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What’s one thing you're glad you didn’t change in your life?

Some choices stay with us for a reason.
Even when everything else shifted, they held their ground.

What’s that one thing you’re still thankful you kept?

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Rosa’s Answer

Hey Robiah - The one thing I've never stopped doing in my life is learning. It's the most important skill you can have in a world that's always changing. For example, I started my career in commercial banking, but I saw how technology was transforming everything. So, I learned computer literacy and basic programming, which allowed me to become a business transformation specialist.

Now, I use that combination of business and technology expertise to help people solve complex problems. And I'm still learning! Right now, I'm focused on helping clients and communities understand and use AI because I believe it's the next big shift. My advice? Never stop being a learner—it's the key to staying relevant and creating your own opportunities.
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James’s Answer

I am glad that I have never changed my core values. No matter what one does, if you pause to be sure your actions support your core values, you won't be "wrong". Respecting all others, respecting nature, trusting science, and aiming to always learn will help us guide the world to be a better place.
Thank you comment icon What a terrific list, James! Martha Kramer
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Matthew’s Answer

I have always prided myself on continuing to learn and challenge myself within my role - and I have applied this in my personal life. It is never too late to find things that help you do your job - or help you more fully enjoy your time off!
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Sara’s Answer

I am glad I did not stick with my original plan of pursuing computer science. I knew I was getting into this route for the money, and I was not passionate about the subject itself. Instead, I realized I needed to pursue a career path I was going to enjoy and have opportunities to explore, so I went into statistics instead as I knew I enjoyed data analytics much more. Sticking to my true passion and enjoyment is more rewarding than going into a career path just for the money.
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Danilo’s Answer

I'm grateful for my grit, even though I had to switch from ideell aid work to a corporate role. Now, I see new ways to help people, just in a different way.
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Sankarraj’s Answer

One thing I’m really glad I didn’t change: my commitment to learning openly and helping others learn — publishing open-source projects, sharing what I build, and mentoring students and early-career engineers.

Even as my career moved through big, high-stakes projects (Starlink QA at United Airlines, AI QA for Freddie Mac and USAA), I kept returning to the habit of building public tools (AutoTestX, GenQAChat-RAG-AI, AutoBugPredictX, RAG4HealthQA), writing articles, and coaching on platforms like CareerVillage. That choice has paid off in three big ways:

• It kept my learning honest and practical. Building for the public forces you to document, simplify, and ship — which is the fastest way to actually learn new AI and engineering skills.
• It amplified impact. Open-source projects and public writing turned small experiments into real tools that helped client teams and thousands of users, while also creating evidence of work for professional goals.
• It built relationships and purpose. Mentoring and sharing created networks, mentees, and collaborators—and reminded me why the technical work matters to people (safety, fairness, access).

If I could give one quick tip to someone deciding what to hold onto: keep whatever habit makes you both better and useful to others. For me that was openness — publishing code, writing about what I learn, and mentoring. It’s the single choice that’s multiplied my skills, credibility, and meaning over the long run.
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Damon’s Answer

The one thing I am glad about not changing in my life is studying computer programming. I started programming when I was ten, when I first learned Computer system and concepts, BASIC, Visual Basic, C++, COBOL, DBASE iV, and SQL. I've learned Logo too. Since then, I've learned a lot more; office suites, basic accounting, desktop publishing, project management, and computer networking. Also, I've learned how to pass Algebra, Trig, and Calculus. Here I thought, business math was a killer. LOL

Now, I'm learning to appreciate art/design, and digital photography: (my website) HTTP://djonesny.com Take a peek for yourself. You see how studying one thing can branch off into so many other subjects as well? But if I were to change one thing one thing in my life, I would love to be a tap dancer. like the great classics; Gregory Hines, Smmy Davis Jr., SAvion, and many others.
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Kim’s Answer

Integrity. You will always have to answer to yourself. You can get new friends and a new job. But, you have to live with yourself for forever.

