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Failed a course twice, what do I do?

I want to go back to school again. I didn't know or recalled after such a long time ago (more than a decade ago) I have taken a course twice and didn't quite pass to the grade that the colleges I applied to require.

I want to become a nurse. The passing grade in the colleges I applied to require C and higher for the pre-requisite courses. I had a minus C grade on psychology twice. I do not know what to do at this point. I feel I suck and I've been feeling this way since before last Christmas. It's getting hard to accept facts that I may never become a nurse now. I tried contacting and personally tried to talk to the nursing department at my school but I got bad news that I will not be accepted into the nursing program with a failing grade in psychology. I did not know that all nursing programs were this competitive. I began spiraling and got very emotional. In my head a month a later after feeling just a teeny bit better I started to think about what other careers I may study.

The reason why I am writing this post is for advice. Like what else can I do? Are there any other health professions that I can do other than nursing even with these two low grades? I do not know who else to talk to about this. I tried friends, coworkers, anyone at this point and they all say "I'm sure you'll figure it out.. just give it time" or something like that along those lines. I spoken to advisors of the college I applied and got admitted to, got my transcript evaluation, and came to bad news as well. I currently applied to another college. I am waiting for a response from admissions office to see if I got accepted or not and WILL definitely talk to an advisor there too. I still have hopes but do you guys think I should just drop it and just accept the fact that I will not be a Registered Nurse at all? I know that I should but that feeling of wanting to be accepted still lingers. I do not know what to do at this point.

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Thank you comment icon Hi Lorena, I'm truly sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult time. Your feelings are important, and it's okay to seek help when you need it. Remember, you don't have to face this alone. If you want to talk through what you're feeling, here are a few resources that might be helpful: Kokocares (online chat service providing 24/7, free, and anonymous mental health support) or Reach out to Lifeline Chat by texting or calling 988, or visiting their website. You're not alone, and there are people who care about you. Sharyn Grose, Admin
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Jim’s Answer

Schedule a meeting with your teacher and academic advisor to discuss getting extra help and finding a tutor. These are free options provided by your school. Don't hesitate to ask for assistance.
Thank you comment icon I appreciate this, thank you for the advice. Lorena
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Irelis’s Answer

I want to applaud to you that you are doing whatever you need to major into nursing and sometimes it is okay to fail or feel overwhelmed when situation might come up.

But you should never give up on your nursing dreams or goals you want to accomplish just because of one mistakes you made, there are many pathways if Plan A fails, you should always consider other options such as Plan B or Plan C to pursue your aspirations such as trade school or non traditional education pathway such as certification program or any programs/services that you can do online or nearby area that you could go to.

You got this, and you are more capable of making through tough times and it is okay to not have everything figured out just yet, keep moving forward and don’t let anything stop you from achieving something that you want to do in your life, so good luck on your nursing career journey.
Thank you comment icon Thank you. I won't give up. I will talk to my advisor next week. I already booked an appointment with them. I hope everything turns out well. Lorena
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Kalebtina’s Answer

Hi Lorena,

You can take the Psychology pre-requisite class at a community college and get a tutor to help you get through the class (or utilize office hours and ask for extra help from the professor). It is okay to feel overwhelmed and also very possible to become a registered nurse. All the best in your nursing journey!
Thank you comment icon Thank you so much for the advice. Lorena
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William’s Answer

Lorena

I truly admire your commitment to becoming a nurse. It's important to remember that not every class will align perfectly with your strengths. Sometimes it's about how you learn, and other times it's about how the material is taught. I've been there, feeling like I'll never understand a subject after taking it twice. But if this is the challenge you face and you still want to pursue it, go for it! Consider focusing on that one class and find a tutor you feel comfortable with who understands your struggles.

Remember, there are many paths available to you. Think about why nursing appeals to you and what aspects of it align with your life goals. If helping people brings you joy, there are many medical-related careers to explore, like radiology, surgical assisting, or being a lab technician. Even beyond the medical field, there are roles in teaching, law enforcement, or ministry that may fulfill your ambitions.

Trust in yourself and don't let others define your worth. Your determination shines through, and I am confident you will find your path and succeed.
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Jerome’s Answer

Have you tried asking the school for assistance? When I went to San Francisco State there was a department called the disability program resource center. Their whole premise was that they helped individuals who needed additional time studying or additional support with tests.

Honestly, you will only fail if you give up. I know taking a course for a third time may not be ideal, but if you do, I would recommend trying to join a study group or connecting with the teacher beforehand. Hope this helps some.
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Marisel’s Answer

Lorena, it is hard to be disappointed, particularly when it seems that you are trying to achieve an important goal--your future. You have received excellent advice from the above persons. I basically will reiterate the same. Stay focused if that is what you truly want and get the help needed as was recommended to you by all above. I wish you the best.
Thank you comment icon I appreciate you taking the time to answer this. Lorena
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TRAVIS’s Answer

Ask them if they accept CLEP credits. Its is a test that offers college credits if you pass with at least 51%. On your transcript it wont show as a grade, only the credits will be reflected. Ask them if that is an option. It is affordable too. Good luck, you will do well.
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