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As a woman have you ever felt discouraged going into a male dominated field?

As a woman wanting to go into a male dominated field I often find it scary thinking there won't be much women around me. Have you ever been discouraged from it? How did you deal with it?

Thank you comment icon Melanie there's no denying the importance of those working in STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering and Math) occupations. In fact, it's nearly impossible to imagine what our world would look like without the advances that have been made in these fields. They've brought us vaccines that have cured diseases, deepened our understanding of the universe and given us tools that make us more connected than ever before. Job growth in STEM fields continues to outpace that of all other occupations, too. According to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, jobs in these industries are projected to grow by nearly 9% between 2022 and 2030. Unfortunately, due to gender biases, fewer role models and male-dominated industries, women have been historically underrepresented in STEM. Despite common sense and plenty of research showing no cognitive difference between men and women, the myth that women aren't as good at math has broken the confidence of many young girls, women represent only 21% of engineering majors and just 19% of computer and information science majors. Overcoming this gap is critical. Not only will it help open more opportunities for women currently in the field, but it will also create more role models. Help shatter stereotypes and introduce new talent and fresh perspectives to these fields Melanie. Doc Frick
Thank you comment icon Challenge yourself to rise above and showcase your skills. Build alliances with internal and external stakeholders and focus on what talent you bring to a company or organization. Best of luck as you highlight your best qualities! Krista Bistline

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Ashley’s Answer

The first thing that you need to know is that you are needed by tech companies. Women make up half the population and they want technology solutions that meet their needs. Guess who knows the customer's needs? You do. Women have tremendous buying power. Women have fantastic ideas for how to make technology work for women.
https://www.unicef.org/innovation/stories/oky-co-created-girls-girls

As for workplaces, use the resources available to find out about a company's culture. There ARE inclusive tech companies. Check out the reviews of companies on Glass Door. Google "best technology companies for women" and read some of the articles. Talk to women who are working at those tech company by reaching out on LinkedIn. Ask lots of questions during your interview. Know that becoming more inclusive should be a top priority for all companies. Non-inclusive / toxic cultures are one the reasons that the "great resignation" is occurring, which costs companies a lot of money. They should care about being welcoming to you. If they don't, go elsewhere!
https://sloanreview.mit.edu/article/toxic-culture-is-driving-the-great-resignation/

Once you are at the tech company, build your own Board of Directors. These could be women from your college program. These could be co-workers you develop relationships with along the way. These could be mentors or sponsors who know you well. Have a place where you can go for trusted advice on how to deal with situations in the workplace. It's very important to have "work friends" who can relate and build you up. Reach out to women leaders and ask for 15 minutes to talk about a problem you are encountering and how to handle it. The worst they can do is say no, but trust me, they want to help you. I've never gotten a no.

You can make a difference in the world by pursuing a technology role. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise! Go have fun and know that you can and will do amazing things.

Thank you comment icon Thank you, Ashley! Melanie
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Kathryn’s Answer

Obstacles are learning opportunities. I found it scary, challenging and thrilling to go into a male-dominated field, become very good at what I do and exceling. The most important aspect of whatever career you follow is doing the best you can each day with what you have, learning from experience/observation/challenges/successes, and showing up each day to do it all over again. Male/female is not relevant - common sense, expertise, flexibility, thinking on your toes, communications, and overall being a good person are.

You can do and be whatever you set your mind to. Even if you are the first female, you won't be the last. Do what drives YOU.

Kathryn recommends the following next steps:

Research women in the career of interest - use the web.
Read books on overcoming gender bias in the workplace.
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Prettina’s Answer

I understand it can be different when you get into male dominated field but the first step to working peacefully in a male dominated field is to accept the fact that you are not alone. You have already taken a huge step towards breaking stereotypes by deciding to get into a male dominated filed and that's something you need to be proud of yourselves. When your talent shines, gender blurs. I've worked in a team of all men, but never felt alone and that was mostly because I never let myself think that i'm the only woman on this team. I always thought i'm part of this team just like any other man. So my suggestion would be to put this thought behind and believe strongly only on your talent, as that is the only thing that can help you sustain in any field and take you places. There are so many factors that can make you feel comfortable and empowered in a male dominated field, but none of it would help if you are not willing to trust your talent and follow your heart irrespective of what field you choose and who dominates it.

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Niaz’s Answer

I was once discouraged by going into a male dominated field, but then I learned that my passion for the field outweighed any fears I had about it. Everyone has given great advice, but I would like to re-emphasize that if you are the first woman on your team you may open up doors for future woman who may interested in the same field as you. You may be setting the standard for the importance of women in that field - so dont be discouraged but feel empowered that by entering yourself, you are opening up doors for the future. I look up to all of the woman in my field because against all odds, they pushed through and became successful.

