associations, alumni groups, or local business networks.
- Look for mentors in different areas: career, finances, and personal growth.
- Ask for a quick coffee chat or virtual meeting instead of a long-term mentorship right away.
One piece of advice: focus less on finding the "perfect" mentor and more on building genuine connections with people who are a few steps ahead of where you want to be. That's often where the best advice comes from.
Emily West
Human Resources Manager
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Naples, Florida
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Emily’s Answer
Hi Na'Lasiya!
As a student, you actually have a lot of potential mentors around you.
Begin on campus. Talk to professors or teachers you respect, especially those who’ve worked in business or industry. Club advisors and student leaders (for example, in a business club or entrepreneurship club) can also be great mentors. It’s worth reaching out to senior students or recent graduates you admire, particularly those who’ve done the kinds of things you’d like to do—internships, major projects, or leadership roles.
You can also look beyond campus and tap into your local community. Explore local business groups, entrepreneurship centers, or Small Business Development Centers. Many professional associations offer student memberships as well, such as local business or marketing chapters and young professionals groups.
The most important step is to start reaching out to people you already find inspiring and ask for a short conversation. Many adults are very willing to help a student who shows initiative and genuine interest!
As a student, you actually have a lot of potential mentors around you.
Begin on campus. Talk to professors or teachers you respect, especially those who’ve worked in business or industry. Club advisors and student leaders (for example, in a business club or entrepreneurship club) can also be great mentors. It’s worth reaching out to senior students or recent graduates you admire, particularly those who’ve done the kinds of things you’d like to do—internships, major projects, or leadership roles.
You can also look beyond campus and tap into your local community. Explore local business groups, entrepreneurship centers, or Small Business Development Centers. Many professional associations offer student memberships as well, such as local business or marketing chapters and young professionals groups.
The most important step is to start reaching out to people you already find inspiring and ask for a short conversation. Many adults are very willing to help a student who shows initiative and genuine interest!
Rick Kneisley
Retired Investment Broker and Investment Sales Manager
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Georgetown, Texas
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Rick’s Answer
Na'Laysia,
I see that you are in Killeen, Texas. I’m just east of you in Georgetown.
I hope all is going well with you. I answer questions on CareerVillage from my own life experience because I believe lived experience can sometimes offer the most useful guidance.
I grew up largely on my own, without a father and with a hardworking mother who was often absent because she had to support us. While I was in college, I discovered a book called The Science of Mind by Dr. Ernest Holmes. It taught me how to draw upon the strength, wisdom, and resources within myself. At a time when I felt I had very little guidance, those ideas gave me direction and confidence.
Some of the lessons I carried into my personal and professional life were:
“There is a power for good in the universe, and we can use it.”
“The conscious mind is the chooser, and the subconscious mind is the doer.”
Fear can hold us back, but courage allows us to discover what we are capable of.
Now, to your question about finding a mentor: I found that mentors often appeared when I became clear about what I wanted to learn and began putting myself in places where experienced people could see my interest and effort.
Start by identifying the field or skill in which you want guidance. Then look for teachers, counselors, supervisors, community leaders, professionals, or people in organizations connected to that interest. Ask them a thoughtful question rather than immediately asking, “Will you be my mentor?” A mentoring relationship often grows naturally after several helpful conversations.
You might say:
“I admire your experience in this field. Would you be willing to answer a few questions about how you got started?”
Be respectful of their time, follow through on their advice, and let them know how their guidance helped you. People are more likely to continue helping when they see that you are sincere, dependable, and willing to do the work.
In my life, I did not always have to search for someone with the title of “mentor.” By remaining open, asking questions, and working toward my goals, I attracted people who knew what I needed to learn and were willing to help me.
I hope you find someone who recognizes your potential and encourages you. Just as importantly, continue developing confidence in your own judgment and abilities.
Good luck to you, Na’Laysia.
Rick
I see that you are in Killeen, Texas. I’m just east of you in Georgetown.
I hope all is going well with you. I answer questions on CareerVillage from my own life experience because I believe lived experience can sometimes offer the most useful guidance.
I grew up largely on my own, without a father and with a hardworking mother who was often absent because she had to support us. While I was in college, I discovered a book called The Science of Mind by Dr. Ernest Holmes. It taught me how to draw upon the strength, wisdom, and resources within myself. At a time when I felt I had very little guidance, those ideas gave me direction and confidence.
Some of the lessons I carried into my personal and professional life were:
“There is a power for good in the universe, and we can use it.”
“The conscious mind is the chooser, and the subconscious mind is the doer.”
Fear can hold us back, but courage allows us to discover what we are capable of.
Now, to your question about finding a mentor: I found that mentors often appeared when I became clear about what I wanted to learn and began putting myself in places where experienced people could see my interest and effort.
Start by identifying the field or skill in which you want guidance. Then look for teachers, counselors, supervisors, community leaders, professionals, or people in organizations connected to that interest. Ask them a thoughtful question rather than immediately asking, “Will you be my mentor?” A mentoring relationship often grows naturally after several helpful conversations.
You might say:
“I admire your experience in this field. Would you be willing to answer a few questions about how you got started?”
Be respectful of their time, follow through on their advice, and let them know how their guidance helped you. People are more likely to continue helping when they see that you are sincere, dependable, and willing to do the work.
In my life, I did not always have to search for someone with the title of “mentor.” By remaining open, asking questions, and working toward my goals, I attracted people who knew what I needed to learn and were willing to help me.
I hope you find someone who recognizes your potential and encourages you. Just as importantly, continue developing confidence in your own judgment and abilities.
Good luck to you, Na’Laysia.
Rick
Thank you so much
Na'Laysia-Jewel