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How did you know that you chose the right career?

like did you feel it in your gut, or did you do lots and lots of research or did you get help? Tell me your secret!

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Esther’s Answer

Finding your career is a journey of discovery. You can’t nail that decision done to a single moment. It’s a matter of making many small decisions, acting on them, evaluating, and then deciding on the next one. At least that’s how it’s been for me. Here’s a bit of my story. Hopefully it’s helpful :)

All through high school I was determined to be an author. So I took creative writing classes and dedicated a huge portion of my free time to learning and practicing story writing. I felt like I got pretty good at it. But I also liked other subjects, especially math and science, so I pursued those in school too.

My senior year of high school, I realized I wanted to continue learning more in STEM. Part of this was because of career options, but I also was just curious and wanted to learn more. So I decided on an engineering degree. I researched a bunch of colleges and visited some (in-state options that were reasonable to travel to). When I toured Utah State University, I felt at peace, like I was being called to study there, so I chose that college.

Throughout college I learned so much more about my interests, my strengths, and my weaknesses. That in and of itself was extremely valuable. Then, as part of my required engineering courses, I had to take some computer science classes. I loved it! Since I was pretty far along with my degree, I decided to add computer science as a minor rather than completely change my major.

Post-college, I started applying for jobs. Since I was qualified for both mechanical engineering and software engineering, I applied for both types of work. I ended up with a coding job that I love. Surprisingly, I also get to do quite a bit of writing at work! I thought I’d given up on writing professionally when I chose to study engineering, but nope, that passion was still alive too!

This is just the beginning of my career. There’s still so much ahead. I don’t know for sure where I’ll end up, though I have ideas of things I would like. I keep evaluating my options and taking it one step at a time. And I’m sure I’ll keep doing that, no matter where I’m at in life.

So all that to say, it’s okay to take small steps and to change course occasionally. For me, important decisions are also spiritual matters, so I will pray and ask God to guide my decision-making too. There’s lots of ways to make decisions—whether that is researching and analyzing options or just going with your gut. But most of all, just TRY. Try something, even if you’re not 100% sure. Oftentimes it’s in the doing that you decide whether or not something is right for you.
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Paul’s Answer

I knew that I was in the correct job and the right career path when I woke up each morning and I could not wait to get into the office.

I loved what I was doing so much that I was literally the first person to reach work in the morning, and I was the last to leave in the evening.

When you attain that level of mindset, you will know you are in the right job.
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Brian’s Answer

Hi Aneceya,

That's a great question to ask...but also a hard answer to give. I would say that determining career satisfaction for myself is in part what I do, but also, with what industry, with what type of people, what company, etc . I am a finance/accounting person so I have done numerous jobs in that field for a few different companies.

My first "career" job I worked with a very large retailer. It was a very fun environment, lots of interactions, lots of opportunities. But my day was 7-7 everyday and it wore me down. I held 3 different roles there over 5 years.

My next job I worked for a very small packaging and distribution company. While it was doing similar work, the company though was very small, people around me were unhappy, thinking was not progressive, and there was little team work. There was no opportunity for growth. I stayed there for maybe one year.

My current telecommunications company I have been with for 21 years and probably won't leave until I retire. I still do work in finance and accounting and over that time, I have done 8 different jobs. My career satisfaction has more to do with my company as much as it has to do with my everyday job. My company welcomes their employees taking on new roles and trying something different. It rewards me and recognizes me for the work I have done and the contributions I have made. People collaborate all the time and there is so much learning that can happen amongst teams. There is always a new challenge and ways to develop yourself.

There are a of of paths to take when it comes to finding the "right" career. In my case, it is the right company as much as it is the right job. I'm sure the next folks who respond to your question will have their own stories and experiences to share. Just don't think there is one right way to approach this. Give yourself some targets, go after them, and see where it takes you. Only you can decide what job and situation resonates with how it makes you feel internally. Just don't pigeon hole yourself into one thing. You just don't want to regret not trying something even if it ends up not being what you thought. Good luck !
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Kim’s Answer

Hi Aneceya
You have a lot of great advice to consider from other mentors. One additional option is to gain some insight into your natural strengths and what career path may be the most optimal to leverage those strengths. This could serve as a roadmap/guideline as you consider different paths you can take or even be used as your career path continues to confirm "good fits" for you. There are several assessments that will help you with this process. My favorite is StrengthsFinder. But I encourage you to research more and find one that best suits your needs. My very best to you on this exciting journey.
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david’s Answer

The real answer is "You may never know." I don't mean that as a negative statement. Just the opposite. As you mature, your skills and interests will continue to expand. A young person sees only a handful of possible careers, but as years go by, you will see hundreds of careers. The only important factor is whether you enjoy what you do, not whether it is the perfect career for you. And, no matter how much you may enjoy what you do, there will always be the possibility that someday you will be exposed to a different career and want immediately to make a switch. My final tip: Don't let an increased salary ever temp you to a different career. Having more money does not make you happy. All the best to you.
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Rebecca’s Answer

