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What's one thing that you wish you knew before you started college?
I'm currently a high school senior and I'll be a freshman in college this Fall 2025! I've been trying to get advice about college to prepare myself, especially since I'll be moving away from home.
It can be anything that comes to mind, whether it's academic, personal, social, etc. I'm just curious about what stuck with you most after college, or what was something you had to learn the hard way.
Thank you!
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Jacklyn A.’s Answer
Start by reminding yourself, "It'll all be worth it!" Keep this close to your heart and repeat it often. I still tell myself this whenever I face challenges, even in my professional life. Always remember your WHY!
The key is to have an action plan. I rely on one for most things, and it really helps me manage my time. It's crucial to stay flexible, though. Plans can change, and sometimes that's for the best.
In high school, I was so focused on the future that I took every college class I could. My goal was to get ahead and go to law school. But life had other plans. I discovered that a bachelor's degree in law and liberal arts didn't offer many options. After graduating, with loans to pay and no law school in sight, I accepted a minimum wage paralegal job at a local law firm. It was a tough moment, and I had to rethink my path.
The great news is that I'm now doing something I love! It took 10 years of school, along with more time and money, but the journey was worth it. Keep pushing forward, and you'll find your path too!
The key is to have an action plan. I rely on one for most things, and it really helps me manage my time. It's crucial to stay flexible, though. Plans can change, and sometimes that's for the best.
In high school, I was so focused on the future that I took every college class I could. My goal was to get ahead and go to law school. But life had other plans. I discovered that a bachelor's degree in law and liberal arts didn't offer many options. After graduating, with loans to pay and no law school in sight, I accepted a minimum wage paralegal job at a local law firm. It was a tough moment, and I had to rethink my path.
The great news is that I'm now doing something I love! It took 10 years of school, along with more time and money, but the journey was worth it. Keep pushing forward, and you'll find your path too!
Thanks so much, Jacklyn! This is amazing! I'm glad to hear that you're doing something you love, even if it took much time! <3 I'll be sure to keep that reminder in mind throughout college. It'll definitely all be worth it!
Brenda
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Andrea’s Answer
Hi Brenda!
I believe in you and your ability to succeed! Try out different time-management techniques to help with your coursework and self-care. Find what suits you best, whether it's a planner, a digital tool like Notion, or using Google Calendar. This will help you plan your tasks with enough time to get them done. Remember to schedule breaks and time for yourself, because your well-being is super important!
Also, don't be afraid to ask questions to your teachers or advisors. It's normal to feel shy, but college is all about learning. Your teachers and advisors are there to support you. There are no silly questions, just the ones we don't ask.
Wishing you lots of success in your college journey!
I believe in you and your ability to succeed! Try out different time-management techniques to help with your coursework and self-care. Find what suits you best, whether it's a planner, a digital tool like Notion, or using Google Calendar. This will help you plan your tasks with enough time to get them done. Remember to schedule breaks and time for yourself, because your well-being is super important!
Also, don't be afraid to ask questions to your teachers or advisors. It's normal to feel shy, but college is all about learning. Your teachers and advisors are there to support you. There are no silly questions, just the ones we don't ask.
Wishing you lots of success in your college journey!
I appreciate your support, Andrea!! I love using Notion and Google Calendar! They've been so helpful during high school and I'll definitely continue to use them throughout college and the future. Thanks for the advice about time management and speaking with professors <3
Brenda
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Shirley’s Answer
Hi Brenda,
Attending college means more independence, but also more responsibility.
When I attended high school, my schedule was randomly created based on my grade level with limited flexibility around elective courses. Course materials were free. Each subject class was 2 hours long at best.
In college, you have the privilege of choosing your schedule - what major, which professor, what time to class (day/evening), etc. Unfortunately, course materials can be expensive and lectures are a lot longer than what I was used to high school. Professors move through the course material relatively quickly and I would spend hours reading textbooks to study on my own.
The best tip I can give: learn to manage your time. Find the time of day when you have the most energy to get as much studying done as possible. Keep a calendar with important due dates and enjoy the college experience. It will pass you by in the blink of an eye! Good luck!
