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How do I become successful going to school and getting a career?
I'm currently a High School senior in the Middle College program, and I'm wondering how I can succeed in university (majoring in Psychology) and become a licensed marriage and Family therapist or a psychologist? I was wondering how I can manage my time at school, studying, working, while majoring in this field and aiming to become an LMFT or a Psychologist.
Switching from Computer Science to International Relations for Master’s — is it possible?
Hi, I am currently pursuing a Bachelor’s in Computer Science, but my real interest is in International Relations (IR), diplomacy, and global affairs. I plan to do my Master’s in IR abroad. Is it okay to do Computer Science in my Bachelor’s and then shift to IR for my Master’s? Will universities accept this switch? Which countries are best to study IR (in terms of reputation, career opportunities, and scholarships)? For someone from a middle-class background, which programs or countries are affordable or offer good scholarships? What kind of careers can I pursue after an IR Master’s internationally? Any advice from people who studied or are working in International Relations would be really valuable 🙌🏻
Preparing for a Master’s in International Relations with a Computer Science background
Hi, I am pursuing a Bachelor’s degree in Computer Science but I want to shift to International Relations (IR) for my Master’s. Since I am from a CS background, what skills or subjects should I start learning now to prepare for IR (languages, politics, history, economics, writing, etc.)? How can I gain relevant exposure while still in college (like volunteering, internships, Model UN, research, etc.) to strengthen my profile? Is it possible to combine tech + IR in any way (like cybersecurity in international security, data analysis in diplomacy, etc.)? I’d love to hear from anyone who has studied IR or works in this field. Your guidance would really help 🙌🏻
I need help with starting up a graphic design business, understanding the business side of things and help with my lack of confidence in my ability and knowing how to go about all of this?
I need help with starting up a graphic design business, understanding the business side of things and help with my lack of confidence in my ability and knowing how to go about all of this. I'm a systems kind of person so it would help to understand the system of running a business ; the smaller details, requirements and the workflow involved so that i can see how it works, see the big picture more clearly and see how i can begin to set things in motion. I graduated in 2022 with a graphic design degree but have had very limited exposure to design in a work place environment. I struggle with my confidence anyway and in 2023 worked for a company for 3 months before they let me go; it seems to me they only needed someone to help them catch up on their backlog of work for a while. This obviously severely knocked my already low confidence and since then i have had to find stability in other kinds of jobs to provide for my family. I am looking at approaching graphic design as done form of a career again now.
Continuous overthinking and frustration about everything ?
I’m an international student in the U.S., and I’ve never lived far from my family before. I just completed my first semester, and for the past four months, it feels like all I’ve been doing is surviving. I cry a lot, and I’ve been experiencing a strange kind of FOMO — like I’m missing out while my friends back home are enjoying their lives. I don’t have any friends here, and with so many other stressors, I’m finding it really hard to live happily. All I want is to be happy with my choices, to do something meaningful with my life, complete my major, and build a career here — because coming abroad has always been my dream. But now that I’m here, I find myself caught between moments of enjoyment and moments of deep sadness or frustration. I can’t seem to control my thoughts. I keep overthinking everything — that I won’t be able to finish my degree, that I won’t be able to build a career, and that I’ll end up being a financial burden on my family. I feel emotionally exhausted. It’s like everyone I trusted has let me down, and I’m left completely alone. I recently went through a breakup, and he was the only person who gave me some comfort. Now that he’s gone, I feel like I’m stuck in an endless spiral of thoughts — thinking and thinking with no way out. At the same time, I’m extremely anxious about choosing the right major. I keep wondering if I’ll ever fit in here, or if I’m just missing out on my college life while my friends back home are moving forward and figuring everything out. I feel stuck — like I’m falling behind, while everyone else has direction. This strange sadness isn’t something new. It’s been with me for years. But now, I truly want to change. I don’t want to be the person who’s always sad