Thank you for your question. You are the best person to answer this question. You would know whether you have interest in the career. Below arey suggestions to find a career you have interest:
1. Think about what you have interest eg your hobbies, favourite subjects, etc and identify the related careers
Eg if you like music, would you like to be a musician, singer, musical artist, music composer, music producer, etc
If you have interest in maths, would you like to be an accountant, engineer, banker, financial analyst, maths teacher, etc
2. Find out more on these careers and determine what you have interest
3. Speak someone who are working in these careers. Seek guidance from your mentor, school career counselor, your parents, etc
4. Shortlist 1-2 careers you would like to pursue
5. Explore the entry criteria of relevant subjects in the college
Your interest may change throughout your life time, you may change the career. This is very normal.
Hope this helps! Good Luck!
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James Constantine’s Answer

Dear Aneceya,

Artificial Intelligence, though advanced, may not be the perfect fit for this approach - we need the warmth of human interaction! AI, unfortunately, cannot replicate the depth of human emotions. It's like knowing instinctively what needs to be done to ensure the well-being of everyone involved, including yourself. This is something that comes naturally to some people. Moreover, AI tends to steer clear of any discussion involving divine intelligence. So, seek what resonates most with you and the Divine.

What am I trying to convey? It's about making a positive impact on as many lives as possible simultaneously. I'm referring to noble professions like teaching, nursing, medicine, and nutrition and dietetics. These skills might be ingrained in you, passed down from your parents. Observing their actions can help you discover your talents to a certain extent.

In my case, I transitioned from a career in astronomy to nutrition and dietetics. I was fascinated by the stars, but I couldn't ignore the fact that my Greek relatives were succumbing to cardiovascular diseases. I felt compelled to assist those battling illnesses and dealing with the loss of loved ones. I recall an incident from 1975 when I was a lifeguard, and we failed to resuscitate a heart attack victim. The doctor's announcement and the subsequent screams of the family still echo in my mind.

If you feel a strong urge to help others, you'll realize that there's a significant number of people in need worldwide; nearly 1 billion are starving. This figure is likely to increase with the ongoing Israeli-Gaza conflict. I believe we need an International Court of Law to prevent such military conflicts. I admire Caroline, JFK's daughter, for her commendable work as the US Ambassador to Australia. Such influential individuals shape the world's outcomes. It's high time we put an end to conflicts and focus on feeding and housing everyone.

Some people might find their calling in art or music, contributing to human culture in their unique way. Pursue what brings you joy and relaxation. If your job causes stress, perhaps it's time to reconsider. Nobody deserves to work under an abusive boss. You deserve praise, not criticism! Remember, this phase is temporary!

May The Lord Our God Bless Your Endeavors Abundantly!
JAMES.
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Natasha’s Answer

Hi! This is a question I still ask myself! I got an interesting piece of advice in college that at the time I didn't understand, but now take to heart. "You don't have to have one single career in your life, you can have 4-5; just follow your heart and passions, and if they change over time that is okay." I always thought that I would have one single career, in one field, and stay there forever. After graduating, I realized that based on my interests, I might have a couple of careers throughout my life, and that has gotten me even more excited for what's to come. Don't limit yourself and don't feel like if you no longer get joy from a specific career that you have to tough it out. Embrace the change, and figure out how to make it work for you!
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Edwin Anthony’s Answer

"Written on behalf of a group of volunteers at HPE":
• Actively seek out job or internship opportunities that align with your unique skills and capabilities.
• After a period of six months to a year in your job or internship, take the time to conduct a self-assessment. Determine whether you're still deriving satisfaction from your work or if it's causing you stress.
• If you find your current role stressful, don't hesitate to explore other options.
• Make it a point to gather substantial feedback from your colleagues, including co-workers and supervisors, within your workplace.

Edwin Anthony recommends the following next steps:

https://www.indeed.com/career-advice/finding-a-job/how-to-find-career-coach
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Stefan’s Answer

Speaking on behalf of our dedicated volunteer team at HPE:

Can we truly foresee the future? Perhaps not, but we can certainly envision it, especially when we reach the pinnacle of our careers and glance back. What truly mattered? Was it the thrilling journey to the summit or merely the accomplishment of reaching it?

Some of us relish exploring the myriad opportunities along the way, while others take pleasure in recounting their triumphs. So, what kind of person are you?

Begin with small steps: at the end of a workday, take a moment to reflect. Was it a day filled with joy, rich experiences, and extraordinary accomplishments, or just another day of reaching expected milestones?

Gradually extend this practice of reflection over longer time frames: a week, a month, a semester, half a year, or even a full year at work. Assess what brings you happiness, what fuels your energy. Remember, work is a means to support our lives, not the other way around. Once you reach this understanding, it's crucial to find joy in your work and draw energy from it, in whatever form that may take.

By starting with these small, reflective exercises, you lay a strong foundation to navigate your career for the rest of your working life. So, let's embark on this journey of self-discovery and growth together!
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