Attending college means more independence, but also more responsibility.
When I attended high school, my schedule was randomly created based on my grade level with limited flexibility around elective courses. Course materials were free. Each subject class was 2 hours long at best.
In college, you have the privilege of choosing your schedule - what major, which professor, what time to class (day/evening), etc. Unfortunately, course materials can be expensive and lectures are a lot longer than what I was used to high school. Professors move through the course material relatively quickly and I would spend hours reading textbooks to study on my own.
The best tip I can give: learn to manage your time. Find the time of day when you have the most energy to get as much studying done as possible. Keep a calendar with important due dates and enjoy the college experience. It will pass you by in the blink of an eye! Good luck!
Thanks so much for the advice, Shirley! I will for sure keep time management in mind while in college!
Brenda
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C’s Answer
Learn to use the resources you have available wisely. Office hours, TA tutoring etc. can go a long way in making you successful when you are learning a new subject or topic. Enjoy the learning experience & be curious.
Remember that you are as smart and intelligent as everyone else. You can definitely do this.
Finally, don't forget to take care of your well-being. Sleep & good health are important for you to perform well and sustain in college.
Good luck!
Remember that you are as smart and intelligent as everyone else. You can definitely do this.
Finally, don't forget to take care of your well-being. Sleep & good health are important for you to perform well and sustain in college.
Good luck!
Thanks so much, C! I'll definitely use office hours and TAs while I'm at college! And yes, self-care is so important!! <3
Brenda
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Tessa’s Answer
I recommend getting involved with on-campus events and activities as much as possible! It might be uncomfortable, especially at the beginning when you don't know as many people, but getting out and seeing what the school is putting on is a unique experience you likely won't get to have again and it's worth at least swinging by!
Regarding academics, don't rush finding a major or focus area if you haven't already decided. I changed by mind multiple times along the way and still was able to graduate with high honors and a double major. Your interests will change as you take more classes and I recommend having fun with it and to really enjoy the learning part- not just checking the boxes of what classes they say you HAVE to take. Take advantage of the fun classes too! I took horseback riding and pickleball in college just for fun, it was a fun way to try something new and make new friends you might not otherwise have met. I also highly recommend taking at least a few psychology classes, even if that's not a core part of your degree. Not only are they fascinating, they could be more applicable than you think to your future job or just interactions with people in general.
Fully leaning into the college experience and all it has to offer, not getting too isolated or overly focused on your studies will help you create some of the best memories of your life!
Regarding academics, don't rush finding a major or focus area if you haven't already decided. I changed by mind multiple times along the way and still was able to graduate with high honors and a double major. Your interests will change as you take more classes and I recommend having fun with it and to really enjoy the learning part- not just checking the boxes of what classes they say you HAVE to take. Take advantage of the fun classes too! I took horseback riding and pickleball in college just for fun, it was a fun way to try something new and make new friends you might not otherwise have met. I also highly recommend taking at least a few psychology classes, even if that's not a core part of your degree. Not only are they fascinating, they could be more applicable than you think to your future job or just interactions with people in general.
Fully leaning into the college experience and all it has to offer, not getting too isolated or overly focused on your studies will help you create some of the best memories of your life!
Thank you so much for the advice, Tessa. Horseback riding and pickleball sound like so much fun!! I'm definitely interested in taking psychology classes while at college, so thanks for the encouragement!
Brenda
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Allie’s Answer
Congratulations! You're about to embark on an amazing journey that could be the best four years of your life. When I moved away from home, I didn't know anyone either, but that was what made it thrilling. I discovered that life often begins outside your comfort zone, and college is full of chances to try new and exciting things. My advice is to embrace these opportunities because you never know where they might lead. Take classes that spark your interest, even if they're not related to your major, and go to events (there's usually free food and cool stuff). I've collected so many t-shirts and water bottles just from attending events. Remember, no matter how much you plan, surprises will happen, and you'll grow from them. Enjoy your last months of senior year and the summer ahead!