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Caitlin’s Answer

I take it as a challenge. For instance when I was entering into the military I knew that I was going to be mostly around men. While a lot of the time there are women around I didn't wanted to be treated any differently because of my gender. I wanted to be seen as an equal. In order to do this I did have to work harder than my peers and set myself to a higher personal goal.
I look at everything in life as an obstacle to overcome and set a goal for myself. Once I complete that goal, I set a new one. I think once you get yourself into your new role that just happens to be male dominated, you will find that YOU determine what your future holds. If you hold yourself to a higher standard than they do, possibly go in with a better work ethic and better attitude you will be fine. It is the first impressions that are everlasting. Don't let society tell you who is going to be the one to run a certain field.
Be confident. Remind yourself you can do anything you set your mind to. Set goals both daily and long term.
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Jaclyn’s Answer

Hi Melanie,

I am a woman in tech. I never imagined myself in a male dominated field but after a few changes to my major ended up in one. School was the perfect time to start learning the new professional culture. I would be in group projects with mostly males and it ended up not being as scary as I thought. More often than not they are there to work too and want to hear different opinions and ideas as well. Trust your intelligence and your experiences to grow confidence in participation. Everyone I've spoken to sometimes feels like they do not belong, even if they are in the majority. My sister is in the STEM field as a chemical engineer and is generally quieter than I am. She excelled in the program and was in the top 10% of some of her classes. She even likes being one of the few women at her company which I was surprised by.
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Jennifer’s Answer

I think working in a male-dominated field can be intimidating, but we are at a time in history where there are more women entering these fields than ever before! I think it's important to connect with other women in your field. Women who can mentor and support each other. There can be a lot of bias to overcome in these fields as well, so look for allies among your male counterparts to help overcome the perceptions related to the biases. Don't be discouraged by setbacks, think of yourself as an explorer and pioneer, forging a path for all the amazing women coming after you!
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Geri’s Answer

Hi Melanie! I started my career as an equity trader and was one of very few women in that field. I switched careers about 5 years later to investor relations where I also found I was typically among men at the leadership level. I found seeking out like minded women in my field to connect with was really helpful. It is unfortunate that in tech the gender gap seems to be getting worse. There is an organization called girls who code that is trying to address the gap and lots of other organizations that can support you in navigating a male dominated field. One thing I've found is that women want to support other women so seek out Linkedin groups or networking events to connect with other women.
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Natalia’s Answer

I can not say I was ever discouraged, I looked at it as more of a challenge. I felt like I could do what men could do and maybe even better. Well maybe not in manual labor, but mentally lol. My past experience in working in a male dominated field has been a challenge at times, but getting through the challenge is rewarding. Luckily with my current job I haven't experienced too many hurdles with this, as I feel time has evolved and women have pushed through some barriers in fields being considered only for males.

In one of my past jobs, I was the only female project manager in a group of project and construction managers. I was not invited to lunches, happy hours or collaborations, but I didn't take it personal. I just did my job and figured they would see that I am an equal in due time. I created a system to track our vendors and they were surprised on what I was able to bring to the table. My ideas were unlike theirs and I was able to bring in a perspective they had not experienced before. After that I was invited to everything. So I say go for it and seek out other women in the industry for support and to help get through any challenges.
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Lesly’s Answer

Hello! Being a woman in STEM, I can relate to feeling alone and nervous at times. But remember, in spite of the challenges, women continue to break barriers and excel in fields typically dominated by men. Your distinct perspectives, thoughts, and abilities are valuable contributions to your team and should never be concealed. Focus on building self-assurance, being bold, and maintaining a positive attitude. Prioritize earning respect over seeking approval. Develop skills to manage disagreements. Embrace leadership opportunities. Engage with women's organizations and empower fellow women.
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Kate’s Answer

Your perspective is a huge asset, and you can make tech more welcoming for women. With the experience you gain, you can hire more women in tech and make the field more diverse. You deserve the money, the lucrative benefits of the industry -- take it up!

For example, I work in digital accessibility, and disabled women face so many different challenges than disabled men. My perspective is really valuable ot my team and my customers, yours is too.
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Divya’s Answer

Hi Melanie! I was also in your position once when I entered college. I was overwhelmed by how male dominated computer science was. I think what really helped me was joining online communities or clubs on campus that helped me connect with other women on the same path as me. Through that, I was able to get support and guidance. It has really helped me. You can also use LinkedIn to message other women who inspire you and ask them to be your mentor. Don't let the fact that that STEM is male dominated discourage you from achieving your goals. It is a great and rewarding career. You will be amazing, just believe in yourself!
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Diane’s Answer

* Being the minority in any field shouldn't sway what your are passionate about .
* Research companies where there is a culture of respect and the culture code aligns to your own.
* Proactive and ask for mentors and advocacy
* Use the opportunity to open the door for other who identify similar to you.
* Eliminate outside "noise" as much as you can and follow your instincts for what you are capable of
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Helen’s Answer

As a female you may bring a unique set of skills when compared to your male counterparts. The awesome thing about being a female in a male dominated industry is that you are different and you have something to different to offer. You can learn from all of your peers and leaders, but you're also able to bring a unique perspective and set yourself apart. Embrace all that you bring to the table and bring your confidence every day!
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Diana’s Answer

Hi Melanie –

I remember having the same feeling before I started my career in forensic accounting. I decided to follow my dreams and take it as a challenge. I didn't want that to be the reason where I held myself back. I wanted to be part of the shift that would welcome more women into this field.

I put my energy into letting my work shine instead of focusing on the fact that I was part of a very small group of women at the office. As I moved up in my career, and more women started to join my team, I did my best to be a resource to them because I know that’s something I wish I had when I entered the workforce.

Try your best to trust yourself and the process, and know that there are plenty of wonderful opportunities to build your network outside of work. You can join LinkedIn groups, attend networking events, participate in industry-related communities, etc. There are so many wonderful resources to connect with other women who are experiencing / who have experienced the same feeling.
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