or gloomy about everything. I want to learn how to find joy, even in stressful situations. But right now, I cry over every little inconvenience, and I get frustrated very easily when things don’t go my way. I feel like I should be able to handle things more calmly and peacefully. I often feel like I’m a burden — emotionally and financially — on my family. And I genuinely don’t know what to do or what not to do. I’m in desperate need of clear, detailed guidance — not just general advice, but real direction that can help me figure things out and bring me to a better place mentally, emotionally, and academically. I also compare myself and my situation to others — and I do it in such intense and detailed ways that it becomes paralyzing. My mind keeps telling me, “If things had been different, you’d be happier,” even though I know that even if things were different, I’d probably still find something else to compare. It’s exhausting. I seek emotional validation from others and struggle to do things on my own. I want so badly to be emotionally independent. But in my last relationship, I became so dependent — and I still replay memories of the good times. He was so sweet to me, and then suddenly it was all gone. I keep questioning myself — where are all the promises he made? Why am I the one who has to suffer? The saddest part is, I’ve always had trouble trusting people. Even in the beginning of that relationship, I was cautious. But with time, I trusted him more than I trusted myself. He made many promises, and I made it clear to him not to promise things unless he truly meant them. He insisted that he did. And eventually, I believed he wasn’t like everyone else. But now he’s gone. He’s moved on — and worse, he’s already in a new relationship. The way he told me about his new girlfriend made me feel sick. It was like he had become a completely different person. I genuinely believed our connection was deep and real — the first true one I’d ever experienced. I thought no one could replace it. I thought we would be happy together. Now I feel like everyone I’ve ever truly valued has left or hurt me. And I start to wonder — am I the problem? Am I doing something wrong? I just want to have one true, lasting connection. But every time I think I’ve found it, it disappears. People tell me I’m just overwhelmed, and that’s why I feel this way. But why is it that others seem to cope and move on, while I’m stuck in this storm of emotions? I hear people say “It was just a breakup,” or “It was just a friendship,” but to me, it was more than that. I feel so deeply alone. Every time I find something meaningful, it slips through my fingers. I’m trying to see a therapist through university services, but they’re overwhelmed with students, and I barely get to meet with her. It’s hard to build a meaningful connection, and I don’t feel like I’m making any progress. Every time I try to move forward, I feel like I just sink deeper. I’ve always dreamed of having a really good friend group — people who support each other and do sweet little things together. But I’ve never had that. And now, I sometimes look at others and think, Wow, look at how beautiful their friendship is, how they do things together. And I’m just here — alone. I really don’t want to keep thinking about the past, or about the future, or about other people — whether I have friends, or a boyfriend, or anything. I just want to focus on improving myself. I say that I don’t want anything to do with others, that I want to be strong and independent — but at the same time, I keep feeling like I’m missing out. I’m missing out on everything — on relationships, friendships, experiences, memories. It’s like I’m constantly being left behind. That feeling haunts me all the time.
How do I learn to trust myself?
I want to be an Occupational therapist for kids specifically . I feel in my heart that this is what I am meant to do, but how do I know I am making the right decision? I've taken prereqs required for grad programs and I didn't do the best in them. I am also first gen and I have had little to no guidance or mentorship my entire school career, and I've made my fair share of mistakes. How do I learn to trust myself? I want a career that I genuinely love and I feel that I've landed on it, but I'm not sure I'm good enough. How do I get over this stump and do what I feel that I am meant to do without getting in my own way? Imposter syndrome am I right. #Spring25
What steps should I take if I plan on possibly majoring in Interior Design for college, while in high school?
I already took an "Essence of Fashion Apparel and Interior Design" class my Sophomore year, and am currently taking Marketing 1, soon taking Marketing 2 next year. I've been to a few colleges in my state, and most of them seem to have fairly good programs to offer. However, I'm a little stuck because I'm not sure if I'm quite ready to fill up a portfolio for colleges with barely any projects to showcase. What are some things I should do to prepare?