Thanks so much, Allie! I'm definitely savoring senior year before I'm off to college, and will for sure embrace the opportunities I encounter while I'm there! I already have so many water bottles and t-shirts just after attending admitted students day haha
Brenda
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Rosemary’s Answer
Hi Brenda,
The one thing I wish I had prepared better would have been to be mentally stronger and have less fear of my professors. I wasn't exactly sure what to expect when I arrived. It was my first time living away from home. Since I was a young adult fresh out of high school, I felt as if I was on my own, and it was up to me to figure out any obstacles I encountered. I wish I had asked my professors questions about the courses I took to avoid struggling during testing. It would have resulted in my GPA being better. And I should have gone to counseling to get over the fears that I had.
The one thing I wish I had prepared better would have been to be mentally stronger and have less fear of my professors. I wasn't exactly sure what to expect when I arrived. It was my first time living away from home. Since I was a young adult fresh out of high school, I felt as if I was on my own, and it was up to me to figure out any obstacles I encountered. I wish I had asked my professors questions about the courses I took to avoid struggling during testing. It would have resulted in my GPA being better. And I should have gone to counseling to get over the fears that I had.
Rosemary, thank you for the advice about professors! I will keep that in mind, and thankfully, I've already met some of the professors, and they all seem so passionate and kind!
Brenda
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Rachel’s Answer
I wish that I knew to double check what my academic advisors were telling me to do. Bad advice turned into 3 setbacks in my graduation timeline.
Thanks so much for the advice, Rachel!! I'm so sorry to hear about your graduation timeline being set back 3 times.
Brenda
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Nikki’s Answer
Hi Brenda,
What an exciting adventure you're about to begin! University is a fantastic chance to try new things and step out of your comfort zone. It's a perfect time to explore different areas academically, socially, and professionally. Don't worry if you don't know exactly what you want to do yet; many people are in the same boat. Take classes that spark your interest, even if they aren't part of your major. Electives are a great way to discover new passions. Join a club or two that catches your eye, and make sure to attend meetings and events. Enjoy every moment of this journey!
What an exciting adventure you're about to begin! University is a fantastic chance to try new things and step out of your comfort zone. It's a perfect time to explore different areas academically, socially, and professionally. Don't worry if you don't know exactly what you want to do yet; many people are in the same boat. Take classes that spark your interest, even if they aren't part of your major. Electives are a great way to discover new passions. Join a club or two that catches your eye, and make sure to attend meetings and events. Enjoy every moment of this journey!
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Ce’s Answer
Hi Brenda, If I could go back to before college and give myself some advice, I'd say: the best part of college isn't just about grades. It's about trying new things and learning from mistakes. Those wrong classes, clubs that didn't fit, late-night talks, and unexpected challenges are all helping shape your future. 1) Don't pack your schedule too tight; 2) Take care of your dorm friendships, but don't push them; 3) Call home often. College isn't about finding the "right answer" but exploring and discovering what you truly love. Sometimes, getting a little lost shows you the most beautiful views!
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Won Joon’s Answer
If I could go back and give myself advice, I would say don't be scared and try everything! College is like an adventure, and you're figuring it all out. Remember, your school has a lot more resources than you might know about. Make the most of them! Don't hesitate to ask questions and explore new things you didn't try in high school. It's okay to try new things to discover what you're good at or love to do.
The most important thing is to have fun and take care of yourself! Don't get too caught up in just studying. Make time to meet new friends and enjoy activities you already love. Best of luck to you!
The most important thing is to have fun and take care of yourself! Don't get too caught up in just studying. Make time to meet new friends and enjoy activities you already love. Best of luck to you!
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Michaela’s Answer
Hello, Brenda!
If I could go back to undergrad and give myself advice the one thing to tell myself would be to easy on yourself and not be afraid to fail.
Many of the times, because a college degree is so expensive in the U.S., students will put a lot of pressure on themselves to be perfect (I did). I would try as many internships and jobs as possible to better understand what I like, stay up later with friends (within reason), and get more involved in clubs. I did all of these things, but wish I wouldn't have stressed myself out so much over school. My best lessons were learned living life with friends, jobs, group projects, etc. and not only in the classroom. When I stopped stressing as much, I actually got better grades and still graduated with above a 3.5.
