Need career guidance for a counseling career
I am a currently a sophomore marketing major. My own experience with mental health makes me want to inspire others and help them live happily.
I hope to apply for mental health counseling, family and relationship therapist, social work master (even to a phd counseling psychology.)
My biggest worries are whether my outgoing and lively personality could handle so many negative feelings and whether I could actually help them... I love advocate, interview, deeply connect with people. I am ok with marketing jobs but hate the corporate environment. I want to inspire, promote, cause change.. However, I cannot find any other alternative ways to directly impact people's lives except counseling careers.
Do you think I need to change major to psychology (only able to do so at the end of my junior year) and continue follow my "dream"? career psychology education career-counseling social-work counseling life-coach mental-health-counseling
That's an awesome question, Clear. I feel I can relate - I am also lively, outgoing, love helping as many as I can. I went to college for Social Work however didn't finish. I know that I would have loved that profession - it would have been very rewarding. I know emotionally I would have been able to handle the cases, however I also know I would have devoted my whole life to it as well (seeing certain cases, you just want to go to the nth degree to help).
It sounds like you really invest yourself and your time in others, which is an amazing quality (keep that, the world needs more of that). However you just want to weigh the following questions: Would you devote your life to your case load? Would you want/make time for a family down the road? Would you bring work home with you?
Not knowing you personally, if your only worry is if you'll be able to handle the negative feelings, they do teach many coping techniques and stress reducers that work. Many workers in those fields see some of the most horrific situations, and sometimes you simply can't help as much as you'd like. I think you'd be able to handle the negative, I would more so ask how devoted do you think you'd become.
I found that, although my dream job would be in Social Work and related fields, I also want time with my family. I've found many other ways to be able to help people (maybe not on the level that social work demands), however you can help people daily. Don't let this stear you away from those fields! I always say why not try, you can always try something else! Success is feeling fullfilment.
Aloha Clear. I loved hearing about your passion for helping others. It sounds like you have overcome a lot of challenges in your life - great job! You have a big heart and wanting to help others improve their lives is a noble and important goal. =)
If going into counseling is your dream job, then go for it! When you study what you love, you will excel and do amazing things. Think about having a double major and studying both psychology & marketing at the same time. It may take a little longer to finish your studies but it will be worth it because you can use your marketing skills to promote your counseling services & reach more people.
When you have time check out marieforleo.com or her YouTube channel MarieTV. Marie is a life coach with great tips on following your passion.
Good luck in your studies and thank you for wanting to make a difference in the world. We really need it!
The easiest way to make a determination would be to "audit a couple of counseling courses to see if the profession is your calling. I know for me that when I did this I was really hooked with the counseling class that teaches the various counseling methodologies. I was hooked, a decided to make it my career. Hope this helps!
Another master's degree to consider after your marketing degree is Public Health. Public health educators give healthy messages to people without diagnosing them, which I saw in your comments may not be your interest. They may work in health departments or hospitals, etc. and your marketing skills would fit right in! As a counselor myself, I found ways to not bring too much of my work home with me, but not everyone is cut out for that work. You have a lot to offer, keep doing your research!
They great thing about counseling is it doesn't really matter what your undergraduate degree is in, you can still apply to masters programs in counseling. You could finish your degree in Marketing and still apply for graduate programs in counseling. This way you can have the marketing degree to fall back on and you would not have to prolong college because you changed your major.
Another thing you could do with a business degree is recruiting. You could help connect quality candidates with their dream jobs. This would let you interview and get to know people. You also would have the satisfaction of helping people.
I would suggest you visit your college’s career services office to discuss all your options. They may even have a career assessment that could help you get to know your interests, values, personality, and skills better so you can choose the best career for you.
What a beautiful heart you have to want so passionately to help people!
I would ask you what attracted you to the marketing major in the first place? If you love the types of plans and programs that you're learning about in marketing, you might not have to make a change to still help people in the field you're describing. Many professional careers in that work in the mental health area have associations and hospitals that have this type of service also have marketing departments. You wouldn't be directly working with patients as a marketing person, but you would be able to shape and help guide messaging and programs around this type of work.
Early in my career I worked for an Emergency Physician state medical association and an international trauma support organization and worked side by side with doctors helping to determine and support their goals around patient education and marketing of available services. It was very rewarding to wear a "white hat" and help support such meaningful causes.
If you love marketing, don't count out your ability to help people based on where you choose to work.