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Madison’s Answer

Such a beautiful question, I love this! I hope you have a great answer too (I'm sure you do!). I am always glad that through MANY long years/days/hours of medical school/residency/training that I ALWAYS made time for both myself/my own health (eating, sleeping, working out, getting outside, traveling), but also to spend time with the friends/family that I love. I tried to make sure I planned ahead and made it to as many big events in life that I could. I always remembered/tried to celebrate others .
Remember the people who helped you get to where you are, they supported you, show them how much that means and support them back in their lives/goals/accomplishments as well. You can't get through years of schooling without a support system. Don't be afraid to tell others when you're struggling/need help and to let them know your triumphs/success as well!

Remember where you came from, make time for yourself, make time for your family, give back to others. Do what makes you happy!
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babitha’s Answer

Learn something new every day and continue what you learn. I keep on updating it; never give up.
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Karen’s Answer

My faith! In the good times and the challenging times, I've always been glad I have hung onto my faith. No matter what life may bring, I know I can trust in God to be there with me. Even when the hardest thing to do is to trust God, I trust Him.

With every good wish and many blessings!
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Annie’s Answer

Being willing to admit when you are wrong, and learning from others! A continuous growth mindset will get you far, and your peers will admire it.
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Patrick’s Answer

Robiah Thabit, wow that is a huge question. I would honestly say that the 1 thing that I would not change about my life is my willingness to help others. You can not imaging the amount of joy I feel when I know that someone that I helped is better off. My only ask of people that I do help is that they in turn help someone else. Don't do it for recognition do it for just the joy of it, but make it meaningful.
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James Constantine’s Answer

Good Day Robiah!

It has to be Good Samaritan behavior! Helping people in trouble! Helping homeless people! Especially when you get nothing in return! What if you find there is a heaven? And God is very pleased with your work! You operate with agape! Real Love! Duplicating Jesus' work!

In 1973 the ocean was filled with schools of fish for hundreds of meters. The day was overcast and rainy. One surfer was a hundred yards out in the grey waters. A feeding shark bit his leg off. Us lifesavers tore him from the shark. We got him in to shore. We stopped the bleeding, holding arteries with our hands. We called the military for a helicopter to take him to hospital. We saved Bruce's life!

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Kristen’s Answer

Hi Robiah,

I have always loved to write. I'm happy that regardless of the job that I've held, I've always kept writing in my life.

Take Care.
Thank you comment icon I agree with you, Kristen! Martha Kramer
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Don’s Answer

Hello Robiah,

This is a very interesting question! I would say that there are many things that I would consider putting as my answer and feel that there are probably three things that stand out to me. I am glad that I've kept/had a strong support system with family, my love for soccer which is my favorite sport and glad that I've kept my desire to help/impact other people. I know you said one but there is not just one thing that I'm glad that I've kept and I'm thankful for everyday. Thank you for the question!
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Aparna’s Answer

I agree with many others here: always stay eager to learn! This helps you stay relevant in your career and education. Also, knowing and sticking to my core values keeps me true to myself. I prioritize physical well-being, discipline, and consistency. No matter how busy work gets, I always focus on my health. Remember, your job isn't your whole life. There's much more to who you are. I make sure to prioritize family, friends, and my hobbies.
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Martha’s Answer

What a terrific question, Robiah! You prompted many thoughtful responses. I am going to "cheat" and cite two - kindness and curiosity. I was taught to "see" everyone and be kind to them. People unused to kindness occasionally have challenged me on it, e.g., asked what I expect in return. (Spoiler alert: To be treated with kindness). But I haven't and won't change that. Curiosity is related to what so many others have said about learning. Curiosity drives me to learn, which I find fulfilling and often exciting.
Thanks for the question and good luck!
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Jordan’s Answer

Great question! It's tough to pick just one because they're all connected: learning, growing, and evolving. Remember, you can always get better in these areas. If you keep learning, there are no limits to what you can achieve. Always be open to learning and consider suggestions or changes, even if you don't act on them right away.

Accepting feedback helps you grow and adapt more easily. The best leaders never stop learning and growing. Embrace change and be open to new experiences.
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Ian’s Answer

my willingness to learn, and be led.
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