Hope you enjoy your journey ahead!
If I could go back to undergrad and give myself advice the one thing to tell myself would be to easy on yourself and not be afraid to fail.
Many of the times, because a college degree is so expensive in the U.S., students will put a lot of pressure on themselves to be perfect (I did). I would try as many internships and jobs as possible to better understand what I like, stay up later with friends (within reason), and get more involved in clubs. I did all of these things, but wish I wouldn't have stressed myself out so much over school. My best lessons were learned living life with friends, jobs, group projects, etc. and not only in the classroom. When I stopped stressing as much, I actually got better grades and still graduated with above a 3.5.
Hope you enjoy your journey ahead!
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Sarah’s Answer
Hi Brenda -
Great question! In hindsight, I got so much out of my college experience in terms of the types of assignments and work I did. The subject matter mattered less in the end than the new ways I was learning how to think -- for example, learning how to write for different audiences and write concisely was more important than the subject I was writing about. Learning how to do a group project with people very different from me was more important than the topic we ended up presenting on. So keep that in mind as you're approaching various projects and assignments - you're learning how to think differently!
Great question! In hindsight, I got so much out of my college experience in terms of the types of assignments and work I did. The subject matter mattered less in the end than the new ways I was learning how to think -- for example, learning how to write for different audiences and write concisely was more important than the subject I was writing about. Learning how to do a group project with people very different from me was more important than the topic we ended up presenting on. So keep that in mind as you're approaching various projects and assignments - you're learning how to think differently!
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Nicole’s Answer
First off, congratulations on your upcoming start to college! That’s such an exciting milestone, and I’m wishing you all the best as you begin this next chapter. It’s a time full of growth, discovery, and opportunities - you’re truly in for an incredible journey.
One thing I wish I had genuinely embraced before starting college is that it’s okay to be vulnerable and step out of your comfort zone. I’ve always been a bit more reserved and tended to keep to myself, but looking back, I wish I had pushed myself to introduce myself to more people, join clubs, and get involved - especially in organizations connected to my major.
College is such a unique, exciting, fun, and sometimes challenging chapter of life. I wish I had consistently reminded myself of that during the late nights, the highs, and even the tough moments. You only get this experience once—so take the leap. Try things out. Follow your heart. Sign up for the extracurriculars. Talk to the person next to you in class. Say yes to new experiences. Push yourself to grow in ways you never imagined.
It’s scary at first, but it’s also how the most meaningful friendships, memories, and opportunities begin.
One thing I wish I had genuinely embraced before starting college is that it’s okay to be vulnerable and step out of your comfort zone. I’ve always been a bit more reserved and tended to keep to myself, but looking back, I wish I had pushed myself to introduce myself to more people, join clubs, and get involved - especially in organizations connected to my major.
College is such a unique, exciting, fun, and sometimes challenging chapter of life. I wish I had consistently reminded myself of that during the late nights, the highs, and even the tough moments. You only get this experience once—so take the leap. Try things out. Follow your heart. Sign up for the extracurriculars. Talk to the person next to you in class. Say yes to new experiences. Push yourself to grow in ways you never imagined.
It’s scary at first, but it’s also how the most meaningful friendships, memories, and opportunities begin.
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Zulema "Zee"’s Answer
Hi Brenda,
To get ready for college, try out different study methods to see what suits you best. College is quite different from high school, and the first few months might be a bit challenging as you adjust to your new schedule. Make sure to plan your days, including time for lunch and exercise, to keep yourself healthy and active. College is going to be an amazing experience! You'll meet new people and discover exciting new things. Enjoy it! :)
To get ready for college, try out different study methods to see what suits you best. College is quite different from high school, and the first few months might be a bit challenging as you adjust to your new schedule. Make sure to plan your days, including time for lunch and exercise, to keep yourself healthy and active. College is going to be an amazing experience! You'll meet new people and discover exciting new things. Enjoy it! :)