How can I get a good career?
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How to become a Guidance Counselor?
Share your journey & guide aspiring Guidance Counselors on their path! Note: We've seen a lot of interest in this career, so we're looking for guidance from our community of professionals.
seeking advice for scholarships and work-study programs
Currently planning to do my Cambridge A levels; the Oct/Nov 2024 session.. Thinking of heading abroad for university, ideally with a fully funded scholarship—Google's not been much help. Also, I'm eyeing a mix of university and work alongside, focusing on Human Resource Management (HRM).Any tips on scholarship hunts or HRM programs that could help me fund my university journey if i couldnt find a satisfactory scholarship.Could use a hand figuring this out!<3
Could a bubbly person thrive in financial/business planning and guidance?
I'm interested in math and helping people, so financial or business planning/guidance seems pretty cool, but I'm nervous about getting bored at work. I'm a bubbly people-person and love problem-solving. However, the idea of going into a career with so much paperwork and office work seems awful, but again, I love math and helping people. (I'm still in highschool, so this isn't a binding idea, just something I'm curious about!) Any thoughts on whether this wouldn't be a great career for lively people?
Feel lost with no idea what i want to do with my life.
I'm a 21 year old and honestly feel like a failure everyday. I've bounced from job to job, looking for my purpose. Every job thus far i've had ive absolutely despised. I'm not looking for something that has a huge annual salary, i just want to work somewhere and be truly happy working there. I love photography and editing pictures. But have no idea how i would go about becoming a professional. And it seems like a goal i could never achieve. Does anyone have any idea what i should do to help/better myself? How i could go about finding my true purpose? #jobs #work #lost #careeradvice #needhelp #guidance
Interview Tips and Advice and Questions
What are some common interview questions that private universities tend to ask their applicants when trying to decide for admission or scholarship purposes? What questions do you remember being asked? Or think they will ask? Any tips and advice, for a student who is undergoing the interview process at a private university whether it be for admission purposes and/or scholarship purposes? Thank you so much in advance for all the help! #interviews #college #career #interview-tips-and-adive #tips #and #advice #guidance
After completing my Law graduation, What are my future career options with high potential yields ?
I recently got my graduation degree from my college on completing 5 Year Law course and I am currently pursuing Law Masters Degree with Business Law as my specialization. I have numerous internship experiences including District court, High court, and Canara HSBC Headquarters Gurgaon. I have chosen to go to the corporate sector as I don't have any interest in litigation. I would like to know what future career should I go for in details and why such a path is best for me, all I want is a career path with potential high yield income. #law #career-paths #law-enforcement #help #advice #career #guidance #counselling
I have a great spending problem. Everytime that I do save up $200 bucks or even more somehow I end up having to use that money for school , books for class or my friend needs financial help or it's just personal things I need to buy. I also have a phone bill to pay because I am currently living at home while I go to college . In the end I feel like I always up not having enough at the end of day . Is there a way I can save more money. I'm trying to save for a car and possibly move by next fall 2019. I don't know what to do or where to start . A budget plan or even some advice would be greatly appreciated . Thanks 😄
#college #finance #college-advice #guidance #money
what is the most imporant thing to consider when trying to become an educational leader?
I would like to know what things there are that i should consider the most about trying to educationally lead kids or troubled teens in the right direction without giving off the vibe that i don't understand what these kids are going through or have gone through whether it been in school or at home, when that is the exact reason i am doing all of this. #career #lesson-planning #experience #business #questions #guidance
What are common mistakes, in college, that are easy to avoid?
We all roughly face the same #obstacles and #challenges during our college education. However, it can be quite difficult sometimes to face them without any #advices. Learning from others' past #mistakes can be a positive way to avoid those mistakes and to focus more on the education aspect than on solving not-so-easy issues. Besides, if you can get #tricks for past students, it can be enriching because it will make you have better grades while enjoying your student life even more. #college #college-life #student-life #guidance